• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

How patience works for your future


       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how patience works for your future”, the reason why I choose that topic because patience is one of the most difficult test in this life, most people tend to avoid it because they think patience will cause new pain, in this article I would let you know about the point of view about the big scheme of patience, hopefully you can understand from it, here is the first benefit of patience if you realize it; patience enables you to see a big picture in your future’s blueprint, means, your patience will create a tough experience for you and also it will give you a big picture how to make future is similar with your future’s blueprint, if you wouldn’t learn from patience, your future’s blueprint will not manifest into reality, remember this; patience isn’t kind of ability to wait something, but patience is kind of ability to keep struggling and you're staying tolerance with your progress until the game is finished, here is the second benefit of patience if you realize it; patience gets you stronger than your suffering, means, patience helps you to build the profound personality, besides that, your patience helps you to be able to pass through many obstacles until your suffering ends by itself, remember this; suffering comes from obsession, if you can’t tolerate with patience, as result, you can’t make win-win situation, here is the third benefit of patience if you realize it; patience breaks your limitation, means, patience will help you to fight against your comfort zone, your new life begins if you end your comfort zone, when you succeed to end your comfort zone, your creativity is begun to develop.

     Here is the fourth benefit of patience if you realize it; patience fixes your old mindset, means, when you’re practicing your skill, unwittingly your patience demands your consciousness mind to leave your old mindset, you should be happy with this circumstance because your patience supports what you're doing for better future, when you make it as daily ritual, patience develops your growth mindset until it will create the magnificent thinking, here is the fifth benefit of patience if you realize it; patience enables you to attract the law of creation, means, you will get the feedback from the universe after you practice your mind to attract something into your life, the reason why patience is able to work with you in your future because you appreciate about journey process and you keep showing your high performance through your creation, here is the sixth benefit of patience if you realize it; patience offers you a lot of opportunity, the reason why your patience will be pursued by opportunity because you keep increasing your self-esteem through being studious person, "the more you learn, the more you see a new perception about yourself" here is the seventh benefit of patience if you realize it; patience increases your mental age, the main cause why patience can increase your mental age because patience leaves permanent suffering within your mind, when your mental age is mature enough, you will be pursued by tremendous skill and the abundance of life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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How to overcome your fear of failure


         Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to overcome your fear of failure” the reason why I choose that topic because not many people dare to challenge the failure, as we know that life is uncertainty, so making the artificial emergency strategy is very needed to countermeasure the uncertainty thing, as we know the human’s focus is very limited, we can’t force our focus to catch all attention from everybody, so we need to limit our focus wide range, “the more we reduce the focus wide range, the more often we can multiply the power of focus to finish the target” , if we can't finish the target, the problem is having two option; lack of making priority list and lack of commitment, now my question to you is “what will you do with your limited focus?”, if you don’t know how to delegate your limited focus in life, you will get failure by defaulthere is the key how to work excellent with uncertainty in life: having insatiable curiosity to obtain some knowledge, hone your survival skill, increase your tolerance and have painful experience with variable failurethe purpose why we need to suffer today because tomorrow is new day, new challenging and it brings more untold life story, if you ask me "how to overcome my fear of failure" is making more failure in different ways.


          You and I aren’t entitled to know about tomorrow, whether we like it or not, we need to prepare something though we are uncertain to finish, our main job is working on what we can visualize, not working on something which can disturb our focus, our job is to ensure we use our time 24 hours for working on what we choose efficiently and effectively, most people consider is having more failure can stop promoting them in higher career, but the fact is lack of getting the variant failure can lead them to create unproductive habit in permanent condition, remember this; if you enjoy like what most people enjoy, you will not enjoy your game of life, but if you avoid to enjoy what most people enjoy, you will find opportunity to create your own game for most people's need, here is the note; just because you enjoy something free today, it doesn't mean you will be buying free tomorrow, life is full of uncertainty, you must prepare yourself as if you were charged to pay something what most people can’t pay, every success can’t be exchanged by money, but extraordinary success can be exchanged with having higher failure rate than enjoyment, don't be afraid to get failure, you only need to multiple your failure rate if you want to be pursued with new future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
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Failure is an important part of mental growth and developing resilience



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “failure is an important part of mental growth and developing resilience”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is willing to accept the failure, some of them consider failure is kind of humiliation and lack of passion, in fact, failure is kind of mental exercise which it can be used to improve the mental growth and developing self-resilience, do you know the reason why I say such thing because failure will never been taught at school, if you embrace the failure, you should be happy because every failure has offered the unlimited ways how to develop luck, whereas, success doesn’t offer any benefit unless it offers complacency, now if we look at the professional athlete's habit, they keep practicing in order to show their best performance before the match is begun, they don’t care how severe pain they get from the physical pain such as a muscle cramp, a swollen ankle, twisted ankle, etc.now I understand about reason why not everyone can change their lives pattern because they work based on success orientation, not work based on continuous self-development orientation, remember this; if people spend their time to work based on success orientation, their future is doomed because they will never know the basic principle of life purpose.


         Remember this wise word; a master has a lot of failure more than a student who hasn’t even tried, so please don't be afraid to get fail during building your career because failure is not kind of nightmare, failure is just stripping away from your unessential thing in your mental block, the life journey will be worthwhile if there is someone dares to try something new, if they don’t get failure, they don’t be considered as an effort, as Bruce lee said “I don’t fear a man who has 10,000 kicks at once, I fear a man who has practiced 1 kick at 10.000 times” means, when someone is practicing his skill at 10.000 times, there are many failures must be run in order to build a sense of solidity and self-resiliencedo you know what’s the purpose of failure? it helps human to remove the mental barrier which it’s trying to stop them to study well and failure can cure the human's psyche from the pain of regret, if your subconscious mind isn’t ready to survive, you will get more suffering than what you weren’t expecting before, you should be happy when you receive more failure because it will create loomed large of differentiation between you and most people's fate,.


       Remember this; if there is no failure, there is no progress, if there is no progress, there is no new life,  if there is no new life, the future’s is dead, if this condition becomes habit, finally someone gets the permanent mental disorder, now the question is “how to develop resilience and luck at the same time ?” embrace new failure by practicing your skill, identify your own problem and solve people’s problem as much as you can, I think you should be thankful when you get failure because your whole life story will be different, attractive and magnificent in the end of your struggle, that's all, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.        


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Don’t hate what you don’t know, the greater part of knowledge consists of what you don’t know



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t hate what you don’t know, the greater part of knowledge consists of what you don’t know”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people can accept their limitation, most people consider their limitation is designed not to make them freeing from the life suffering, in fact, life is not offering a lot of suffering unless people make their own perception is suffered, if this life is designed for suffering, what’s point of living ? Here is the main point of living is undergoing the life challenge to search what God promises to us, if we want to know about God’s promise, we need knowledge to deal with life challenge not to get suffered in long period of time, the life challenge is designed to get us stronger, wiser and more accountable, the reason why people get suffered during they're living on earth because lack of knowledge within themselves and knowledge is part of the survival skillso if we don’t love with knowledge, means, we reject to know about God’s promise, this phase is very challenging because not everyone wants to meet with God's promise, in my opinion; please don't get lured with temporary comfort because it can lower self-esteem.

         Remember this; our quality of mind will determine the quality of words, if we don’t like to enrich our mind with knowledge, our words will kill our mindset and lack of knowledge can bring us to the fear zone, we should not hate with knowledge because it will help us to create new perception, don’t underestimate about perception because it can distinguish the way we think, the way we feel, the way we behave, knowledge will not get us trapped in the fear zone, but in the contrary, knowledge can help us to make sensible decision and remove all frustration which it's letting our guard down during we are learning something, here is the note; only haters and complainers don’t like about new change, when there is someone really hates about new change, means, he wants to stay in the regret zone, as long as someone is willing to stay in the past, means, he is ready to take consequence such as all frustration, the mental barrier and regret zone, in my opinion; don’t go associated with people who have kind of underdeveloped mindset because they will hate us when we try to inform something to them, the best way how to fix underdeveloped mindset is explaining about the future’s hope and stay motivating them about the reward if they can reach something, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.        


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5 tips successful people do in the weekend

Work for survival skill and life for endurance skill


         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “5 tips successful people do in the weekend”, the main purpose why I choose that topic because not many people try to struggle for creating better future, in this article I would like to give you several tips how to make your days are meaningful, especially in the weekend, here is the first tip successful people do in the weekend; they tend to wake up early and plan to prepare something for the upcoming week though they are day off, means, they are responsible about their career, they will not waste their days to do something unimportant towards what the future requires, successful people believe making a plan ahead can strengthen their focus to connect with the law of attraction, when the law of attraction begins to work, it will facilitate human to do something magnificent within their career, do you know the function of the law of attraction? It will attract opportunity, creativity, inspiration for what human need, here is the second tip successful people do in the weekend; they read book, either the paper book or E-book, the reason why successful people keep reading the book although they are day off because their curiosity size is larger than their satisfaction size, successful people believe reading book can delegate their curiosity to discover about the truth.

Successful people build their quality time with family in the weekend

       Here is the third tip successful people do in the weekend; they spend their time to reflect to all progress they have done, means, successful people don’t get satisfied with the success result because they consider there is a lot of bigger problems wait their preparation, every time they are day off, they still monitor and reflect all progress they have done, here is the key: don’t get too excited when you finish one problem because there are still many bigger problem are waiting your preparation, in my opinion; don’t let your enthusiasm is lowering than your recent knowledge because it will affect to your self-esteem, you must stay curious about new problem and don't try to run from it because every problem is designed to multiple your fortune, here is the fourth tip successful people do in the weekend; they make a time to pursue their interests to upgrade their survival skill, means, the reason why successful people still pursue their interests in the weekend because they want to De-stress themselves from their busy week schedule at weekdays, here is the fifth tip successful people do in the weekend; they spend their weekend to gather with their family and go to the relaxing place, the reason why they do that because their family's time can strengthen their emotional love and increase their credibility, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.        

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6 qualities of successful people’s personality traits

if you sacrifice your time for earning money only, your time will not multiple your income, if you sacrifice your time to fix your personality, your personality will multiple your fortune

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “6 qualities of successful people’s personality traits”, the main reason why I choose that topic because these qualities were proven by the wise people who were living in the several past century, now at this article I would like let you know how to learn step by step from 6 qualities, hopefully these strategies help you to monitor your personality, here is the first quality of successful people’s personality trait; they are ambitious, means, they know what they are doing in the future, they will challenge themselves to break their own limitation and keep striving to achieve their goals, they are serious about the consequence, for ambitious people, having a good goal can inspire them to do something crazy where most people tend to avoid what ambitious people will do, remember this; if you live without ambition, your life will imprison you like the prisoner who dwells in the jail with hopeless feelinghere is the second quality of successful people’s personality trait; they are courageous, means, they will measure their skill by handling the risk, they are courageous to do not because of their limitation but they believe what they do is part of adapting process, here is the third quality of successful people’s personality trait; they are committed, means, they will not break their own promise, as long as their dream lies upon their heads, they convince themselves not to step back until they know the answer from Almighty God.

      Here is the fourth quality of successful people’s personality trait; they are prepared, means, they believe creating an artificial emergency in the present is the basic foundation how to create good preparation for the future, this kind of people really appreciate about their own time because they consider every opportunity can’t be waited and it can’t be delayed, as long as their hope isn’t appearing in the reality, successful people will show their trump card to deal with the obstacles which have blocked their opportunity to evolve, here is the fifth quality of successful people’s personality trait; they are continuous learner, means, they aren’t satisfied with short term success because they believe the future will always offer higher standard level, as long as they are still living, they will keep learning without compromising, this kind of people are really seldom to be found in the public place because successful people spend their time to learn what they need to know, here is the sixth quality of successful people’s personality trait; they are responsible, successful people really understand about the consequence such as failure, rejection because that's part of life game, they will not blame about the end result, as long as they have faith to succeed, they will not fail to do, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.        
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Everything you have can be improved with strategy


         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “everything you have can be improved with strategy”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people still complain about the resource they have, in my opinion, the main problem why they can’t accept their resource because they tend to look for an easy touch to build good life, if people don’t use their resource to create new strategy, their mental block will try to hide something big from their own vision, as we know that every single person has different mental block in their mindset, so we shouldn't limit our potential as long as we can learn something, remember this note; the older someone gets, the thicker his mental block becomes, means, every person’s potential will be decreased from time to time if they don’t challenge themselves to feel painful experience, making strategy is one of good decision how to create painful experience in the future, if there is no painful experience, there is no future, the reason why I say such thing because learn new thing every day is very painful experience, here is the bad news; if human stop evolving their skill, their potential will turn into static mode, if this condition becomes habit, the human’s resource will be dried up and the crisis starts to attack.


    As human, every new strategy can be formed into several things in order to create new perception, such as FOCUS (Follow One Course Until Success) = you need to finish your first goal first before taking new one, HOPE (Hold On, Pain Ends) = you need to stay patient and stay resilient until your season is blossoming, FAIL (First Attempt In Learning) = the beginning process always offers unsatisfied result because it’s kind of growth, if you use 3 strategies in your daily life, you will not get depressed easily although you are trapped in unknown circumstance because you have succeeded to create new perception through focus, hope and fail, remember this note; if you want to change your life to be better, don’t train for your skill first, but train your mindset because mindset will empower your skill and empower your enthusiasm, here is the note; "Pain is temporary and Victory is permanent", means, you need to feel painful experience if you want to get victory, here are several strategies how to train your mindset; 1. Learn how to embrace higher responsibility than what you always do daily, 2. Learn how to face every day's challenge until you get excited to do, 3. Learn how to stay resilient although you have been rejected many times, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

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There is a price to be paid for every increase in consciousness

If you feel your future is important to you, you need to pay with your consciousness 

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “there is a price to be paid for every increase in consciousness”, the meaning of that topic is knowledge is the key how to break false belief and also it can increase self-consciousness, the more often someone increases his consciousness through increasing knowledge, the more he gets opportunity where most people can't get it, in my opinion; only curious person who can pay for every increase of his development, everything great needs to pay for the price for increase, such as hard work, knowledge, ingenuity, curiosity, faith and enthusiasmthere is no man can handle problem without showing his most interest into problem itself, the real success doesn’t offer complacency to any human being because the real success needs dedication, enthusiasm, progress, creativity, work ethic and commitment, if there is success which tends to influence people to follow easiness and comfort zone as guarantee, it’s kind of fake success, please don’t get tricked easily by success, here is the purpose of real success in this life is making you progressed significantly, keeping you away from comfort zone, keeping you learned to what you don't know yet and keeping you closer to God.
        
your consciousness will pay your success if you stay curious about your potential
       Every increase in your inner world will determine the outcome, your main job is not monitoring the outcome, but you just need to monitor your internal world because it can become your life asset, remember this note; your personal growth will increase your mental strength and also it will fix your consciousness, the more your consciousness gradually improved, the more you can use your focus to fix your mental block, “the more expensive you pay for increasing your consciousness, the more you receive something you don’t ever imagine before”, the best currency to pay for increasing your consciousness is having painful experience such as having a lot of rejection, "the more you get rejected, the better you are, the more you learn something, the biggest success will find you"here is my special note; use your consciousness to attract new life experience because every life experience will help you to multiple the outcome, if your focus is bigger than your imagination, you will not get attracted easily with temporarily pleasure, that’s important thing, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Everything really does happen just for a reason



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “everything really does happen just for reason” the meaning of that topic is there is no accident or coincidence will happen in this life unless there is a hidden reason from Almighty God to human, as we know that life is always full of uncertainty, there is nobody will be in charge to know about the future except Almighty God, we only have one weapon which can be used to guide us how to know about the future, namely the power of faith, faith is the ability to see the invisible thing and manifest unborn visualization into reality, as we know that every circumstance in this life is beyond control, we don't have any information how to know about the future unless we must undergo a mentally endurance test for fulfilling the future's hope, as human being, we don’t need to know about God's reason to receive something we don't really need it, we aren’t entitled to judge something we haven’t known yet due to we are limited by time, movement and space, all we need to do as human is making good effort to make our soul is ready to run new opportunity from God, during waiting God's decision, we must practice our mind and heart not to worry about end result.


      Here what I believe; as long as human show their performance with truthfulness, they need to get a lot of rejection before their proposal get approved, that’s part of game, once again, we don’t need to know why the game rule does such thing, all we need to do is follow the game rule and take it as personal responsibility, we are not entitled to skip the process and we are not entitled to stop the running process because it’s impossible thing to be done by humanwe only have the privilege to pick up one decision from two options in the game of life; endure or regret, if we choose how to endure the game rule, we only need to endure pain or suffering from what we do daily, if we choose to regret, we would get the pain of regret where it last forever, here is the news: if we can take the endurance test with wholehearted, our mentality get stronger than before, as result, we will be chased by unimaginable gift from God, our future life is up to our decision, there's strong consequence will welcome us as long as we can choose what we want to become, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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If your spouse feels okay with losing you, your spouse doesn’t deserve you



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “If your spouse feels okay with losing you, your spouse doesn’t deserve you”, the reason why I choose that topic because there are many couples are trapped in toxic relationship zone and they don’t know how to retrieve good relationship status, some of them believe the relationship problem comes from the conflict and the friction, but the fact is, the real relationship problem comes from lack of commitment, lack of togetherness's purpose and lack of nurture one another, I just remind you that inner conflict and friction are normally condition if you build long term relationship because you and your spouse try to unite different soul to become one, if only you were neglected by your spouse due to your commitment was still strong, the problem is not caused by you, but your spouse’s commitment is worse, in my opinion; don't try to change originality's character from your spouse if you want to keep your relationship to be intact because your spouse can become your reflection in the mirror, remember this note; only bad person who is unable to see any worth from your commitment, you don’t need to invest your valuable time to your spouse because it can become the mental illness in your relationship


         
        The key how to know whether your spouse deserves you is when your spouse can give the quality time to you and your spouse doesn’t make your sacrifice is futile, if your spouse doesn’t want to understand you, you don’t need to blame yourself, here is the most important; if your spouse doesn’t want to build a vision together with you, you must get rid of your spouse because your spouse betrays what dos and don'ts in relationship, maybe there is kind of person who wants your money and need your possessions, but when your spouse doesn’t want to stay within your quality time, your spouse doesn’t deserve you, as individual person, we need to respect about what our spouses do because what they do will give reflection to what we give back to them, sometimes we need to know how much time value of ourselves if we want to know whether other people's value is commensurate or not with us, remember this note; the more you value your time value, the more value you can provide for your spouse's emotional needs, here is the reference how to find a good role model how to build long term relationship;  "bad person deserves with bad person and good person deserves with good person", if we behave evil, we will be forced to meet with bad guy, if we behave good for any situation or condition, we will meet with good people sooner or later, if we don’t get good luck to meet with good person, let good person finds us, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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3 steps of changing in life; suffering, adaptation, evolution


         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “3 steps of changing in life; suffering, adaptation, evolution”, the main purpose why I choose that topic because most people still don't know how to create their purpose of life, besides that, most people reject how to take the suffering test periodically, in fact,  suffering is not kind of main problem why people get heavy losses in their life, but when people are having lack of knowledge, it is causing heavy losses, now I understand the main cause why most people think suffering such dangerous thing because they experience to get deceived by short term happiness, ease and comfort zone, so as human who are limited with time, space and movement, we shouldn’t blame why suffering must be happening in this life, if we can take a look with open-minded about the benefit after got suffering, I am optimist there is better change, now let me tell you that suffering is the basic principle how to create longevity happiness, health and prosperity in the future, here is the consecutive term in life; suffering, adapting and evolving, we can’t break that rule because that’s requirement how to undergo the game rule, in this article let me explain about how to create a better life through 3 steps, here is the first step, I call “life is suffering”, basically the purpose of suffering test is learning how to take new responsibility, learning how to resilient in any situation, learning how to take risk and learning how to embrace problem with positive attitude, remember this note; hard work, dedication, consistency and commitment are part of life suffering test, if there is no suffering, there is no new hope.


       Here is the second step, I call “life is adaptation”, as we know that there is no single human can escape from daily problem, so there is no escape door from reality, I think escaping from problem is not kind of good decision, "the more often people reject the problem, the more problem will come to them", if people can’t stay resilient after they got something unpleasant, at least they will learn something from people who already pass from the life crisis, so in my opinion, we need to practice our passion by doing something difficult in our career, such running own business or working as professionals at least 5 years, if we can pass the adaptation test, means, we already leave the comfort zonethe criteria how to step in the adaptation process is staying endured during undergoing the life crisis, such as improving the financial control habit, enhance good personality, increasing self-knowledge and ingenuity, if we want to pass from the suffering test to the growth zone, we must challenge ourselves to leave the comfort zone, if we don’t dare to leave our comfort zone, we will return to the first step, namely learn how to suffer, now here is the third step, I call “life is evolution”, at this step, we deserve to get longevity happiness, having financial security, having time freedom and live with prosperity because we have passed the first step and second step in life challenge, namely suffering test and adaptation test, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  
  

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Once you stop learning, you start dying



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “once you stop learning, you start dying” means, if we don’t encourage ourselves to know more, our creativity and other bundle of skill will decrease by its function, so we just need to focus how to make strategy of learning how to add more value for our future, learning is not difficult thing to do, the most difficult thing is not learning something we don’t know, but activating new habit is the biggest obstacle because it hasn't been created yet by us, there's no magic to start the learning process, we just need to be able to endure pain and focused strategic effort during learning, as long as we aren’t ready to touch the unpleasant feeling, we are unable to control the way we’re learning, the reason why we need to increase our learning process every day because we will fight against unexpected problem in any situation or condition, whether we like it or not, reality in life will push us to choose one of two thing when we face unexpected problem, namely endure it or escape from it, here is the risk you need to know; if you don’t endure to face an unexpected problem, the same level of problem will come again to you until you understand of something, but if you dare to endure an unexpected problem, you mental age will grow as soon as possible.

         If you feel learning is very difficult to do, you can compare between yourself and disabled people who strive to learn something, so there is no difference between normal people and disabled people as long as they want to learn something, as long as their brain system is still running normally, they can absorb any knowledge and bundle of other skills, remember this; life is neutral, either we want to make our life journey is significant or we want to see our future is bleak, all is up to us, I quote from Henry ford’s wise words “if you think you can or if you think you can’t, you’re right”, there is no excuse not to learn something, as long as we are still living on earth, we deserve to know more about the truth, here is the biggest risk you need to know; if you don’t want to learn something, your life will blind you and your creativity is going to die, here is my special note; our competition is our procrastination, if we activate our deepest belief during learning something, we always get ahead of our procrastination, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Never stop being a good person because of bad people



         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “never stop being a good person because of bad people”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many good people stop giving good thing to others because there are many outstanding rumor, slanderous remark, or the hoax news in social media where it influences to good person's personal attitude, so those are reasons why many good people don't continue their action, in my opinion; good people shouldn’t stop giving something because what they give will be considered as the investment in the future, remember this; there is nobody knows about their own future until the accumulation process is finished by itself, we don't need to count how much kindness we serve to others because it's not our job as human, let blessings count what we deserve, as human, we have different capacity, different talent and different endurance, we should not protest when we can receive little thing from this life because what we receive is determined by our mental age and capacity, "the more we give, the more we get" and "the less we provide, the less opportunity we get", don't be afraid to be good person, because a good person usually can contribute something where most people can’t do, all giving which good person gives is going to be returned as soon as possible to him, remember this; this life is kind of investment, human can create good investment or bad investment, in the end result will be returned to the human, if we do good thing, the good result will look for us no matter we go somewhere.

     There is no man is born to become bad person purposely, if it’s happening, there is must be something wrong with his parents or his environment, we can control what we think based on our philosophy, the wise word says “beware of your character because it will turn into habit, beware of your habit because it will turn into destiny”, means, we should choose good decision before we create indecision to our destiny, if we can’t take responsibility in our lives, we tend to blame something less significant, this is not kind of good idea because our life design is controlled by ourselves, as long as we can choose something, it becomes our responsibility, either good or bad one, remember this; attitude is like steering-wheel, we can control the direction we want based on our freewill, so there is no bad person will be here without someone directs his character to the wrong direction first, remember this note; bad influence is created by lack of enlightenment, if we don’t feed our soul with enlightenment, our soul will absorb everything around without selecting first, our character is the second biggest asset after knowledge, don’t let our character creates the evil, when we let it happens, our future will become bleak, starting from today, we must train our character until it can help us to create the most remarkable moment in the rest of our lives, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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How to be confident with an empty bank account



Sharing your vision to other people is kind of strategy to build self-confidence

         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to be confident with an empty bank account”, the main reason why I choose that topic because some people lose self-confidence after they get fired from their job unexpectedly and some people lose self-confidence after their bank account balance is empty because it's used to pay the bill, in this article, I would share about several tips how to countermeasure the lack of self-confidence, so hopefully you will no longer worry about your bank account balance after you read this article, here is the first tip how to be confident with an empty bank account; you must improve your philosophy, the reason why you need to do this because your philosophy will define the way you’re thinking, you must find new philosophy which can reanimate your enthusiasm and peace in the mind state, if you feel disappointed because of an empty bank account balance, there must be wrong with your philosophy, so don’t let your philosophy will give you bad feeling, you need to renew your philosophy in order to renew your enthusiasm, you must find a good role models where they can give you good philosophy, remember this note; good philosophy can give you some enlightenment, whereas, bad philosophy will produce negative emotion, when you succeed to change your philosophy, your confidence level will increase and your confident will promote yourself how to get a proper job.

Learn how to sell your competence if you want to get better salary

       Here is the second tip how to be confident with an empty bank account; read some books, I think reading book can give you a new resource how to make yourself is available for other people who may need you to work with them, remember this; your confidence level equals with your knowledge, the more you earn knowledge, the more often your emotional needs would be filled by golden opportunity, please don’t let your knowledge is empty because it will affect to your power of perception and consciousness, remember this; your power of perception is more important than your bank account balance, if you can increase your power of perception, you can control the money’s habit, if this condition becomes your habit, people will pay you because you know how to handle the money's habit, here is the third tip how to be confident with an empty bank account; helping other people who are more successful than you, although you feel totally inadequate, there is no excuse to offer your help to others, the reason why you need to apply this strategy because it can help you to promote your skill, maybe it takes longer time to get credibility, if you sell your trust, your reputation will buy recognition for you, "the more you get recognition, the more you get money from people who trust you".


       Here is the fourth tip how to be confident with an empty bank account; don’t feel regret about your past, start to reconcile about yourself and stay resilient, means you need to keep grateful to God when you start your life from zero again because Almighty God tries to sweep away your ignorance, sweep away your sin and guide you how to be a new person who can create the future’s hope to anyone else, here is the fifth tip how to be confident with an empty bank account; don’t make a debt although you need money so much, but try to sell your skill to anyone by creating self-demand and create an interest, if you apply this strategy, your confidence level is increasing than before and your personal branding can tell what most people need, in my opinion; please keep adding value to your personal branding and let others will buy you a reputation, if you make this strategy as habit, you will be chased by golden opportunity, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Your thoughts can kill you if you feed it with fixed mindset


         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “your thoughts can kill you if you feed it with fixed mindset”, the main reason why I choose that topic because there are many people try to kill themselves with suicidal attempt, the main cause is very simple, “they don’t recognize their own thoughts”, at this moment let me describe a bit how to recognize your thoughts, now imagine your thoughts is like the the water and your mindset is like the water tank, when the water is experiencing turbulent condition, you can't see yourself in peace state, water is your reflection about yourself, when the water is contaminated with dirt, you can't think clearly, if you want to think very clearly and stay open-minded, you don't need to trust your past memory, similarly, you need to drain your dirty water out from the water tank and you need to fill in the new water to be accommodated in the water tank, that's what I call open-mindedness, if you let your water is contaminated by dirt, it will create an ego and ego will create fixed mindset, every single day you need to check your water hygiene in the water tank if you want to get new inspiration from this life, your water hygiene in the water tank will determine what kind of words you want to express about yourself, remember this; your personal hygiene is reflected into your thoughts, if you don’t feed your thought with truth, your thought is going to kill your power of perception.


       The dirty water often creates fixed mindset and ego, fixed mindset usually creates short term success if you don't feed your brain with learning / growth zone”, when someone isn't interested with long term success, he tends to finish the easy job for him and he will spend his time to enjoy his job by sacrificing his temporary comfort, but unfortunately most people forget “every short term success will create bigger comfort zone”, when someone’s mind is trapped in short term success or middle term success, he will ignore about long term success, when it's happening, his success story is inadequate to give what he needs for long period of time, when his success can’t afford to supply what he needs anymore, his thought starts killing his hope because his resource is drained up, in my opinion; don’t ever try to pursue short term success because it will try to stop you chasing new chance, short term success will create a complacency zone and bigger comfort zone than before, short term success will stop you to do something differentthe purpose of short term success is change your perception to see your achievement as becoming your last journey, besides that, your progress will be stopped when you can’t do something excellent in your daily activity, you must embrace the pain, new rejection, new failure, adversity and the truth if you want big success is chasing you, that’s requirement how to fight against fixed mindset, "as long as human are living on earth, life doesn't offer comfort zone", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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7 personality traits of a great leader




         Hi smart people, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “7 personality traits of a great leader”, the reason why I choose that topic because this personality traits may help you to shape your bright career, especially if you are leader, supervisor, manager, director, CEO, in this article I will share several tips, now here is the first personality traits of a great leader; learn to be strong, not impolite, means, a great leader needs to strengthen his vision, that's requirement, the reason why every great leader must have this kind of strength because the power of vision will create the clarity and every clarity will create a clear focus where it can facilitate many people to go to the right direction, if you possess strong vision, you will be able to endure other people’s pain, here is the second personality traits of a great leader; learn to be kind but not weak, means, as a great leader, you have to show your empathy to what people feel about their own life journey, sometimes not everyone is happy because their life design isn't progressing yet, so if you are leader, you must show your great kindness to others as if they were your family, if you keep sharing your caring to others, you will earn respect, dignity, reputation, promotion and recognition, here is the third personality traits of a great leader; learn to be bold but not a bully, means, you need to adapt with unwelcoming situation, as great leader, you need to embrace challenge in order to destroy your own mental block, if you learn to have bold character, you must reanimate your creativity and originality through passion of learning.


        Here is the fourth personality traits of a great leader; learn to be humble but not timid, as a great leader, showing humility is basic component how to gain credibility from other people, being humble person also can attract the law of compensation, means, someone will be paid based on the contribution and great effort where he brings a good impact to other people, here is the fifth personality traits of a great leader; learn to be proud but not arrogant, means, as a great leader, someone must have a reputation story, good experience and some achievements, but don’t let his life story will create bad perception and false belief to what people see about him, at least a great leader can inspire, appreciate and build rapport to others, here is the sixth personality traits of a great leader; learn to develop humor without follya great leader needs to learn sense of humor in order to enliven the conversation's atmosphere, besides that, a great leader must build a personal branding where it is personalized to the needs of individual, here is the seventh personality traits of a great leader; learn to deal with reality, means, a great leader needs to know how to be realist than being planner, when a real disaster comes to threaten everybody unexpectedly, at least a great leader can create a temporary solution where it can be used to direct other people how to make win-win situation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 
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