Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “listening is as powerful as loving oneself”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people really want to hear something meaningful from other people, the root of problem why they behave such thing because they set their mindset to shut off any information which isn't congruent with their belief system, most people are just willing to listen something the information which is in line with their belief system's frequency, in my opinion; if people act as if they knew it all about themselves, they actually don't know so much about their own lives, if people less know about their own lives and they would listen something new, they shall find their own identity through their ultimate curiosity, as long as people use their ego as an excuse to dig more information about themselves, as result, they will never be ready to listen about the truth, remember this; truth will never be found when we don't discover about what we fear most and what we really need most in life, self-ignorance is congruent with stupidity, if there is someone isn't willing to listen the information which can develop his life value, as result, he will never found the information which can guide him to the right path because his subconscious mind rejects the information, there is only one thing we can do if we want to accept new information is crush our ego by listening what we never heard it before and we know the credibility of person who can provide the information.
Basically, being
good listener is not easy to do because we must get out from the social circle which always encircle ourselves with their communication level, if we want to be
good listener, we must increase our mental capacity first by doing something in the long haul, if we just do something easier like
most people do within their leisure, we will never listen what our soul
demands of us, if we don’t fulfill what our soul demands, as result, we will never
love what we do and we will feel incompetent to appreciate something different, here is the first
criteria we can do if we want to be good listener; understand this wisdom “don’t judge the book by its cover and don’t
cover the book by judging”, it means, we must check what other people say something to us even though we aren't interested with it, at least we can show our respect to others, sometimes the enlightenment will come to us suddenly after we can comprehend what we hear from other people's saying, we indeed need more time to comprehend new information before we take that information as new vocabulary for our memory, we don't need to get panic once we don't understand what others say something to us, we can let time grows our intelligence after we have accepted that information, sometimes not all human need enlightenment as their core belief, take a case about woman, now imagine there is woman around us and she tells us that her problem is arising, do you know what she needs from us? she needs our ears to listen what she can't understand about her own personal problem, she thinks finding a good listener is part of showing empathy, in my opinion; "woman thinks empathy is everything rather than good solution", here is the second criteria we can do if we want to be good listener; be open-minded person, it means, we
must empty our glass and start to fill the glass with new information we never
get from our life history, the reason why we must use this strategy because it can help us
to enrich our knowledge and also it helps us to crush our ignorance, I think
my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to
improve your life, good luck.
