• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

Suffering is a gift, in it is hidden mercy

Suffering is just temporary, but regret is forever, remember your choice

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic “suffering is a gift, in it is hidden mercy”, the meaning of that statement; every attempt we make in this life is part of learning process, during we are taking learning process, we need some big effort, time and physical, every sacrifice will born a sense of suffer, at this point we must understand; suffering is kind of God grace that He designs something special for our existence and we will be requested by God to undergo the life test such as every mistake, every humiliation, every failure, every setback, every rejection, every betrayal, every brokenhearted are part of God’s mercy, those uncomfortable test are given to human being in order to create new life’s impact to human’s future, remember this note; we will never pass to the higher class when we don’t pass the test, it’s same thing like studying at school, we will never get good grade when we don’t learn how to make preparation for the test, if we aren’t tested yet, God worries our capacity is not enough to sustain the God’s unlimited wealth, that’s why every human’s capacity needs to be tested, suffering is not part of punishment, it’s part of God’s mercy, so if we don't get God's mercy, we will become in our prisoners of mind, if we don’t suffer enough about life, our lives is worthless, if there is no real change, we just stay in comfort.
If you think and prioritize about future, your suffering will end today

          All we need to do when we get suffering is increasing self-knowledge, taking higher responsibility, enjoy the process, stop blaming others or the circumstance, stop whining about the weaknesses, sometimes all suffering can turn into motivation when we undergo the test immediately, if we don't get serious about life challenge, the circumstance will change us, remember this; when we get suffering, we will get a new lesson from God’s wisdom, if we don’t get suffering, we don’t get God’s mercy, when we lose opportunity to get God’s mercy, there is no way out to end suffering from life, except we take the suffering test through hardworking, practice our skill every day, learning from mistake, make research to correct our ignorance, validate ideas into marketplace’s rejection, take a chance professionally, think outside the box, do something what you feel passionate about, and many other things, remember this note; just because we are doing a lot more today doesn’t mean we are getting a lot more done, means, Let God will finish the rest of what we have finished, we are not entitled to interfere about God’s ending decision, all we can do as human is praising what God graces something to us, maximize our potential, be curious about life wisdom and we behave patience as long as we make a proposal to God, that's my explanation about Suffering, hopefully you get something useful after you read this article.

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3 strategies we can learn from other people’s mistake




          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic “3 strategies we can learn from other people's mistake”, the meaning of that statement; we can add some more values after we learn from people's mistake, then we can develop our weaknesses after we observe about people's mistake, the main reason why we need to learn about people's mistake because we prevent ourselves to do the worse mistake than other people’s mistake, if we repeat other people’s mistake, our lives journey will be meaningless and worthless because our times is not enough to repeat other people’s mistakes, at this moment let me share to you what should we do when we know other people get new mistake, here is the first strategy we can learn from other people mistake; don’t blame everything related to the people’s educational background or blame the unknown circumstance around them, but we can take a note from the reason why people need to make mistake, means, every mistake doesn’t always define people’s carelessness, sometimes people need to ensure whether every attempt they make will create any change or not, mistake is part of learning process, no matter how smart we were in the past, failure didn’t look someone’s history in the past, failure needs accuracy and precision before we get a progress, failure is just a bait to catch a new opportunity, if you don’t fail at the first attempt, your inner world is a precarious and unstable because you risk your future by doing nothing precious.

          Here is the second strategy we can learn from other people mistake; when people get new mistake, we try to improve our ignorance and we learn new thing from new perception, means, our ignorance will become our comfort zone when we do nothing meaningful for future, we need to break our capacity level every day until our vision can recognize the problem, every ignorance represents the comfort zone, the more you get curious about new thing, the more you break your own comfort zone, the more you break your own comfort zone, the more you get going to the learning zone where it offers uncomfortable zone, within the learning zone, you will feel unhappy because you will get new wisdom from life, but here is the critical point, “the more you get wisdom, the more you will be pursued by new problem”, so problem is not bad thing if we know how to utilize it, sometimes problem knows we need it to enhance our mental intelligence, we will never improve our capacity till we are willing to accept the life challenge such as personal problem or other people's problem, that’s life game, starting today, don’t laugh when other people get mistake, all we need to do is breaking our ignorance level first, Here is the third strategy we can learn from other people mistake; we need to make new mistake that 99% people don’t ever make it, if we follow that consequence, we will never feel bored in our own lives because our creation has gradually improved and finally we will get success more than what we imagine, hopefully you can get something useful after you read this article.

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These unproductive habits that cause people lack of self esteem





          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about several unproductive habits cause people lack of self-esteem, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don't know how to utilize self-esteem for good purpose, as a result, they unwittingly do something unproductively, at this moment, I would like to share the bad habits that cause people can’t possess high self-esteem during building career; here is the first unproductive habit causes people lack of self-esteem; giving up easily when there is unwanted problem, when you experienced with it, means, you lack of training, giving up is not good option because it's kind of escape from responsibility, it's not good habit, the problem why people are giving up easily because they always consider future is going to end up like yesterday, all you need to do if you feel no hope is stay focusing on what you can finish and stop worrying about what you can’t finish, if you still feel no hope, you need to stay for a while and concentrate about something that you can finish it immediately, if you don’t stay to finish what you can do, you will lose something meaningful and you will lose your dignity because you are consistently neglecting something that you should do, imagine that your life purpose is like the mansion, you can’t live within the mansion before you finish the mansion’s construction, if you give up easily, you will never live in the mansion, please train your mind to think about it and forget about your past experience, let the past in the past.

          Here is the second unproductive habit causes people lack of self-esteem; comparing yourself negatively to others, if you ever experienced, you shouldn’t compare what you can’t do with other people’s capacity, or you compare what other people can do with your own capacity, human being is a unique creature, everybody has own right how to do and how not to do, we shouldn’t compare even if we can do so much rather than common people, if we do that, we probably insult our value, we should become a contributor and share what we can know to other people who know nothing about their own purpose, Here is the third unproductive habit causes people lack of self-esteem; letting a sense of fear stops you from learningeverybody has fear, but it depends on what we use, whether fear can be turned into motivation or it can immobilize our action, fear is not part of punishment, but it is part of self-protection, everybody has own shield or self-protector, we should utilize that shield to defend our desire from negativity, not to stay inside within shield and waiting the miracle, life doesn’t work when we just wait the miracle, life is like the automation machine, when we input some efforts, it is going to work for us automatically, when we input our fear to life, so life will bring back a greater fearfulness to us, hopefully you get something useful after you read this article.
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3 bad habits that making people lack of self-esteem






          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic “3 bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem”, the main reason why I choose that topic because these bad habits will decrease people’s dignity unknowingly, at this moment let me share to you about several bad habits that making people lack of self-esteem, here is the first bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem; build constructive criticism personally, maybe some people think making constructive criticism is good, but if you do it for yourself, your spiritual intelligence will not develop by itself because you just justify your criticism to your self, whatever you criticize something for yourself, your criticism seems always be right for you and you will not learn anything from it because you don’t get criticism from other people, if you build constructive criticism personally, you will behave like self-righteous person’s habit, if this ritual is repeated over and over again, you always reject new criticism from other people because what you say is always morally right, it’s dangerous habit even if it is approaching you, remember this note; whatever you think your criticism is good, it doesn’t mean there is something good for everlasting, the greatest criticism is coming from the toxic people, if you can defend yourself to accept any criticism from the toxic people, your mentality, spirituality and self esteem will grow.

          Here is the second bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem; feel complacent easily when people get small recognition, this habit will stop you to make research or it will stop you to know something new because you are not interested about your future design, if you behave complacent more often, your desire will lose its value because you don't maximize your potential, remember this note; our biggest enemy is regret and ignorance, when we don't use our potential maximally, our time will decrease something meaningful that we have been given, such as talent, optimistic and the power of belief, here is the third bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem; afraid to share your opinion in a conversation, this condition often happens in this life when people lack of experience during making conversation with newcomer, the main problem why people don’t want to share their opinion in a conversation because they are afraid one of their opinion will become the counter attack, in fact, sharing opinion to others is part of giving the value to others, if you are afraid to be giving, you can’t develop your own luck, hopefully you can avoid 3 bad habits above if you want to increase self-esteem.

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5 Bad habits that show human lack of self esteem




          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share to you about 5 bad habits that show human lack of self-esteem, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can recognize about bad habit which may influence people’s character, at this moment I would like to share about several bad habits that show human lack of self-esteem, here is the first bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem; Saying “yes” to everything, means they will give nod “Yes” response to everybody’s invitation such as making chitchat without no big purpose, always agreeing to accompany other people’s private matter, staying up late at friend's house without any agenda, remember; when you live in other people’s story more often rather than living in your life story, you will be a prisoner of people’s jail, make sure you can plan your future by doing something you love and meaningful, here is the second bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem; self-criticism or self-negative talk; this habit has been occurring in every generation, especially young person, if you want to develop your skill, don’t ever try to make self-negative talk because I am afraid the warrior(subconscious mind) within you will do destruction from what you command, every time you do self-talk, the warrior within you will listen carefully and follow what you desire.

          Here is the third bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem; back down when opinions are challenged and criticized by others, means, when people will criticize your opinion, it doesn’t mean they always underestimate about your opinion, sometimes other people need some evidences from you rather than just listening your opinion, hopefully you will provide some evidences first before you give opinion to others, sometimes people will remember what is your opinion saying rather than seeing your action, Here is the fourth bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem; being indecisive when people want to make simple decision, if you experience with this bad habit, you need to force yourself by taking risk, being indecisive means there is no plan to fail, remember this; no matter how much effort we made in the past, it didn't relate by what we can do today, we would better to take wrong decision rather than doing nothing and standing still, it doesn’t matter how big your problem, when you behave indecisive, you will lose the opportunity to win.

        Here is the fifth bad habit that making people lack of self-esteem; fearing to failure, means, some people are feared by what they can't do rather than fear about what they regret, if they fear without any good reason behind it, I am afraid their lives will not move forward, it’s stumbling block, we shouldn't fear about failure, but we should fear when we don't try something, we must create new perception and consider the failure as the ladder step if we want to elevate every  attempt we make, remember this; “without failure, there is no trying, without trying something new, there is no progress, when there is no progress, the future is dead”, if you want to make your self-esteem increasing, you need to brave to face the failure more often rather than see nothing about failure, the more you practice, the more your self-esteem increases, make sure you focus about what you can do and let go of bad habit that making your self-esteem decreasing, hopefully you can get something useful after you read this article.

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How to take care of mentally tough




          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about how to take care of mentally tough, the main reason why I choose that topic because this skill will help everybody how to face the life challenge such as failure, setback, rejection, betrayal and many other things, at this moment let me share to you about several tips how to take care of mentally tough, here is the first thing you need to do how to take care of your mentally tough; stop treating your emotion/ feeling as either good or bad treatment even if the odds are not in your favorif you train your mentally with this strategy, it will not teach you how to be spoiled person or being passive person, instead you will be trained how to discipline your mentally by doing something tough until your mental strength is invincible enough, sometimes our emotion will become the biggest obstacles when it's not trained to motivate us, if you think your emotion is more important, make sure you have trained your emotion by encumbering with a new responsibility, let us monitor the progress later, remember this note; when you don’t think too much about your emotion/feeling, your focus will not be distracted easily because your mentally can handle any obstacle which may come from your emotion, if your vision is trained hard enough to make perception, you will not feel being treated unfairly even if you got negativity because you know how to handle negativity within yourself, sometimes our emotion/ feeling has blocked our grim determination until we lose our focus, don’t let it happens, if it is happening to us, i am afraid our emotion is going to fulfill our soul with darkness.

          Here is the second thing you need to do how to take care of your mentally tough; explore why most people often experienced with negative emotion, if you train your habit with this strategy, your subconscious mind will help you how to protect your emotion from other people’s negative emotion assault, in every day situation we must brace ourselves by finding resources how to learn emotional intelligence because we will never know when we will fight with other people’s negative emotion, don’t let our anger will be shown up in the public, if we let it happens, some unknown people will stay away from us and we will lose our dignity, remember this note; good mentality will influence our habit to do something strictly whereas bad mentality will influence our habit to stay away from daily productivity, in my opinion; if you want to create a positive vibes, you must find a way how to attack your own satisfaction, when you oppress your negative emotion, you will oppress your positive emotion, when you encumber your emotion with higher responsibility than you usually do daily, your emotion will turn into fear, little by little your fear turns into self awareness, that's strategy how to take care of mentally tough, hopefully you can get something useful during reading this article.

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5 tricks how to learn faster for developing your career



         

          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 5 tricks how to learn faster for developing your career, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people realize how to develop their career faster, at this moment let me share something to you about 5 tricks how to learn faster for developing your career, here is the first trick how to learn faster for developing your career; make short period of study, when you have this habit, you can enjoy the process because you are not being encumbered with long period of time, furthermore, your focus can be optimized to reach what you want to learn, sometimes make short period of study can create a different result in long period of term because you realize every greatness takes long time, not instantly, make sure every day you are not bored with short period of study, here is benefit when you make short period of study, your focus will not be distracted easily from an outer factor and you can surpass many obstacles out there because you respect the study challenge and you enjoy the process, besides that, this ritual will help you how to discipline your mind and body from any unwanted distraction, here is the second trick how to learn faster for developing your career; monitor your progress every day and check whether there is feedback or not from your marketplace, make sure you have this habit, if you don’t have this one, you will be left behind by your marketplace’s demand and also you will be left behind by your competitor’s progress, you must ensure every day you designate your time to monitor your progress even though it takes only several minutes.

          Here is the third trick how to learn faster for developing your career; quiz yourself, means, every time you do something different in your career, you always question yourself with critical question such as “what I can do to make something better every day”, when you feel obsessive with this question, your mind will not stop searching new information for you, remember; your destiny can be shaped by your own decision, not depending on other people’s value, the main reason why you need to quiz yourself because it will strengthen your memory and also it can help you to forget about the past mistake or the past failure you had endured, sometimes the past will block your future when you just focus about your past, starting today, you must move forward your learning process constantly, here is the fourth trick how to learn faster for developing your career; apply 80/20 rule, means, you will use your 80% time to improve the qualification of your service and you will use 20% time for recharging your spirituality to God, improve your personal development and take care of beloved people around you including family, here is the fifth trick how to learn faster for developing your career; stay away from the toxic people who don't give you a positive vibes, your social circle will develop your learning process, make sure you don't associate with the toxic people, hopefully after you read this article, your career will be developing and successful.
 https://www.alfiandiphilosopher.com/2019/09/4-tricks-how-to-make-progress-for-your.html.
(this is another reference for you to develop your career, you can click the link above)

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4 tricks how to make progress for your career




Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 4 tricks how to make progress for your career, the main reason why I choose this topic because many people’s career are stuck within one place and they find difficult how to improve themselves, at this moment let me share to you about 4 tricks for your career and I hope you can apply this strategy to your career, here is the first trick you need to do if you want to make progress; you can break down difficult skill into smaller ones, means you need to make list about what to do and what not to do, if you find difficult during learning process, you need to have a long term target to be finished, during learning process, you can review how much skill you have mastered, if you still can't make it, you need to break down your learning process again by learning what you think easier to do and make sure you can finish short term learning every day until you can master the difficult skills in long term, here is the second trick you need to do if you want to make progress; focus on one sub skill at one time, means, you need to classify about the skillset you want to learn, for example; if you learn new language, you must focus one sub skill, such as focus how to read well, if you master this skill, then you can learn another sub skill, such as how to write well, it's same thing with your career, you need to prioritize about one sub skill first , make sure you can master it, don’t ever try to learn several sub skills together because it will make you confused and regress your skillset.

 If you want your focus will maximize its power, all you need to do is dedicate yourself by trying something new until you don't fear to retry, that’s it, don't try to use your focus more than two targets, but if you deliberately do it, you will lose the opportunity to win, remember about the ancient proverb; you can't catch two rabbits in one time together, here is the third trick you need to do if you want to make progress; celebrate your mistake and learn how to make new mistake, this idea is not asking you how to make something to be right all the time, but sometimes you have to invest your own mistakes to the mistake’s account in order to awaken your spiritual growth, that’s greatest power you need to develop every day, if you don’t make mistake, you know nothing about the truth, unfortunately most people prefer to reject how to make mistake rather than collecting new mistake, no wonder their spiritual intelligence doesn’t grow because they hate to make mistake, in fact, every mistake will teach us how to avoid the worse mistake in the future, without making new mistake, your spiritual intelligence will not grow and every your attempt can’t connect with God's plan.

When you celebrate your own mistakes, God will give a special message to your spiritual intelligence and He will correct your mistakes, finally you can become a master, here is the fourth trick you need to do if you want to make progress; teach other people about what your vision does,  this idea will help you to get feedback from other people, if you meet new person that you think he has good reputation, make sure you can learn something from him, after that you can share your vision, when you share something to other people, unwittingly they will give you credible explanation and probably they will follow what your vision does, teaching is not part of showing your smart to other people, but teaching is part of how you understand what you learn and how to progress your skillset to bring an impact to other people's lives, I think that’s my explanation about 4 tricks how to make progress for your career, hopefully you can get something meaningful after you read this article.
 https://www.alfiandiphilosopher.com/2019/09/5-tricks-how-to-learn-faster-for.html.
(this is another reference for you to develop your career, you can click the link above)

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5 productive things to do when you are bored


         
          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 5 productive things to do when you are bored, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone knows how to do when they feel bored and not many people spend their time to change their circumstances by doing productivity, at this moment let me share to you about 5 productive things to do when you are bored, here is the first productive thing you need to do when you are bored; clean your house, this is simple job, but unfortunately it is often to be underestimated, when you clean your house, the circumstance will help you to clean your unsteady mood and also strengthen your mental strength, you can try it every day and you can taste the result later, here is the second productive thing you need to do when you are bored; organize the file on your phone or computer or any devices it may look disarray, if you have this kind of habit, you will not get stressed easily because your brain system keeps working to serve you although you may take rest for minute, organize the file on your computer will help you to find the lost files, you can keep the invaluable file safely or you may discard the unused files when you don’t need it very much.


          Here is the third productive thing you need to do when you are bored; Learn something new on YouTube channel, as we know that You Tube channel is one of the biggest social media application which bring a great impact to the billions of people who live across the worldwide, I think there is no excuse anymore for everyone not to learn something new from You tube channel because every new valuable thing can happen at any time, if you keep doing some productive thing, your circumstance will not keep you bored, if you just spend your time to focus on the wrong direction, your circumstance will make you bored constantly, here is the fourth productive thing you need to do when you are bored; visit a bookstore and buy a personal development program book, if you are confused or you don’t have any interesting place to be visited immediately, I recommend you to go to the bookstore, when you are surrounded by books, I think you will forget about your sense of boring because your vision will be attracted by the interesting book in there and you will get the unexpected information from there.

         Here is the fifth productive thing you need to do when you are bored; make a wish list of things you want to do, if you have this habit, your focus will not be distracted easily because your vitality automatically calls your energy to follow what you already wrote on your wish list of journal, when you succeed to complete the goal, you can celebrate it and then  you can change your wish list of things with new one, remember this note; our happiness will not appear to our existence when we don’t tie it with clear goal, I think that’s my explanation, hopefully after you read this article, you will not feel bored anymore. 
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5 skills you should learn when you don’t study at formal school


          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 5 skill you should learn when you don’t study at formal school, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willing to learn these skills because they think earning money is better than learning something new, at this moment, let me share to you about 5 skills you should learn when you don’t study at school, here is the first skill you should learn when you don’t study at school; How to find your passion,  this skill is one of the most valuable resource for human being, this skill can’t be founded at school education system, if you want to find your passion, it can be developed by activating an insatiable curiosity and you do something what you really want to do daily, make sure you don't do for the money or the fame first, you just become happier by doing what you love, if you haven’t found it yet at school, you can make research until your sense of urgency will appear to your mind and it's telling you not to shirk what you do, when you do urgently although it doesn’t seem urgent, you will find your passion on it, I think working for your major interest during living in this life is part of your riches, don’t leave it behind, you need to spend more time to practice and dedicate yourself by doing something meaningful for the longevity happiness.

Here is the second skill you should learn when you don’t study at school; how to make an impact of progression, means, you can't any progress for your life when you just do something what you know daily, you need to delegate your talent by working on it, if you don't delegate your ability by practicing, you can't create an impact  of  progression by waiting the miracle or other people's help, you need to be proactive person by offering something to other people and let the universe will return something bigger to you, make sure your resourcefulness has influenced other people's lives and guide them to do something good for a better life, this skill can’t be developed at school because many people are getting busy, but not increasing for productivity, here is the third skill you should learn when you don’t study at school; how to communicate well, this skill can help you to promote your talents to the public, don’t let anybody knows nothing about your talents because some day your talent will pay you with worthy compensation, learning the communication skill also can help you how to see opportunity when most people can’t see it, when you communicate well and connect between your idea with other people, people indirectly notice your hidden talent and other people will seek your talent, don’t miss it, remember this note; the more you learn the communication skill, the more you sell your sense of trustworthy, the less you learn the communication skill, you will lose your confidence level.

Here is the fourth skill you should learn when you don’t study at school; How to read a financial statement, the financial statement’s knowledge can’t be learnt when you don’t take a risk by investing your money to the field area you believe it works, sometimes you will lose your money, it's not because you don't know how to buy something with your money, but you don't know about the rule of the money's game, you will get the financial's knowledge when you keep your money working, this skill is very important, especially when you want to build your dignity, you must learn it although you have never taught at school, the financial statement will teach you how to avoid a sense of extravagant and it can help you how to fulfill your daily needs without burdening other people's private matter, here is the fifth skill you should learn when you don’t study at school; How to improve your spiritual intelligence,  this skill can’t be developed by increasing your intellectual intelligence or emotional intelligence only, but you need to combine those things and develop your curiosity until you see the truth, in order to get the truth, you must dare to fail at something, without seeking the truth, you can’t develop your spiritual intelligence, it's life game, this skill is the top favorable resources because it can help you to find your source of resources, but unfortunately this skill is difficult to be applied in daily life because people must leave their major ego if they want to learn about the spiritual intelligence, if you learn this skill, you can unlock your passion, you can improve your ignorance and resurrect your hidden potential, in order to get the spiritual intelligence, people must adapt themselves by working as God's servant, means, you will work as daily contributor, remember this; when you work as God's servant, everything you need will be fulfilled by God's grace, hopefully these skills can help you how to increase your independence skill and develop your career as well.

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5 skills you don’t get when you study at school




          Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about the topic “5 skills you don’t get when you study at school”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people just depend on the school's education system during developing their career or getting a better job, but in fact they forget how to embrace these skills, at this moment, I would like share about several skills people should get when they were young as student at school, these skills will help people how to strengthen their survival skill during facing a tight competition in the world markethere is the first skill you should get when you study at school; “how to sell/promote your skill, means, the formal education doesn't teach student how to unlock the student's skill, teacher just teach how to remember the lesson, how to make good note, how to calculate the basic number, multiple the algorithm number, etc. Unfortunately many compulsory subjects at school are designed not to help students how to survive in this life until they study at the university, instead, at the formal school the students mindset are designed to be follower and how to play safe at work.

         Now I understand why many people are trapped in debt until they die heavily because their minds are set with wrong paradigm since they were studying at school, if every student is taught how to sell or promote their skills, I am sure many students are willingly to contribute something to their school, they will learn something they never did before, their curiosity will increase and bigger because their power of willingness will keep students studying very good, as teacher, we only need to create mood booster to the students curiosity and let the students will develop their talents by their own way, here is the second skill you don’t get when you study at school; “how to think differently from the problem”, if students possess this skill, every student has self-motivation and they will not stop learning until they have detected the root of the problem, unfortunately many student don’t have enough time to think about it because every time they make a new movement, the teachers has blocked the student's life path.

          Here is the third skill you don’t get when you study at school; “how to negotiate with other people when they reject your prompt action”, means, this skill one of the important skill in this life and this skill costs very expensive because when you learn to negotiate, you will give other people with a new perception and you educate them until other people will accept your prompt action, if the students have this skill, they will become a proactive student and they will ask the teacher to be joining in study group, student will not feel bother to ask something to the teacher when the student will find a difficult thing during studying, here is the fourth skill you don’t get when you study at school; “how to face failure”, this skill will help to strengthen the student's mental strength and also help the student to stay focus on the goal, unfortunately, not all teachers teach their students with this skill, no wonder many student feel down when their score rank have been downgraded because they don't have this skill, here is the fifth skill you don’t get when you study at school; “How to prioritize the major time this skill needs to unlearn a daily bad habit because it can create a big result in the future because students possess a sense of urgency during studying, if we talk about it, this skill acquires several years to adapt with it because every student fights against their comfort zone, besides that, every student will feel a mental pain because of new adaptation with the time priority management, I think that’s enough from my simple explanation, hopefully you can change your life soon by learning those skills and you can teach your children with those skills when they are still student.

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5 signs that you lose your power of focus



Hi smart people, howdy, I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 5 signs that you lose your power of focus, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people don’t recognize about the major cause of losing the power of focus, at this moment, let me share to you about 5 signs that you lose your power of focus, here is the first sign that you lose your power of focus; you have loss of appetite about your future, means, when you experience with it, you don’t have any eagerness how to create more value to your better personality and you tend to reject any new demand from the future, when you keep this habit, you are not going to get success because you can't adapt yourself with new demand, don't just do something you usually do then you repeat that ritual over and over again, you must keep practicing to new skill that you want to learn, if you don't want to learn, probably you can’t get out from the comfort zone, finally your future is just myth, remember this note; life doesn’t work for you when you don’t develop your passion and your vision, the reason why I say such thing because passion and vision are combination how to create some solutions for providing other people’s problem, your future will create when you do something you never did, make sure you use your focus to try something you never did, if you have this habit, your future will provide the biggest reward you never imagine.

Here is the second sign that you lose your power of focus; you just take any opportunity from anywhere places but you don’t know how to begin, means, you just waste your power of focus to do something undesirable and you don’t overstretch your responsibility by doing something more than you can do in daily, I just want to tell you that your mental strength is the most influence thing to develop your career, your mental strength will not work when you just take low responsibility and you don't practice to welcome a new opportunity, remember this note; the more you use your potential, the universe will help you to unlock your potential at multiple times, the less you use your potential, the more you lose of something significant in your life, here is the third sign that you lose your power of focus; you lack of motivation, means, you don’t have any passion to work hard like what other people do in their career, don’t let your focus and your talents leave you behind because you don't know how to run your life, when you don't know how to run your life, so the life circumstance will change you and it's going to hurt because you don't make any preparation, if you don’t praise to your own life, you lose the significant value, sometimes motivation is not part how to determine your future but it's keeping you to get going, when you lack of motivation, you become a complacent person every day and your life doesn’t make any progress at all.

Here is the fourth sign that you lose your power, you are too complacent with your current job, means, when your job can't increase your dignity and integrity, you just bury up your future because your job can't teach you how to take more responsibility, remember this note; good job is not demanding you to do a complacent job, but good job is demanding you how to take higher responsibility and how to do differently every day until you make progress, if your job teaches you how to become complacent person, your job is locking your potential, I don’t blame everyone when they love to work at any specialization, but if they don’t take higher responsibility by overcoming ghastly problem in their job, means they learn nothing from their job because their jobs can't inspire them to do better thing, as normal human being, we need to live fully today and being a lifetime learner, here is the fifth sign that you lose your power, you are too moody/ emotional, if you experience with it, you must learn how to commit with goal, you must push yourself and try to change your paradigm by learning from experienced people who succeed to change their personal characteristic, hopefully after you read this article, your focus increases and your career will increase as well.

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5 signs you are overwhelmed



Hi smart people, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 5 signs you are overwhelmed, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people know how to deal with the daily problem but they never learn how to reduce their overwhelming negative emotion, at this moment let me share to you how to recognize several signs you are overwhelmed with busy daily activity and how to deal with it, here is the first sign that you are overwhelmed with daily activity; you are sleeping too much or you are difficult to get enough sleep, if you have ever experienced with it in your daily routine, you should try to drink a chamomile tea before sleep or you can foster your sense of relaxation by keep inhaling the lavender oil at multiple times before sleep at night, and also you can practice your body such as meditation, yoga, progressive muscle relaxation.

Here is the second sign that you are overwhelmed with daily activity; you are always tired, no matter how much sleep you get, if you experience with it, means, you are too complacent by what you are doing, that's big problem which causes you are always tired, you need to shift your paradigm by collecting new experience from other people's good experience and learn from the successful people who succeed to step out from their dark side, here is for your note; if you are too tired now, it is not because you are hardworking, but because you are uninspired to do something what you love, here is method you need to do; you need to build your enthusiasm by looking for your biggest curiosity in this life and develop your passion to look for it.

Remember this note; hard working is not major cause that’s making you tired in daily activity, you are just uninspired by doing something you in daily, make sure you get inspired when you develop something in daily life, Here is the third sign that you are overwhelmed; you lack of energy, means, you spend too much focus on the wrong thing, you need to sharpen your focus by doing the most urgency thing in your daily activity and neglect the other target for temporary, when you overshoot your energy to everything around you, you always lose your energy, I just remind you that losing your energy is not caused by lacking of focus, it is caused lacking of repetition, so you need to overstretch your major skill in one course till you can finish, once you do that, your energy will come to you automatically, here is fourth sign that you are overwhelmed; you are high-strung, if you experience with it, you are too focus about something that you can't control, you mustn't focus on something you can't control, instead you must focus on the measurable target only, besides that, you need to limit your focus by finishing the most important thing to you and stop doing too much progress.

Here is the fifth sign that you are overwhelmed; you are stressed out, means, you will get stressed when you don’t build the independence skill, you must ensure what you do in daily is going to develop your vision, enhance your vitality and improve your responsibility, starting today, you need to aim the possible target for you to finish it and stop comparing between what you can't do with other people who can finish what you can do, that's method how to get out of severe stress's impact, here is the another major cause why you are stressed out, “you are too afraid by doing something new and worry what you can’t finish” , hopefully after you read this article, you can control your power of emotional intelligence.

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10 skills that are hard to learn but pay off forever



Hi guys, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about 10 skills that are hard to learn but can pay off the human's attempt forever, the main reason why I chose that topic because not everyone has possessed these skills, so let me share to you about several skills that are hard to learn but it can pay off your entire life; here is the first skill can pay off your attempt forever; having strong focus to do something in the present time and not worry about tomorrow or yesterday’s moment, this skill is the basic foundation how to build longevity happiness, if you commit to do it, it didn’t bring a bad thing anymore although how bad you were treated by situation in the past, if you possess the focus skill, today you can change your future life by focusing on one course of object till it is finished, here is the reminding note; don’t just become a complacent person and wait for anybody’s help because everybody has own responsibility, you can do something that nobody else is willing to do such as masterpiece, make sure you don’t do it for money and you don’t do it to get paid, when you discipline yourself with that mindset, I am sure your focus will increase at hundred multiple times because you show your responsibility to your activity.

Here is the second skill can pay off your attempt forever; having high confidence skill, I just want to remind you that skill doesn’t come from the comfort zone, but it comes from consistency, persistence, dedication, obedience, courage and discipline, you can practice from today by planning something you have never learned before and you start to leave your best legacy for your entire life, if your confidence can change your circumstance, life will change totally for you, here is the third skill can pay off your attempt forever; be a good listener, the main reason why we need this listening skill because new paradigm will be programmed within our subconscious mind when our soul starts to accept an advice, but unfortunately not everyone is willing to accept any advice because they think their lives pattern are better than someone who gives them an advice, so that's main problem why most people's destiny won't change at all, here is the fourth skill can pay off your attempt forever; Manage your priority list during facing tough time, when you possess this skill, you appreciate your time by prioritizing your productivity rate and you don't regret about what you did in the past, when you can manage your priority list, you will be able to control your destiny and your emotion as well, here is the fifth skill can pay off your attempt forever; stop whining, the main reason why we need this skill because it teaches us how to endure our own responsibility in the long period of time and this skill also teaches us how to prevent something bad will happen in the future.

Here is the sixth skill can pay off your attempt forever; having an empathy, this skill is much needed because it can give you an antidote how to reduce a pain’s side effect which is produced by other people’s severe pain, if you commit to learn this skill, your career will be fabulous because you can understand what other people’s problem and also you can solve every problem with calmness, here is seventh skill can pay off your attempt forever; speaking up in the public, if you train your mind to have this skill, you can promote your skill and your existence can influence other people’s emotion, so improve your speaking skill today as if you were speaking in the last moment on earth, here is eighth skill can pay off your attempt forever; being consistent, this skill is very expensive rather than common skill that human have, if you are consistent to do what you love, you will break your comfort zone and 85% your destiny will come to you in the right time, here is ninth skill can pay off your attempt forever; getting enough sleep, this skill is also important, many busy people can't get enough sleep, that is not good habit, make sure you can designate your time to take a nap during noon day, your concentration level and your brain memory will increase at multiple times if you do it constantly, here is tenth skill can pay off your attempt skill forever; being honesty with yourself, if you can accustom yourself with honest, every attempt you make will be granted with Almighty God and whatever you do will produce benefit to you and give another impact to other people's lives.

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5 things every husband secretly hates about his wife



          Hi guys, howdy? I hope you always have good day, today I would like to share about topic “7 things every husband secretly hates about his wife”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many husbands are not being treated as lovely person and many wives lack of curiosity how to give best responses to their husbands, at this moment let me share to you about several things why every husband secretly hates about his wife; here is the first sign why every husband secretly hates about his wife; every husband’s gift is not appreciated by his wife, this is important note, no matter how rich you are at fabulous job or career, but if your wife doesn’t know how to appreciate the little thing from what you give, you always be poor man even though you can give everything your wife wants, remember this; harmony is the essential of family relationship, if you are woman at this moment; please don’t treat your husband such thing because your husband will be sad and disappointed ,plus your husband thinks every attempt that he sacrifices to you will be rejected, starting today, please appreciate the little gift that your husband gives something to you, if you appreciate the little gift, automatically you appreciate what God grants something to you.


Here is the second sign why every husband secretly hates about his wife; a husband has been blamed by his wife when every new problem comes up, in my opinion; this is not good behavior, blaming other people without strong reason is part of the lame duck characteristic, the act of blaming is not good behavior because your brain memory can’t develop by itself when you put it into your daily habit, if you are woman at this moment; starting today, please discuss with your husband when there is new problem came up, remember this note; discussing is part of putting your trust to other people, if you don’t want to discuss with your spouse, means you don’t believe towards someone who loves you so much, I don’t blame if you pick up someone else who has good reputation and high qualification, but I will correct you if you just pick up the unknown person who hasn’t had the trustworthy background, here is the third sign why every husband secretly hates about his wife; wife makes a new friend with other guys without notifying her husband, in my opinion, this is not good habit, if wife makes friend with other guys although there is just ordinary relationship, it will break up sense of trust between husband and wife.


Here is the fourth sign why every husband secretly hates about his wife; wife asks other people’s opinion when there is problem came up and wife neglects her husband’s opinion by comparing her husband's opinion with other people's , this is not good habit, giving other people’s response without notifying husband is part of collusion, it can become a trigger of marriage breaking if this habit keep continuing, here is the fifth sign why every husband secretly hates about his wife; wife doesn’t want to tell to her husband earlier when she got a dishonor treatment in her past history, this behavior can’t be neglected easily because it is psychologically harmful for every relationship's mentality health, wife should behave openness when she got dishonor treatment in the past, so it would be decreasing husband's sadness I hope after you read this article, you can learn how to appreciate your spouse's existence.

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