Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you
always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would
like to share about “how to help your child staying away from self-indulgent style”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many children are
taught by becoming a perfectionist since they reach age 3 years old, they have not been taught by their parents
how to make a productive mistake during learning something, that’s why based on
statistic, many children around 65% become passive, less creative, less curiosity and less productive after they reach age 5 - 10 years old because many children have been taught by their parents how to possess a self-indulgent
lifestyle, at this moment let me share something to you about several tips how to
help your children strengthening their learning ability and how to teach them avoid self-indulgent lifestyle, so your children can
learn how to survive in this life, here is the first tip how to help your children strengthening their
learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; teaching your children how to
erase “perfect” in their mind during they are learning something new, help your children how to
set daily goal, the reason why we
need to learn our children to set daily goal because children are not worry to accept new
mistake during learning, at least they will not behave like a perfectionist.
Here is the second tip how to help your
children strengthening their learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; teaching your children not to say “I can’t do this” during learning something, at least children will learn not to hate the failure, besides that, parents acknowledge what children did well after they pass the challenge and parents provide specific
feedback for children’s improvement, here
is the third tip how to help your children strengthening their learning ability
and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; parents become an example of someone who’s not perfect to their children, means, parents can share their mistakes to children when children start learning something
new, once parents become model of imperfection, children will try to appreciate about progress and patience, if parents keep teaching their children such thing within children's habit, at
least children will behave cautious when they meet unwelcome threat, here is the fourth tip how to help your
children strengthening their learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; teaching your children recognizing negative thoughts, the reason why parents need to
do this because children will learn how to let go self-critical thoughts
when they face something difficult or something bothersome, here is the fifth tip how to help your
children strengthening their learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; teaching your children how to emphasize the fun, means, parents teach children how to build creativity through fun, if children keep habit such thing, they will not feel distress while they learn something difficult because they feel happy about that, furthermore, parents can ask to children “did you have fun today”, so your children
will feel cared so much by their parents, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this
article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
