How to help your child staying away from self-indulgent lifestyle





         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “how to help your child staying away from self-indulgent style”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many children are taught by becoming a perfectionist since they reach age 3 years old, they have not been taught by their parents how to make a productive mistake during learning something, that’s why based on statistic, many children around 65% become passive, less creative, less curiosity and less productive after they reach age 5 - 10 years old because many children have been taught by their parents how to possess a self-indulgent lifestyle, at this moment let me share something to you about several tips how to help your children strengthening their learning ability and how to teach them avoid self-indulgent lifestyle, so your children can learn how to survive in this life, here is the first tip how to help your children strengthening their learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; teaching your children how to erase “perfect” in their mind during they are learning something new, help your children how to set daily goal, the reason why we need to learn our children to set daily goal because children are not worry to accept new mistake during learning, at least they will not behave like a perfectionist.


      Here is the second tip how to help your children strengthening their learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; teaching your children not to say “I can’t do this” during learning something, at least children will learn not to hate the failure, besides that, parents acknowledge what children did well after they pass the challenge and parents provide specific feedback for children’s improvement, here is the third tip how to help your children strengthening their learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; parents become an example of someone who’s not perfect to their children, means, parents can share their mistakes to children when children start learning something new, once parents become model of imperfection, children will try to appreciate about progress and patience, if parents keep teaching their children such thing within children's habit, at least children will behave cautious when they meet unwelcome threat, here is the fourth tip how to help your children strengthening their learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; teaching your children recognizing negative thoughts, the reason why parents need to do this because children will learn how to let go self-critical thoughts when they face something difficult or something bothersome, here is the fifth tip how to help your children strengthening their learning ability and stay away from self-indulgent lifestyle; teaching your children how to emphasize the fun, means, parents teach children how to build creativity through fun, if children keep habit such thing, they will not feel distress while they learn something difficult because they feel happy about that, furthermore, parents can ask to children “did you have fun today”, so your children will feel cared so much by their parents, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.