• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

Reject tantalizing gift

 

   Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “reject tantalizing gift”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people prioritize their major focus to think about tantalizing gift rather than considering about their own reputation or their own expertise, I don’t prohibit you to think about gift, but if you too obsess about the gift you will receive, as impact, you will lose your major focus to materialize it into real life, before we talk about gift, we need to measure how strong we are capable to fulfill the requirement, remember this; every gift needs responsibility and consequence, in order to get tantalizing gift, you need to pay it with your failure, suffering, rejection, adversity, setback, commitment and dedicationthe most important thing is this life is not collecting a tantalizing gift, but how we can survive with our limitation; we would better to prepare our failure experience in advance rather than expecting a tantalizing gift from the success people, the main reason why we need to prepare ourselves for failure experience because it can be used to keep us humility, besides that, having failure experience can strengthen our independence skill, increase our bigger vision, increase self-awareness, enhance self-image and increase curiosity about the life's riddlethe reason why we need to reject a tantalizing gift because it doesn't require huge effort and it reduces the frequency of disappointment, if you get involved yourself with tantalizing gift for longer time, you will not get mature because you rely benefit from other people, instead you will build the disappointment’s chain with your temporary comfort, remember this note; don't use your temporary comfort to burn our your opportunity where it can connect between you and your talents / privilege / fortune because the real gift is within your endurance skill, vast knowledge, humility and unwavering faith.

  I will remind again the purpose of tantalizing gift is making you stopped to learn something new, making you trapped in the temporary comfort and feeling painful regret, please don’t get yourself so proud when you get something profitable quickly because it is not indication you will get a true giftyou don't need to get a tantalizing gift in the rest of your life, you just need to acquire knowledge how to get a true gift from God, remind yourself that every true gift needs mental serenity, open mindedness, humility and the passion of learningif you set your vision to stay oriented to the profit, you will not get something bigger than your profit you receive because you don’t sow something bigger within yourself, that’s philosophy you need to learn, it is very easy if we talk about profit, but it is not easy when we talk about hard work and perseverance, the reason why most people reject to work hard because they always perceive a tantalizing gift more important than doing something unprofitableremember this; not every opportunity you receive can educate you how to become better person and not every opportunity is fraught with danger, the play is intended to remind you that your attraction towards easy profit and it looks shiny can lead you into trouble, don't let yourself being pursuer, but let yourself being chased by the profit, how to do that? You just need to dig up your potential and serve others with your talents or privilege constantly, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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If you want to learn, be humble

 

   Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “if you want to learn, be humble”, the main reason why I choose that topic because being humble person is the basic criteria how to get the abundant of life, new value and new skill set, besides that, it’s impossible for a person to acquire information for learning if he behaves what he already knows, if someone keeps doing such thing, his habit will not create harmony or advantage for him because he can't adapt with new personality, sometimes we need to empty our glass(ego) if we want to accommodate new water(skill), in my opinionthe way of learning doesn’t need to be changed, we just need to change our approach by changing our behaviorhaving good behavior will create big difference in result, "the more someone learns, the more he need to behave humble",  when we stay humble, we will get stronger, better and more friendly, if there's someone stops improving his way of life because his complacent ego has surpassed his own limit, we must beware of about our personal character because not all characters we have is going to determine good fortune, the purpose of life is not making our limitation as the commodity which it will be fitted with the circumstance, but the purpose of life is we are more capable than what we always do in daily, to balance our life path, we practice our mind to endure new responsibility by observing new mistake, new misunderstanding and new problem.

Be Humble, Feel tiny, Feel less important

  Life is not just passing the time, but life is collecting experiences, either it is been done frequently or intensity, remember this note; our life history will be worth remembering by other people when we keep humble during learning something from other people who are more success than us, now my question for you; is there any difficult if we keep humble during learning something new? Yes, of course it’s very difficult to do because we aren’t usually trained to be having bigger vision when we were children, sometimes we unintentionally got trained to be arrogant person, as impact, we tend to avoid new problem and we underestimate how is the importance of learningbasically people who love to learn something new, they don’t want to sell their life experience to increase their reputation, instead they want to keep more humble for a long period of time and they share what they know and share the advantage to othershere is the strategy how to stay humility in everyday; make agenda before you start your daily activity in the morning, the reason why we create agenda because we need to get things done efficiently and learn something effectively, so we can create more opportunity and attract more abundance of life into our life plan, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Judgments cause disturbance

 

    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “judgments cause disturbance”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people realize that every own judgments actually determine their future, if you learn about the physiology, the power of words is one of the powerful resource which it can lead people to the destination where they deserve to get it, so don't ever underestimate the power of your words because it reflects to your future and also the power of words offer many functions in the real life, such as it can motivate oneself, it can hurt oneself, it can heal oneself, it can verify oneself, it can solve one’s problem, it can block one’s trust, and it can prophesy one’s future, beware of the words you say into reality because everything you say will be returned to you undoubtedly, please use your words as improvement method to your personality, don’t waste your time by saying a meaningless words because your self-confidence will be counted based on how much time you invest into it, if you feel positive now because you invest good word’s seeds in your positive thought in long time ago, so please beware of your words before your words becomes your habit, once it becomes habit, it will prophesy your destiny.

Wrong judgment will cause disturbance and friction

  People's personality is not determined by lacking their own judgment, but lacking of positive words, every word has vibration to manifest people's own wishes to the real life, when there is someone who has lying habit, means, he will receive bad luck automatically, remember this; if someone can’t heal his inner pain because he is always repeating their own judgments to magnify the size of affliction, every word will be hardened from time to time if you let it in, starting from now, we need to reduce the poor words by listening some advice from the wise person or we start reading some books until we get wiser than beforeyou can train your mind to distinguish between "observing the look" and "perceiving eye", now do you know the difference between both? observing the look means it is seeing something specifically with the critical thinking such as “what is this?”, “what’s the function?”, “how much value per hour?”, is it very urgent to me?", whereas perceiving eye means it is seeing about what things supposedly mean, such as “this one should be like this”, “I don’t like to be different”, “I refuse to do that”, "i won't change if you don't change", now my question to you related with the difference between “observing the look and perceiving eye”, which one do you think causes you the most anguish? If you feel uncomfortable and feel irritated often, means, you usually use your perceiving eye to make poor judgment about yourselfif you use observing the look, you prefer to think out of the box rather than you use your own judgment as an excuse to make the situation is getting worse, before you make own judgment, don’t trust the word you say, but you must verify it at the first time because your own judgment will count your luck in the future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Test your impression

Test impression

   Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “test your impression”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people just show their impression without verifying it whether their impression can be accepted by other people’s impression or not, some people think whatever they feel right and then they will express it directly, we can’t apply that kind of habit like that because we are part of social creature, we need to select which impression can be accepted by other people without any intention to hurt their feeling, this strategy looks complicated because it can increase your reputation, it depends on the quality of personality’s managementif you ask me about what the wise person does when he meets with problem, he will say to himself “I feel so lucky to get this problem because there are none of people will receive with the same amount of problem like what I got”, from that statement, we can learn that every wise person’s impression shows that he wants to test his impression at the first step in order to measure how patience he is before he analyzes about the problem, measuring own emotional feeling is more important than measuring knowledge, if someone can't control their emotional content, his knowledge can't work for himas intellectual person, we must test our impression first without judging whether we can finish the problem or not, if we practice this strategy in our daily life with this kind of humility attitude,  I can convince to myself that there is always opportunity to us to solve problem as capable as we can.


  Test our impression to the problem is very important rather we judge something we don't understand, , practice our emotional strength with discipline is a must to do, most people I know that they behave fury when there is unexpected problem is coming to them, the problem why people show their worse impression because their mental strength is untrained and untested to verify and accept new challengethe difference between the sage person and the ordinary person is having different emotional control and having different spiritual content, the reason why we need to test our impression in order to create bigger focus and reduce the impact of self-doubt, if we feel happy, everything difficult will be no different with something easier, remember this; problem is created to test our patience, not test our knowledge, if we can't fight our emotion, our knowledge will be ending in vain, sometimes our emotion is too strong rather than our knowledge, to balance between emotion and intelligence's working, we need to supply good information to our subconscious mind, so that we can control everything we can control by delivering the power of positive wordssome people say “we need to worry about what we can’t do to the problem”, now my concern is not about problem about what we believe about the problem, if we believe easily with people’s impression, it can't add more value to solve problem, so all we can do is keep trying although it doesn't work and we trust to our guts, besides that, we shouldn't use our intellectual when we want to interact with problem because our intelligence can't overreacted with the size of problem, we just need to show our empathy by calming our emotion first before we use our intelligence to analyze the problem, that's test to control our impression, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Living as vigilant as money changer

 

  Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “living as vigilant as money changer”, the main reason why I choose that topic because we need to protect ourselves from the fakers in the real life, not many people beware about what they trade because they just sell their trust easily with the darkness of life without verifying first, if we look at the real life, the darkness of life is variously, it can be fake friend, fake partner, fake business, fake character and fake opportunity, in the real life, the first thing we need to do is doing something productive and create something with self-fulfilling prophecy, besides that, we don't need to wait other people will help us because everybody must have own problem, being self-reliant person doesn't mean being selfish, it's just strategy how to measure how good someone works differently than what most people do at their work, in money changer's work, it provides value for getting new currency, sometimes we can adopt the structure of money changer's habit in the real life by increasing our knowledge, our personality, our curiosity and our faith, those are method if we want to get more value from what we do, “all our values must be defended, don't expect it will be substituted with the worldly stuff such as money, authority, possessions, relationship, bad behavior, and unproductive habit”you have to make your own masterpiece if you want to get value like money changer's habit, so other people will be happy by receiving towards what you trade and you will get trust from other people whom you give served, if you look at money changer's work, it always provides new value every day and monitor what people really need before people trade something with what they have to you. 


  If you can’t behave like money changer in the real life, you can’t sell your trust, if you can’t sell your trust, you can’t sell your personality, if you can’t sell your personality, you can't sell your expertise, that’s the basic principle how to be valuable person in this lifeeven though you have many skills, it doesn’t give you guarantee how to take higher position in your career, so you need to pay attention about your personality, notion and emotion, the first quality you need to earn if you want to sell what you have is selling your personality, don’t let other people sell your skill without telling you about how much price you deserve to earn it, this circumstance has the same purpose like the money changer’s profession, , if you look at what the money changer at work, it offers something benefit for everybody in order to get trust from what they trade, in the real life, sometimes we need to practice how to sell our expertise without being paid first if we want to accept new trust, new currency and new friendship from other peopleif we have this kind of habit, we always get new opportunity without hesitation, personality is the first guarantee how to attract more value, whereas, knowledge is strategy how to attract new currency, you don’t need to use your logical reason about it, you just need to believe with the universe’s law where it talks about the law of compensation “as long as there is value, there must be having a good service for others and you will get something based on what you offer”, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Expect to change your opinion

 

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “expect to change your opinion” the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people want to can change their opinion, the main cause why people don't want to change their opinion because they are self-righteous and they are self-motivated by their arrogance to keep behaving opinionated, this kind of people tend to reject to adapt and follow their own fake belief, many people don’t realize their the quality of opinion is caused by their knowledge and perception, as long as they don’t increase the frequency of what they learn, their opinion will prophesy their future with something they have learned in the past and what they have left in the past, there are two thing of opinion model; the first model is mistrust about own self and the second model is arrogant opinion, let me explain, someone who has two kind of opinion model, he usually keeps behaving like what people always did in the past mistake, he tends to magnify the past problem and then he cultivates it to become severely problem into the real life, this kind of person will never get new opportunity to bring something good in the future because they keep implanting the wrong seed in the ground, if someone wants to get out of the evil habit's circle, he has to cut down the root of evil from what he implants in the subconscious mind by doing something good constantly though he must feel an irresistible pain in every day.

Don't use opinion where it hasn't had untested

   Our duty as the next generation is stop cultivating the same problem because we will never get enough time to fix the same problem which had happened in the past, no matter how hard we try, problem will end itself and problem doesn't need to wait to be solved by human because problem is just the first initial step to move us into to higher test position, all we need to do right now is we need unbiased thought and observe about new problem which may need our opinion or problem solving skill, although we have overcome one hundred of similar problem, it doesn't mean there is no problem tomorrow, so there is always more than 1000 new problem are awaiting our skill set / our opinion, don't consider there is no rest in the life journey as long as the human were bornhere is the first thing you must do if you want your opinion can prevent something bad is asking an advice to someone are being able to solve your problem, or, you can take a note from someone who has shared something about his personal life experience, the reason why you need to use this strategy because you will unlearn your unproductive mistake and also you can use people's experience to add your vocabulary of mind.


   Here is the second thing you must do if you want your opinion can prevent something bad is learn how to think outside the box, means, you will not use your first opinion which you usually use it when you think at the first time, and then you can add up people's opinion into yours, for example; at the first opinion; you always say to yourself "what if I failed again?", now after you think outside the box, you make the second opinion "what kind of failure if I wouldn't try? and "what benefit if I would try one more time?", there is no impossible to do as long as you choose to endure the problem in life, don't think every opinion is problem, sometimes the highest problem in the daily life also has a restricted time, problem is designed to increase your mental age / skill set, when you have increased value, your opinion will be listened by many people who have endured same problems, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

         


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Prepare yourself for negativity

 


   Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “prepare yourself for negativity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people spend their leisure time for enjoying their pleasure without preparing something unexpected such as the midlife crisis, economic crisis, confidence crisis, the purpose why we need to prepare ourselves for negativity because not all what we want will be matched with the future’s hope, whether we like it or not, we can’t force our preparation to be matched with our dream if we don’t prepare for facing the negativity such as how to revive lost enthusiasm when we can't make our dream in our target, so we need to create the worse preparation or plan B as consequence, the reason we need to prepare the worse-case scenario because not all we plan is going to work well, sometimes we stop expecting to do something doesn't mean we lack of capacity, sometimes we are in the dilemma choice where we will get the pain of disillusioned in the real life, tomorrow is always mysterious, uncontrollable, unpredictable, and uncertainty, I think planning for the bad possibility is better than planning for good possibility because our mental strength will be ready to jump off to another direction before the unexpected tragedy will happen, I think we need to allocate our time and effort to create the worse preparation where we can stay away from all expectation and focus on the mission where we can facilitate other people to get e information how to live better, I believe when we spare our time to help others, we will not too obsess about the cost of failure, remember this; if you predict all your attempts are going to fail, means, you have planned about the worse-case scenario and you will not get stress because you prepare everything and continue to make provision for the future.

  Please don’t blame yourself when you keep failing because it’s part of God’s plan where He planned far cry beyond your imagination, you don’t need to know the reason why you need to fail at something you have attempted because there is bigger mission are waiting for you, so you should be grateful when God chooses you to involve with His good scenario though you think it's absurdityhere is the first quality you need to learn from negativity is you stop chasing about the reward and start continuing to endure the pain of disciplineyou can’t step to the higher level if you don’t take the trial and error from what you do in daily activity, sometimes you need to accept the imperfect thing in your life in order to know whether you believe or not with God's merciful without complaining, if you just accept the perfect moment from God, your mind will be death because your capacity isn’t adequate to sustain itthe second quality you need to learn from negativity is not all you hate is bringing the bad fortune and not all you love is bringing the good fortune, so we need to stay open-minded and keep humble, I think that's concept how to face the negativity in the real life before the real accident will happen in our timelines, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Trust, but verify

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “trust, but verify” the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are educated to be slavery during they were childhood rather than being educated how to be an independent person, many of us are educated by parents and teachers how to trust something without verifying it, if this condition becomes habit, we must be ready to get deceived by unknown circumstance in every single day, almost all adult people forget about their own mistake where they always consider all opportunities can be obtained by trusting it, but in the fact, not all opportunities can bring the good fortune, opportunity is just testing our awareness, as long as we don’t verify about the opportunity's background or its history, we let the dangerous thing will destroy our inner peace, in the real life, many people are just making split second decision when they get opportunity, whereas every opportunity can deceive us at anytime when we don't verify it first, so before we sell our trust to other people, it must be exchanged with logical reason first, remember this advice; "verify something is the beginning strategy how to reduce the pain of regret in the future", we would better to lose opportunity rather than being slavery from our misstep, we can’t always have new opportunity to rewrite history in our life journey, but the first thing we can do is stop being a slave when we are capable to do something useful, if there is someone who commits to become a slave because they deliberately sell their own trustworthy to something unverified, if this condition becomes habit, it will become perpetual habit and we will lose our self-confidence as bad consequence.



   Basically our pain is not coming from affliction, but it comes from our mistrust, we must leave behind something undeserved to learn if we want to get something deserved to learn, it is just like the proverb “if we don’t sow something good, we don’t reap something good”, if we don’t leave something undeserved to learn, we will never get something we deserved to learn, that’s law, trust is like passing the key to someone before he enters your palace's territory, if you want to sell your trust to other people, you must be ready to get disillusioned when your expectation doesn't match with reality, this kind of perception must be built earlier if we want to get stronger and better, please don’t sell your trust to anybody before you find someone who can appreciate your personalityin the real life, people who have no integrity, they tend to spend their time to sell something cheap, tantalized and it's unqualified to win situation in any transaction, remember this; selling trust doesn’t have same meaning with act of selling your skill set to the job you have got in the company, if you commit to sell your trust, it will take a long time for preparation because your background will be verified first by the company, but when you sell your skill set in the job, you will get money but you will not get the power of authority to manage all systems in the company, starting from today, you have to practice how to recognize your personality, weakness point, strength point and self-love long time ago before your preparation will be needed in the future, maybe you will ask me “when I will get rewarded from selling my preparation?” the answer; you will get rewarded at coincides you sell your preparation has matched with your personal integrity, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Don’t let success goes to your head

    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t let success goes to your head” the main reason why I choose that topic because success is not part of good teacher in the real life, besides that success will influence people to stop learning something new undoubtedly, whereas, the real success will not let people stopping to evolve their power of creation, if only success would be happening in one times in the whole life, the game of life would be boring and it would be frightening as well, as I reviewed, most people prefer to think success can be guaranteed by what they do in the job, but the fact is the real success will not let people dangling their wealth into their job, now my question to you is "do you the purpose of the real success?" it is making people failed constantly and keep motivating people to learn continuously, if you think your success is letting you earned a lot of money and stop learning, you misstep to the wrong direction because you just hope to get a lot of money, so you deliberately practice yourself to be a slave of money, if you think you can live peacefully with the success, it's totally wrong because success can't offer something good, instead your potential will be locked firmly and success will put into the pain of regret in long time periodif you really want to get the real success, you must refer to the universe’s law, here is the first quality of being successful in the long period of time is keep servicing what people need with your service or your good legacy, if you can’t provide what your potentially does for you, as impact, you will not get something more from what you sowed because you lack of sowing.

The failure is the mother of all kind of success

     If you think success can be collected by today, it doesn’t mean tomorrow you will get the same success, that’s philosophy you need to apply in our life plan, every day is a new preparation for defending ourselves from negativityI have ever told you that the real success will not let you stopping to learn something with your time freedom, that's part of the true wealth, if you can’t spend your leisure time for increasing your freedom of action, you will not get your idealism of life, instead you will be forced to get boredom, so whatever you get the job now, make sure your job will not let you stopping to learn about the source of new mistake, that’s clue how to increase your income ability, remember this note; there is no a secure job in this life, if you found one of secure job, it’s kind of myth, only your skill set will help you to keep you stronger, better and humble, if you think your job will encourage you to grow your vision, increase your ingenuity, increase your curiosity, increase your passion and increase your integrity, means, you are in the good job, I hope you will not leave your job when your job can educate how to become good person, if your success can't make you to become good person, you are in the wrong direction of success, as long as you are still healthy, you have good opportunity to continue your freedom of thought, sometimes you need to script your agenda about what you do in daily if you want to let success is coming in your way, here is my quote to you; "don't stop when God doesn't ask you to stop, but you can stop when the success can't buy your personal integrity", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Be wary of what you let in

 

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “be wary of what you let in”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us are too kind by letting other people’s mind to stay coming into our own mind without selecting it first, so when we keep it as habit, we must be ready to feel pain and we will receive the treatment of what uninvited guest does to us, such as opinion, mocking or judgment, we must understand that not everyone is wise man, so whether we like it or not, we must distract our focus by staying away from people's voice and starting to discipline to our action, mind and feeling in order to learn from the daily problem, if we don't learn something new, we will be encouraged to listen what our intuition doesn't want, sometimes we need to invest our time by practicing our enthusiasm to detect new problem and we build mental strength within 10 years in order to be wary of what we let something in, such as new philosophy, new information, new idea, new propaganda, at this moment let me share something how to be wary of what you let in your life; the first thing you can do is "beware of what your social circle most do in their major time",  during observing your social circle, you can learn how to be selective person to choose any new friend or social circle you desire because not all people can support what you do and you have an authority to choose whether your social circle can give you a value or not for your life, don’t let other people’s habit can influence you to do something unproductive or chaotic, this case reminds me with what Jim rohn said “you are the average of five people you spend most time with”.

be vary of your social circle's activity

    The second thing you need to do if you want to be vary of what you let in: you must learn to be wary about the information you consumed every day, the reason why you need to do this because not all information can be good for your own mental development age, basically the information of what you let in is the strategy how to determine your future’s destination, it is like the proverb “if you sow good thing, you will reap good thing”, means, if we don't collect any information how to get good thing, we automatically don't reap good thing because we don't know how to sow, it’s the universe’s lawwe can’t manipulate about this universe’s law because its unchangeable where it was established by Almighty God around 50,000 years before the heavens and the earth had been created, this reference can be used to correct our daily activity and we start to find the information we need before our power of focus and our freedom of act will be stolen by the social media, the new age civilization, technology, the third thing you need to do if you want to be vary of what you let inyou keep practicing your mind in order to measure how far your curiosity can go during passing through many distractions and temptation, means, so before you decide something, you need to learn how to accept the consequence such as new risk or new opportunity before your time is no longer valid in the future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Why do you need to impress these people again?

 


     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “why do you need to impress these people again? The reason why I choose that topic because very few people spend their time to build the clarity for their own future and most of them prefer to impress people with something they have because they aren't educated how to create self-love, this habit was handed down from the previous generation to the next generation, they do it none other for impressing other people without considering about what specific of value they give for others, here is the truth; everybody has own philosophy, different interest, different talent, so we will never have enough time to pursue people’s lives by sacrificing our own happinesswe should ignore how to impress people and we should change our approach by serving what people really need, not fulfilling what people want to hear because we can't make everyone happy, here is my opinion; what we need to do if we want to impress people is making research how to solve people's problem in the future, if we are willingly to invest our time and some efforts to do it, I am very optimistic we will get something benefit from it because we already left a good legacy in the past, that’s one of best reason how to build self-esteem, if we build self-esteem, we can sell our trust and we will not worry when people stop following us because we have built self-love long time ago, in my advice; don't consider the mainstream as good reference, but make it as stepping stone how to aspire the difference than following most people who have mediocre life's pattern. 

   Now I understand why people's lives can't change in 10 years because most of them spend their leisure time to impress people where most people don't really need it so much, the main reason why people keep impressing people with their own way because they lack having the freedom of choice, lack of vision, lack of self-love and lack of self-esteem, these kind of people can’t be independent person for long period of time because they always look for someone's approval, now let me share something you need to do if you want to get something valuable in spite of not having people get impressed; don’t show your skill when people aren’t interested to study it, the reason why you shouldn't show your talent for others because people prefer to be heard their opinion rather than giving the nod to other people's talent, the second tip you need to do if you want to get something valuable in spite of not having people get impressed; don’t follow a major opinion from people, but keep observing about a minor opinion which it usually gets many rejections, sometimes we need to learn from bad opinion because it doesn't mean have no clue to create big positive impact in the future, the reason why you need to collect a minor opinion from people because it can be good reference how we use it as thinking outside of the box, whereas a major opinion is usually to be used to impress other people for short time period, so don't get trapped with people's applause, let your success making some noise, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Pay what things are worth

 

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “pay what things are worth”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone are willing to pay something worthy for their own future, besides that people often can't differentiate between the price and the value, as impact of it, people are willing to get paid at lowest price because they are unable to buy something worthy for their own future, if people just prioritize how to get the price by selling their personal confidence, they will lose their worthiness for a long period of time, most of them prefer to adapt themselves with the money they will receive and they keep pursuing it no matter what it takes, it is kind of selling a sense of insecure feeling because they don’t know how to get something worthy, if people need to get something worthy, they need to sell their own worthiness such as time, focus, inborn skill, enthusiasm, ingenuity, dedication and disciplined action, that's prerequisite, we can't just demand to get the money by working on the job we are not really interested to do it, if we just do it something in order to get the price without offering self-worth, we will never accomplished something we really need to fulfill our emotional intelligencethe price can't be attracted if we can't sell the problem we solved, averagely people buy their own emotion by exchanging with something unworthy they have such as money and authority, that's major problem, when their confidence level is lower than the money's value, they will never meet with their own speciality, in order to acquire speciality, people must dig up their own vision and potential for long period of time though they don't get paid from it.


    If you have enough savings, make it paying what things are worth for you first, such as attending the course / seminar, buying book, buying the motivational videos, doing the charity for beloved people or unknown people, that’s proper practicable action how to get something worthy in lifethere is none other way how to get value except you sell your trust to other people's problem, here is true wealth you can't sell; your time, your freedom and your faith, don't ever think to sell those things because it will be your own responsibility with God, now you see why most people can’t change their life journey to be better to although they have a lot of money because they use their money as self-defence to shield themselves from something worthy,  in order to get valuable things in this life you need to stop thinking about your profit first, here is the key phrase you need to consider, namely "the more you think about profit, the less you get value from it, the more you think about value, the more you get profit from it", that's it, now you may think how can I start if we I don't have any value to be offered?, now here is the first quality you need to possess about the value; delay self-gratification to pursue higher value or the next target, that’s requirement how to attract something valuable for your life career or the qualified personality, if you use your money to increase self-esteem, you need to solve your own ignorance about the truth and your own daily problem, if you use your money to buy something in order to impress people, you will gain nothing, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Don’t rush the process, but trust the process


    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t rush the process, but trust the process” the reason why I choose that topic because not many people believe about their own growing skill in the long term period, some of them try to rush the process because their attempts and their prediction has taken a longer time to succeed, in my opinion; the problem is not lies in the process, but the problem comes from someone who is inability to have vision, make progress and lack of competence skill, it is very fatalI think we don't need to rush the process because we will never know how is the importance behind the process, sometimes the process is taken for longer time because it can help us to detect new opportunity and avoid the high risk which may threat our future plan, such as the life crisis or the market crash, in my opinion; we shouldn’t judge something bad about the process we created because it comes from our restricted space, our mental age and our different capacity, if we just too obsessed with result and skip the process, it would be unexpected loss will happen to us, the reason why we aren’t allowed to skip the process because in the middle journey of process will shape new circumstance for us, either spirituality, mentality, or physically, remember this advice; a new fate will follow the strengthening process from disciplined action and our readiness of personality.


                                                                           


    Success is like the butterfly’s life transition, it needs several part of long process to succeed, if someone interrupts the cocoon’s process, the butterfly will be dead because its wings are not strong enough to fly, in reality of life, we must not wait the result because the result is part of God's authority, nobody will know when the result comes because it is not part of the human’s responsibility, our main job is just studying, adapting with new circumstance and make a good service to others, remember this note; although we don’t know how good what we are capable of, we must practice our potential, we work on our philosophy and we work on our personality, that's it, maybe it seems hard, but don't worry about that, we don’t stay forever to continue the process we already create it because the next stage of process will be continued by the universe, as long as we focus on our potential, we will not get failure and we will not regret about what we have done, only indecision will end everything we hoped, although our attempt doesn't seem blooming like we hoped, it doesn't matter, the most important thing is study more than you have been given from a paycheck, don't listen other people who aren't willing to support you, here is the most dangerous thing we should avoid in this life; stop making progress, stop staying curious about your power of vision and lose the passion of learning, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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There is philosophy in everything


    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “there is philosophy in everything”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are educated to realize that everything around them can attract philosophy, some people don't take a lesson from it because they consider philosophy is kind of myth, the reality is philosophy is the framework of mind where it lies in the spiritual development, philosophy is like having own soul where it can make some movement, such as going to work, going on the course, attending the meeting, going to school, attending the wedding party, chat with neighborhood, etc. philosophy will not tell whether what you do is right or wrong, but philosophy will change your life when you decide to unlearn inessential thing in your life, the purpose of philosophy is educating people how to control behavior, emotion, notion, personality, and perceptionphilosophy can remind about the consequence when people are stepping far away from the truth, basically philosophy will form into the out of box thinking, not the mainstream as most people do, it’s not easy to change everybody's philosophy because they must feel the mental pain and discomfort as bad consequence in long period of time, there is only discipline, perseverance, dedication and consistency can unlearn the human's bad habit and poor mindset.


   Philosophy is not part of lifestyle, but it’s our personal responsibility and personal fate, philosophy was recognized in the world around 2000 years ago, it takes a painful adaptation when you learn from it because not everyone loves a deep thinking, but in the end of the day, philosophy will help you how to build the framework of thinking for your daily activity, the application of your philosophy will be exposed when you make relationship with other people, if you learn about philosophy, at least you will learn how to judge yourself rather than judge other peoplenow here are benefits if you learn about philosophy, you can control the word of your language, you can control your judgment to others, you will not behave like what the evil spirits desire, you will learn how to take risk, dare to fail and dare to hold new responsibility, you will learn how to behave temperance once you will meet with unexpected circumstance, you will learn how not to get attached with negative emotion when your emotion is unstable, that’s all. It takes long process to possess knowledge about philosophy because philosophy's scope is too wide to be learned, sometimes you will be forced to unlearn your bad habit when you learn about philosophy and also you will be directed to learn the nature philosophy when you succeed to pass from the suffering test, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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You are a product of your training

 

    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “you are a product of your training”, the reason why I choose that topic because not many people really recognize about their personality, besides that since they were children, they are educated by the education system to do something they don't really need so much, that's reason many children can't find their self-imagemany people can't recognize their own product because what they learn so far doesn't relate with their self-image, many of them don't not learn what they need to learn for their career in the future because they aren’t educated to love about their self-image, in my opinion; self-image really concerns with what people developed in the past, so everybody should appreciate about God's gift where they are gifted in different skill, we shouldn’t look for in the price of our product, but we should find out all we can do to enrich our good value, the reason why we need to keep training in every day because it is used to know our self-image, remember this; people buy their own emotion because their logical reason, when you decide to keep developing your skill than looking for money, you are stepping a head of most people who failed to find their self-image, although you don’t know whether your product or service is going to work or not in the future, don’t stop to do what you practice as long as your creation will not bring destruction or harm to anybody else, it’s your rare opportunity to promote your product, you are not product of life circumstance, but you are product from your trained decision as well as your strong commitment, you should be grateful with it although you seem awkward.


   There is no perfect product where human ever created, in order to know your self-image, you have to keep training what you choose without being intended to earn either money or fame, no matter how imperfect it seems, no matter how many flaws you see,  there is always new risk which always waits for usremember this note; as long as the world is still breathing, there is always opportunity for you to heal the world with your self-image, sometimes we need to learn by creating own worst case scenario in order to adapt with new circumstanceyou shouldn’t wait a better world to change your circumstance, there is no guarantee will be taken when there is always tomorrow, tomorrow is mysterious day because there is nobody can give you a guarantee, spend a day by upgrading new skill is the most reasonable activity you can do, if you and I knew ahead of time about golden ticket for prosperity, then what’s the point of training in every day?, that’s reason why Almighty God gives us the power of faith, it is used to claim our good preparation to buy a golden ticket for prosperity, so that's the point of  self-image, life will be boring if there is no challenge, when we keep practicing every day, we automatically build our golden ticket, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Wealth and freedom are free

 

  Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “wealth and freedom are free”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can exchange their freedom with new opportunity because they lack of skill to be exchanged with the market demand, to build the personal's wealth, people must use their time freedom to dig up their own potential constantly and give it to others as free giftas we know that not many people are willing to share their potential because they always have a profit-oriented, it may seem absurd if we don't get the profit for what we share something, that's the mortal world's principle, but if we look at the world of spirituality, "every givings will be returned to the giver", means, you will be pursued with the profit wherever you go, whether you believe it or not, it depends on how strong your power of faith to make it real, now I understand why there are many people can't make themselves richer because they follow what money wants, that's problem, if you compare between the human's wealth and money, there is none comparable, here is the key "we shouldn't focus on how much money we will receive but we should focus on how much our creativity which it will be exchanged with the market's demand", now let me share several laws you need to learn, here is the first law how to get wealth and freedom is share your profit to others for free like what God does to you, means, you must spend your major time to focus on what you can develop for free, if you are unable to give your profit for free, how can you share when you have nothing?, that's universe's question, here is the second law how to get wealth and freedom is don’t ask for more, but give for more, means, you don’t worry if you don't get what you expect because you believe the law of God will not make you living poverty by giving more for others. 


  Remember this; by giving more doesn't mean you will receive with the same amount of what you give, at least you will receive something different than you usually work for earning money, if you train your mind to give more than what you expect, your personality will become the magnet of sustenance, if you have this kind of habit, you always be founded by people who are ready to reward you, remember this; we are living in the uncertain world, don’t let ourselves becoming the prisoner of money because money can't make you richer, instead money will give you the sense of fear, if you focus on your potential, the universe will return what you deserve to get, remember this law; "the amount of greed is having same equal with the amount of fear at coincidence", if money gives you sense of fearfulness, you will receive the sense of greed as consequence, if this condition becomes habit, money will stop your creation and you tend to pursue more money rather than attracting more money, when your emotion keeps asking more money than before, you will behave like a greedy person's character and you work until the money will leave you foreverhere is the third law how to get wealth and freedom is don’t wait the outcome, but enjoy your potential growth, the reason why you need to do this because the outcome isn’t part of the human responsibility, sometimes you need to delegate your job with the universe’s law and let the universe and God surprises you with unimaginable outcome, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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