• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

Are you focused on what’s there in your life or are you focused on what’s missing?




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “are you focused on what’s there in your life or are you focused on what’s missing”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people start to give up when they realize there is something missing around them, they too obsess about result but they don't concern at all about what's life purpose, most people forget life is not always talking about what people expect, but life is talking about the all requirements you have fulfilled and what you deserve about this life, if you aren't fulfilling what today requires from you, you passed away, please don't stay complacent for too long when you are living on earth because life always demands what is the most outstanding of you, the reason why you are still living on earth because you are being needed to fulfill the requirement from what future wants from you, please focus on what's there in you, not focus on what’s missing, if you focus what's missing on you, you unknowingly curse your own future, here is the note; when someone just focuses on what’s missing, he always blame to what’s already there, we must limit our focus to the detail area if we want to learn more about our life journey, if we focus on what’s missing, as result we will never be grateful about what we got, please don’t put your inner happiness on what’s missing, but put your happiness what life gives you, so if you put your happiness to what’s there for you, your passion of learning will teach you how to design your future and your dream will not give up on you.


        The more you focus on what’s missing, the more your mind will be looking for uncertain answer, please don’t let your mind will be hanging with what you don't deserve to get, you will not get happy, If you want to get something you never had, you have to leave something you no longer needed it, such as your past memory, your ego, your failure, people’s comment, your old achievement, your past reputation, etc. Please don’t hurt your focus by using it for attracting the past moment  to what you are doing today, however, your past couldn’t be retained and it could be gone forever, the more you seek something in your past, the more you lose your vision about your future, the power of focus is like the laser gun, it will be useful when it is being shot to the main target area, so you need to prioritize which area will be shot by using your focus, so please don’t focus on what’s missing, but focus on what’s there for you, such as your knowledge, your talent, your family, your health, your good friend, etc. here is the good news; if you focus on what’s there in your life today, your vision will draw the image about what you deserve more in your future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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The biggest hindrance to learning is thinking that you already know



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “the biggest hindrance to learning is thinking that you already know”, the meaning of that statement is thinking about what you already know is part of regression, so you don’t need to repeat what you already got because this condition keeps you living in the state of unhappiness if you repeat it, remember this note; information is limitless, we mustn't limit ourselves by stop learning, we must be ready with our knowledge at any time because life is going to test our knowledge at any time, we don't need to know what's the future looks alike because we are not entitled to make it, what we need to do is how to impress the future with our preparation and how to make the future wants us to get the unimaginable rewardin my opinion; use our power of curiosity to increase knowledge is wise decision, but if I review from the society’s life, not many people spend their time to increase their knowledge because their attention is intrigued with comfort zone and comforting lies, if someone knew about the comfort zone’s bad effect in long time ago, they must have avoided it by now, but unfortunately not everyone deserves to get the truth because they reject to accept new perspective of idea about the truth, as result the truth makes them blind in their ignorance, remember this note; what they ignore becomes the amount of pain they will taste in the future.


        God doesn’t demand you to succeed to what you are doing, God just demands you to keep trying, stay committed, stay focused and stay determined about what you do for your future, don’t break your focus by thinking about the mistake you make because every successful people have used all mistakes to prevent them for making worse decision for the future, besides that, don’t stay perfection because you will lose your significant value in your life, every mistake is just proven system to explain what you are trying to approach your progress of learning, when you focus how to empower your creativity and empower your passion, you definitely need mistakes, all efforts including mistakes you create automatically will drive you to make closer to your goal and your progress of learning will keep you staying away from the frustrations, there is no bad or good about hindrance, it depends on your perspective of idea, sometimes little hindrance helps you to stay motivated to pursue your life purpose, if there is no hindrance and challenge, your capacity will not get stronger and biggerdon’t allow what you can’t do will interfere what you can do, if you can focus on what you can’t do, it will create new hindrance for you and it will stop you delivering the value for your beloved people or the customer, if you want to get appreciation from the future, treat every people around you like the customer who needs your assistance, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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The most usefulness cup is in its emptiness




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “the most usefulness cup is in its emptiness”, the meaning of that statement above is the human’s potential will be ready to serve what they need when people already empty their ego, forget about the past and stay humble, the main reason why we must do that because knowledge will be meaningless when our negative emotion fuels up our consciousness mind, we can't accept something bigger than our standards,  so whatever you are in the situation, you have to empty your cup because it’s requirement how to get new knowledge, new experience and new expertise, I know everybody has ever hurt with the past memory, but if we allow it happened, we will lose our vision to design the future, the main cause why people's mentality get easily hurt unwittingly because they were too obsessed about their past achievement, the past reputation, and the past bad experiencehere is the key; if people hone their focus by doing something they never did, they are going to live into the significant thing over living into being perfectionist, now you can choose, whether you want your life is like the spectacle or you want to become spectator?, if you want to be spectator, you don't need to do something new and enjoy your life with your perfectionismif you want your life is like a spectacle, you must live fully with your own game and you just need to ensure the game you play with is going to create serenity for other people’s life history.

         Sometimes being someone who gets criticized by the unknown people will hurt his mental, but if he doesn’t do something he doesn’t know, he never know what’s the next chapter of life he will live into it, being emptiness is like being an empty cup, if people have an empty cup's habit, this habit will educate people how to create new creativity, new wisdom and new mindset, don’t ever think being emptiness is like being stupid person, no, it’s totally wrong, being emptiness, means, people must not trust about their past memory because every day is an opportunity to adapt with new demand from life's challenge, remember this note; your future is not determined by how many years you have good experience, but your future is determined by how much amount of experience you put in your years, if you are investing good thing right now, it will be returned to your future, whereas, if you are investing bad thing right now, it will be returned to your future, life is very fair enough, but unfortunately many people don’t realize about the power of emptiness, the reason why people's life journey will never change because they don't want to empty their ego to invest something different into their knowledge, that's consequence  I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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The biggest regrets people have in life




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “the biggest regrets people have in life”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people are not aware about their biggest regrets in life, the reason why people are unable to realize about their biggest regrets because they prefer to choose something easier to be done and they do what 's unimportant thing to do, most people forget that the truth says "life doesn't get easier from time to time and reality is part of God's answer", if you feel your effort doesn't satisfy yourself, you need to work harder than what you do in the job, in this article I would like to share how to recognize the biggest regret to what most people have in life, here is the first regret what most people have in lifeold people didn't show their dedication to the job they have picked when they were still youngwhen the time flew away, they regretted not to start something like what young people do, now their physical strength and their passion of learning can’t support what they want to do, here is conclusion; their comfort zone equals with their income zone, when their income doesn't satisfy their lifestyle, means, they have to break their ignorance and accept the challenge from the truth, in my opinion, those people who underestimate about the time journey, their passion of learning will be decreasing as much as the time people waste it, remember this note; time will never go back, act of waiting for new change is the sign of desperation, please don’t blame what we already got because everything we receive now comes from what we have given in the past.

He lost his life journey because he didn't spend his time to explore, now he regrets something about his past

         Here is the second regret what most people have in life; people have missed the event in the past with beloved people, now they regretted to what they have missed because the past event couldn’t be returned to the present time, many of us have missed the togetherness moment when we still have had family, distant relatives, good friends, etc. After one of them had passed away, we had realized we didn't put them into our priority list, so when the moment had gone, we started to regret, remember this note; don't sacrifice your major time to enjoy what you do in your career only, your beloved people wait the togetherness moment to stay closer with you, here is the third regret what most people have in life; people start to change something about themselves when the crisis already came, this circumstance will not change human’s destiny because human aren’t interested to learn something long before the crisis came, the crisis will come when people stop learning or stop working, don’t let sense of complacency will overtake our passion of learning, remember this note; we need to embrace unpleasant truth if we want to keep distance with the crisis, the reason why we need to embrace unpleasant truth because it has endurance to rescue us from desperation and suffering, whereas, the comfort zone always offers sweet promise, so we need to realize that every sweet promises with comforting lies will create the pain of regret forever.

She perplexed her own mind because she often neglected about the truth 

        Here is the fourth regret what most people have in life; most people don't invest their minor time to stay curious about God's existence and they don't fulfill what God promises to them, so when they passed away, they realized what they have done so far was unimportant in the eye of God, here is my note; if you don’t want to get the pain of regret, you must dare to fail and take the risk in order to monitor how far you have surpassed, if you stop trying, sense of anxiety and sense of regret will come to you, so you need to finish the game of life first before you rest for moment, what is the game of life? it's the duty call from God, whatever people can choose of something, that's part of responsibility, then everyone must submit their own responsibility to God, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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How to redesign your life with just three questions




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “how to redesign your life with just three questions”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us spend our time to fear something what to do for the future, most of us consider future is like the myth, many of us prefer to do something ordinary, follow what most people do and we don't try something bigger than what we usually do, remember this; in order to redesign your life, you need bigger challenge, if you take bigger challenge than you usually do in daily activity, you will have bigger opportunity to manifest what you want in reality, at this article I would like to share about three questions which can help you to redesign your own life; here is the first question 1. What do I want to become? Means, you need to increase your skillful hand, knowledge, curiosity, vision, faith and patience because it can help you to empower your mental age, the reason why you need to pick up the question such thing because it is small trigger to change your life story, if you are not interested with your future, you are not going to create progress and if you don’t change your life by becoming new someone you admire, as result your life journey will be dragged down to the destination you dislike it, I think becoming the future man can’t be created unless someone creates a progress, it is very crucial.


         Now here is the second question; 2. Who can I serve and what kind of service do I offer? Means, you need know what kind of mission you want to give on earth and ask yourself who will receive my service, the reason why you need to make a good service because human being are part of social creature, so we need to show our care if we want to be considered as human being, maybe there is someone still confuse how to know he can serve, the first subject he needs to know and ask to himself “what kind of problem I want to solve and what kind of expertise I want to develop?”, if he is interested so much about it, he will practice day by day until he builds the pain of discipline in long period of time, that’s best moment, if he has found his life purpose, I am sure he would find the suitable vocation with his major interest, after that he doesn’t need to rely on other people’s plan to manifest his dream because he directly does it with sense of urgent, now here is the third question; 3. Why not to do now? Means, someone must plan something bigger and he must commit in his dream, the reason why he must do something immediately because the future is always mysterious and unpredictable, if he doesn’t do something today, the future will not count what he deserves to get, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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Truth will anger you and it will set you free from false belief

Truth pushes human very hard to move up from the comfort zone



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “truth will anger you and it will set you free from the false belief”the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped with false belief and they can't step out from false belief because they don't consider false belief is wrong, based on my research, the main cause why people can't become the future man because they just follow their instinct and they reject to change, I know willing to change is very hurt, but if there is no change, it becomes the pain of regret and it is incurable, remember this note; if people just follow their instinct without being supported with knowledge, curiosity and research, their instinct can turn into false belief, as result false belief will guide people to follow the misleading way in lifebasically false belief comes complacency, close minded and the fear of the change, if you feel one of them, means, you are trapped with false belief, what makes me sad is not when people lose their confidence, but when people are feeling okay after they lose the truth, that's makes me very sadall is started when there is indecision, as result people prefer to lose self-awareness than losing their sense of ease, if the human’s mentality isn’t stronger than their sense of curiosity about the truth, people will lack of passion for learning, if this ritual is repeated over and over again, their ignorance will grow unexpectedly, eventually people will not stay curious about their self-potential growth anymore, it’s dangerous habit.

Truth doesn't want to make human feel comfortable

       The reason why truth always angers to human being because human’s habit are stepped out from the nature habit, do you know what's the nature habit ? it says, "as long as there is a living on earth, there is no comfortable and there is long term discomfort"from that the nature habit, it doesn't mean you can't find comfortable in any place on earth, but in order to stay living on earth, you must demand ourselves to work hard and embrace high responsibility with all you deserve it, if you can't fulfill the requirement above mentioned, you don't deserve to get comfortable thing, whatever you do today, you have to ensure all activities you picked up with can increase your survival skill such as cooking, reading book, do physical exercise, do meditation, etc. please be studious like the donkey, although donkey isn’t as smart as the horse, donkey is much stronger than horse as physically and donkey is kind of obedient animal and never complained although he carries a lot of goods onto his back, unlike horse, donkey knows what to do although he runs slower than horse, remember this note; if we possess the major character like the donkey, our mind is always open-minded, adaptable and humility.


      Here is the bad sign if someone is staying away from the truth; whatever he thinks about something, he always feels self-righteous and he will never see his own ignorance because his false belief has blocked self-development processplease don’t get fooled with these 3 things if you want to get the purpose in life; 1. Sweet promises, 2.  Instant result 3. Shortcut success method, those are the form of false belief where it can guide us to the misleading direction and we will be pushed away from the truth / God’s blessing, maybe you think truth hurts yourself, but lies are getting worse than truth, it would better the truth will anger you rather than you never get informed by the truth, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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Life is long if you know how to use it




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “life is long if you know how to use it”, the meaning of that topic is “life will reward you with unimaginable gift if you use your life for fulfilling God's calling, as becoming God's servant, you need to work at the job which God promises something to you”, if you believe your life is very precious, you must work at the potential you have been given from God, here is the criteria of job you should choose if you want to get the life mission from God; the job is being able to push you how to behave integrity, increase your passion, increase your curiosity and increase your intellectual acuity, so if you found that job which has fulfilled the criteria as above mentioned, you must stick together with that job because it can give you longevity happiness, unlimited creativity, prosperity and longevity health, recently I observed many people feel distressed with their own life journey unknowingly, the main cause why people feel distressed unknowingly because their job can't offer the advantage for their conscience, furthermore, the job they have picked can’t heal them from the mental pressure, remember this note; the core of living is not seeking the pleasure, but using your life to fulfill what God promises to you.



         I know it is not easy  to deal with life challenge because life has offered the most complex exam on earth, if we talk about the human nature, human are not entitled to possess everything they want, but human are entitled not to obsess by owning everything around them, if people want to live longer, they must know what to have and what not to have, if people push their own limitation to do something risky, people will get the side effect from the darkness of life, before people want to own everything they want, they must know how to endure responsibility and accept consequence, remember this note; the more people want something tangible, the more pain they must endure, life is not talking about how much possessions you must have, but life is talking how you can endure the long pain taste if you can’t endure the long pain taste, you will live shorter because you will distress easily with life pressure, life will anger you if you lose self-control, when you stop demanding yourself to increase your productivity, as result life will burden you with chronic mental painthe more you postpone to learn something, the more unwanted suffering will burden you, here is the key how to reduce the life pressure; you must change your habit by discipline yourself at least 21 days because that's requirement, you will get more serious mental illness if you are not willing to stay with new habit.
create new journey when there is no opportunity

       If you don’t want to taste the life pressure for long period of time, your mental strength will decrease itself, as result your life journey has been stuck between dilemma and silent desperation, only the coward will avoid the risk without knowing the reason behind it, remember this; your destiny is lies in your major characteristic, the more you practice your expertise, the more hidden potential will service what you need the most, sometimes you need to learn like the tree root's working principle if you want to keep surviving on earth, here is the tree root’s philosophy “as long as there is soil around, the root keeps growing, keep adapting, keep resilient, keep existing and keep tenacious”, I think having the tree's root characteristic will become most people’s favorite character because every the tree's root is designed to create an unimaginable power and support what the tree's leaves need in long period of time, remember this; every character can drive someone to the final destination, please keep sticking with your pain because one day your pain will become your guidance to live longer and you can use your mental strength to fight against the life crisis, the real pain comes from persistent in practice, if you keep together with your pain, life will surrender to you and your life will be abundant with unimaginable reward, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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If we postpone to do, the future’s design will never be finished



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “if we postpone to do, the future’s design will never be finished”, the meaning of that statement is our future will never happen if we created procrastination habit for long period of time, I know it’s not easy to deal with the procrastination habit because human’s mind is full of complexity, we will never know what is the future look alike unless we dare to take risk, we dare take failure and we respect about the process, the growth mindset people consider the future’s design is more important than yesterday because they consider the future offers unimaginable gift if they urge themselves to do something, whereas, the fixed mindset people are too relax to do something because they don't believe so much with the future's design, the reason why most people love to procrastinate doing something for their own future because they believe certainty is far more important than uncertaintyhere is the conclusion; people who use their left brain function more dominant, they tend to believe something certainty as life guidance, like logic, certainty and calculation.
Future is real gift


      Here is the saddest story if they keep believing with left brain function only; people will be skeptical to believe something new and they don't consider the future is real because their logic thinking keeps blocking the human's faith to manifest somethingin my opinion, people who love to procrastinate because they are too worried about the time limit and also they consider the future is like the myth, no wonder the future will not offer something important to them because they underestimate the power of time journey, remember this note; the main problem why the future’s design is not happening, it is not caused by lack of intelligence or lack of passion, but it is caused by the pain of procrastination, here is additional note; every procrastination habit produces the pain of regret, it’s dangerous thing because it psychologically harmful to the human’s mental health.



       Let me give you several tips how to stop having procrastination habit; here is the first tip; you must do what you feel passionate and ensure your activity is keeping you busy while you design your future, here is the second tip; you must have dream, good dream will inspire people to do something significant because they believe their dream will help them to create new magnificent life history, besides that, if you commit with your dream, your dream will help you to break your ego, break your ignorance, and break your unproductive habit, here is third tip; don’t surround yourself with fixed mindset people, the reason why you need to get out from the fixed mindset people because they will keep you away from your dream and they can influence you to have procrastination’s habit, here is fourth tip; imagine your future is like the penthouse building, if you don’t urge yourself to design your future penthouse, you can’t live into your future's bright story, you must use your imagination to pull the universe's law and let the universe empowers your skill and you can enjoy the process, remember this; don't create an ease satisfaction, but create long term happiness by selling the most noble profession you have on earth, if you start now, your future is ready to catch up your plan, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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If you wait for life’s changing, the resistance will stop you




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “if you wait for life’s changing, the resistance will stop you”, the reason why I choose that topic because life will not compromise with its own defensive playlife will control human as long as they take not serious plan to do something for long period of time, here what I review about human’s lifestyle; most people spend their life to enjoy with their job, but unfortunately the job they have picked can’t increase their skill for long period of time, as result, their self-ignorance closed their big ego, their knowledge isn’t developing, their ingenuity isn’t attractive anymore to use, they don't have survival skill when they failed to do something, here is my conclusion; people have put their focus to the wrong job, they should choose the job which can increase their passion to learn more and people work on the problems that need their abilities to solve, that's I called the life mission, here is the truth; if you put your future to other people's plan, they don’t plan much to what you do, the more you give your future’s plan to other people’s plan, the more resistance will disappoint you, here is the additional note; you don’t need to disappoint about the result, you just need to disappoint about your lousy plan, every single person is coachable, but the major problem is not everyone is ready to get coaching, do you know what’s cause? The main cause is their own resistance is stopping them to grow better.  



      Starting today, please don’t plan something easier to do in every single day and don’t let other people plan something for you, that’s one of the biggest resistance you need to destroy, if you keep doing that, your future design can’t satisfy you, all you need to prepare is do what’s make your masterpiece is urgently required, such as providing the business coaching program, the psychology consultancy, providing the win-win solution, etc. here is the key; if your 24 hours can't increase your survival skill, you have lousy plan, don’t let life keeping you to do the same thing like the previous year’s plan, life will not treat you better if you make your own resistance, such as not prioritize your own goal, not commit with your priority list, sacrifice your major time by doing less priority, now let me share something to you about several resistance that most people created in this life; 1. Ego 2. Self-righteousness 3. Complacency 4. Perfection 5. The past memory, if one of fifth is already embedded within you, you better to imagine what you are going to do in less than 24 hour, you must ensure the activity you picked can fight them all, sometimes your own resistance can't help you when you get the crisis, if your job can stop your curiosity to learn more, you better to leave that job, but if your job can't stop your curiosity to learn something more about problems, you must spend your life time to take that job, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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No man was ever wise by chance




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “no man was ever wise by chance”, the meaning of that topic is there is no success happens overnight, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people aren’t ready to face the truth because they are staying in the comfort zone for too long, some of them think truth will anger them and people believe truth always hurts them constantly, no wonder many people end their lives before their time is ending by itself, whether they realize or not, most people create false belief to what they did, as result, every problem can't increase their life experience, instead, every problem has irritated to them, the main cause why people complain to continue their life journey because they have headed to the wrong journey, besides that, the main goal they make can't create the power of faith to them anymore, no wonder they will feel like scaring themselves to death, at this moment let me share something for you about how is the importance of living like the wise man, here is the first purpose why life wants us to become wise man because life exam is getting more difficult and more difficult, if we postpone to learn something which attract our interest, we will lose desire of learning and we will get knowledge crisis, if you observe carefully, breaking self-ignorance is the sign of maturity and facing new problem is the sign of your life progress, the more you learn something new in the life exam, the more you wiser than before.


the wise person knows how to adapt with other people's mindset

       Whether we like or not, everyday life sends new challenge to us in order to diminish our sense of worry or diminish our sense of uncontrolled fear, please don't fear about problem because every problem is designed to teach human how to get stronger than before, either strong physically or strong mentally, if we get stronger and wise, we can create sensible decision and create good judgment without doubt, here is the second purpose why life wants us to become wise man because life knows the human’s potential is unlimited, the human's potential would be no appears without being tested with problem, remember this note; there is no problem can harm people's existence, only wrong mindset and false belief can make human die sooner, if you don't know how to deal with many problems, you just need to focus how to increase your knowledge and pick other people's problem that you want to solve, if you increase your knowledge, your mentality is stronger, the stronger your mentality, the more chance for you to deal with insurmountable problem, here is the advantage is you have good mentality; you will stay curious about the life riddle you don't know yet and your curiosity will take you to the higher standard, if your mentality has met with higher standard, the problem will resolve by themselves because it is no longer impact to your life existence and the problem you solved will become a pain mental cure, either for you or other people, here is the third purpose why life wants us to become wise man because a big disaster in this life will happen, soon or later, if we are not ready to face a big disaster, then a big disaster keeps us locked in bad temper, if we keep having bad temper, we will get miserable days in the following days.


         Maybe you have ever heard about the English idiom: The road to hell is paved with good intentions, means, every problem offers full of good meaningful story and problem can free human from the lifetime suffering on earth, when we feel something wrong with our life journey, the problem is not what happen to what we do, but the problem lies in what we built long time ago, in order to make human expertise is bringing more significant value, people must accept new challenge and new risk, the main reason why we need to accept new challenge and new risk because life rejects the comfort zone's existenceif we stay in the comfort zone for long period of time, our ego will get bigger than before and what we do is going to be less attractive, here is the risk if we are doing less productive at our career; the career we have built is not going to give us more value and instead our career will invite intangible problem, eventually we will get poor mentality because of comfort zone existence, remember this note; the more we do less productive, the bigger our ego will become and our perspective will turn into the mental barrier, if people just pick up the job for earning money only, their life journey will not give higher value to their specialty, here is additional note you need to remember; every person has two wings to fly, the first wing is faith, the second wing is problem, if one of our wings is broken, our life journey will get crisis, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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Fear is temporary but regret is forever




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “fear is temporary but regret is forever”, the meaning of that topic is there is nothing we can do when we are faced with regret but there is opportunity we can do when we are faced with fearthere is nobody can escape from his own fear but sense of fear will not come automatically unless we lure it with complaining habit, now the question is what we can do to avoid the fear; raise higher standard constantly and embrace the failure, the main reason why embrace the failure can avoid the fear because failure is part of training process, we shouldn't fear why we get failure because it's kind of progress, we should fear when we lack of failure,  fear is will not curse our lives as long as we don't focus on the obstacles, if we focus on the obstacles, our mentality will feel burdened, now I understand why most people fear with the future because they are not strong enough to face the truth, sometimes truth will anger us because truth will set us free from self-ignorance and comfort zone, what I review in reality is most people who refuse to see the reality is going to get feared with their own decision, whereas people who learn from reality, they keep trying although there are many unsuccessful attempt, fear is going to control you if you allow untruthful information will enter to your mind, uncontrolled fear will cause a bad temper character appears, here is the note; fearful person is not kind of person who lack of discipline, but he has bad temper character and he usually doesn’t like when the truth will unveil his identity.

       Too much fear about the future is not good thing because it will effect to our mental age, the more we magnify our fear about the future, the more suffering will dive into our subconscious mind, here are several factors why people fear to face reality; 1. Love to procrastinate 2. Lack of practice 3. Betray their own dream 4. Their standard of skills don’t meet with the reality 5. Lack a sense of urgency, now let me explain the reason number 1. love to procrastinate is one of the big factor to create sense of fear because act of procrastination influences people to enjoy with their past memory rather than enjoying their own future plan, here is what people forget namely they don’t realize life keeps moving forward, not moving backward, if people don’t love with their future, means they will live fully with their own fear, whether they like or not, life will push every person to go to their own prophecy, now the number 2. Lack of practice, people who take don’t seriously plan how to create the future’s design, people will fear to see their own future because their vision can't reflect what they will get in the future. I think keep practicing about their expertise is going to diminish the frustrations , reduce the uncontrolled fear and destroy their mental block, now the number 3; betray their own dream, means, people who have low standard, they tend to underestimate the power of dream and they consider dream is myth, when people have no dream, they have paralyzed their subconscious mind, now the number 4; the standard of skill don't meet with reality, means, we need to raise our standard of expertise in order to fit with high demand in the reality, now we will realize the main reason why we need to get out of comfort zone because reality in life will reject the inconsistent attempt, the number 5; lack a sense of urgency, means, if people don’t do something urgently, the future will not come urgently in our time zone,  I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  
  

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Dig the well before you are thirsty




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “dig the well before you are thirsty”, the meaning of that topic is don't ever try to wait the perfect moment to create opportunity unless you want to get the pain of regret, people who spend their time to wait for the future indicated that people are not certain about what they do now, we don't have much time to wait uncertainty because time loses its value if we treat our time such thing, we must rescue our future by doing something important today, the reason why I choose that topic because most people are too complacent with their jobs and they don’t worry about their preparation because they just consider self-indulgent in short time is more important than working hard in long period of time, in my opinion; a self-indulgent lifestyle is not kind of productive habit and this kind of habit will teach human to underestimate the small failure and overestimate the short period of happiness, remember this note; every opportunity can’t be waited because life changes quicker than what human do, so please don't wait until you get a crisis, then start creating the opportunity, it's too latelife only offers two things; the first offering is enduring the mental pain for temporary, the second offering is regretting forever, now decision is upon us, studying is kind of strategy how to dig opportunity, besides that, showing dedication and commitment is part of strategy how to stay committed with goal, now what if we are not ready to get the reward? the consequence is we will get the pain of regret forever, life is full of uncertain and mysterious, so we shouldn't treat life is like the money which it can be wasted at anytime, maybe money can be created multi million times but life can't be recreated.

Don't wait until you get thirsty to dig your well

         If people just work like playing with toys, less serious and less risk, as result their future destination place is not ready to be dwelt and eventually we will be pushed to going back to feel the pain of mistake in the past, it is not kind of good life, so happy people show their dedication to create long period of provision because they know life journey is getting more difficult, there is no compromising if we talk about life because life is the most complex exam, life will not get hard if we study regularly, remember this; don’t let life will give the reality first then we change ourselves, it’s too late, our job as human being is we are ready to face the unexpected life circumstance such as crisis and economic issue, the Chinese proverb says “dig the well before you are thirsty”, it suggests to human how to prioritize the most important thing to do earlier before the crisis came in, here are several tips how to know the life characteristic; 1. Life will work for us after we already manifest it the plan into reality, 2. Life will not work when we just plan to wait something uncertainty, 3. Life will push us harder to fall down when we do something easier and uninspired, 4. Life will pull something magnificent for us when we motivate ourselves to pursue dream, 5. Life will show the result when the all processes have been met the requirement, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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6 tips how to train your brain




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “6 tips how to train your brain”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us don’t maximize our brain power because we believe training is always hard to do, it's an invalid excuse we often to make, that's the main cause why we lose great chance to turn difficult problem into masterpiece, now at this moment let me share to you about 6 tips how to train your brain, hopefully this strategy helps you how to maximize your brain potential, here is the first tip; Do physical practice, the main reason why do physical practice can train your brain because every movement you make can give an impulse to the brain's nerves to work at maximum level, if this habit keeps going every single day, that habit will motivate people to do something extraordinary, here is the second tip; Read the book every day, the reason why reading book can train your brain because every letter in book will push the brain’s nerve to work harder than before, every letter brings can break human's ignorance, the more often people read the book, the more often the brain increases its ingenuity’s power and increase its creativity’s speed, here is the third tip; Write down ideas, the reason why writing down ideas can train your brain because it can force the brain to analyze new case and try to create more focus to the most significance thing, the more often the brain is given by idea, the more often the brain can attract the power of the universe.


        Here is the fourth tip; Practice deep listening, the meaning of deep listening is we observe to the details points as if we had communicated with object, this habit can maximize the conscience to work better, such as listening the wind when it tries to break the tree’s trunk or branch, listening the instinct by doing what you canthe main reason why practice deep listening can train your brain because this action can help you to increase your focus on what you want to become in the future and also it can help you to focus on what you need, not what you want, remember this note; practice deep listening can maximize the power of vibration within human's brain, this power is very meaningful because it can manifest what the human's mind describes, here is the fifth tip; Get out of comfort zone, the purpose of getting out of comfort zone; we will get new lesson from experienced people and learn from the successful people’s habit, if we don’t get out of our comfort zone, we will get trapped by the fake imagination which it tries to stop increasing our skill, if we stop learning, the crisis will happen immediately, here is the sixth tip; Do something differently and repeatedly, the reason why we apply this strategy because it can invite the miracle of life, as we know that there is no energy will happen without repetition, it’s just like the raining which is trying to break the soil, there is no breakable soil by accepting one single drop of raining, that’s example why human need to practice,  if our brain stops training, it becomes dull, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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As long as you live, keep learning how to endure than how to absorb the fact




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about “as long as you live, keep learning how to endure than how to absorb the fact”, the reason why I choose that topic because many of us are suffered because we prefer to absorb the fact without selecting which the best part we can learn from it, we suffered a lot not because there is fact came suddenly, but because we are not enough skill to offer something to the reality, if we just absorb the fact without having positive self-image and endurance, we will become the life's victim, as we know human being are limited by time, space, and movement, because of that, we must live with fully responsibility by showing our hard work to the field we want to develop, that's requirement to live longer on earth, living on earth is like fighting in the arena, we need to learn how to endure or we die for meaningless, if we just absorb the fact without learning something daily, we always have the complaining's habit, it's not good for our career in long period of time, remember this note; all good thing come from good experience, every good experience comes from bad experience, then bad experience is produced reoccurring productive habit, before the fact will show our suffering, we must learn how to create an artificial emergency by unlearning our bad habit and starting to find inspiration from people’s life experience, remember this note; we will never be ready to receive the truth if we just absorb the fact because some people believe the fact is created by the accidental, in fact, reality happens from the responsibility we have taken, if we learn from the truth, we are ready to face the fact without getting complained about it.



     All problems become great opportunity for you when you spend our time to stick together with other people’s problem, when you stick together with other people’s problem, in some unknown days the unknown people will find you and they need your assistance to solve their problemsNow I have the several tips for you how to make your life is valuable and meaningful, here is the first tip; learn how to endure pain, the reason why you need to learn how to endure pain because life always brings tough experience, if you are not ready to undergo it, you will not get life lesson from it, and instead, you will get mental illness and suffering unexpectedly, if you can master your negative emotion by having productive habit such as reading book, do physical practice or practice deep listening, you will not feel something unpleasant anymore because you can turn your negative emotion into the power of self-motivation, besides that, if you can endure pain, you can endure higher responsibility, if you can handle higher responsibility for long period, you can be resource provider for other people’s lives, here is the second tip; learn how to be the troubleshooter, the reason why you need to learn how to be troubleshooter because every person in this world has private problem, if you can be troubleshooter for others, you always be the future person and your existence will be chased by other people because you can cure other people's pain, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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