• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

How to revive new enthusiasm

 

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to revive new enthusiasm”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people lost their enthusiasm, if we see in reality, the main cause why someone is losing enthusiasm is not coming from lack of enthusiasm, but people lack of strong decision, bad behavior and lack of productive habit, in this article I am going to let you know how to revive new enthusiasm, I hope you can find a good career after you have read this article, here is the first strategy how to revive new enthusiasm; you have possessed a painful story in the past, the reason why you need this strategy because having a painful story will evoke your memory in reality and this condition will not cure your circumstance unless you have to acquire knowledge, persevere and stay patience though the result isn't satisfied, you should behave grateful when you have a painful story because it’s requirement to remake your new life story, here is the second strategy how to revive new enthusiasm; you must have clarity and the tranquility of mind, the reason why you need it because it will push you to do something different although you don't know whether the result will be good or not, to make clarity, you just need to let go of something which can distract your attention, focus on your potential and eliminate a unclear desire, remember that sense of enthusiasm will not appear into your mind automatically, it needs a bait such as having the vividness of dream, when you store it in your subconscious mind, it can revive your enthusiasm although you are tired.

   Here is the third strategy how to revive new enthusiasm; you have own family to support, when you have own family, you will hold responsibility and learn how to fund what your family needs in daily life, remember that sense of enthusiasm will follow you as long as you have a lot of compassion, care and responsibility to others, if you want to earn more sense of enthusiasm, you need to accept a new challenge and solve the problem as much as you can. here is the fourth strategy how to revive new enthusiasm; you have to build idealism in life, means, you build specialty in your life, the reason why you must have idealism in life because it will help you to avoid the bad influence and increase your luck through hard work and perseverance, when you have idealism, at least you will reject to live mediocre for long time period and you keep enhancing your masterpiece through enthusiasm, here is the third strategy how to revive new enthusiasm; you have own family to support, when you have own family, you will hold responsibility and learn how to fund what your family needs in daily life, remember that sense of enthusiasm will follow you as long as you have a lot of compassion, care and responsibility to others, if you want to earn more sense of enthusiasm, you need to accept a new challenge and solve the problem as much as you can. here is the fourth strategy how to revive new enthusiasm; you have to build idealism in life, means, you build specialty in your life, the reason why you must have idealism in life because it will help you to avoid the bad influence and increase your luck through hard work and perseverance, when you have idealism, at least you will reject to live mediocre for long time period and you keep enhancing your masterpiece through enthusiasm, here is the fifth strategy how to revive new enthusiasm; disciplineif you apply this strategy, you will not waste your time for meaningless purpose because you understand about your most important thing, sometimes you need to stay away from the source of distractions if you want to revive your sense of enthusiasm, remember this; if there is no discipline, there is no enthusiasm, if there is no enthusiasm, there is no masterpiece, if there is no masterpiece, there is no profit, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

  

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Prepare for the storm


       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “prepare for the storm”, the meaning of that topic is everybody must have long-term provision in order to prepare against the worst condition if only they hadn't had much time to make a supply reserve, the reason why I choose this topic because not many people dare to prepare a mental stocktaking before the upcoming storm is happening, we must realize the world is unlike the heaven, if we live casually and don't acquire new knowledge or new independence skill, we will get shocked when we can't escape from the storm which may happen any time, remember this; even though the storm isn’t coming yet, it doesn’t mean the storm will never come and we don't anticipate something badeverybody mustn't behave such a bragged person although they get financially free today, remember this; just because we financially free today, it doesn't mean tomorrow we will be free, we aren't allowed to think about financial freedom again because the life system doesn't work such thing, as long as we are still living on earth, there is no creature can give a guarantee how to get a life freedom, we must hold responsibility about our life journey, the life system is very serious, we must take a lesson from this life every single day or we'll die in vain.


        Don’t ever say “why should I spend my major time for preparing the worse thing if I can live happily now?”, the reason why i say such thing because the real world offers affliction, tragic, challenge, unpleasant, regret, ignorance, mysterious, disappointment, disastrous, problem and uncertainty, if you think your world is kind of perfection place to stay, means, you don’t prepare to live in peace, remember that you and I will never know about tomorrow whether there is good or bad thing which will happen, sometimes we need to practice living such the poverty people who live carefully, such as not to waste the food and not to behave extravagant, here is the good news; when we practice how to live like poverty people, our mind will not too obsess about money, possessions and authority, instead our mind focuses how to keep grateful, peace and accept self-authenticity, I just want to remind that our job is not stopping the storm, but our main job as human is how to make sure our daily habit is congruently with the universe's law such as sharing the compassion, become a good contributor to weakling people, not to do the crime, not to make any destruction in environment, not to waste the plastic in any place, not to waste food or beverage, not to behave extravagant, etc. if we want to get justice, we must prevent something bad happened before the storm is coming soon, don't act after the storm came because it's kind of stupidity act, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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The enemy of happiness

The enemy of happiness is All possessions, including money, authority


       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the enemy of happiness”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are really happy now, as I review some people put their happiness into uncertain situation, they reject the happiness state where it has happened at this present time, for example; I will be happy if only I have had a new car, I will be happy if I have enough money, I will be happy if I have given my money to my parents, I will be happy if I get this promotion, I am happy if you follow my instruction, I am happy if my friends support menow if you spend your major time to keep thinking like that, you will never find the moment of happiness, the reason why people can't enjoy the moment of happiness because they make prerequisite first before they create happiness and they don't let happiness will be shaped by its own way, our duty is not calling happiness, we just need to make the clarity where our potential can work and we let it will produce the moment of happiness, in fact,  happiness doesn’t acquire something from external world, we only need to acquire knowledge, curiosity and practice what we want to develop constantly in our internal world, remember this note; if you just lean your happiness into something outside of your control, you will never know the deep meaning of the happiness and your happiness will keep hungry and thirsty because you treat your happiness is like what your physical body wants, here is my special note; the happiness is immortal, not being limited by temporary comfort such as money, entertainment, authority, possessions.
Check your clarity because it is one of the biggest factor can determine where your happiness grows

      If you think your happiness can be stopped, means you don't adapt concurrently with the law of God and the law of universe, please don’t substitute to what you already have with something what you don’t have in reality, now your main job is find something that you already have, then you empower what you have with your potential energy, once the process is running complete, the moment of happiness will be created by itself and your existence is always being pursued by the vibration of happiness, now my question to you is “what you are going to do if you know that you will face the enemy of your happiness?” you ignore it or you challenge it, if you challenge the enemy of happiness, you need to stay commit about your decision and you behave like the nature's characteristic where it keeps adapting, keep learning, keep evolving, keep working until it becomes life time masterpiece, starting today, don’t listen people’s success story because it will not motivate your life journey, you only need one big reason “what can I do to create my life mission?” when you succeed to create your life mission through your inner potential and your service, the whole world will welcome you, grant your wishes and pursue you wherever you are, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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Don’t make things harder than they need to be


       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t make things harder than they need to be”, means, not all problems are full of complexity, but only wrong behavior and wrong perception can make the problem is harder than it needs to be, if we know God is full of affection, we shouldn't doubt about it, if God knows problem is good for human, it doesn’t mean He will give harder problem than human’s capacity, sometimes God blockades our vision in order to let us know about a bigger vision in the future, He prepares us to receive abundant of life if we are willing to accept the challenge, whether we realize or not, every single person has own potential and a privilege to change the condition by doing something accountable, but unfortunately human’s inability to see the problem is the real problem which can attract the circumstance seems harder than it needs to be, for example; some people want to lose weight but they still eat junk food and drink soda almost every day, now my question is where’s the source of problem? It lies into perception and different behavior, now which one are you side? Are you wallowing in self-pity or are you pursuing your potential growth? If you know God is full of affection, He will not let your future is being damaged by the problem, am I right? In my opinion; before you avoid the problem, you should setback and see it objectively.

      Making things looks simple is not easy because someone must dive into problem and he keeps perseverance until he creates the masterpiece how to make things simpler, the hardest thing in life is not lies into problem we faced, but the hardest thing in life is face the comfort ego size is bigger than the problem’s size, that’s make things harder than they need to be, we should be grateful when we receive problem because not everyone will be trustworthy to accept the problem, God has measured the human’s capacity first before he will send us the problem, we don’t need to know about the purpose why problem is sent by God, we should consider it as a golden ticket to pay the future’s success, problem will not come when people’s capacity isn’t ready yet, that’s future's thinking, remember this note; only untrained emotion can make things harder than they need to be, don’t let misconception interferes your concentration during you face a problem, if you are afraid of problem, how can you build your own happiness because the most happiest moment in this life is when we can make things simpler, if there is no problem at all, there is no guarantee how to build happiness in the future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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There is no a bad dream, there is only a bad influence

the possessions and money often give bad influence, so that human will stop manifesting their dream

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “there is no a bad dream, there is only a bad influence”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people judge their dream will never happen in reality, instead many people consider their dream is like myth where their dream becomes abandoned history, in my opinion; the problem is not determined by their dream size, but it comes from lack of conviction, lack of vision, lack of reason, lack of knowledge, lack of stamina and lack of enthusiasm, if people don't solve them, the human's potential and imagination will not work properly, I just want to remind you that every dream is like future's design which it laid in spiritual content, to manifest it into reality, it is needed a lot of mistake, a lot of rejection, perseverance, dedication, affliction and not being afraid of being wrong, so you must be okay and don't argue with that because that's prerequisiteif you spend your major time for looking for pleasure and comfort, you only build a nightmare and you manifest what the nightmare does to you into reality, that’s beginning story why most people stop dreaming.



       Now I understand why people stop dreaming because they just believe on what they are capable to see and stop believing something they are incapable to see, in fact, most people forget every great impact comes from the invisible force, such as vibration energy, gravity, imagination, law of attraction, etc. I think that's problem, remember this note; don't use your logical reason to manifest your dream, it doesn't work, you need to spend time to practice your mental or physical strength in order to attract something you are incapable to see, such as miracle and privilege, in order to eliminate the bad influence into your circumstance, you need to do something where your logical reason can't achieve it and you never looked back about your affliction, that's the key how to increase your productivity and eliminate bad influence, I just want to let you know that the human's real power comes from the invisible resource, such as imagination, intuition, faith, courage, stamina, discipline, endurance, resistance, vitality and love, here is the good news, if you hone your invisible resource constantly, you can delegate the universe's power to work together with your dream, if you don’t believe with your resource, there is nothing happened in reality, if God trusts with your power, what would you doubt it?.

    To manifest dream into reality is not easy because we will fight against our negative emotion, ignorance, bad influence and the comfort ego which it is trying to blockade our success journey, those are real enemies which can guide human to take misleading waynow if you feel that you can’t against your real enemy, please don’t control something you can’t control, you just need to stay focus how to work on your invisible resource, maybe you have question “why is it necessary to activate my invisible resource?, basically your invisible resource is used to attract the universe’s law, if you succeed to activate your invisible resource, the universe’s law works to manifest your dream into reality, after all long struggle is over,, you just need to be spectator and eventually you can enjoy your long term satisfaction, here is my suggestion; after you enjoy your triumph, please don’t stay longer time during enjoying your achievement because you still have the upcoming life mission to do, you still need to adapt with new obstacle where it has been prepared by God to strengthen you from time to time, please don't be afraid to dream, make it as your life mission and you will get excited over it, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Pleasure can become punishment

Pleasure is dead end


       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “pleasure can become punishment”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people have become a victim from their own life, the main suspect is they too much enjoy about something they can receive, so when people just spend their life time to lean to the sense of pleasure, the regret is born at the same time because pleasure only offers a dead end, as I review that most people don’t understand that every pleasure is temporary, not eternal, but they keep pursuing it over and over again without preparing self-control, I have ever told in my another article that we shouldn’t demand this world to grant what we want because this world is mortal, so don’t ever demand pleasure comes to us before we know how to pay it, if we want to get something we will have in the future, life just wants us to pay what we want with dedication, discipline, good habit, faith, enthusiasm, resilient, relentless pain and good behavior, so please don’t ever think you to pay bribe to the universe because it doesn’t work, the universe’s character is unlike human, life doesn’t want to accept our wishes before we fulfill the requirements because life is kind of machine which it is designed to give what people develop or what people practice in daily activity.

   Remember this note; pleasure is temptation, whereas, self-control is the real pleasure, now your job is find a deep meaning of your wishes, if your wishes can help you to develop new skill set and develop self-resilient, don't stop it, the reason why I say pleasure is temptation and self-control is the real pleasure because pleasure doesn’t require any pain to start whereas self-control needs relentless pain to control where the pleasure goes, now I want you to imagine you are in the car, a gas pedal represents your pleasure and a brake pedal represents self-control, when you press a gas pedal, your car will start running, now imagine if there is no brake, your car will bring you to the accident or car collision, that’s reality, not joke, now my question, if your car represents your own life, where do you bring it with? If you want to live peacefully, you need relentless pain to control your pleasure because most sense of pleasure is a toxic in the human’s mind, if there is no pain within your psyche, means your sense of pleasure will be exchanged with regret and your mental strength will be encumbered with greater pain from this life because you can’t exchange your own pain with your pleasure, remember this; there is no free lunch in order to get something you want from this life, everything pleasure needs self-control, if you aren’t ready to build relentless pain, you will not deserve to get what you want, it’s simple, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Is this really the life I want?


 

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “is this really the life I want”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t accept their reality because they assume their life journey is very complicated, besides that, most people don't know what makes their life running unexpectedly, in my insight; the main cause why people don't recognize about their life journey because they consume too much worthless information every day and they don't select which social circle they should stick with it, when people feel unfair, feel rejected, feel neglected, and feel unloved because they buy fear from this mortal world, the main cause why people feel strange to live in this world because they just demand to receive more gift from this mortal world than they do what they must do for their own future, remember this note; don't expect the mortal world will give you everything because the mortal world can't produce peace, love, respect and serenity, "the more you demand more gift from this mortal world, the less you receive something than what you expect it", that's why the life give us challenge such as adversity and problem in order to let us do something for this world.
Idealist - Optimist - Realist - Pessimist - Cynic - Lackluster
      To encounter the problem in life, we need to build a idealism in life in order to unlock our hidden potential and do something different from time to time, basically life doesn't give us what we want, life only provides the resources we really need to build idealism in life such as imagination, skill, creativity, faith, and knowledge, basically idealism comes from conviction and affliction where they have been built a long time ago in the human’s thought, if you want to win from this circumstance, don’t ever say “why would I deserve this pain?” this kind of mindset will shut down your opportunity to escape from greater painit would better if you change the question such thing “I deserve this persistent pain because God knows I am stronger than problem and God knows there is something great awaits me if i get this pain", so to build an idealism in life is like design a house, you need to measure your progress and learn something new, if you realize that your house is more important, so you will not live casually with your behavior because you need to give your effort, time, and knowledge into it.

     Now let me share something you need to know, if you think life will treat you unfair because life wants you to be different creature than most people who just do nothing for their own future now maybe you will get new glimpse in your mind about this question “why would some people necessarily build a persistent pain?” because they understand that endure pain is the part of life strategy how to build idealism and how to take care of worth thing in this life, such as love, peace, respect, and sincerity, so I think that is reason which may help you to answer “is it really the life I want?”, just for information, for people who love about perfectionism, they may think this life is too cruel, the reason why people say such thing because they consider life offers the perfect place to stay and offers what they really want, once again I would strengthen your emotion by remembering this statement, you must fully disagree with perfectionism, do you know why? because perfectionism fights against reality, life would be risky if people stay fighting with reality, whereas life keeps giving human with the relentless pain, remember this note; every human being in this life is treated like the custodian where they hold responsibility to take care of what they don’t possess, such as serenity, kindness, love, faith, kindness, if we can't hold responsibility, we will get life punishment from God such as fake gratification, ignorance, and regret, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Steady your impulse


       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “steady your impulse’, means, you practice your enthusiasm until it can push yourself to do something extraordinary than what you do in daily, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people’s focus are often being distracted by the distractions such as the media, news, unnecessarily talk with friend, strengthen their unproductive habit, as result, people will lose lose their conviction to manifest what they need to do, steady our impulse is life time's job, to build good career, we must fight against bad influence, old habit, gratification, wrong belief, ignorance and complacency, those are the real enemy that we need to conquer every time we want to do something different, remember this note; you don't need to be great person, you just need to be different than most people who don't possess a privilege like yours, now I would give you several tips you need to prepare if you want to steady your impulse during building good career, here is the first tip you need to prepare how to steady your impulse; clarify your goal as clear as you can, means, you need to know your clearest want first to attract a clear goal, if you can measure your goal with your impulse, your intuition will seek the answer through the book you read or listen successful people’s advice, now my question; is your goal too vague or unspecific?, if you think your goal is specific, your impulse will work hard to make clarity and your clarity will manifest good thing in your life, finally your clarity empowers your strong will, empower your skill set and empower your gratitude.


       Please don’t delay your work when your impulse is strong because it is great moment to manifest your vision and your potential into reality, you don’t need to pursue the result because it is the universe's job, let your repetition habit will work together with your impulse, to strengthen your goal, you need to show your dedication until your masterpiece has completed, remember this; don’t play with goal where most people like to do whereas your impulse doesn’t like to do, you only need to focus on your masterpiece, upgrade your competent skill until your impulse can attract wealth creation such as ingenuity, vivid imagination, masterpiece, etc. here is the second tip you need to prepare how to steady your impulse; use the law of repetition until you succeed to build self-resistance, means, you use the law of repetition to develop your impulse until it can cooperate with you to fight against the source of ignorance and fear, the main reason why you need to do this strategy because it can help you to unlock your potential and seal your unproductive habit, If you assume your work is not affecting you how to be better person, means, you must not continue it because your work can’t teach you to pursue your potential, remember this; if you prefer to work with your impulse, you will find inspiration and enlightenment, but if you prefer to work based on the sum of money, you build the pain of regret and you will get gratification where it can become self-punishment, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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You don’t have to have an opinion



       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “you don’t have to have an opinion”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people realize behind the power of opinion, if we review a bit in social habit that some people can’t accept the power of opinion because they consider opinion can't reflect to the realitysome people can't accept the power of opinion because they don’t know how to measure the depth of the opinion’s power, if human's spirituality can't achieve the depth of the opinion's power, they tend to reject the source of opinion, sometimes we don’t need to show our opinion to others because not everyone has the same mainframe like us, "the power of opinion can change our fate if we know how to use it and the power of opinion also can destroy human's dignity if we don't know how to use it", that's main reason why we don't have to have an opinion because it's very dangerous for type of people who are inability to see their self-worth, in order to extend a human relationship for long term period, we really need to practice our speaking way over and over again until our opinion can inspire other people to do something magnificent or our opinion can solve people’s problem, remember this note; opinion we make can determine our reputation, our competence and our daily habit, so we must stay carefully if people ask our opinion.


    Remember this; our quality of words reflects from what we think, what we experience and what we perceive about reality, if we can keep the quality of words, our opinion will create the power of good influencethe most important thing how to keep peace in communication is how we treat people well with good words and we don't demand them to treat us in the same waydon’t let outer circumstance will make us losing self-control during making opinion because our opinion represents our self-image, if we don’t care about self-image, as result, we will disconnect from self-control, our opinion will destroy peace and eventually we will get undeserving affection from other peoplenow if you look at rumor, chaos, hoax and dispute, all is started from misuse of the power of opinion, in order to know the depth of the power of opinion, we should create the masterpiece first and let us see the feedback from other people, if they agree about the masterpiece we created, means, other people will be ready to listen the quality of our opinion, if we want to talk about peace, we shouldn’t consider our self-interest and our opinion as important thing, but we should setback from our routine activity for a while and observe where our vision wants to go, if we behave like giving a life of selfless service, our speaking ways will be considered by others as the peace maker, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Don’t seek out strife when you are being driven by affliction



       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t seek out strife when you are being driven by affliction”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can control what they feel after they are driven by affliction, so when they are alone, they tend to look for crowd of people, so sometimes they unwittingly make strife with group of people, as far as I know that good people prefer to love making peace is better than making a war in humanity, if you feel being driven by affliction, don’t burden it by making complaint or making an accusation to others from their mistake, you can keep yourself away from the source of affliction and try to make de-stressing program, affliction happens repeatedly because you lose your enthusiasm to find out about the root cause, but if we take a look for moment, affliction occurs when we focus about what we fear and stop developing what we are capable, remember this; there is no single person can escape from their own affliction, we only have one option; accept or reject, if we accept our affliction, we will have strong reason to work hard and prove that we can deliver what the world really needs, remember this note; don't judge the life by its negative side, but judge yourself whether you can do something or not, don't end your life story by judging something bad toward it because one day you will see the life story of yours.

      Now our job is to ensure our inability can’t interrupt what we can do in long period of time, even though there are many problem, rejection and adversity, it doesn't really matter as long as we keep growing our skill constantly, don't let our insecure feeling will take control of us because it will waste our energy and time value for meaningless purposewe should compete with our daily activity and we discover something we don’t know about the life’s riddlethe more we develop our potential through perseverance, the more we grow the unlimited source where it can attract the true happiness, health, integrity, recognition, promotion and prosperity, we don’t need to argue when the law of perseverance will work for us, remember this advice; when we focus on problem, we will get problem, but when we focus about our potential and good habit, our potential growth conquers the problem automaticallybefore we bring peace to the outer of the world, we must create peace from the inner world, such as develop what we control or let go of something what we can’t control, that’s basic formula how to conquer the inner world, starting today; don't focus with affliction, if you let your affliction sticking together with you, it will help you to multiple your focus, find your inner peace and discover the life mystery where most people don't know about it, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Fear is self-fulfilling prophecy



       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “fear is self-fulfilling prophecy”, the meaning of that topic is many people have become the victim over their own fear because they are trained to believe something frightening since they were young, basically fear came from their inability to see self-potential earlier than the fact proves, as human being, we don’t need to attract something frightening because its content offers something uncontrollableI just want to remind you that not all fears will end dreadful, some fears have untold power, fear can be formed into self-reflection if you assume your biggest fear can stop you to do something bad or prevent you to do something dangerous, remember this note; every human has own fear, but if people don’t know how to delegate their fear, people will live casually and lose their enthusiasm to do something progressive, finally fear becomes self-fulfilling prophecyyou should be aware with your own fear before undetected fear around you will come faster, if you want to triumph at your circumstance, you can use the power of fear to seek what you ignore about your ignorance towards the truthif you think fear always brings something bad in your life because you make your own fear as self-fulfilling prophecyfear will not come if you focus on what you develop within yourself, fear is just small test where it is designed to interrupt people who do nothing meaningful in their own lives, now imagine if there is no fear in this life, human will do something carelessly, or people will do harm an innocent person.


        Remember this; the most severity problem in this life is when people use their fear to hurt themselves and use the fear to reject the truth where they should receive, starting today, don’t let your fear manipulates your consciousness mind by doing something unimportant to your future because time can’t be retrieved back, don’t be arrogant when you have a lot of money because it can’t heal your soul from your own fear, every moment we face today is part of what we fear and what we develop at the same time, you should be grateful if you pass several challenge in this life, this is proven that you are serious to find self-fulfillment, the happiness moment in this life is not when you can avoid your fear, but when you don’t consider your fear as enemy and instead you consider your fear as self-awareness that you haven’t progressed something important in your expertise, here is my daily note; don’t reject the fear every time you feel, let it flows to you, if you ignore your fear, it will invite another undetected power where it can ensure you to get the bigger fear than before, you need to balance between what you develop and what you fear, if the skill set you develop is far cry bigger than what you fear, you will find yourself a luck resources where  you can utilize it as privilege to attract the most important thing from life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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What basketball can teach us?


       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “what basketball can teach us?”, the reason why I choose that topic because basketball is one of my hobby, I found there are many lessons where I get from the basketball game, in this article I would tell you about the priceless lesson from the basketball game, here is the first lesson what basketball can teach us; every game is designed to remind every basketball player by having sense of urgency to make a score before 24 second is over, means, every player must work in team before 24 second is over and this opportunity is the biggest challenge to make score 2 point or 3 point, in reality, every human has 24 hours, during the time runs, human can’t manage their own time because time can’t be multiplied, it can’t be accelerated and also it can’t be decelerated, we just need to prioritize what we believe is true, we must use our time wisely if we want to pursue bigger opportunity because every second in action will determine our future journey, sometimes we need to delegate our biggest fear in order to push ourselves to do something urgently before 24 hours is over, time is kind of spiritual activity where it determine whether we live or die, as human being who have inability to know everything about time calculation, we must consider time as diamondwe should beware about time because it will calculate what we think, what we feel and what we act, every attempt we make will determine an outcome, if we are happy now because we invested something positive constantly in the past.


        Here is the second lesson what basketball can teach us; take accurate decision before 24 second is over will create a big difference in result, if we apply this circumstance into reality, every decision we make is very crucial because it will represent our personality and our responsibility in the future, "if we don’t develop our skill to make critical decision during facing the emergency condition, means, we deliberately bury our hope in the future"here is the third lesson what basketball can teach us; every 1 second in the basketball game can create a different result if we let our guard off in that situation, means, there is nothing time wasted in basketball game even 1 second, the basketball games teaches us not to let our guard down in any situation because life is full of the uncertainty, in my opinion; we need to stay awake in every situation because self-gratification can shut our awareness and it can burn out the human's hope, here is the quote to build good career; "if your job lets you to love procrastination and locking your curiosity to do something beyond expectation, you are doing something wrong in your life", starting today, we need to apply what basketball teaches us about time value, here is my daily note; people who appreciate about time value, time will give them a high performance value, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Change begins with choice


    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “change begins with choice”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don’t believe that their future can change by making new choice, so I didn’t get surprised when people comment such thing because they have missed the golden ticket where they should have learned it when they were childhood, the word “the golden ticket” means, a rare opportunity where it is designed by Almighty God long time ago before human existed, this rare opportunity often reincarnates as becoming a special ability and this rare opportunity can guide people to find their life purpose and this rare opportunity can guide people how to live peacefully until they pass away, the golden ticket can't be attracted by the mediocre skill, the golden ticket needs strong will, enthusiasm, dedication, consistency, discipline, integrity and endurance skill to endure pain for long period of time, from this article, you can learn how to make a choice and you can let your choice can give you several paths how to live with your own way, besides that, from the decision, you can learn how to hold responsibility and take new risk because this life will never inform whether you will make misfortune or you will make fortune. 

     Here what I believe; life will respond after we create decision, "if there is no decision, we create indecision", if there is indecision, life will put us to the destination where we never enjoy with the happiness state, all activities we have chosen in this life is accumulated by our daily habit which hinges on our faith level, remember this note; faith doesn’t equal with consciousness mind, faith is the spirit activity which ensures you to keep doing what you believe with your subconsciousness mind, basically our life pattern we have designed so far comes from quality of  our faith, every decision we make depends on something we pull from the philosophy, if we choose something pleasure and easy to get in this world, our faith tend to attract the negative influence and it will form the philosophy we believe, before we make choice, we must ensure our philosophy stay in line with our life purpose first, our circumstance now is accumulated by philosophy and life purpose we create in long period of time, here is my daily note; don't let your choice will create procrastination and regret in the future, that's important thing.


      Remember this; everything that can be measured, we can improve it soon, means, in this life we will get many obstacles, adversity, mistake, rejection and many unaccepted things by our consciousness mind, if we can measure our work based on life purpose, we can create big differencehere is my research; we can develop our life journey to be significant as long as we accept what our subconscious mind really hates and our life journey will get stuck when we love what God forbids such as drinking alcohol, free sex, drugs, rob, rape, kill an innocent, eat the amphibian, eat fanged animal, eat a meat-eating animals, and make any destruction, in either land, sea or air, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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5 simple ways to prevent burnout

Here is the image how people get burnout

       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “5 simple ways to prevent burnout”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people start get fainted every time they faced burnout, in this article I would give you some tips how to prevent burnout, hopefully these ideas can help you how to find the root cause, here is the first simple ways to prevent burnout; every 1 hour, you need to de-stress around 2-5 minutes, for example; making a cup of coffee or milk, the reason why you need to practice this ritual because it can retrieve your lost mental strength and regain new enthusiasm, here is the second simple ways to prevent burnout; find something that it can evoke your sense of humor, the reason why I recommend you to adapt with it regularly because it will rejuvenate your mentality and it will help you to step back from stress condition, remember this; don't wait someone to fix your circumstance because not everyone understands your pain. 


      Here is the third simple ways to prevent burnout; don’t go associated with the negative influence around you, the reason why you need to do it because the negative influence can’t rejuvenate your mentality with the positive influence, sometimes burnout can come easily from the negative influence around you, so you must stay alert with new social circle because burnout may come from unhealthy relationship and unfriendly environment, don't let the environment fixes you, so you just need to adapt with the environment temporary without changing your self-worth and change your principles, here is the fourth simple ways to prevent burnout; don’t let your memory gets crowded into people whom can’t encourage you, means, you need to clear your mind from the pollutant maker before you start to work, sometimes unhealthy memory can't help you to strengthen your focus, remember this note; having a bad influence can burn out your opportunity, here is the fifth simple ways to prevent burnout; take a nap at least 15 minutes a day, the reason why I recommend such thing because it will relieve your pain and renew your brain memory strength, if you adapt with it at least 30 days, you will always feel positive every time you face burnout, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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How to deal with the negative influences in your life


       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to deal with the negative influences in your life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people get inflicted easily with the negative influence because they deliberately exchange their power of faith with instantaneous pleasure, I have ever shared in another article “most pleasure is deceiver, it inclines people not to feel mature, not to hold responsibility, not willing to study, feel desperate about tomorrow's challenge”, it’s very opposed with the universal law which it states “the truth is ensuring people to feel uncomfortable, feel insecure, feel stupid and feel hungry about the wisdom", now you can choose which one are you side? Which character will you take with?”, if you want to get approached by negative influence, you follow your own desire, follow your strategic effort, follow your principle and follow your ancestor, whereas, if you want to get approached with the positive influence, you must dare to follow the universal’s law or the law of God which teaches you about the truth where it can’t be created, can’t be multiplied, can’t be substituted by the human’s capable hands, in my opinion; you must leave your ego for moment because ego just wants to protect you from undetected opportunity and shut your mind to see the future's hope, so basically ego is the mother of negative influence, ego is the true life test which can give you the value whether you deserve to get good personality or not.
Uninstall your negativity if you want to deal with the negative influence in your life

     Here is the first tip how to deal with the negative influences in your life; stay yourself away from the source of negative influence if you aren’t ready to welcome it, means, you must stay away from the source of negative influence for a while because you aren't preparing your mental strength, the negative influence will irritate you if you keep encircling yourself with it, remember this note; the purpose of negative influence is protecting yourself from the discomfort zone and shut your future’s hope from your own fear, here is the second tip how to deal with the negative influences in your life; surround yourself with positive influence and take a lesson from the negative influence after your positive influence has dominated your circumstance, means, you need to step out of comfort zone and see a new perspective of people who succeed to become a negative influence maker, if you can take a lesson from what people perceive, you will feel positive every time you deal with the negative influence because you know what to prepare if the negative influence comes to you, here is the third tip how to deal with the negative influences in your life; don’t absorb the negative influence as mood booster, but make it as self-defense, means, you need to anticipate something bad by increasing your knowledge every time there is negative influence around you, remember; not all negative influence can end peacefully, only you yourself can choose whether you consider the negative influence as enemy or ally, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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3 techniques to never stop learning



       Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “3 techniques to never stop learning”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many education system have taught student to stop learning and they are educated to look for a secure job or a guaranteed job, that’s wild expectation, do you know why I say such thing because that kind of paradigm will let people give up easily about the futureif people believe their future depends on a guaranteed job, means their job system will shut people's mindset to know about the future's hope, "if there is job can guarantee about the human's future for long time period, means, the job system will make human inflicted of regret in long period of time", remember this note; good job will not give you a guarantee, but it can increase your self-esteem, increase your curiosity level, increase your enthusiasm, increase your faith, increase your wisdom, increase your luck and eliminate being afraid to face every rejection or face a new adversity, in this article, I would share 3 techniques to never stop learning, here is the first technique to never stop learning; embrace curiosity like the mind of a child, as we know, the more we get older, our natural curiosity fades from time to timeif we aren’t curious about life, we will be shocked by facing unexpected problem, don’t run from life’s challenge, we must embrace curiosity like the mind of a child, such as keep exploring new thing, asking new question, not being afraid to take risk, not being afraid to fail, embrace about challenge, and adventurous.
Setting a clear goal will teach us to never stop learning and keep us away from mediocre life
       Here is the second technique to never stop learning; challenge yourself to have a dream where you have never tried before, means, you need to think outside the box about the advantage of having a dream, here is the fact; good dream will not keep us living in mediocre life and good dream will not let any sense of pleasure and easiness dominate in our daily habit, the reason why we need to stay away from sense of pleasure and stay away from feeling an ease for a while because it will create procrastination habit and stop the passion of learning, remember; you can’t decide your future but you can decide your habit and every habit you pick will alter your circumstance to the future, here is the third technique to never stop learning; find the book where it can increase your enthusiasm and faith, the reason why you need to find a book because it is the first step how to read people's mindset, if you find good book, your mind will try to apply what book suggests and book will help you to increase your ingenuity level, is it good idea, isn't?, whether we realize or not, reading book is better than watching television program because the book offers new vocabulary which can teach people how to behave positive in every situation, whereas television program educates people to live in perfect life, remember; faith rejects gratification and lust accepts gratification, if your faith increases, your lust will decrease automatically. I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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