Today in this topic I would like
to talk about the reason why most people are living in the fantasy, there are
many reason to discover why they behave such thing, the first reason is most people are neglecting their quality of life
which is happening to their life circumstances, that the first phenomenon.
When the fantasy people have
been asked with the purpose of life by successful people, they just reply “what
would I do to change this life?”, they more likely to magnify the question of
indecision, that is the dangerous thing which is happening to their life.
Do you know the difference
between the fantasy people and the creative person? The unrealistic people: they usually don’t accept the reality, they
more likely neglect their weakness point, instead of focusing what they
imagine plus put the imagination result to their idealism, but the creative people accept the reality,
accept their weakness point, in addition they spend their leisure time to use
their imagination result to produce the resourcefulness in order to make the
creativity product.
Most
people are considering how the way they see in the picture is always right and
it looks promising, but in the actual condition, the
picture is representing your frustration where you are not going with it, and
also you start neglecting why the frustration must be coming to you, that the
symptom of unrealistic people.
When
people decide to make different thing of endeavor, they just do what they want
to do but they never set the specific goal,
so that’s the major problems which are happening to the frustrated people
because they think doing in reality are better than doing something different
in the fantasy world, in my opinion that’s symptom of dangerous idealism.
The purpose of goal setting in
the fantasy world is determining your capacity only, so when you had set the
goal setting in the fantasy world, after that you need to transfer your capacity
to the reality goal in order to produce more creativity, maybe you can produce the creativity but you can’t produce the time,
that’s reason the time management is needed to set the specific goal in order
to countermeasure your result whether they are succeeding or not. That’s the
realist mindset.