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    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

10 signs your relationship has communication problems




         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 10 sign your relationship has communication problems, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples confused how to do when they have communication problems, at this moment let me share you several tips how to detect the communication problems in relationship, here is the first sign your relationship has communication problem; you stay unconnected with your spouse’s demand and you don’t want to know what is your spouse’s demand on you, if you have this kind of problem, you probably make a big mistake because you don't show your care and love, sometimes stop focusing about your own interest is better than stop focusing about what your spouse desires to you, this is not part of dilemma, but it’s kind of self-righteousness character, if you can fix it, your spouse’s trust will increase by itself, here is the second sign your relationship has communication problem; you don’t tell your spouse when you are in busy, this is the common mistake where it has happened during building long term relationship, whatever you get trapped in difficult situation, please let your spouse knows it, at least your spouse doesn't need to worry about you.

        Here is the third sign your relationship has communication problem; you don’t  want to offer a help when your spouse gets busy preparing something, at this section, we should behave sensitive when our spouse get busy to prepare something, if we don’t want to get trouble with our spouse's demand, we must create the initial step by supporting what our spouse want to do before they ask for help, this is not part about selfishness, but practice how to become reliable person, here is the fourth sign your relationship has communication problem; your spouse can't see any worthy about you and your spouse doesn't appreciate your service, if you have ever tasted about it, your spouse is really angry, if this condition keeps going like this, you need to calm yourself by letting your spouse stays alone until your spouse calls you back, here is the fifth sign your relationship has communication problem; your spouse doesn’t want to share something important to you when your spouse has got news which it related to you, at this section, stay openness and stay honest is a tool how to prolong your longevity happiness in your relationship, if your spouse isn't stayed openness, means, your spouse wants to break up with you, here is sixth sign your relationship has communication problem; you don't find any click in your psyche when you make chat with your spouseif it’s happening to you, means, you don't get any value from your spouse. 

        Here is seventh sign your relationship has communication problem; your spouse feels insecure to go out together with you, you don't need to fight with this condition, all you need to do is retool your service, find the root cause and become a person who is busy appreciating the efforts of others, that's all, here is eighth sign your relationship has communication problem; there is no future plan with your spouse, means, your spouses isn’t interested about your speaking ways or social circle, you don't need to worry about it, all you need to do is stay calm, improve your service, and don't make any argue at all, if this condition keep happening, you would better to leave your relationship because you are trapped in a toxic relationship, here is ninth sign your relationship has communication problem; your spouse doesn’t have any plan to make the quality time with you although there is holiday, means, your spouse has made new appointment with another friend, if this condition keeps happening, leave that relationship, here is tenth sign your relationship has communication problem; your spouse gives a unwelcoming response to you when you try to please your spouse, if it is happening to you, you need to leave your spouse, hopefully you can get something useful after you read this article.
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Never make someone you love feel alone




         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share how to make someone you feel not alone, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples feel alone although they are tied in relationship you several tips how to make someone you love feel alone, hopefully after you read this article, you can check whether your spouse feels so good or not, here is the first tip how to make someone you love feel not alone; don’t make argue too much about something although you know more than your spouses, making an argument has potentially made your spouse’s emotion is unstable, sometimes you need to forget your egoism and start to offer your service to your spouse, here is the second tip how to make someone you love feel not alone; don’t control what your spouse can do and support what your spouse can’t finish, if you love your spouse’s activity, show your tolerant about what your spouse can do, let your spouse develops something till he/she can make you proud, don’t let your spouse feel intimidated by following the rule that you make it by yourself.

        Here is the third tip how to make someone you love feel not alone; be curious about what’s your spouse’s major interest, make sure you know well about what is your spouse’s major interest, if you know more about your spouse’s interest rather than your own spouse, you will be valued as romantic person because you always attach your attention to your spouse’s interest, sometimes stop focusing about your own interest is better than stop focusing on what your spouse wants, do you know the reason? “If you keep focusing on your own interest, you only get what you desire, but if you can provide something valuable for someone you love, you can make a fortune”, starting today, don’t just become follower, but try to become an observer, Here is the fourth tip how to make someone you love feel not alone; stop focusing about your own interest but make your time to manifest what your spouse desires in the futuresometimes make a plan about future is kind of serious relationship, if you don’t have any plan to lead where your relationship supposed to go, as a result, your spouse will feel alone, sometimes having an explicit decision in short time is better than having no idea what to do for the future.

         Here is fifth tip how to make someone you love feel not alone; make agenda before you make a call, this is important, if you just make a call before you make agenda, your calling becomes bored because you don’t have any plan to talk something important to your spouse, sometimes you need to increase your spouse's curiosity by giving new topic, the more you provide a new topic to be discussed, your relationship will create a sense of intimacy, if you have agenda first, you probably will not fail during building strong relationship because you prepare the contingency plan before the unwanted condition will happen.

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7 texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong




        Hi smart people, good day, I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share how to make 7 texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong, the main reason why I choose that topic because many young couple are trapped in long distance relationship and they are afraid their relationship will end, at this moment let me give several texting tips how to make your relationship strong, here is first strategy how to make texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong; “don’t get mad when I am not around because I believe you always wait for me because you and I are tied up with same destiny”, this texting tip will not give you sense of intimacy, but at least it can reduce your spouse’s worrisome, here is second strategy how to make texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong; “if you trust me, I trust you, if you don’t trust me, who else will trust me”, this texting tip is not kind of nonsense, but it can convince your spouse’s feeling  that you are always around for your spouse.
Good text must have rational character and show little bit empathy

        Here is the third strategy how to make texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong; “if you miss me a lot, express it clearly to our photos when we were taking photo together”, sometimes the memorable photo is kind of tool how to release the individual yearning, this condition will prolong your sense of yearning even though you and your spouse are not living in the same place, here is the fourth strategy how to make texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong; “I will not promise you everything for you but I will provide what your soul really wants”, this texting tips can strengthen your spouse’s trust if you are serious to provide what your spouse’s soul wants, don’t ever break promise when you give it to your spouse, if you do it, your spouse’ power of trust will decrease automatically, here is the fifth strategy how to make texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong; “when we will be met by God to the same place again, can we share a new story together because your life story existence will become my life treasure”, this is part of belief, if you have this kind of habit, you will get a multiple reward from God's plan.

        Here is the sixth strategy how to make texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong; “your time will not decrease when you make time for me, your time will not fly away except it will return to my place”, this situation will help you to strengthen your relationship because you always share more time to your spouse, no matter how busy you are at work, please designate your time to your spouse although it is taking short time, Here is the seventh strategy how to make texting tips to keep your long distance relationship strong; “don’t forget to contact me although you are at busy work, I will wait your texting although I need to stay awake” this condition indicates that you don’t want to lose contact with your spouse and it indicates that you are having strong commitment with your spouse, hopefully after you read this article, your long distance relationship gets stronger than before.

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7 simple communications exercise to create a happy couple


         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 7 simple communications exercise to create a happy couple, the main reason why I choose that topic because not every couple knows how to make simple communication exercise, some couples feel easier to evoke misunderstanding during making a chat rather than they are doing something happily together, at this moment, let me share to you about several communication exercise you can develop for building long term relationship, here is the first strategy how to make a simple communication exercise; stay foolish together, means, you and your spouse don’t try to underestimate a respective weakness and don't argue about who is supposed to work better, then you prefer to work together with your spouse's limited capability than blaming who is to be right or wrong, I suggest you to apply it in your daily life because stay foolish together is strategy how to reduce selfishness behavior, if you both apply this skill together, you and your spouse have ability to reduce stress together although there is problem arises, remember this note; stay foolish together can reduce a respective egoism, reduce arrogance and increase sense of intimacy, that’s important thing, your relationship will get mature because you and your spouse can understand each other.

         Here is second strategy how to make a simple communication exercise; you always invest the quality time with your spouse, As I review from several couples in public area, they invest their quality time by having dinner or watching the movie, especially they are doing on Saturday’s night, they go outing together in order to create sense of intimacy, if you or your spouse can’t invest quality time, means there is no relationship, this is important thing, here is third strategy how to make a simple communication exercise; giving a special name to your spouse, if you don’t accustom yourself to make it, you can ask your spouse to make it, when a special name is given, your spouse will think you are romantic person and your spouse feels lovely, here is fourth strategy how to make a simple communication exercise; don’t talk with a deep conversation when your spouse can’t understand it, this is part of daily behavior, when your spouse can’t understand your deepest speaking skill, your spouse is not interested to you, before you make a chat with your spouse, you try to observe about the kind of conversation your spouse is interested with, if your spouse is interested by discussing about the interesting object, such as food, beverage, price, hobby or the other things, you don’t need to make deep conversation such as philosophy or public communication skill to your spouse.

         Here is fifth strategy how to make a simple communication exercise; try to build a special code with your spouse, make sure your spouse can understand it, such as eye contact, gesture, body language, etc. if you can build a special code where it is intended to your spouse only, your spouse will behave flirtatiously to you and your relationship can increase the intimacy, Here is sixth strategy how to make a simple communication exercise; remember what your spouse’s favorite and remember what your spouse dislikes, when you understand this technique, your spouse will not create any dispute because you can understand what is your spouse dislikes, here is seventh strategy how to make a simple communication exercise; make the initiative step when your spouse has faced problem, when you have this step, you will become reliable person in any scope and your spouse will feel proud to having you.

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9 ways to create trust in a relationship




        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 9 ways to create trust in relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can be trustworthy when they make relationship with newcomer, at this moment I would share something related how to create trust in a relationship, here is the first strategy how to create trust in a relationship; you must be trustworthy, means when you have been delegated by other people to do something, you can finish it on time, this is requirement how to build long term relationship, you must train yourself how to become reliable person when you want other people want to trust you, here is the second strategy how to create trust in a relationship; don’t disclose about people’s private matter when they put trust something to you, this is about good manner, when you don’t want to get trouble with other people’s lives, you must keep quiet whereas people don’t want to publicize it, if you don’t understand about it, try to ask people to explain clearly, don’t let other people feel disappointed by you during making same mistake because people will remember your mistake rather than remember your kindness.

        Here is the third strategy how to create trust in a relationship; don’t argue too much with people when you don’t know anything about what they desire, means you don’t need to do anything better when people don’t ask you to do it, you just need to comment when people ask you to give a value, here is the fourth strategy how to create trust in a relationship; when you agree to make commitment or appointment with someone else, don’t ever try to break it before there is compromise from both side, this is crucial point, commitment is part of self-education, when you don’t finish what you commit, you will be judged by someone as uneducated person because he thinks you belong to be untrustworthy person, here is fifth strategy how to create trust in a relationship; show your tolerance to people who disagree with your opinion, when you have this kind of habit, someone else will value you as the warm-hearted person and people will show best response when you need something from them, here is the sixth strategy how to create trust in a relationship; don’t build bad reputation with many people who get involved with you, the main reason why you must beware about it because your future will be spotted negatively when you have this life pattern, then other people may tell something bad about you to someone you trust, don't let people who put fully trust to you would be disappointed about it.

         Here is seventh strategy how to create trust in a relationship; offer your good service or good experience to other people before they ask something, I recommend you to keep doing it because it will add more value to your long term relationship, if you have this habit, people will look for you whatever the situation or the reality sets in, here is eighth strategy how to create trust in a relationship; be a good listener, whether there is problem or not, you must spend your minor time to listen what people tell something, if you have this kind of behavior, people will share their power of trust to you and you will become a lifetime friend, here is ninth strategy how to create trust in a relationship; give more, expect less, means, you don’t demand something too much from other people, instead, you can provide something most people need it so much. hopefully you can get something useful from us after you read this article. 



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10 ways how to make good relationship




        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 10 ways how to make good relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because prosperity, success and reputation are coming from the strategy how to make good relationship with many people, now let me share several strategy how to make good relationship, here is the first strategy how to make good relationship; don’t expect more to human’s value but try to offer a helping a hand first to someone before you want to ask one’s help, this is important note, if you have this kind of habit, you will earn a respect to anyone because your value can influence other people’s habit and your worthy will be remembered as gift although you are not around, here is the second strategy how to make good relationship; give reward to someone who gives a hand to you although someone doesn’t need it, giving reward to other people is not a must, if you have this habit, your existence will be needed although you are not around in their private matter, making time to create valuable memory to people is the basic foundation how to create good reputation.


         Here is the third strategy how to make good relationship; say greeting first to other people before they call you, it’s kind of warm-hearted character, say greeting is kind of appreciation about people’s presence, you should accustom with this condition because one day you may need people to remember you, a greeting is strategy how to build long term friendship, we must understand about this, if you just say greeting when you have intention to ask help to people, you will be forgotten when you are not needed by people, here is the fourth strategy how to make good relationship; you always make a time to help people although you are busy, if you have this kind of habit, other people will spend a time to help you although people get busy as well, I call it as mutual relationship, this kind of relationship is not easy to be developed because everybody has own business, here is the fifth strategy how to make good relationship; remember people’s problem and help people how to recognize the root of problem, this kind of ritual can open new opportunity to you if you develop it continuously because you consider people’s problem becomes your treasure of life.

         Here is the sixth strategy how to make good relationship; you always offer opportunity to people whom you trust and people whom deserve the valuable thing, at this section, you must dare to prepare something valuable first because people will remember about what kind of opportunity you give to them, here is the seventh strategy how to make good relationship; show empathy when people in trouble, if you think about people’s feeling, you shouldn’t ask about their past problem, but you can offer your service by saying “what you are going to choose if you are surrounded by people who have good experience more than you, you endure pain alone or you ask help, if you trust me, let me join your problem?”, if you keep doing it, you will become a influence maker in everybody's liveshere is eighth strategy how to make good relationship; don’t tell your life story before you are requested by people to tell it,  this point is critical, don't underestimate it, the main reason why you mustn’t tell about your own life story before you are requested because they will think you are more superior than themselves, here is the ninth strategy how to make good relationship; give a little humor when the problem arises, this point is not critical, but it has unique value if you keep doing it because you have ability to reduce stress, the main reason why you should do that because not all people like to get serious when the problem arises, here is the tenth strategy how to make good relationship; you make other people get inspired about what they do and you leave a memorable treasure to them as if you were not around anymore among them.

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Why strong people love to learn difficult relationships



         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about the reason why strong people love to learn about difficult relationship, we all know that some people avoid to learn difficult relationship because they think being alone is better than being betrayed by other people, in fact, every difficult relationship is strategy how to build business, organization, leadership, and career, now let me share to you about several reason why strong people love to stick together with difficult relationship; here is the first reason why strong people love to learn about difficult relationship; they intend to build a life wisdom by collecting many failure experiment in the past, so if you think difficult relationship must be avoided, you will never learn something useful from it, now I start to understand why not all people are having passionate to learn about a difficult relationship because most people play as follower, not being a good student in any relationshipremember this note; bad experience can become a disaster when person repeat it and apply it as new daily ritual, whereas bad experience can become a good teacher to someone when bad experience can increase person's alertness "if there is no failure in this life, people will behave carelessly", sometimes bad experience are inevitable but it can create mastery if people are willingly to observe it, bad experience is needed to prevent the upcoming worse thing will happen, now I understand why people are trapped in bad influence's relationship because they just expect good thing will happen but they will never prepare a contingency plan to avoid a bad influence.

       In order to increase your personal life wisdom, sometimes you need one or two bad experiences with same person or same organization in order to increase your survival skill and increase your life pain tolerance, you can't develop your character when you don't ever taste a little of bad experience, don’t take too long commitment with wrong person or organization which they can’t increase your dignity because your peaceful heart must be salvaged in the long period of time, here is the second reason why strong people love to learn difficult relationship because every difficult relationship has offered a stress management skill, if someone dominates in that kind of relationship, he will be entrusted to control some people who have no leadership skill, when you have stress management skill, you will not feel disappointed because you don't make any expectation, in this section, I just want to remind you that every difficult relationship teaches anybody how to build personal branding, remember this note; don’t judge something bad early when you have bumped with difficult relationship, but the important lesson we can do individually is don't make any bad reputation, sometimes every bad reputation can't give you idea how to prolong good relationship, you would better to expect less when you build relationship because you will not be disappointed when there is something unfitted with your expectation, when you respect other people will give you value how to respect yourself.

         Here are some benefits if you learn from difficult relationship, your mental age is gradually growing because you will earn respect from other people, you will get a new client, your sense of empathy will help you to promote your product/ service, remember this note; every difficult thing in this life doesn't mean impossible to do, sometimes we too obsess with result, so we can't optimize what our hidden potential can do, “if there is no life test, there is no problem, if there is no problem, there is no learning process, if there is no learning process, there is no progress, if there is no progress, there is no new life, if there is no new life, our future is dead”, if life offers easy thing, our future will be bored, our soul will get desperate and our mental health get depressed because our life skill lacks of use.

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8 ways to mend a broken relationship




         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 8 ways to mend a broken relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples feel regret and they don't know how to mend a broken relationship, here is the first strategy to mend a broken relationship; make an official agreement in the note where it states what to do and what not to doI just remind you that this strategy is not always getting successful, you need to behave patience when your spouse still does something irritated to youwhen the condition keeps getting worst, you need to leave your spouse for awhile and give your spouse several options to rethink how to run a good relationshiphere is the second strategy how to mend a broken relationship; leave respective ego and prepare to compromise, this is strategy can be applied to strengthen a broken relationship as long as there is willingness to try from both of them, if you or your spouse are really serious to mend a broken relationship, both must kindle a respective interest in order to break old habit where it may create a dispute among them.

        Here is the third strategy how to mend a broken relationship; don’t fix something unchangeable but fix something measurable, means, don’t try to remind of spouse past mistake, but try to optimize what your spouse's talent and support what you can do for your spouse, remember this note; only you can fix your personal character, when you improve what you can do, there is still chance for you to rejuvenate your spouse’s mood, here is the fourth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; change your unsupported environment with supported environment, this is important, sometimes your spouse doesn’t like to see you because you are getting around with bad influence which is created by your friend circle, when you leave unsupported environment, automatically your ritual can be mended as well, when your spouse realizes it, your spouse will give you a chance to harmonize him/her mood, here is the fifth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; make the official gathering between your parents and your spouse’s parents, at least they can help you how to mend your relationship problem by offering some win-win situation, here is the sixth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; leave your ritual which it has potential to make your spouse hates most about you,  this is important clue, the wrong ritual will influence your behavior, when you have a bad behavior, everything you give for your spouse, result will injure your spouse's feeling, when you renew your ritual, at least it can elevate your spouse’s interest about you.

        Here is the seventh strategy how to mend a broken relationship; give a special gift where your spouse demands from you, this strategy will work as long as you don’t have any bad intention to break your spouse's feeling, here is the eighth strategy how to mend a broken relationship; learning about your spouse's life story before your spouse met you directly, show full empathy when your spouse tells a life story to you, unwittingly you can understand about your spouse's personal problem, when you keep this habit happening, finally you can find a root of a broken relationship.

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4 signs you are in a toxic relationship




         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about 4 signs you are in a toxic relationship, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couple don’t realize that they are trapped in a toxic relationship in several years and they still can't escape from physical proximity, now let me share to you about 4 signs you are in toxic relationship, the first sign that you are in a toxic relationship; there is no single response from your spouse when you invite your spouse to talk together, means your spouse's doesn't consider you as the important person because you can't understand your spouse's problemthe reason why giving response to spouse is important because it signs that someone trusts with spouse, if your service is not appreciated by your spouse, means your spouse considers that you are supposed to walk awaydon’t ever underestimate with the sign of response because a love life breaks easily not because there is fighting or any dispute, but love life breaks easily because every couple shows behave indifferent into each otherstarting today, don’t let you or your spouse shows being indifferent, if you are bored about your relationship, try to challenge yourself to dig new information about your spouse’s interest, not trying to walk away from your spouse.

        Here is the second sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; there is no progress during making a close proximity, means, you and your spouse are not finding any strong reason to live together in the future, furthermore you and your spouse are not ready to accustom with every change of respective behavior, this problem is caused by lack of commitment and lack of sense of possessive about love feeling, if this relationship is forced to keep going, your mental strength is decreasing automatically because your service is not considered as the important thing in the eye of your spouse, remember this note; don’t ever think living on earth is like living in the heaven, it’s totally wrong, in order to prolong our love life, we need to survive for what we pursue, fighting hard to go against a toxic relationship, sometimes you need guts to make tough decision and you plan to fail, not because you are doing a lot to your spouse doesn’t mean you are getting more done, here is special note; not all result are designed to make you happy, but problem in relationship will get you stronger than you were yesterday.

        Here is the third sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; there is no sense of trust while you will plan to delegate something to your spouse, means you can’t give all authorities to your spouse because your spouse’s character doesn’t meet what your authority demands, if your spouse puts a toxic relationship, means you have to stop giving your service to your spouse because he/she doesn’t appreciate what you provide, remember this note; everything valuable will be more worthy when someone knows how to be trustworthy person, everything valuable will be unworthy when someone doesn’t know how to make something useful for spouse, here is the last point I want to share, the fourth sign that you are trapped in a toxic relationship; your spouse isn’t interested with your life story, and your spouse doesn’t want to plan something bigger with you in the future, hopefully you can avoid the 4 sign of toxic relationship and you can rescue your valuable resources in the long term plan.

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6 issues that break relationship forever



        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about 6 issues that break relationship forever, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couple are trapped in a toxic relationship, so they don’t dare to break that kind of relationship, now let me share to you about 6 issues that break relationship forever, the first issue that breaks relationship forever; build an unworthy communication, means, if you can’t find any worth communication when you talk with your spouse, means you and your spouse can’t continue that kind of relationship because you and your spouse can’t build the same vision to be shared together, the second issue that breaks relationship forever; there is no mutual understanding and there is no mutual respect in relationship, this condition can’t be underestimated because it can create unhealthy relationship impact if every couple still continues it, if you want to build healthy relationship, you must estimate how much time you need to research what your spouse usually does in the major time, if your spouse can't spend a minor time to talk to you, means you don't need to continue that kind of relationship because your spouse doesn't appreciate your existence. 

         This is the third issue that breaks relationship forever; there is suspicious mind when every couple has made separated appointment, this is important to be learnt, do you know why? When sense of suspicious mind comes up in your mind, means there must be something wrong with your spouse’s circumstance, if you neglect this condition, your emotion drastically reduces because you can’t make sensible opinion regarding your spouse’s dignity, remember this note; the suspicious mind of yours will not grow if there is suspicious behavior in your spouse, sometimes your instinct will work optimally when your spouse hides something valuable from you, here is the fourth issue that breaks relationship forever; inability to see any good value in couple’s ability, means, your valuable service will not get any respect from your spouse because your spouse only takes care about self, not in relationship, you must stay away from this kind of relationship, the main reason why we need to see any value from our spouse because long term relationship can’t be built without seeing any good thing into each other, if you can’t get any value from your spouse, means you don’t need any reason to preserve it because reality shows differently than what you expect.

         This is the fifth issue that breaks relationship forever; lack of charisma, the main reason why I need to comment such thing because sense of charisma is the main cause how to influence every couple’s emotion to be rejuvenated, you will not get any rejuvenation from your spouse when you don’t have any good service to be offered to your spouse, you must have charisma when you want to attract your spouse, if your spouse still can’t see any charisma of yours means you no longer valuable in front of your spouse, this is six issue that breaks relationship forever; lack of yearning to see each other, I think this reason is reasonable for every couple, human being is kind of emotional creature, if there is no sense of yearning, there is no relationship between both of them.

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7 habits of couple who are deeply connected





        Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about 7 habits of couple who are deeply connected, the main reason why I choose that topic because many couples don’t commit with their relationship because they don't know how to create deeply connection in relationship, at this time let me share 7 habit of couple who are deeply connected, the first habit of couple who are deeply connected; they stay communicated each other although they are not staying in the same location, the main reason why we need to keep communicated into each other because this strategy can help us how to build a close proximity, if any couples don’t have time to communicate, means there is no health relationship, please take this note; if there is no sense of yearning between relationship, there is no reason to defend that kind of relationship because there is no sense of possessive between them, keep communication is the logic strategy how to build a strong foundation and how to strengthen a sense of trust among them, here is the second habit of couple who are deeply connected; they empower each other by fulfilling their emotional needs by giving a support or make kindle together, etc.

         Remember this note; empowering other people’s need is part of showing care, if you can’t shape your personality such thing, your power of service will not give you sense of proud, your spouse will not feel proud as well, emotional intelligence can’t work properly if there is no sense of yearning to possess it, this condition can be applied in case of someone who has sense of yearning with the pursuit of dream, if someone has no sense of yearning with their dream, dream will never come in the right time because the dream basic foundation comes from big responsibility to manifest in reality, remember this note; dream is like building, we must manifest the dream’s design, we work hard to fulfill what dream wants from us until we can collect the benefit of the dream, here is the third habit of couple who are deeply connected; they stay committed how to build same vision, means they make something bigger in the future, like making a new kindle together, if you follow this habit, you will find any worthy from your spouse because you preserve good quality of your spouse, here is the fourth habit of couple who are deeply connected; they don't have any intention to harm their relationship such as swindling the spouse’s money, betraying the spouse’s trust, telling lie to the spouse, etc.

        Here is the fifth habit of couple who are deeply connected; stay curious about the spouse’s interest, if you keep this habit, your sense of love will stay renewed because you always find a new thing from your spouse, here is the six habit of couple who are deeply connected; stay guarded to the spouse’s honor from any dangerous thing, this is important, if you don’t find it at your character, your love is immature and you can’t get respect from your spouse, here is the seventh habit of couple who are deeply connected; feel trustworthy and stay openness, this is very important habit because it will shape your future, if you can't be trustworthy, you will no longer can prolong your relationship.

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How to build mental health in relationship




         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to make good relationship with someone who can provide a mental health, the main reason why we need someone who can provide mental health because that’s requirement to prolong a longevity love life, but before we find the right person, we must train ourselves by giving more than our expectation, if we have this kind of habit, automatically we build mental health, the more we practice and build mental health, the more we deserve to get a longevity love, that's nature lawlove life is like building a long term partnership in business, we can’t expect something good from someone we loved before we can provide a good resources to our spouse's candidate, let me share about how to build a mental health in relationship; the first chapter; your character must be openness and reliable, this is the first quality how to build a long term partnership, if someone can’t make open relationship to us, means he/she has another relationship where they deliberately hid their forbidden relationship from us, we must beware with someone who doesn’t want to make openness with you because this kind of character indicates someone can’t create a mental health in long term relationship, remember this; if your spouse has inability to see any worth from you, means your spouse don’t consider you as VIP person.

         If your spouse keeps silent suddenly, don't ever dare to share something to your spouse about your life game, but you can give offer some services and wait for your spouse's signal, if he/she wants to share a feeling of proximity about you, means your spouse is interested about your life journey, here is the second chapter how to build mental health in relationship; you show the respect to your spouse, means, you don’t become a happiness taker and you add some portion of your happiness to your spouse, this is important manner because it will increase your dignity, I know this strategy is not easy to do, but when you expect nothing from someone you loved, you can learn from this advantage, if your spouse belongs to good person, he/she will show respect to you by giving you a reward or maybe your spouse shows empathy to you, but if your spouse belongs to bad person, your spouse will show ungrateful about your existence, your spouse will give response you don’t deserved to get, remember this note; before we build a long term relationship with someone who doesn't know how to love us, we must practice ourselves to bear the burden, do you know why? Because not all expectation will bring joyful relationship, before expectation came up, we must detect the sign of unhealthy relationship.


       Here is the main points we need to rememberreality will reveal the truth behind your spouse’s identity without asking your permission, there is always mysterious thing when we can't detect in relationship, but we must prepare the contingency plan when our spouse can't show something you deserve to get, mental health in relationship can't grow when there is no cooperative activity, to prevent the sign of heartbreaking sometimes you need to become a small contributor when you start new relationship, do you know why the main reason? Because act of contribution can provide the millions of purity love and it's good to your mental health although your spouse can't make a purity love for youHere is the third chapter how to build mental health in relationship; having the quality time to your spouse, when you share your quality time, at least it can be used to support when your spouse in need, here is the last note to reminder; healthy love doesn't teach you how to suspect about your spouse and health love teaches you how to give more, not expect much.

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How to increase self-confidence





         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share how to create self-confidence, the main reason why we need to learn it because confidence can strengthen our power of trust towards other people, if we lack of self-confidence, whatever we do is having no purpose because we haven't enough courage to pursue it, now the question is “where does self-confidence come from?” it comes from our self-discipline and strong commitment about what we do daily, there is no self-confidence when we don't develop our inborn skill every day, let me share several qualities how to increase self-confidence; the first quality how to increase self-confidence; time management, the main reason why we must build time management because our quality of life depends on how much time we invest into it and how much value we produce on it, if we don’t have time management, time will run by itself without giving us a sense of joy and time will leave us to the desperate time where it offers an instant happiness, not longevity happiness, here is the second quality how to increase self-confidence; life independence skill, the main reason why we need to learn it because life always offers uncertain thing, whether we like it or not, we must sharpen our survival skill to counteract the life crisis or the unwanted condition.

         We can’t make too much hope when life offers uncertain thing, we must create contingency plan to counteract the unwanted problem, our quality of life depends on how much lesson we can take and how strong our commitment in scope, we can't delegate self-confidence when we don't repeat what we do daily until we can solve problem, sense of self-confidence must be balanced with knowledge, good experience and courage, everything gets better when we have ability to correct false judgment to the root of problem, if we have this kind of habit, habit will increase our sense of self-confidence and habit will keep us away from any life pressure, here is the third quality how to increase self-confidence, we must have ability to have a pain tolerance and stress management, the main reason why we need to learn it because not all problems can create happiness for us, sometimes we need to adapt ourselves by accepting rejection or setback, it may take long process, but that's the life game, we can't win at competition when we don't accustom with repetition and eventful journey, remember this; self-confidence comes from the ability to endure pain and problem solving skill, not coming from the human's appearance.

        Independence skill will never happen unless we totally change what we love and change what we pursue, our self-confidence can’t grow if we aren't eagerness to solve problem, besides that, we must beware with a toxic influence which may come from social circle, social media or surrounding environment, here is the fourth quality how to increase self-confidence; we have ability to build a money independence skill, the main reason why we need to prepare that skill because life offers the unexpected thing, the more we have a money problem, the more we learn how to reduce extravagant habit, those are strategy how to increase self-confidence.

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How to improve work ethic

Gathering the ideas is kind of productive habit

         Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have a good day, today I would like to share about how to improve work ethic, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people want to apply work ethic, let me remind to you why people don’t want to improve work ethic because they finish a daily task based on what they have been given by their boss, there is no extra dedication when they have finished daily work, now I will share to you about several work ethic you need to apply if you want to get appreciated by market place or company; here is the first work ethic; you need to build joy when you commit to work, make sure you choose to work not because there is necessity, if you work for necessity, you will not get an extra ability because you put your focus on the profit only, remember this note; profit is designed not to give you an extra skill because profit is designed to lock your mind from something higher, at this phase, you must find a job where it can teach you how to enrich your creativity and how to create a sense of joy once you take that job, don’t let huge profit will alter you to become a money making machine.
Dignity is the professional worker's habit

        Here is the second work ethic you need to learn; you must have personal integrity, the main reason why you must possess personal integrity because everything you do will reflect about who you become in the future, your reputation depends on how much effort you put into your daily habit and your integrity, if you don’t have it, your job will not give you good value, instead your job will give you a burdensome, if you let this condition is happening, you will not have a chance to improve your skill because your mental health is on the crisis, unfortunately many leaders don’t educate themselves with integrity, so their inferior staff will not give their leaders a credit, remember this note; your reputation depends on how you commit with something you do daily, if you work by providing a good service to your customer, your personal integrity will grow and your sense of kindness will burgeon as well, if your job can’t give the big influence to you, automatically it can’t educate you how to become valuable person to many people’s lives, when your job doesn't increase your dignity, means your job builds a bad reputation to you, here is my daily note; your reputation depends on how you give to others, it just like the manufacturer.

       We don’t need to work if there is no integrity to be offered, so you must get a job where it can build your passion, not working for necessity, if you work for necessity only, you will not stand to work for any longer, here is the third work ethic you need to learn; you must build your own time management, if your job can’t teach you how to make your own time management, means you will overwork until you feel irritated, basically a nice job shouldn’t offer you a huge profit, but it can educate you how to manage your stress and a nice job will help you to increase your integrity, if your job increase your profit and lower your integrity, I am telling you, you will enter to the satanic circle, please don’t accustom yourself with that kind of job.

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