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Today I would like to
share about how to build a healthy relationship, the reason why I choose that
topic because I review there are many couples prefer to break their
relationship when they don't have solution from their relationship, they think there is ego which will harm to their relationship, in
this article I will show you a new mindset how to improve healthy relationship,
the first thing you must remember is there is no meaningful relationship when
you don't want to accept your spouse’s weaknesses, if you are not willingly
to accept your spouse weaknesses, you will never make long journey with your spouse, openness is the key how to create a healthy relationship.
friendship can be built by making new commitment
The first duty how to build a healthy relationship is learning about
your spouse’s personal rights, you can ask your spouse about what dos and don'ts, when you can accept about your
spouse’s personal right, your spouse will try to accept about your personal
right as well, my advice to you; during building relationship with your spouse, please
don’t try to change your spouse’s personal right, especially your spouse is
woman, in the woman’s behalf, she feel being respected when you will not change her personal right because her personal right is
part of her priceless asset.
If you want to build a healthy relationship, you must convince yourself
that your spouse is becoming your irreplaceable assets, don’t let your desire
focus on your spouse’s weakness or spouse's love feeling, sometimes our desire can’t differentiate
between spouse’s weakness and spouse’s personal interest, so if you are man,
please don’t make a bad judgment about woman’s characteristic, especially when
your woman’s mood doesn’t want to accept your judgment because one day your woman will give
you the multitasking job and you will be asked how to burden her problem.
As man, all we need to give to woman is making good communication and
offering the unforgettable moment, in the woman's world, making the unforgettable moment is the most terrific journey in relationship, my suggestion; during building the unforgettable
moment with your woman, you must not have the inner conflict with her, that’s guarantee how to
make your woman feels respected or feels being loved, one more thing; woman
doesn’t like being asked with the critical question because her brain is not
designed to become troubleshooting maker, basically woman doesn't need your question, but she needs a man's affirmation, such as giving to her a full attention, remember her birthday, etc.
Now we change the conversation about woman’s personality, as woman, most of them don’t like to hear about promise but she prefers to let her spouse fulfilling
any promise, besides that, woman really wants to see about the man’s confidence
value is part of self-esteem, this character will
give woman feels being appreciated, besides self-esteem’s characteristic is part of leadership, woman
likes to see the man’s natural ability, by that it means, something which it can’t be copied or it can’t be replaced easily by others, I think that’s enough
to talk about how to build a healthy relationship, I will see you with next
topic in my insightful story.