• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

Character in fiction movie? Human can resemble it when they repeat the process

  

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “character in fiction movie? Human can resemble it when they repeat the process”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people love with the fiction character, but in reality, people don’t resemble it, the root of problem why people can’t follow what fiction character leads because they just amaze the character, but they don't try to resemble the learning process, we all know that building a new character is very difficult to do because we need to remove the mental block and build new philosophy where they tend to blockade their intention, as long as people don't take seriously practice by unlearning bad habit, we will never possess new character, here is the best thing we can do if we want to possess a good character, we must amaze it and idolize it, if our character doesn’t resemble with the heroic figure character, at least we don’t create any destruction or we don't harm other people's lives, the reason why people think the fiction character is very attractive because they don't see it in real life, besides that, the fiction character has shown the outstanding player, no wonder people are barely able to see the movie till the end, in order to change character, we need to change our bad philosophy where it doesn’t show a good thing to us, remember this; all characters we have now is consisted of 25% the parental DNA, 25% the influence, 25% personal philosophy and 25% the daily habit.


  we must beware about the influence maker, sometimes influencer has great potential to dictate our major character, if our ideology doesn’t work in reality, it doesn’t matter, what does matterour character must be congruent with the natural law, if our character isn’t congruent with the natural law, we are living like the robotic machine and our character will follow it", if we take a look with the machine setting, every machine has been set by the mechanic designer to follow the command as if the machine were not having new future, before we admire the fiction character, at least we can check whether it offers a good character or not, don’t let the fiction character will manipulate our good personality until we don’t recognize ourselves because not all fiction figure characters are goodremember this advice; don’t just pursue the fiction character because you will never make it, you would better to learn from the fiction character's history and let it inspires you, if the fiction character shows you with moral philosophy, you must repeat the learning process until you will wisein order to deal with new character that you don’t possess; you must know the consequence first before you submit yourself to the character, the best character will come to you when you are busy to prepare your best effort, you don’t need to wait the perfect situation if you want to possess the best character, you just need to know where you put your major attention and where you accumulate your good habit, the universe will show you something differently when you don’t stop learning, good character will chase you when you amaze and idolize person whose good character, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Dreamworld ? you can make it happen if you commit to accomplish

 

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Dreamworld ? you can make it happen if you commit to accomplish”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people consider dreamworld is not good principle to be applied in reality, if we pay attention for it, all good dreams are the biggest reason to every human for pursuing what they are interested in life, there is no impossible to do something magnificent if we intend to prepare for what we are interested, if we look at successful people's history, many of them don't realize that their dreamworld can happen in reality, sometimes the biggest idea comes from the dreamworld which is been tested with something unrealistic, that's the power of belief, everyone has own right to accomplish something, it depends on what they pursue, we will become extraordinary person if we do something where most people don't want to do, here is what most people don’t get in their thinking way; dreamworld is not unrealistic because dreamworld lives in other side of our ignorance, dreamworld will be realized when we attract it by showing our best performance skill, here is what I notice in the real world; if people believe dreamworld is not happening in reality, actually they do not use their power of imagination to maximize their potential to their dreamworld, remember this; everything in life has unrealistic method and realistic method, it depends on how much awareness we can raise from it.

  If we just believe with realistic world only, we will never know what’s unrealistic world looks like, God creates unrealistic method in order to test our conviction whether we believe God's creation or not, if we think the unrealistic method is impossible, we will never see it in reality, but if we determine to challenge us to find the unrealistic method, other people will impress how powerful of dreamworld in their reality, we should not underestimate about the unrealistic method which lies in the dreamworld because there is no limit for Almighty God to manifest what we imagine, that’s important note, sometimes we don’t realize every achievement we get is coming from 85% unrealistic expectation, starting from now, we should raise our awareness about what happen in life by doing some research, sometimes unrealistic expectation is more powerful than realistic expectation because unrealistic expectation lies in human's ignorance, if we only believe and see what the world does for us, our belief will never achieve what we can't see, God has created the belief in order to test human whether they will acknowledge their naturalistic setting or they compare themselves with machine and consider the machine’s setting is better than human’s naturalistic setting, starting from now, we should practice our imagination to believe our unappreciated work and do what others think is difficult, it doesn’t matter whether our work is not appreciated by other people, what does matter is we should realize that there is no unrealistic in life because God can make it happen and He will make all of us shock and regret, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Pain barrier? If you use it to achieve dream, the pain will turn into passion

 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “pain barrier? If you use it to achieve dream, the pain will turn into passion”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people fear about pain barrier, they tend to reject its existence and they prefer to find a job where it offers guarantee and comfortable rather than build a dream project where it offers new reward, new risk, and possibility, the root of problem why most people hate with pain barrier because they possess a mental block which ensures they can’t see new opportunity in certain way, if we take look deeper about the pain, not all pains are offering bad impact, as long as we know about the consequence, we can mandate the pain as the accelerator to change our fear into power, here is what most people don't get with their thinking way; they reject the life system and they accept the education system, if we look at reality, the life system has different with the education system, life will never offer the comfort zone, safe and guarantee to human, but if we learn from the school, we will never be taught how to turn pain into passion, we are just taught how to get good grade and find a secure job, remember this note; if the education system has applied anti-life system to student, there is disaster in the student's future life, do you know why? Because students don’t get any information from the education system how to measure the mental pressure which can come at any time to every student, if the students can’t manage the mental pressure, and eventually many student have got the mental illness.

  Remember; life is talking about personal responsibility, it means, whatever we can choose what we will become in the future, our habit will be shaped naturally to follow what we become, if we think pain barrier is real, we tend to consider pain barrier as enemy, but if we consider life as our best partner, life will guide us how to manifest what we want in reality, here is my suggestion for you; don’t expect life would be easier, it will not work as you expect it, if you keep pushing yourself to do something easier, your mental power will lose its power because you lack of use it for serving a bigger purpose, here is what most people don't get in their thinking way; life is designed not to make everyone happy in temporary, but life is designed to make everyone stronger, if we are stronger than problem we see in reality, we will become happy person because our capacity is bigger than the problem's size, we can't increase our mental capacity if we don't take pain barrier as the ultimate power to unlock our hidden potential, here is the special note; if you think like what most people think, you will end up your history like most people’s fate, but if you don’t do something like what most people think, most people will hate what you do because you are different and higher than their thinking level, here is the good news; the pain barrier will make you happy for everlasting if you commit to your dream even though there is no way how to make your dream in reality, if you don't use pain barrier as your great motivation, you will get the painful regret in the future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Dream follower? Make it as your job


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Dream follower? Make it as your job”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people find a job to fulfill their satisfaction, in fact, there is nothing can fulfill human's satisfaction because it is has no limitation and no explanation, as long as there is no limitation about satisfaction, you don't need to satisfy your satisfaction because your satisfaction will make you disappoint if you end up the process, if you keep fulfilling your satisfaction, you will get stuck between your obsession and your dilemma, you can't be better person if you are stick together with satisfaction, you only can be better person if you work on your dream, do you know why? Because dream will give you a pain barrier which can push your potential until you can't enjoy with the process, your dream will manifest into reality if you solve problem which is connected with your dream, before you want to work for dream, you must know how to lead your obsession and passion to the right direction, if you don’t know where your passion, enthusiasm, mission and obsession are going, you can’t work with your dream because they are the ultimate power which can help you to accelerate your performance skill, I recommend you to teach your children to have dream since they are still childhood, you can teach your children how to commit with their dream, so your children will learn how to take responsibility to what happen in the learning process.

   The reason why you need to build your dream earlier because every dream can help you to unlock your potential, accelerate your enthusiasm, increase your knowledge, strengthen your endurance, maximize your curiosity and prolong your patience, whereas satisfaction will leave you in the comfort zone and make you regret about what you lost, If you can make your dream as your job, you will never feel the pain of working hard anymore because your passion about your dream is bigger than your pain, that’s good news, unfortunately most people don’t consider their dream as the ultimate power, they consider every dream is illusion, not reality, no wonder many people in the world prefer to work until they are 65 years old and they still don't know how to live a life in the meaningful way, if you can notice about the successful people’s story around the world, they tend to work for their dream rather than work for money because they consider dream has the ultimate power to offer emotional healing and dream will work for human more than what people can't do in daily basis, the reason why successful people invest their several years to work for dream because they realize work for money will not make their happy, instead, money will offer them with the painful experience and fleeting satisfaction only, here is the bad news; if we spend our time to pursue money, our credibility and skill will be restricted by money, when money will get inflation, our performance skill is going to decrease its value because money can buy what our skill can't, if this condition becomes habit, we will become the slavery of money and we will be forced to work for money until we die, but if we dedicate to work for dream, our dream will work for us endlessly, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Progressive mindset? Expand your limitation with obsession

Use your obsession to guide your limitation out of the comfort zone


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Progressive mindset? Expand your limitation with obsession” the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people want to expand their limitation, many of them use their limitation as an excuse for not trying something they never know, the root of problem why people don’t want to expand their limitation because they are too loyal with the tradition where it teaches them not to work for bigger purpose, instead the tradition teaches people to use life as comfort as possible, I don't prohibit them if they want to use life as comfort zone, possible, I just want to remind that there is no guarantee which can be offered by the comfort zone because life is getting stronger, bigger and unpredictable, now I have question, what is your opinion if your family’s tradition can't guide you how to create a better future?”, do you still blame the tradition or do you innovate yourself by learning more? remember this; if we are living with our tradition that it doesn’t work together with the life system, our life pattern will not work progressively because our belief opposes the life system, I don’t believe if life is talking about pain only, if this statement is true, life has no meaningful purpose, what I believe is life is unpredictable, uncontrolled and mysterious.

  If we fill our limitation with pain, as result, our lives will be motivated by the pain, but if we fill our limitation with obsession, our talent or skillset will grow because it will keep searching the information to what our spirit needs mostwhen our passion can define what we become in the future, our obsession will command our mind to shape our character, progressive mindset comes from unceasingly study until it can influence our behavior to do something unimaginable, Remember this note if you want to know whether your limitation already expand or not; the pair of eyes are just tool to make you believe the real life is happening now, whereas, the real eye lies in your heart which ensures you to give a direction where you should belong, if you focus on what makes you obsessed, your mind will not get distracted with other object, now I would give you a suggestion; before your eyes catch something attractive, you need to train your heart to feel something painful from every lesson you get from your past experience or other people's experience, sometimes your pain will help you to stop contracting with people who have narrow minded mindset, all you need to do right now is how to allocate your obsession to the problem you need to solve, the more you obsess something magnificent, the more you can expand your limitation, if your obsession and strong enthusiasm to problem is bigger than your fear, your life starts changing rapidly, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Adjustment disorder with depressed mood? Surround yourself with positivism


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Adjustment disorder with depressed mood? Surround yourself with positivism”  the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don't realize that depressed mood is caused by the misuse of imagination usage, people prefer to focus their weaknesses rather than focus on what they can accomplish in the future, in normal life, it is very easy to talk about positive word and optimistic feeling, but this ideal solution often gets rejection about the mediocre people because they consider positive word and optimistic feeling is illusion and absurd, in my opinion; depressed people tend to visualize the pain of negative feeling is widen than the power of hope, there is only thing people can do if they feel depressed mood is they write down about all positive thing they earned on the paper sheet and visualize how blessed they are today, this strategy often works because it can help people to distract their power of focus to the source of positive feeling, remember; there is no certain way to predict what we will need in the future, but God knows what we will need in the future, positivism is the power how to stop producing depressed mood and it helps us to meet with our obsession in the future, here is the important thing we need to do; pursue what attracts our heart and not to focus what attracts our eyes, if our pursuit of positivism is greater than what we see, our eyes will not contract with negativity.

 

 Remember this philosophy; it doesn’t matter where the wind blows, as long as we set our sail correctly, our sailboat will always move forward to the right direction, it’s life challenge, the meaning of that philosophy; it doesn't matter whether depressed mood and negativity approaches us in any shape, as long as we focus on positivism, our lives keeps moving forward, there is nothing can stop what causes depressed mood, if we transfer our energy in there, we will get it soon, don’t let our most days will let us regret and push us to embrace negativity, depressed mood is always be there even though we don’t intend to feel it, if we want to live with positivism, we must change our approach, for example; we set the reward and the punishment to control what we do in our daily basis, if we apply that method, at least our imagination will not visualize what we are not supposed to do, here is the first rule you must set in your belief if you want to stay away from depressed mood; "accept what you can't change and approach the possibility of what you can", it means; you don't hate about reality, you use reality as a stepping stone to reach something higher than your recent standard, that's important, if you push your limit to deal with reality that you can't change, the result will disappoint you and make you feel depressed, that's simple, here is the second rule you must set in your belief if you want to stay away from depressed mood; "your imagination must be filled with inspiration, knowledge, and wisdom", here is the last note you need to remember; you must approach with the truth if you want to get surrounded by positivism because the truth can't be manipulated by human's capability, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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F33.1 code for Mental disorder ? use your self-esteem to change your loss of interest


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “f33.1 code for Mental disorder ? use your self-esteem to change your loss of interest”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people lose their self-esteem and their own interest every time they meet with new problem from this life, most people consider the main cause of losing their own interest is caused by the mental pressure, in fact, the problem is not coming from people's intellectual capacity, it is coming from the wrong focus usage, most people use their focus on their weaknesses and limitation only, in my opinion; what people notice is facing their shadow of fear, not the problem in actual size, remember; the greatest fear comes from the comfort zone and the comfort zone creates the painful regret, if we let people grow their fearfulness through the comfort zone, they will lose their own interest anyway, let me share to you, basically people's mental disorder are caused by two things, the number one is self-doubt, the number two is the fear of uncertainty, two things are part of mental development disruption which can change people’s mood and change people’s belief, remember this; F33.1 code is sign that someone lacks of information how to serve great thing in life and most people are educated by their teachers to use learning disability to believe that fear is real, I myself don't think fear is real because fear is part of unaware, so fear is an illusion, what are you side? Do you believe fear is real or illusion? If you focus on your self-esteem and you develop it, you will not get your own fear, starting from now, don't use your logical thinking to analyze where your fear comes because fear is normal reaction when you know nothing about the object.

  All you need to do if your fear grows rapidly is increase your capacity by working on your interest more often and evaluate when you associate with your social circle, sometimes the quality of social circle will influence your circumstance, don't let toxic friends will manipulate your fear, your fear will end by itself if you know where you use your focus on the right thing, every human is unique creature, we are God’s highest form of creation, f33.1 code can’t measure what will happen to human’s mental capability, in order to sharp people's self-esteem, they need to know what causes they lose their interest, basically what make people feel peace is determined by the type of interest they love, if type of interest can make people can't escape from bad habit, it means, they need to leave their own interest and start to find new interest where it can increase people's self-esteem, please take a note; your self-esteem is the weapon how to deflate your mental pressure, if your habit can increase self-esteem, your chance to increase your self-esteem is very high, let the time proceeds what you start, don’t try to interfere what life works for you, your main job is start what you believe and deliver what you publish to life, whatever you nurture is growing, such as your talent, enthusiasm and focus, if you nurture your self-esteem with fear or self-doubt, unknowingly you will ruin your focus, please don’t let it happens, here is my special note; focus on what you possibly can, not what you think is capable of handling, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Uncertainty? Do what makes you think is possible to be done


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “uncertainty? Do what makes you think is possible to be done”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people are ready to face the uncertainty and most of them are educated by their teachers to believe with the certainty of promising rather than prepare what they need to do in life’s uncertainty, what I view the world; some people prefer to do what they think is easier, some people reject a new task because they hate with more risk and more complex, and some people are enthusiastic by doing what they love, I just want to remind you, before you fear with life’s uncertainty, you need to know what are you obsessed and what you fear most, if you know about what your obsession, you will not fear about life's uncertainty anymore because you enjoy the process and you will not worry whether you make mistake or notonly person who has insatiable curiosity can do what he thinks is possible to be done because his mind is driven with the learning curve and his vision is larger than his fearfulness, please beware of having a fixed mindset because it can influence person to do something mediocre and narrow minded person usually do something with the guarantee system.

  In my opinion; we don’t need to judge whether life is hard or not, whether life is easy or hard, it is based our interpretation, sometimes the hardest lesson to learn are the ones our spirit needs most, everything we receive something from life is determined by our capacity to interpret what life means, life doesn’t ask to us by looking at our mistake story, but life demands us to be the qualified person in every single day because life itself is a test, we all are destined to be apprentice in the life’s race, our job is not enjoying the painful experience, but how we step the pedal of enthusiasm and commitment to make some contributions to the future, if we can serve something bigger than our fear about uncertainty, there is nothing impossible, we are on earth not just take something for our living, but how we add something for other people's lives, if we just take something from life without knowing our capacity first, we will get trampled to death by our fearfulness, if we contribute what we can do to life, our capacity will grow and it will affect to what we think, what we decide and what we perceive from this life, please don’t fear with uncertainty, we should fear when we don’t challenge ourselves to be qualified person because we will never know whether our capacity is ready or not to face uncertainty, all we can do is plan, observe, execute, learn and evaluate about what we have done, if we are rich, it is caused by our contribution is larger than our fearfulness about uncertainty, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Wound healing? Find your greatest potential to heal your wound


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “wound healing? Find your greatest potential to heal your wound”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get mental pain easily when they look for the job where it just offers the satisfaction, some people believe every wound they get can be healed with money from the the place they work for, here is the reason that people don't understand; the more satisfaction people get, the pain of fear will grow up at the same time, do you know why it must be happening? Because "fear equals with satisfaction", the more people pursue satisfaction, the more people grow their own fearfulness, the less people pursue expectation, the more people build self-assurance and awareness, the common mistake that people do; they try to suit themselves with money they get, if this situation becomes habit, people get get more wound because money try to steal their greatest potential and money will add their wound, remember this; wound can’t be healed by money because every wound comes from self-ignorance and ego, if people can unleash their greatest potential for achieving higher purpose, their self-assurance will heal their mental pain and increase their dignity, the more people serve something for bigger purpose, the more people get wound healing, here is the special note; wound healing comes from having a bigger capacity to endure the mental pain.

 

  Remember this note; there is always new pain will be offered by life because life doesn’t offer the perfect place to stay, life isn’t like watching the circus or playing in the kindergarten, life is like a zoo in a jungle, the more you go far away from your comfort zone, the more you will find something unpleasant because your capacity will not be treated very well, if you aren’t ready to see unpredictable thing, the more you get wound every time you go afar, you must be ready with your potential at any time because the wound is everywhere, the reason why most people get wound easily because they position themselves like a spoiled child who will receive something instant and easier to get from this life, now I will encourage you how to get wound healing, here is the main duty you must do if you want to get pursued by wound healing; don’t expect anything from this life, just do your best for increasing your capacity because the greatest wound comes from too much expectation to others and have the unprepared mental state to notice uncertainty, I would suggest you to have big dream, the reason why you must have big dream because it will push you to do something bigger than your vision, your action will enlarge your capacity, if your capacity grows, you will not taste wound anymore because you are stronger than the wound, here is philosophy you need to believe; if you expect anything in this life, you will be a weaker person because you don’t optimize your own potential, if you don’t expect anything from this life, you will deserve to get more than you have because the law of universe works based on your long term preparation, everything great comes from within, not outside, if you feel pain and feel uncomfortable now. it means you are in the middle of learning process, when your capacity grows faster, as result your conviction will heal your wound, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
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My life is sad? The source of problem lies in wrong focus usage


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “My life is sad? The source of problem lies in wrong focus usage”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can master their focus, the root of problem why people feel sad easily because they overuse their focus to the wrong area that they aren't interested with it and they keep doing what makes themselves less significant in the near future, such as they worry too much about the end result, if you really care about your life, don’t concern about the area that you can't control, but you should concern about what you want to develop in the near future, remember this note; your life is the product between what you decide, what you focus and reality that you have shaped in your imagination and habit, if you want to change your reality, you must change the direction of your focus to the different destination where it offers you a peace and calm, if you can direct your focus to the peace area, the circumstance will put you to the different situation where you can think differently rather than you are living in the certain area because your brain system hasn’t touched with the different situation that you haven’t made it yet, if you feel doubt about this strategy, you can apply it by changing someone’s emotional state, you can teach him how to change the direction of his focus by visualizing his bigger focus to the new destination where he wants to develop in the future.

  Now here is the first strategy you can do if you want to change your focus from being sad; you must realize about the consequence first before you want to do something you never try, in order to know more about the consequence, you need to spend your time by learning the past history where it told you about people who made an unsuccessful story and people who made successful story in their lives, you can replicate the method which in accordance with your circumstances, remember this; if you want to know whether your life is changing or not, you must look at your circumstance, if you feel calmer after you have completed something, that’s sign that you succeed to change your focus, to live longer in the future, you must compete against what you desire and what you fear most, you must control the area that you can observe in there and don't let the uncontrolled area will enter to your control area, if the area that you can control can offer you a peace, you can continue it because there is nothing can represent a peace unless you treat yourself better with right focus usage, your life pattern will be changed into different reality when you stop doing what makes you feel less insignificant, here is the second strategy you can do if you want to change your focus from being sad; stop pursuing what makes you worried and do what makes yourself is blessed today, it means, you need to focus what you can and explore what your greatest curious leads your action, this strategy is purposed to help you how to stop producing a deep sadness symptoms, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Anger doesn’t solve anything but it can destroy everything


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Anger doesn’t solve anything but it can destroy everything”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can control their anger, the root of problem why not everyone can control their anger because they don’t know what's the effect and the cause after the anger has appeared in reality, if we review a bit about the power of anger, it is like a raging fire where it tries to destroy many areas around us, such as reputation, family’s connection, friendship, personal development, and inner peace, the power of anger consist of hate 95% and insecure 5%, after I research long time ago about anger, there are two things which causes people get angry easily, the first cause why people get angry is being perfectionist, the second cause is self-ignorance, the reason why being perfectionist can get someone angry easily because he tends to be conservative with his own conviction and he is afraid to accept bigger conviction than what he believes, besides that, having huge ignorance has high harm potential can make someone loses his dignity, and integrity, I don't recommend you to become perfectionist because you will not find something miraculously if you keep believing that conviction, now let me explain about the reason why many people prefer to become perfectionist than become a progressive because they think being perfectionist get many opportunities, such less risk, less difficult, and full of certainty, whereas, being a progressive must be willing to deal with an unpleasant experience, such as more risk, more difficult, and more uncertainty, remember; we don’t need to build perfectionism because it opposes with the natural law, if people don’t want to follow the natural law, they will struggle for  their meaningless purpose.

  Here is my suggestion; please don’t let your circumstance manipulates your mind and don't try to push what you can't by doing something you don’t deserve to get, if you don’t pursue what you intend to do with your deepest heart, you will get disappointed with result and every result will get you angry, the main reason why angry people can't solve problem because their rational mind has been shut with his conservative belief, remember this; angry people have been motivated by their incorrigible and fixed mindset, if their own philosophy can’t match with what life wants, they will be disappointed by what life shows something and eventually they will get angry about the outcome, don’t ever think the law of universe will follow human philosophy as long as people still keep because the law of universe can represent what God wants, if our belief hasn't opposed with some several laws of universe, we will get inspired by what we do in daily basis and we will not get angry easily about the result will follow what the natural law does for us, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Depression is real? As long as you commit with depression state, it works

  

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “depression is real? As long as you commit with depression state, it works” the main reason why I choose that topic because people believe depression is going to happen when they can’t find something miraculously, if we take a look in reality, there are many ways how to find something miraculously, such as, when we can pass the difficult problem, we don't die when we got the car accident, we can fulfill a long term goal, those are the miracle where most people don't notice iteverything in this life is miracle, only ungrateful people who can't interpret what life looks like, depression is a state of mind which it ensures people can't adapt with changing environment, basically there is no environment can kill human's mind because the space of mind is unimaginable, the main problem why people are in depression state because they lack of self awareness towards the truth and they underachieve what they can contribute to this life, our main duty as human being is not to demand the environment to support us, but how we can increase our capacity to endure the pain which it created by unexpected environment, do you know why the environment gives us the pain because the life journey is full of uncertainty, every environment is prepared and designed by God to teach human how to become stronger, wiser, and humbler,  remember this note; the human’s brain is having adaptive capability to deal with new environment, we shouldn’t worry about the outer environment because it will not force us to do what it wants as long as we commit with our life mission and good philosophy.


   At this moment I would like to share several strategies how to make depression state will not work in reality, here is the first strategy how to make depression state is unrealistic; don't overlook reality, only focus to what makes your life is worthwhile at present, it means, your focus becomes your salvation if you don't let your focus will be interrupted by reality, you must stay faith with your mission even though there are many temptations around you, your focus is very important because it can accommodate the infinite power to choose what is your future looks like, if you focus on what you hate, the circumstance will create the situation to make you hate with it, if you focus on your life mission although you are surrounded by the unsupported environment, you will win over the circumstance and you will not get a depression state because you can master of your focus, that’s the critical point you need to ponder it, do you know what the difference between successful people an unsuccessful people? it is focus usage, unsuccessful people too focus on what they see in their circumstance until they can’t use their big vision to manifest their long term goal into reality, whereas, successful people keep focusing on their long term goal although their circumstance tries to stop their intention, conviction and dream, the reason why depressed people can’t feel better because they use their power of focus to push their limitation for dealing with their circumstance, here is the second strategy how to make depression state is unrealistic; don’t use your power of focus to pursue the luck, the reason why you must stop focusing on the luck because it can’t be controlled by the human’s capability, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Wound care specialist? Don’t wait to heal, just cover it up with awareness

     

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “wound care specialist? Don’t wait to heal, just cover it up with awareness”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willing to be wound care specialist in real life, if we take a look in reality, we are surrounded by something unpleasant or something irritated to our feeling, such as bad influence, there is no single human can escape from bad influence because this world is accommodating type of human who have different commitment, different purpose and different confidence, the reason why we should become a wound care specialist for ourselves because there is no single human will take responsible for our emotional healing, we must protect our mind from a bad influence which may give us a mental disorder by increasing self-awareness with knowledge, now I will give you different perspective idea about a wound, what I believe is every wound has taught human how to get us stronger and wiser because every size of wound is predestined by Almighty God before the human is aliveno matter how smart we are by avoiding the wound, sooner or later we will get a wound because the purpose of wound is diminishing our self ignorance and ego, in order to live peacefully we need to gather the valuable information where it can shows us higher perception about woundthe root of problem why people get wound easily during building new relationship with others because every human has different standard of living and we are not educated to adapt with perception differential, most of the time wound often happens in our lives because we lack of awareness to block its existence.

 

  The wound would dangle on our shadows as long as we regret and reject that wound without knowing how to encounter it, we don’t need to regret when wound has happened in our lives because every wound came because we don't prepare our skill to encounter itwhat we need to do right now is don’t let every wound we received in the past recurred again and build something to increase self-awareness, remember this advice; all wounds, all unpleasant experience, all what we feel, all what we see and everything we got in the past are being determined by our present interpretation, in order to define what you become in the future, you must use your perception to change the wound as the self-protection shield to block far worse wound, so your attitude is stake to answer your doubt and fear, only your good attitude can change the situation and increase self-awareness, whereas, bad attitude can make you stuck between dilemma and reality, here is the first strategy how to be wound care specialist; you must let your past lives peacefully in the past and don’t ever try to touch it, or remind it, or regret it, the reason why you need to apply this strategy because you are standing between life’s uncertainty and your destiny, if you embrace the life’s uncertainty, your emotion will attract negativity because you are doing out of your ability to control, your main job now is how to submit your message to the universe about what your faith does for you and about what your vision does for you, here is the second strategy how to be wound care specialist; treat your wound nicely as if you were welcoming VIP guest, it means, whatever you feel about your wound, don’t use your emotion to judge, but use your faith to interpret what God does to you, remember; there is no useless wound because every wound can increase your wisdom, awareness and mental age, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

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Mdd symptoms? Get out of the comfort zone


 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “mdd (major depressive disorder) symptoms? Get out of the comfort zone”, the main reason why I choose that topic because mdd symptoms often attack people's lives when they feel lonely and they don't find any information that can work for healing their mdd symptoms, I just want to remind you that mdd symptoms starts working when people encircle themselves with people whose disruptive influence, this is phenomenal case when it is happening when people already commit with it, in my opinion; before you are willing to believe with newcomers, you have to know who they are and what they are capable of, don't just believe someone who can't sell their commitment and integrity, most of the time mdd symptoms shows when someone is relying too much on what other people say until he feels inferior, in fact, nobody is perfect, good people will not make you feel inferior, instead he makes you feel superior, that's simple, if you meet someone who just offers you a sensational comfort state, you must beware because future is always mysterious, he will create mdd symptoms for youin order to leave the comfort zone, we must take risk by leaving the comfort zone and challenging ourselves to do something bigger than our vision because the comfort zone has a high potential to attract the dark side of life, such as regret, anxiety, depression, anger, starting from today, we need to find something or someone where they can make us feel superior, so we can have a great enthusiasm to continue our life journey with deep sense of gratitude.

 Now I have question for you; if there is someone around you is showing you a response like having mdd symptoms? What will you do then? If you want to reject his mdd symptoms, you must have strong vision where it is wider than mdd symptoms, as long as your vision is unable to reject mdd symptoms, you will feel mdd symptoms. in my opinion; in order to know your state of mind, you have to know your biggest vision, if your vision can recognize your own pain until you accept it wholeheartedly, you will not receive other people’s mdd symptom, that’s situation where you need to know in advance, now I have question for you, “do you know where does exactly mdd symptoms come”?, it comes from self-ignorance and lack of curiosity towards the truth, let me give you illustration "the  dark and the light" in order to comprehend where mdd symptoms comes, if you see and live in the dark place, what is your first response? If you say to me "the dark room treats me like a gloomy day", it represents mdd symptoms and your mdd symptoms is bigger than your vision, but if you say to me "the dark room is very challenging and it makes me enthusiast to do something", it represents your mental age is stronger than your mdd symptoms, remember; vision is like having the light within soul and every human has possibility to endure mdd symptoms, in order to avoid mdd symptoms, they must know how big their power of vision and their daily activity can increase their mental age, that's it, the main cause of mdd symptom mostly depends on human's misinterpretation level towards the truth, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
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Helping someone with depression? You can do it if you are in good mood state


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “helping someone with depression? You can do it if you are in good mood state”, the meaning of the topic is when you find someone else with depression, don't add with your bad mood, if you want to help him to heal his depression state, you need to make your mood is in good state, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can master the focus of attention, if we take a look in human’s habit who live in urban and rural areas, most of them prefer to visit the public place without having clear purpose by going there, they just want to associate with noisy people and they buy something that they don't really need in urgent case, if this situation becomes a daily ritual, do you know what will happen in the next phase? People will suffer mdd (major depressive disorder) because people’s mindset has been surrounded by the sensational comfort state where there is the combination between noisy people, emotional stress, same quantity of problem and crowded place, this is part of the common mental illness which often attacks people who are encircling themselves with something which doesn't offer emotional healing, remember this; our time is limited 24 hours, we can't sell our time just for temporary comfort, we must sell our time to get inner peace, that's goal, our good mood state can lose its strength if we spend too much time with people who love something where it attracts short term sensational, this is phenomenal where it happens to people who live in urban life because they assume all materials are good to be collected and to be owned temporarily, but it can't fix their emotional needs, I will add new special note; the human's emotional needs can't be fixed with worldly stuff, it can only be fixed by consuming the information where it offers self-awareness and inner peace.


  Now I understand why to help someone else who suffers depression state is not easy because we need to be a good role model for him, our positive impact vibration must be higher than what he is capable of, the only thing we can do is serve our goodness to others and teach them how to stop consuming the sensational comfort state, if we don’t practice how to inspire more than we usually do, we will get connected with someone who has depression state, here is the first thing we can do if we want to keep ourselves in good mood state; we don’t consume the information where it can’t teach us how to feel positive about our lives, the reason why we must do that because not all kind of information can’t serve good influence, some information just show us a sensational story which may treat us with emotional stress, remember this note; if we commit to consume the information where it offers the sensational comfort state, our emotion unintentionally commits that we are going to be someone who will suffer in depression statehere is the second thing we can do if we want to keep ourselves in good mood state; we train our focus not to stay longer in the past, the reason why we must do that because the past time is no longer available with us and also the past offers the invalid time, if we insist to hold back something which had already gone, our soul would feel insecure, depression because our present time is not congruent with the past time’s condition, if you want to stay in good mood state, you must know that the past time already worked and it becomes a concrete evidence to our lives, we can't step back, whatever we receive something from God, we deserve it, remember this; the past time already entered into the darkest room and it had been sealed forever by God, if we focus our life mission by looking forward, we will marry with future and we will lives into peace state, but if we focus too much about the past, we will never be able to focus what lies ahead, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Major depressive disorder (mdd) diagnosis? Don’t do something bigger than mental age

  

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “mdd diagnosis? Don’t do something bigger than mental age”, the main reason why I choose that topic because there are many people push their limitation by doing something bigger and too risky within their life journey, at this case, I don’t recommend if people keep pushing themselves to do something bigger than mental age because every human has limitation, what we need to do is not breaking our limitation, but how we use limitation to sharp our focus, so we can maximize our biggest potential and we can perform our expertise for the next progress, unfortunately most people too brave enough to break their own limitation, as impact, they suffer mdd (major depressive disorder), here is the important note; “no matter how great our willingness to complete our goal, if we don’t increase our mental age first, the result will be showing the meaningless and disappointed”, instead, our goal will destroy our mental health and our goal will make us feel mdd (major depressive disorder), remember this note; every human has been granted with different mental age, the function of mental age is to measure how capability of someone to take responsibility, and human’s mental age will never grow until human will do something progressively, not to do something bigger than their own mental age, if someone wants to increase his mental age, he must change his paradigm where it controls habit and thought by doing something challenging and full of progression, just because human’s age increases every year, it doesn’t mean human’s mental age will increase every year, please remember that.

 

  The reason why we are not allowed to do something bigger than our mental age because we will face the life's uncertainty which it offers unimaginable picture, unpredictable result and uncontrollable journey, we will never be able to predict what will happen in the future, but our habit and paradigm will show us something we need to complete before our commitment will remain in reality, remember; we can’t reach the universe's limitation even though we live on earth over 100 years, that's logical way to realize us that we must know our limitation, basically the limitation is designed by Almighty God to measure how strong the human’s mental age during human will face the life’s tough challenge in daily basis, so we shouldn't break God's decision if we want to live in peace, at this moment let me share how to avoid mdd (major depressive disorder), here is the first tip you must do if you want to know how to avoid mdd; use your power of focus to measure your capability towards the accomplishment that you will complete, it means, you must become the master of focus, that's the key, in order to reveal what you can is how to manage your focus, not how to manage a big goal, as long as you can allocate your time, focus and your preparation in certain way, you will complete your goal, here is the second tip you must do if you want to know how to avoid mdd; monitor your progressive execution and don’t buy something if it can’t be exchanged with your competence, it means, you have to ensure your heart must be harmony with your target, if your target makes your heart is popping rapidly, you will suffer mdd soon, that's analysis you can keep it as your reference, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Surviving with antidepressants or get inner peace?

 


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “surviving with antidepressants or get inner peace”, the main reason why I choose that topic because there are many people rely on the antidepressant's consumption rather than having enthusiasm to learn how to practice deep meditation for getting inner peace, we all know that depression is not coming in sudden, but it is attracted by our attention, so depression is sign that people lack of enthusiasm and it is caused by self-ignorance, in order to increase a sense of enthusiasm, people must have a clear goal where it can make them feel obsessed about it, that’s the first requirement that people must get it, in my opinion; having a clear goal can separate us between dilemma and reality, so you must have a clear goal until you are obsessed about itthere are three important things in life where they have an important role to change the human’s destiny; focus, faith and enthusiasm, if you lose one of them, you will lose your inner strength and also you will lose self-restraint, if you want to avoid depression symptoms, you must fill your imagination with your daily ritual where it connects between you and what you become, please beware about your daily ritual because it can determine whether your emotion state is okay or notif your life architecture can’t offer you inner peace, you will be trapped in depression state.

 

  If we talk about inner peace, it has related with emotional healing, we will get emotional healing when we commit to associate with the natural law because only nature can fulfill human’s emotional need, remember; antidepressant drug can’t make people survive for longer time during facing the pain of anxiety, antidepressant drug just makes people get addicted to what they feel currently, the only way how to reduce depression is you must get out from the pollutant source, you increase your capacity through showing your deepest gratitude, apply the natural law in reality, enhance your philosophy and be curious about your life mission, let me clarify one statement to you; stress, anxiety, irritation, depression and anger can temporarily cloud the human’s mind, but they never pollute the human mind’s content, it means, there is nothing can harm your life except you are allowing it happen, as long as you don’t focus on stress, anxiety, anger, irritation, depression, they will never happen in your reality, starting from now, please clean your mind by focusing on your limitation, but don’t let your limitation clouds your focus during you are manifesting your dream into reality, here is the last note; if you master your focus, your inner peace can happen at any time, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Sad Symptoms? Stop hurting yourself from uninspiring words

  

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “sad symptoms? Stop hurting yourself from uninspiring words”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can recognize sad symptoms, if we take a look some areas in this world, there are many bad influences happen in this world and the most bad influences often have been promoted by the newspaper, TV and the media, they race to change the situation and convince people to believe that gossip, hoax, celebrity’s private life are good information for them, here is what people don't notice; when the worthless information is consumed by people’s mind every day, the people's mindset tends to follow the worthless information's vibration, do you know what happen when people consume worthless information? people start to think negatively automatically every time they face a new problem or unpleasant moment in their own life, that's sad symptoms will born in reality, do you know why it must happen? because the medias, newspaper and TV have programmed people’s mindset with the sensation information they produced, remember this note; “the dangerous information tends to attract human’s emotion with sensation and increase the human’s emotional outburst”, if you feel the information you found is having no good sign for making you contemplated about your life, you must beware because that’s information offers negativity, in my suggestion; you must discard the news which contents negativity because that information will implant into your mind, if you continue consuming that information, your subconscious mind will give you a sad symptoms and you will get panic every time you get serious problem.

 

  Here is what people don’t recognize about the power of information; “every information has the power to manipulate human’s mindset and habit, negative information has capability to increase human’s emotional issues, whereas, positive information has capability to increase human’s productivity and creativity” starting from now, you must be selective when you consume the information because what you think determines what you become in the future, if you feel sad every time you get unpleasant experience, it means, you deliberately mess your life by consuming negative information which has been served by the medias, TV or newspaper, at this moment let me share how to stop hurting yourself from the bad influence, here is the first strategy how to stop hurting yourself from bad influence; don’t spend your major time to talk with friends who can’t serve you with useful information or the inspiring words, that’s important note, five people around us has a high potential to dictate what happen in our future because we are the product of average of five people we spend most time with, here is the second strategy how to stop hurting yourself from bad influence; charge your mind with book or inspirational story before you sleep at night, the reason why you must do that because the useful book will give you an inspiring words, when the power of your focus grows because of the inspiring words, you will be forgotten by the negative information which can make you sad, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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I am sad or did I make my life being humiliated by what I have done?


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “I am sad or did I make my life being humiliated by what I have done?”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people can accept their own reality, they consider every reality of life comes from God, but in the fact, “every reality is created by what people consume about information they have chosen”, there is no big reason to blame life because every human is granted with the power to choose whatever they become, we will never know what we become in the future, but our decision truly determines what we are going to be, either being happy person or sad person, remember; every word has the power to influence the quality of what we think, if we used to talk with inspirational words, we will receive the power from what we usually talk, but if we used to talk with the uninspiring words, our reality of life will feel humiliated, we get dilemma in our reality not because of the outer world, but it is caused by the power of uninspiring words, at this moment, I am going to explain about several factors which influences our reality of life, hopefully these strategies can help you to improve your inner world, here is the first factor which influences our reality of life; the quality of information we consume from the social circle, it means, we must know the capability of social circle whether it can inspire us or not, as long as our social circle can’t serve what our emotional needs, we must leave that social circle peacefully. 

 

  Here is the second factor which influences our reality of life; the family tradition, at this phase we must observe carefully about what the family tradition teaches us because not all family traditions can teach us how to be someone we mean to be, it means, the family tradition sometimes tries to protect our future through following the daily ritual, please beware about it, I don’t mean to insult when the family tradition teaches us about the religion teachings or moral philosophy, the problem I mean is "the family tradition pushes us to be loyal and extremely conservative with the tradition's rule where it prohibits us not to do something bigger than what family tradition usually does in life", if we take a look a bit about the family's lifestyle, sometimes the family tradition tries to prohibit our habit and it teaches us to be follower, not leader, do you know why the family tradition often rejects new influence from other people’s belief in life? because they are too complacent about the ancestor’s teachings and they are afraid a new belief can destroy the family tradition, here is the third factor which influences our reality of life; personal philosophy, remember that every human has personal philosophy, whether they want to be happy, sad, rich, poor, wise, all circumstances they have created so far from personal philosophy, if we are feeling sad or disappoint about our reality, it means, we are too loyal about personal philosophy where it blocks our mind, heart, soul to learn something from this life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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