• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

How to deal with “do or die” feeling




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “how to deal with do or die feeling”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all characters and all feelings will make us happier, at this moment let me explain something to you about the difference between do or die feeling, the first word “do feeling” means, you will work together with the supporting character where it helps you to execute your goal and it has the influence’s power to empower your focus, the second word “die feeling” means, you will be put to the unwanted situation where you will be treated like a lunatic person and you will be condemned to a life of hardship, as we know that most people use their bad responses to the problem, this behavior automatically will reject the reality because human aren't satisfied with life's good service, in fact, the life is always neutral, it will never hurt any people as long as they don't break the life's rule, such as "if you invest good thing, you will reap good feedback, but if you invest bad thing, you will reap bad result", now I would share several tips how to deal die feeling when you face the life challenge, here is the first tip how to adapt with die feeling; use your vision to accelerate your enthusiasm, if you can do it repeatedly, the strength of your character will give you power how to execute your plan and your body will learn pain when it will receive bad experience, the more your mind and body learn pain, the stronger you are.


          Here is the second tip to how to adapt with die feeling; stay away from the source of low class of satisfaction and return to the reality where you need to break your limit before life will limit your potential, the main reason why you need to stay away from the low class of satisfaction because it will decrease your survival skill and also it will make you stay away from the God’s wisdom, you need to build self-defense if you want to create happiness because life will send you problem occasionally, here is my insight; "if you want to get what you want because it wouldn’t help you at all, before your wishes comes in your time being, you need to develop your passion and enthusiasm to something greater than your current standard, after that you just need to practice what you want to develop and let yourself adapts with die feeling", the true happiness will not get you trapped into low class of satisfaction, instead, the true happiness will get you out from the comfort zone and your current standard will be upgraded until you can meet with new requirement and new responsibility, if you really want to stand side by side with true happiness, don't believe with instant happiness's offering because it always seize your longevity happiness suddenly, in addition, don't ever try to reject the news from reality because every reality comes from your philosophy, you will get the die feeling if you reject reality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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If you can desire it, the universe can produce it



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “if you can desire it, the universe can produce it”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes about what they really want in this life, in the daily activity most people do something with being forced, not to love what they can do, so, if we don't participate to try something with the power of intention, as a result there is no meaningful story, in order to survive in this life, we must live in this life with the power of intention and we establish our curiosity from bad habiteverything in this life can be achieved as long as we can measure how far we can visualize it and how persistent we transform what we visualize into reality”, as long as we can’t measure something into our imagination, so we can’t achieve it, act of self-assessment must be done repeatedly with knowledge, adversity, courage and tough experience, after that we can plan something for better life, remember this note; death is only once, but if you send your life’s plan to other people’s plan, your future will be death because you don’t get the meaning of life and you don’t drive your own life, remember this note; the purpose of life is creating something from what we manufacture and claim the power of God with responsibility, to handle many problems in this life, we must use this question “how much do I take responsible for this life and how much i can give it all today”.



Remember this note; life will always hurts everybody as long as human don’t prolong their survival skill with knowledge, adversity, failure, problem, rejection, curiosity and many unwanted problem, if you succeed to overcome those life’s test, the universe will enlighten your mind from the darkness of life, but if you reject the life’s test, automatically you reject reality and you absorb the power of negativity, here is the first tip how to make the universe works for you; having a deep belief about your strength of character and giving your talents to work for free, means, you need to optimize your talents to work in your major time and learn how to behave such the nature’s character; patience, determination, ambitious, generous, passion, curiosity, self-possession, honesty, integrity, etc. If you agree to follow the nature’s character, the nature will help you to unlock your potential, here is the second tip how to make the universe works for you; do what you really love and give the most precious thing you have for other people's lives, and accept the failure’s experience and life of hardship as lesson, if you have this habit, you will be pursued by the unlimited wealth and you will be pursued by true happiness, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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3 sales tips to close the market demand through psychology's approach





         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “3 sales tips to close the market demand through psychology's approach”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone knows how to promote theirs skills to the market place through psychology, in order to close the sale, we have to stay openness with the market's psychology and observe the market's demand at top priority, if necessary we prepare the potential market's category to welcome the new market's problem before the market's demand appears in the public, before you create product, you must validate your idea to the market place and see whether there is good feedback or not from the marketplace, don't just focus on your product's knowledge only, you must control your psyche, combine between your skills and the market's demand.
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       Here is the first thing we must learn how to close the market's demand through psychology's approach is don't ever try to open the price to the market when the market psychology is still unfriendlymeans, don't share your product's price or product's knowledge first but try to enlighten the unfriendly market until the market really understands about its problem, here is the second tip how to close the market's demand through psychology; don’t try to push the market to buy your product, but pull the market’s attention with something educated, means, you need to know whether your product is suitable for the marketplace's category or not because every product has own capacity and every market's category has different satisfaction, you must validate your idea to the market’s specific area before you sell or offer your product or service to the marketplace.


Besides that, don’t let the market’s psychology will be bored during using your product or service, you must have another vision and innovate your resources how to know the next customer’s demand before they realize their own demand, if there is no sense of unique, there is no queuing demandhere is the third tip how to close the market's demand through psychology's approach; try to seek the market's blind spot area where very few people can master within that scope, after that you can brainstorm the market's problem with your team, if you have this kind of habit, your customer will use your service repeatedly and they will introduce your service with another new prospect, after that new prospects are trying to stay curious about your service because you already make your customer's emotional intelligence attached, this is important; if you can recognize your customer’s journey, you can detect customer's problem before they demand something from you, finally you are always be wanted by customer at any time, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Danger is very real, but fear is a choice




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “danger is very real, but fear is a choice”, the meaning of that title is don't magnify your size of fear because it can become a feed of darkness and it will stay inside into your psyche, now let me share something to you related with fear and danger, as we know that everyone has fear, but the difference between successful people and unsuccessful people depend on what they think about sense of fearfulness, successful people use their fearfulness to create well preparedness and create the excited anticipation earlier than their sense of fearfulness, whereas unsuccessful people reject their fearfulness and choose to stay away from it, remember this note; the main problem why people fear is not coming from the source of danger, but the main problem really comes from people's ignorance about truth, reality and unprepared skills, if we realize that we lack of unprepared skill, why we just wait for help and not try to develop something and plan something bigger than daily routine activity?, the most difficult in life is not talking about danger or problem, but how to unlock self-ignorance and learn to accept the darkness in life, here is my suggestion; don't ever hate about the darkness because sometimes darkness can develop our survival instinct during we face the dangerous thing which may injure our existence.

         Sometimes we will get angry when we talk about danger, in fact, the existence of fear, anxiety, anger and regret are part of our ignorance towards how the way of naturally life, remember his note; danger is real if we don’t prepare our craft earlier than life crisis time, danger is real if we reject about truth, danger is real if we stay in comfort zone for too long, danger is real if we underestimate about progress, danger is real if we can’t adapt with life challenge, danger has the same similar with risk value, we can’t avoid risk in this life, if we avoid it, we will get a sense of fear, anxiety and regret, but if we sincerely learn about risk in this life, we will become philosopher, the main reason why we need to learn danger in this life because afterlife is more dangerous than living on earth, we don’t have much time to stay silent and stay fun for long period of time, the purpose of living is not making us comfortable on earth, but life teaches us how to get us stronger than life’s challenge, fear is just choice, before life will change our lifestyle, we must change our the way of thinking and the way of behavior, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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If you can’t do it slow, you can’t do it fast



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “If you can’t do it slow, you can’t do it fast”, the meaning of that statement is, if you don’t respect with progress, you can’t get fast result, at this moment I would like to talk about the life system, I share one of the precious lesson in life; it says "life doesn’t provide what human really want, but life gives what people deserve it", this clue teaches us that human can’t create a better future without they enlighten their mind first with failure, adversity, rejection and other unwanted things, that's life system we need to learn it, so there is no perfection process where it is offered by God, making new perception is the key how to reveal everything on earth and it is part of human's life time job, if people succeed to fix their mindset, the problem will resolve themselves instantly, now I understand why many people can’t get out from their own problem because they don't create something deservedly they do and people spend their time to wait for help, remember; success can't be waited, it is only can be developed with sense of urgency and happiness is born from self-awareness, so we can’t spend our time to wait something uncertainty in this life because the universe is too big and unimaginable, if we don't love about slow process, we will hate about the time's job, if we keep this habit, we always hate about God's job. 


          As long as there is time being, there is always delay and pain, if we delay something important, we will be punished with regret, fear and worry, if we are willing to taste the pain, we will deserve something from what we do, now let me share something to you how to clear false belief where it can destroy our mental health, the first thing you should to clear false belief and get reward from this life; change your lifestyle from “I should study” to “I must study”, the main reason why you need to change the word “I should” to “I must” because every great thing in this life can’t be waited, so we must have a sense of urgency  to try something new, pursue your life calling and prepare your craft before the opportunity comes, we can’t shape a better life by waiting something or someone to fix us because life teaches how to take own responsibility, please take this note; the more you learn how to take higher purpose, the more you take higher responsibility, the more you take higher responsibility, the more you will be pursued by problem, the more you clear your doubt, finally you will be the master of solution because you let yourself to solve problem, the second thing you should do when you want to clear false belief and get reward from this life; be unique and be leader, so if other people think you have this persona, you will be easily to get promotion and great opportunity because you reject to have the same ability like what most people have, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Obstacles don’t block your life path, they are the path




Obstacle is part of puzzle of solid path

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “obstacles don’t block your life path, they are the path”, the meaning of this statement is failure, adversity, betrayal, rejection, misunderstanding, those are part to achieve a success journey, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people misunderstand about the obstacle's purpose where people think every obstacle could bring many losses and create the misleading way, in fact, every obstacle is designed by God to ascertain the human’s strength, dignity, talent, authority, faith, knowledge and character to be used to the proper place, the main problem why people consider every obstacle is morally unacceptable because they just follow their skeptical mind and they accept their ignorance as faith, so everything in life should considered as gift, not as obstacle, if you change your mind with new perception, every bad thing can become the source of clue how to change your life journey, remember this; new perception is the key how to improve human's false belief, remember this; obstacle will not give a bad influence to people as long as they have insatiable curiosity, momentum, clear vision, good faith and great passion, whereas obstacle will give a bad influence to people who put their negative emotion to the inappropriate situation, if you don’t care how to use your emotional intelligence properly, your conscious mind will be protected by your egoism and skeptical mind, as impact, you will not understand about your own life path.


 Every obstacle will unlock the human’s potential as long as human consider obstacle is like the stepping stone, not belong to mental block, obstacle will teach human how to endure the mental pain or suffering for long period of time, if you can handle your psyche condition or the mental pain, you will be pursued by many problems in this life and you can handle the problem through your mental strength, is it good news, right? There is no unworthy thing in this life as long as you use your imagination to visualize about the possibility of progress, not trying to visualize about the bad failure and risk, if you think everything in this life is impossible to be lived with you, you may live in the lowest standard in this life because you reject to change your perception and you are not willing to take an evolution, remember this note; every creature in life learns to progress, not staying in silent and do nothing, so you must fight with yourself as the biggest competition on earth until the time is over, if you don’t fight for what you want, maybe life will make you cry for what you lost, don’t ever think you always win at some areas you master with, sometimes adversity will help you to strip the inessential thing in your life in order to unlock your self-awareness, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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How to stay calm when you have a stressful job



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “how to stay calm when you have a stressful job”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people care about their mental health while they stay in a stressful job, at this moment let me share something to you how to stay calm when you have a stressful job, hopefully this strategy can help you out from your current activity where it can create a mental illness, here is the first tip how to stay calm with a stressful job; preparing your morning ritual by practicing gratitude before starting a job, if you have this kind of ritual, it can relief your worry around 10% and also it can influence your psyche to calm, showing gratitude is kind of appreciation about what God grants you something, gratitude will resurrect your spiritual development if you repeat it every single day, you can write down your grateful into paper, then imagine it until you will feel renewed, here is the second tip how to stay calm with a stressful job; you can visualize your mind with the picture of your dream, if you have this ritual, you will be reminded to stay fun because what you visualize is going to fill up your psyche and your mind will be refreshed to stay calm, here is the third tip how to stay calm with a stressful job; meditate for several minutes, this ritual will help you to relief and strengthen your mental strength, make sure every morning you meditate for several minutes, it can increase your focus at maximum level.



Here is the fourth tip how to stay calm with a stressful job; make a stop-doing list, this strategy will help you to maximize your power of focus during you do the top priority job and this strategy also can help you to stop doing the less priority job, this is part of stress management, if you repeat this strategy at least 45 days, you will taste the maximum focus and it can help you to override your stressful job, here is the fifth tip how to stay calm with a stressful job; you can buy some foods such as dark chocolate, yogurt, almond, berry to accompany you during facing a stressful job, this strategy is not common, but if you buy these foods, at least they can help you to relief your stress impact and you can stabilize your mood, here is the sixth tip how to stay calm with a stressful job; take a deep inhale through nose for several seconds, then exhale it, do the process repeatedly until you feel renewed, this strategy is so simple, but unfortunately many people forget to do that ritual, you can do it daily and it’s proven to increase your oxygen supply in your brain and also it can reduce your sense of anger for temporary, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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4 questions to ask yourself before you set goal

      

          Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “4 questions to ask yourself before you set goal”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people often don't monitor about their goal and they still forget to make progress, so at this moment let me share something to you several kind of question where it can be used to ask yourself before you set goal, here is the first question which is used to question yourself before you set goal; what is my purpose of life?, if you set this question to yourself, you will execute your plan into reality, you will study and you will make research how to make a better world with your own version, the purpose is like releasing the arrow from the bow to the target board, in order to reach goal, someone will practice before release the arrow from the bow, he will not let other people immobilize his dream until he can finish his mission, besides that, you must stay curious about what you want and what you are capable of, before you demand about the result, you must demand yourself about preparation first, the more you get curious about your life purpose, the more you get a clear vision, when you have a clear vision, you will not find any difficult to embrace the life challenge.


Remember this note; goal is temporary but the life purpose is like the eternal mission, if you know your eternal mission, you will stay for a while until you can reach your goal, here is the second question which is used to question yourself before you set goal; what makes myself ready every day? If you keep questioning yourself about it, you will not get bored by what you are doing because you are serious to improve your ignorance and increase your worth, here is the third question which is used to question yourself before you set goal; what kind of negative anticipation I must prepare if I don’t reach my goal? If you accustom yourself by making the negative anticipation, you will not get stress or get suffered with post-power syndrome easily because you accept your limitation and you will retry again once you don’t reach your goal, here is the benefit when you create the negative anticipation during planning your goal; a negative anticipation can increase your sense of alert when you face the high risk, here is the fourth question which is used to question yourself before you set goal; what kind of loss if I don’t study now?, if you know about the possibility of loss, you will not do something carelessly because you will count the risk before you take another step, the more you learn, the more you see your ignorance and you can fix your false belief, finally you will get successI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 




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Don’t trust people who tell you other people’s secret





          Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “don’t trust people who tell you other people’s secret”, the main reason why I choose that topic because trust is very worthy and it can't be delegated reckless to anybody, so I just want to remind you that every human's secret is part of trust, we should respect about other people's secret, when other people will tell you other people’s secret, that’s mean they don't belong a good people because they disrespect other people’s trust, so if you meet with this kind of person, you should not give your trust easily to them because they will use your secret to against you some day, at this moment let me share something to you about how to be trustworthy person and how to recognize a person who deserves trustworthy, here is the first tip how to be trustworthy person; don’t accustom yourself to be a liar whenever you meet with newcomer at anyplace, if you have liar's habit, other people will not show merciful to you and they will disrespect to your dignity because you give other people with bad reputation, here is the second tip how to be trustworthy person; have courage enough to embrace the failure, if you have this kind of habit, you will be pursued by new opportunity because you take challenge although there is risk, when you embrace the failure, God will guide you and He will plan to send the right person to be your assistance and you will be directed by the right people to do something you never tried, finally you will be competent than other people who are not courage enough to fail.


          Here is the third tip how to be trustworthy person; be good contributor, if you accustom yourself with that ritual, other people will see your worth and people will use your talent to pay you back because you have shown a merciful to other people, if you keep this habit within your daily life, you will be given a special trust from other people and you will be granted with promotion and recognition, here is the fourth tip how to be trustworthy person; trust to your potential, not waiting hope, means you don’t underestimate the time value and you realize that every greatness takes long period of time to evolve, so you keep honing your craft and one day other people will value your effort after your masterpiece is done, the more you practice your potential growth, the more you will produce a good luck to your future, if you don’t spend your time to wait hope, hope will find you wherever you are because you invest your time to your potential, here is the fifth tip how to be trustworthy person; be initiative person, if you have this kind of ritual, you will get more opportunity rather than most people who wait for it, the more you become an initiative person, the more people will respect what you have done because your creation will enlighten other people's lives.


        Here is the sixth tip how to be trustworthy person; work like the ants, means, you will work harder than other people who like to procrastinate what they can do, when you have the ant's philosophy, you will prepare the best thing before you battle with problem in the reality, here is my daily note; sometimes most of us don’t realize reality is designed like the final tournament, when we don’t prepare something good before battle in the final tournament, we will lose the game automatically, if you work like the ants, other people will give you a good career and good promotion because your habit really hates to postpone what you can do, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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7 ways to worry less


Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “7 ways to worry less”, the main reason why I choose that topic because a sense of worry is kind of the mental disease where it can attack the people’s mental health, at this moment let me share something to you how to recognize our worry and how to make it less, here is the first way to worry less; stop doing something where it doesn’t relate with your ultimate goal, means, you don't need to do everything you want to do, if you do that, your power of focus will be decreasing and your mind will produce a new temptation to yourself, so the more you approach temptation, the more you produce worry, here is the second way to worry less; having daily plan, execute what you plan and stop waiting the uncertainty, this is important ritual, when you execute what you plan, you enlarge your focus, the more focus you create, the less worry you get, besides that, you need to stop waiting the uncertainty because it will burden your life journey and also waiting the uncertainty will make you lost your dignity, here is the third way to worry less; live in 24 hours/present time, means, you will not waste your energy, effort and time to think about tomorrow or yesterday event, the reason why you need to live 24 hours because your psyche will get distressed if you keep doing it.


Here is the fourth way to worry less; exercise, especially physical training, this strategy is very common to be done by human being, we must know that exercise will strength our muscles and mental strength, the more our physical body produces sweat, the less worry we have, so prepare the mental strength is invaluable asset, when we often train it daily, the less worry we have, remember this note; energy will flow every time the focus stays in one particular object, so exercise will give us the additional power to maximize our focus, here is the fifth way to worry less; letting go off what you can’t control, means, everything in this life is unimaginable and limitless, if you know about the life rule, you shouldn't do something risky such as do beyond your control, so you have to learn how not to make your life journey as burden, if you let go what you can’t control, your brain system will produce endorphin hormone where it can help you to reduce a mental pain and create happiness, but if you don’t let go what you can’t control, your brain system will produce cortisol hormone / severe stress hormone, so we must beware about something we can’t control, sometimes we need to surrender the outcome to divine’s timing.


Here is the sixth way to worry less; do what you can finish and delegate what you can’t finish, this strategy will help you to reduce worry and increase your inner peace because you divide responsibility to other people who can cooperate with you, if you adapt yourself with such situation, your mental health is good and you can avoid the severe mental pain, here is the seventh way to worry less; don’t give your trust to someone who can’t be trustworthy, this strategy will help you to avoid the fraud or the swindle, you must select which person you should trust, not everyone can be trusted, don't try to give your trust to anyone carelessly, trust is like the gateway and you will be key keeper, so you must give other people with the commitment test first before you let other people will enter your territorial, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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5 positive habits that changed my life


          Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “5 positive habits that changed my life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped in unproductive habit, so they get confused, unmotivated, lack of enthusiasm, etc. at this moment let me share something to you about several things you can do to change your life, here is the first positive habit that can change your life; stay curious about new life problem every day, if you adapt yourself with it, you will increase your knowledge and increase your mental intelligence because your curiosity will help you to increase your productivity, increase self-awareness and also curiosity will help you to unlock your deepest fearfulness to the outer world, remember this note; when you stay curious about life problem, you will recognize your greatest fearfulness, if you face your greatest fearfulness, I am sure you will not stay silent and waiting for hope because you need to escape from your fear zone by working hard to your field, finally you will use your craft to surpass your greatest fearfulness level.

Here is the second positive habit that can change your life; building the unconditional love to fulfill your goal, means, you will resurrect your hidden potential by spending a lot of time practice, you will not go anywhere until you will sacrifice your effort, time, focus, health to do something greater than you usually do in daily, here is the third positive habit that can change your life; giving more and expecting less, means, you will do something not because of profit, but you do something because your greatest spirit wants to enlighten other people’s power by giving what you have to them and not expecting much return from them, if you keep doing it repeatedly, your survival skill increases and your independence skill increases as well, remember this note; poor habit is always giving less and expecting more whereas wealth habit is always giving more and expecting less, here is the fourth positive habit that can change your life; self-discipline and be studious, the main reason why we need to apply self-discipline and studious in our daily ritual because that’s lesson is part of what the nature always does for human being and other creatures, when we possess that habit, the nature will help us to change our philosophy.

Here is the fifth positive habit that can change your life; create a sense of urgency to welcome the upcoming opportunity, means, we will take challenge and we will do something faster than the upcoming opportunity, if we possess this kind of habit, we will not miss upcoming opportunity because we can maximize our potential and we can avoid any distraction or temptation which may block our goals or dream, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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3 reasons why you need to try hypnotherapy



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “3 reasons why you need to try hypnotherapy”, the main reason why people need to try hypnotherapy because the mental illness is always happening and waiting us wherever we go in this world, so the mental illness is designed to attack people who can’t survive in any situation or people who don't have any preparation in any place, if we don’t prepare our survival instinct earlier than the mental illness arrival time, as a result we will be treated like the life prisoners, remember this note; the mental illness is like the winter, as long as this season comes around, we can’t plant good seeds in the land, some trees can't produce leaves because everything valuable on earth has been covered by the snow, this illustration has the same like the mental crisis, when human have been assaulted by the mental illness, they feel congested, cloistered and depressed because their self-awareness has been blocked by their ignorancebefore the mentality crisis comes to us, we must improve our ignorance and we must dare to fail while we are trying something new, if we don't fail enough, we fail to plan about futurehere is the first reason why you need to try hypnotherapy program; this program is designed to reduce your severe stress, if you decide to join this program, you will be directed to recognize your limitation, that’s the purpose, here is the additional note; stress doesn't come from the circumstance or problem, stress comes from higher obsession than reality itselfas long as we are not obsessed with fast result, we will not get stressed easily



Here is the second reason why you need to try hypnotherapy program; this program will help you to neutralize your anger, so I think everybody has ever got angry because of disappointment with result, the main problem why people get angry is not coming from the cause of disappointment, but the main problem comes from rejecting the flaw or perfectionism, remember this note; anger is the product of perfectionism, if we don’t create a new habit, we always get tangled with the same problem and having the same problem can trap us to the perfectionism, we must strive to leave a bad habit or bad behavior, if we don’t force ourselves to change old habit, we will embrace the mentality crisis, such as relationship issue, trust issue, financial crisis, etc. Here is the third reason why you need to try hypnotherapy program; this program will help you to increase your assertiveness, when you join hypnotherapy program, you will be directed how to recognize the source of problem you have through your habit, when you can detect your problem, you can make the problem as stepping stone and finally problem can increase your assertiveness, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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7 worst decisions that destroy people’s life


Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “7 worst decisions that destroy people’s life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped with stressful ritual and it is causing people lose their own dignity, at this moment let me share something to you about 7 worst decision that destroy people’s life, here is the first sign that worst decision which can destroy people’s life; not taking risk when there are some urgency cases came up, means, we shouldn't give up when there is emergency cases, in fact, taking risk is not part of threat, it's just alarming signal for self-preparation, remember this note; if there is no risk, there is no learning process, risk is not designed to harm people’s lives, but risk is designed to teach people how to keep surviving from the unwanted problem or situation, if we don’t take risk now, we will never know about future, maybe one day we will be pushed to take greater risk than previous one if we reject it now, so we must beware about every decision we choose, here is the second sign that worst decision which can destroy people’s life; being afraid to try one more after getting many rejections, means, rejection is part of feedback, not completely over, if we are afraid to try something today, our lives pattern is being risky because we don't plan to fail, remember this; if we don't fail, we will go to the midlife crisisour worthiness depends on what we try, not what we fear, when we fear of rejection, we automatically reject our success because failure and rejection is part of success.

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Here is the third sign that worst decision which can destroy people’s life; blame others but seldom to make self-introspection, this issue has been occurring for many years, but unfortunately not many people try to improve what they perceive after what they notice, if we always blame, we will be blamed by our ignorance, now I understand why so many conflicts, chaos, dispute in many areas because people don’t try to improve their self-awareness, here is the fourth sign that worst decision which can destroy people’s life; taking many opportunities in several fields, this issue will diversify the power of focus, the nature will not lend its power to support what people desire if people put their focus in several fields, when focus is disarray, people tend to destroy their own future by staying in the comfort zone for long period term, here is the fifth sign that worst decision which can destroy people’s life; living in the comfort zone for long period of time, means, we hate about new change, we hate about evolution, we hate about productive habit, so we must beware living in the comfort zone because this area will become dangerous if we stay with it in the long period of time.

Here is the sixth sign that worst decision which can destroy people’s life; waiting opportunity more often, at this phase, we must create opportunity, not wait for it because every happiness in life based on what we create, not what we wait, if we wait for opportunity, other people will design our lives with not much advantage, here is the seventh sign that worst decision which can destroy people’s life; reject any constructive criticism, this is part of manner, when we reject constructive criticism, automatically we will reject new opportunity, so we must know how to differentiate between constructive criticism and destructive criticism, remember this; constructive criticism often supports what we do although we will fail to try, whereas destructive criticism usually drowns our passion, our hope and our creativity, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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How to build 5 habits for every day happiness


         
          Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “how to build 5 habits for every day happiness, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people still confuse how to build every day happiness and also they still don't know how to differentiate between fake happiness and true happiness, at this moment let me share something to you about 5 habits where it can boost the true happiness, here is the first habit you need to apply for developing every day happiness; train your mind how to express your deepest gratitude in the morning, this ritual is so important because it can help you to reduce the stress’s impact and increase the endorphin hormone where it reduce the feeling of pain, you can write down what your gratitude in the paper about your vision where it can fill in your hollow heart, please train your mind at least 21 days by expressing your deepest gratitude, I am sure you can feel blessed if you accustom yourself with this habit, here is the second habit you need to apply for developing every day happiness; forget about your past moment and start fulfilling your present time with new plan, means, you are not allowed to recall the past moment because it is unchangeable, the more you approach your past, the more you absorb the darkness, when it is repeated over and over again, it will create a sense of anxiety, fear, depression and ungrateful.


          Here is the third habit you need to apply for developing every day happiness; start appreciating about the grace of God and stop expecting the fast result, this strategy will help you to reduce stress because you don’t push your limit, remember this note; just because you want to live happily, you push your limit to work for your satisfaction, it’s not good method, when you accept your limitation, you can use it to work in the specific area you are interested with, limitation is not designed to restrict what you can do, but limitation is designed to help your focus to maximize your potential strength, here is the fourth habit you need to apply for developing every day happiness; use the power of love to resurrect your biggest passion, means, you keep looking for the valuable information until you can delegate your passion to work hard, the only thing you can do in order to get the true happiness is not being afraid to create a masterpiece with your biggest passion, here is the fifth habit you need to apply for developing every day happiness; don’t be follower, just be the best whatever you are, means, you must be unique person and you are passionate to do something different daily, when you feel something good to the field area you are interested with, don’t just leave it behind without practicing it, you must develop it or it will be ended in regret, you have to practice your craft until you can create your own creation, that’s one of recipe how to create true happiness, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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7 tips you need to know how to master self-discipline




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “7 tips you need to know how to master self-discipline”, the main reason why I choose that topic because this lesson can help everyone to design about their own future, at this time, let me share something about 7 tips you need to know how to master self-discipline, hopefully you can apply this strategy to your daily routine, here is the first tip how to master self-discipline; determine what goals to set, when you apply this strategy to your daily routine, you always get self-motivated because your passion, your enthusiasm and your creativity are sticking together, let them support you, so make sure whatever you do now is making you approached to the goal, here is the second tip how to master self-discipline; breakdown your ultimate goal, means, you need to dissect your long term plan by finishing a short term goal every day, you have to love with progress rather than love with big result, if you appreciate about progress, you will not get afraid with failure because every time you do in daily is progress, here is the advantage if you focus on the progress; your passion will find you wherever you are and you will not lose your biggest value because your passion will guide you to appreciate about your strength.

         Here is the third tip how to master self-discipline; create a daily plan to achieve your goal, at this step, you are not allowed to finish another target until you finish your top priority plan, if we have a big dream without fulfilling the daily plan, dream is just a sleeping dream, so we need to turn your self-awareness into purpose-oriented, Here is the fourth tip how to master self-discipline; eliminate distractions and temptation, if your focus gets distracted with many temptations, so you need to alert yourself by staying away from the source of troublemaker, Here is the fifth tip how to master self-discipline; keep track of your progress, means, you need to record whatever progress you have finished, you need to monitor your goal every day, starting from you wake up in the morning until you get back to sleep at night, this ritual will help you to focus on your progress and strengthen your good habit, Here is the sixth tip how to master self-discipline; find role model who can inspire you,  means, you need to keep communicated with the role model you admire, make sure you learn from their successful habit and learn from their greatest mistake.

       Here is the seventh tip how to master self-discipline; breaking had habit, this phase is most important thing, you need to take care for your habit, having goal without having good habit is like sailing in the sea but still don't know how to get back in the shore, we can’t continue our dream when we still have bad habit, remember this note; bad habit is trying to disconnect between what you want to do daily and what you become in the future, you need to practice with new habit at least 21 days constantly, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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7 important things you can teach your child by age 10



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about topic “7 important things you can teach your child by age 10”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many children’s mental health are being hurt by their parents, at this moment let me share something to you step by step how to teach your child by age 10, here is the first tip you can teach your child by age 10; teach how to show a sense of gratitude, if you teach this ritual to your child, your child will say “thank you in advance”, every time they will receive something, either good thing or bad thing, besides that, this ritual will improve your child’s mental health, here is the second tip you can teach your child by age 10; teach how to take care of nature and inform your child about the advantage of take care of nature, this ritual will grow your child’s mental health every time your child takes care of nature, such as watering the plant, cultivating the seeds, feeding the animal, throwing the litter in the trash can, etc. If this habit happens constantly, your child will not get stressed easily, here is the third tip you can teach your child by age 10; teach how to make charity to the poor people, this ritual will improve your child’s mental health because making charity can prevent your child’s daily habit from the extravagant habit every time your child gets money.


     Here is the fourth tip you can teach your child by age 10; teach your child about the empathy every time your child is listening the sadness story, this ritual will improve your child’s attitude and respect to each people’s weaknesses, if your child is willing to learn this habit constantly, your child will not dare to insult or underestimate other people’s lives instantly, here is the fifth tip you can teach your child by age 10; telling story about the life wisdom before sleeping at night, this ritual will nurture your child’s brain memory and the night storytelling can increase your child's mental age, here is the sixth tip you can teach your child by age 10; teach your child to be watchful every time your child will meet with stranger, this ritual can teach your child not too believe about what stranger talks and also your child will avoid a close association with stranger, here is the seventh tip you can teach your child by age 10; teach your child how to stay humility and honesty, this habit will enrich your child’s mental age because your child will learn about progress and your child will not behave arrogant every time your child gets appreciation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your child’s mental health, good luck.



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