Today I would like to talk about
the discipline; most people discipline when there are many strictly rules in
their surroundings, we must realize that not at all rules will build up our
personalities to be better, the rules which are published in the public area
usually to be created in order to prevent some people to sabotage the public
facility location or the private area, the rule creates the warning sign, those
rules psychologically educate people to be afraid of something, instead of
building the human’s personality.
educate children the discipline with simple way
Being
self-discipline person needs the strategy because someone usually feels
uncomfortable with every rule,
before making the self-rule, someone needs to listen what his intuition kicking
in at the first time, such as knowing what he truly wants or what kind of dream
he wants to build in the future, we must ensure every dream must inspire him every single day, the criteria of dream
is must be living in several months or several years later, not happening in several days,
so we can help him to make schedule in the short term first then
guide him how to do in simple way, please monitor how far his progression
result whether every attempt will meet the requirement or not, please ensure
his great effort is approaching accurate in the short term schedule, once he
succeeds to accomplish it, give him reward, then you can start to give him the
long term schedule, then you keep monitoring what he has done until he succeeds
to embody the dream into reality life.
give the rewards when child accomplishes the target
I
am sure he is very uncomfortable and start to accept the face of adversity, sometimes the pain of striving
is needed to shape new destiny, the main
reason is we are used to rely on somebody else’s dream, so our mental muscles
are less strong to take every risk in this life.
The benefit of being
self-discipline is we can measure how
far the target we can achieve, we can learn everything we want, we can set goal
with our creativity; I believe every different
effort will create a new destiny, don’t mind with the failure because there’s
no failure for every attempt, then every attempt leads to progress and every
progress will drive you safely to the peak of career.
