• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

Show me how to live today, not tomorrow or yesterday

 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Show me how to live today, not tomorrow or yesterday”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can focus how to maximize their potential, the main problem why it must be happen because they let their satisfaction grows faster than sense of confidence, please beware about your 24 hoursif you let your sense of satisfaction dominates into your mindset, sense of satisfaction will create the darkness and it will darken to your vision, if it becomes habit, eventually you will lose your essence how to live today, I don’t recommend you to pursue something you can’t control because it can indicate that you can't enjoy your gift, if you can't enjoy your gift today, means you let the darkness plans something evil for your futurethis world is too big, you don’t need to focus on the big thing, you need to focus on the specific thing and let your energy explore by itself, good life doesn’t consist in its length of time passes by, how in its use, if we just spend our time to stay casual and do nothing essential, as impact, we don't deserve to get better thing, if you ask me “can you show me how to live today?”, I will answer it “you must use your 24 hours wisely as the farewell gift from God", if you keep digging your potential for making a better world for others within 24 hours, life will show you how to live better.

Show your strength for today's mission

 The biggest problem in this life is human's ignorance, if we let our ignorance crushes our vision, then we will stay in the darkest place on earth and our lives will be filled with confusion, regret and pathetic, remember this; you will never come out from darkness until you illuminate your life path by learning, you don’t need to disappoint about the life circumstance, you just need to get angry about your ignorance and your weakling power, as we know together that there are many things you don’t know and there are many things you don't need to know, if you consider ignorance as biggest enemy you need to know, I am sure you will do something better in every single day because you consider your vision is a lot more important than your gratification, the key how to know whether your life is good or not; it lies in your sense of urgency, not in your sense of comfort, if you aren’t feeling urgent about your time, means, your essence is not so important in the eye of God, here is the last note you need to contemplate; if God loves you as His best creature, He will not let people do something unimportant and waste human's life for meaningless purpose, please enjoy your 24 hours and do something what you want as the farewell gift or you will regret it, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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Today is the day you get what you deserve

You deserve win if you always practice in your major time

 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “today is the day you get what you deserve”, the reason why I choose that topic because not all people understand in the day they deserve something, the main cause why people can't enjoy what they deserve because their mind is fueled with much expectation and they lack of use of their own resources, every moment they try to take something from this life, they still can't grab it because they don't prepare what this universe needs, the more they try to steal something from this life, the more they don't deserve it because what they do in this life is not eligibleto answer this difficult circumstance, you just need to ask yourself "do I give something worthy for this universe?, if you don't deserve to get what you want, it is not determined by the lifestyle you pick, but it is determined by every lesson you picked, if you pick good lesson in this life every day, I am sure you don't keep silent and do nothing, instead, you are urged by the life lesson to do something worthy for this universe as well as for others, if the lesson you pick is going to make you comfort, your mental potential will not grow, if your mental doesn't grow as you expect, you can’t take the newest lesson because your current mindset has rejected it automatically, in my opinion; you have to improve your own philosophy if you want to pursue the chance you deserve.


  The major key to find what you deserve today is start what you can do in the morning, practice your passion to learn and seek any information about problem you want to solve, as long as you stay curious to learn about new thing, you will be pursued by new chance, please don’t limit yourself by accepting something limited, you have to defeat your comfortable limit as if you were conquering your biggest enemy in real life,  that's key how to get what you deserve, the more you practice, the more you get better, if you don't feel better every day, you produce nothing in your most day and you let the darkness will darken your vision, remember this; life is not talking about guarantee, but life is talking about the service where it can be used to serve every creature in this life, so if you don't follow the universe's principle, you will lose your essence of life, if you improve art of learning, don’t let your learning progress become pride, otherwise, you have just traded one set of vices for a new one, now your future lies in your decision, if you can't sacrifice your time and effort to learn, you don't deserve what you get, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Where to find joy in job

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “where to find joy in job”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can feel their joy, besides that, they just spend their time to find something they don't need it, no wonder they can't find joy, remember, joy is invisible, you must do something meaningful until your struggle can make situation becomes harmony, in this article I would share several tips how to find joy and where you can find it, here is the first tip you must do if you want joy will find you in job; don’t just look for perfect job which offers big salary or big guarantee, but you have to make sure the job you have picked can increase your biggest curiosity and biggest interest, if job you picked can fill up your enthusiasm every day, you will do something extraordinary without being interrupted, remember this; don’t waste your time to find joy, you just focus to do something useful until feeling of joy will harmonize between your conscious mind an subconscious mind, you just need to take responsibility and work professionally, the most important thing is you have to increase your knowledge because it can empower your imagination, when your imagination is getting richer than your expectation, your joy will start multiplying and your expectation will perish by itself.

Joy lies in your quality of action

     Remember this note; you can’t find your joy until you find your gift within your job, you have to find your own mission by contributing something you can do to others, the main reason why I say such thing because every joy is owned by every human who has same vibration energy like what you have, here is the phrase you need to remember; “your joy is like the temple, you don’t have to influence other people to come into your temple, you just need to make sure your temple is attractive, inspirational and let people find their joy through your own temple”, if you spend your major time to pursue satisfaction, you can’t do something better in your life, your quality of action will determine the next joy you will meet, if you don't feel any joy within your action, you have done something wrong, if you can’t let go something you love, you can’t own something greater than your expectation because you can't delegate your power of love to find your joy, here is my special note; if you love about your life, you have to let go something you love and you keep working not for money, but you do it for your joy and for other people's lives, the second tip you must do if you want joy will find you in job; don't work for expectation, but work for quality, if you work for quality, your knowledge, happiness, enthusiasm will increase by itself, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Making your own good fortune

 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “making your own good fortune”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is willing to spend more time to make for their own good fortune, the cause why they don’t create it because they are too satisfied with last achievement in the past, besides that, most people don’t believe with luck and miracle, they hate to do something which it concerned with uncertain condition and they believe daily needs must be fulfilled by pursuing what money wants, if people keep thinking how to pursue what money wants, as impact, human's mindset will be forced to pursue money until they pass away, that's bad side of money's characterremember about this fortune’s rule; “fortune really hates with people whose a fixed mindset because it always produces the limiting belief towards human's thought, on the other hand, fortune really loves with people whose a developed mindset because it always gives a sense of new hatred for human's good feeling", the reason why fortune can’t be attracted by people who are doing something lovable because fortune lies in the most hatred feeling by human, means; people must forget what they love and they must challenge themselves to do something what it takes to meet with what fortune requires, such as develop their skill set every day, read book every day, research new thing every day, stay curious about new problem they want to solve every day, set goal every day, those rituals are often being rejected by most people in this world but those rituals are the most loved by long term fortune


  Here is the additional note; if people just keep doing what they love for long period of time, the human's vibration energy will not reach in the fortune vibration energy because fortune vibration energy always demands people to do something constantly in pursuit, here I just remind for yourself; fortune lies beyond the human’s imagination, if you want to be approached by fortune, you have to do something unprofitable for yourself and do something what most people hate to do, such as doing charity, share your belief to people for free, teach people how to make a life works for free, share your happiness to others for free, etc. here is the important clue; if you spend your major time to let go something you love to others for free, fortune will give everything you need for freeremember this; the human's mindset has two options; comfort and discomfort, if people just do something comfortable, their mindset will lock their potential and they will be forced to pursue what they love forever, whereas, if people just do something discomfort until they must force themselves to learn something new for their own potential, finally people will be pursued by fortune, that’s strategy how to make your own good fortune, if you don’t believe with the process, you will be forced to chase something until you feel desperate from it, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Quality over quantity

 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “quality over quantity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because all we receive so far in this life based on what we learn something, if we don’t get something meaningful from this life, means, we learn something wrong and we just rely on the quantity of experience, not the quality of what we learn, I know that everyone wants to get money and they will mention about their own quantity of experience, but unfortunately, they don’t realize the more quantity of money they receive, the more responsibility they will bear, here is the clue you have to remember; ego wants quantity but soul wants quality, if you hope to receive more money for longer time, you have to seek an accountable reference to be learnt by yourselfhere is the first sign you need to know whether your life is qualified or not; you don’t need to spend your time to chase money, but let money chases you, if you keep busy to chase money, means, your ego is bigger than your qualifications, but if you let money gets busier to chase you, so you just need to spend your time to create your own masterpiece and let others will find it, here is the important note; if you can defeat your ego by doing something qualified, you will be pursued by quality, not quantity.

Quality always be pursued by Quantity

    The more you pursue high quality in any skill, the more you will be pursued by high quantity, it’s law, please beware of your character, don’t let your ego will starve your potential, I have ever told in the article “don’t fit yourself with the money you receive, if you do that, your enthusiasm will be decreased by your ego and you will be forced to pursue money until you are no longer lived on earth, please don’t pursue the number, but pursue the quality, here is the good news; if you are busy to pursue the quality, you will not worry when you lose the number of money you have because you have the source of potential where it can attract more money from unexpected way, if you want to measure the number of money you will receive, you have to measure how much value you can offer to others, if you just sell something based on the quantity of product you have, you will not be pursued by potential of market demands, but if you sell problem you solved, your product will buy people's emotion and the potential of market demands will pursue you, please don't let your belief will limit your potential because it will block your qualified soul, now if you are willing to break your limiting belief, you have to show your dedication to deliver more quality to others rather than delivery more quantity of product you have to others, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Learn, practice and train

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “learn, practice and train”, the reason why I choose that topic because there’s simple strategy I want to show you, we all know every human is unique, but if we don't know our uniqueness, we will be treated like lowest rank people, it's horrible news, if we just rely on our passion without adding any creation into it, we can't detect our self-confidence level, basically we need 3 steps if we want to know how to detect our confidence level, the first is stay curious about problem and learn how to stay open-minded, the second is practice at least 20 hours at any field you are interested with, the third is train someone else to understand what you give, if you aren't interested about it, your confidence level will not create new value to your behavior and you will never get opportunity to deal with the problem around you, so you have to protect your emotional from bad influence rather than protecting your intellectual because there are many unorthodox powers within your emotional, here is the note you need to remember; Almighty God teaches human through 3 things; knowledge, writing and the unchanging law (the universe’s law), if you are not willing to learn it, you plan to block yourself from your potential.


   Don’t ever doubt about 3 methods (learn, practice and train) because it is requirement how to discover your true potential in this life, if you apply 3 methods for long period of time, you will hear what God commands to you through your natural instinct and your intuition, finally you don’t need to find the truth because the truth comes to you automatically, remember this note; you don’t have to struggle for something you can’t control, you just need to struggle for something worthy and pursue something you can control, such as you dig up your potential by learning and let the miracle comes to you unexpectedly, this universe is too big and unimaginable, your age can’t reveal that thing, there are many things you don’t know in this universe and not all the things you need to know, you just need to learn what you passionately, practice your skill at least 20 hours and train someone else to exert your inner power, please don't just rely on your last achievement because tomorrow is always offering something new, you need to absorb new potential for your mental strength and your body through habit and ritual you do it in daily activity, the major key how to get the biggest reward in this life is you have to find your potential through mistake and experience, then you train someone else with your masterpiece as surprising reward, if you are making habit of it, there are many unimaginable reward will surprise you over and over again, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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How you handle today is like how you will handle every day


      Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how you handle today is like how you will handle every day”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can handle their own lives, the reason why not everyone can handle their own lives because they just spend their time for pleasure, before we spend our lives to pursue for pleasure, we must realize the planet earth is not paradise, earth is the prison for every human, the reason why I say such thing because human will taste poverty, lack, mistake, rejection, stress, adversity, affliction, insecure feeling, etc. that's real life test, if we don't pass the test, we will be forced to rerun the same day as something in the past, living on earth is not kind of fun activity where everyone can spend time for looking pleasure or looking for fantasy, but the purpose of life is how we can handle every life challenge where it has been prepared by God to us, if you can't handle stress, you can't handle your responsibility to success, you will never know about the truth if you just spend our time to pursue the pleasure in this the world, you need to find your strength and your limitation, if you don't understand the importance of your existence on earth, you will become prisoner who lives in the dark place and not knowing how to plan something in the next day, if you want to know whether you can handle your days or not; it depends how you look at within your own biggest curiosity about your personality, if your personality can't control life pressure, you can't control your anger, if you can't control anger, you can't handle self-gratification, if you can't handle above, you don't deserve success.


      If you just love something for increasing your pleasure, means, you love something wrong, if you love something but your ego really hates to do it, means, you do something right because there is something  great come to you and you will need  to adapt after you finish it, life always teaches how to adapt, not how to be rich and happy, if you can adapt with life pressure, you will be more happy, the key is adaptation, if you can't adapt with life pressure, you can't get confidenceit same like when you can handle today’s problem, your mental strength will grow to solve in the next day’s problem, but if you reject to handle today's problem, you will get a regret and you have no opportunity to finish in the next day's problem, here is the important note; you need to practice your potentiality until your time will meet with the universe’s frequency, if you just pass the day without progress, you can't appreciate your time value, when it becomes habit, time will not count your struggle, time will not care whether your struggle is imperfect or not, but time will proceed your struggle if you do it passionately, don't count your day but make the day counts your struggle, the universe will not let your potential empty after you keep providing the masterpiece for others, don’t let your potential can be exchanged with money, if you fit yourself with the money you receive, you will not get something bigger than you usually get, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Life is working in progress, not working in perfect

 

          Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “this life is working in progress, not working in perfect”, the reason why I choose that topic because I want to show you about the greatest masterpiece on earth and how to understand the most important thing in life, when we were child, we had been taught how to get smarter and get good grade, especially when we were studying at school, the education system was taught by teachers to students not to make many mistakes because the education was designed to create sense of perfectionism, but if we take a look in reality, life doesn't teach such thing, it’s contradiction, right?, The reason why the education system teaches student how to behave perfection because creating an ego, in the school, every student is designed to memorize something repeatedly and they will not be taught to learn something new as if students are taught to fear about mistake, remember this; thinking without learning, it will bring more terrible vice, whereas, learning without rethinking the process, it will bring more pride and satisfaction only, the main point; we must not stop learning about new thing although we have learned something, the main reason why we must do that ritual because we must keep a chain which it connects between our masterpiece and potentiality, staying curious is the major key how to discover the life’s riddle and how to understand the learning processthe life source is unlimited, so we mustn’t stop studying and mustn't limit our potential.


          The key how to know whether your goal is successful or not is based on how you discipline your time, life will not fulfill what you have if you don’t appreciate about time or you don't create little progress, life will not create miracle if you stay casual within your daily activity, that’s secret how to know the life's work, life will appreciate your work if you dare to starve your ego by doing something unpleasant constantly, it just like the farmer is watering the seeds in the garden every day until the seeds become the fruits, it may take several months, that’s life’s working principle, remember this; if you don’t love the slowest process, you will never complete the fastest process, that's the universe's rule, but if you dare to love the slowest process, you automatically do something faster, that’s mindset you need to possess if you want your life is working in progress, if you never start little thing, you can’t achieve big thing, working hard is like unlearning a bad behavior until one's mindset has changed, the most important job in this life is self-improvement, nobody can arrive a life purpose until people let go what they love and do something challenging, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Don’t feed your habit with your anger

 

        Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t feed your habit with your anger”, the main reason why I choose that topic because anger is kind of toxic where it can’t be neutralized by just doing one act of kindness, anger will not bring bad impact to human as long as it will not be fed with habit, some people say we shouldn't get angry when there is problem, I agree with that, as long as we intend to prevent something dangerous, we may use our little of anger for making protection, not destruction, but the most important thing is we can make our sense of anger is silent, the reason why we mustn’t feed the anger with habit because it will get stronger, bigger and severer, we must have a strict plan if we want to reduce anger, there are many ways how not to feed your anger, here is the first step how to starve your anger; you must dare to delay the anger’s growing process by feeding it the logical question, such as, “what kind of destruction will stay with me after my anger grow rapidly?, or, you may ask yourself “how many people will get injured if I release my anger?, remember this note; anger is like atomic bomb because it always leaves the destruction permanently and anger always considers logic as the real enemy, if you feed your mind with logical question or logical problem, you can destabilize your anger's program, suddenly your anger will lose its power because it has less fuel to make it grows again, here is the bad news; if you just release your anger to the reality without preparation, your feeling will not get better, instead, you will be motivated by anger to destroy something around you without hesitation, if it's happening for long period of time, your logic will not help if you let your energy follow your sense of anger.


       Now here is the second step how to starve your anger; you must build a meditation chain and not to break it, means, you have to discipline how not to fuel your anger by  doing meditation and make a habit of it, this strategy will help you to immobilize your anger's power after you apply the strategy at least 30 days continuously, besides that, meditation can increase your spiritual intelligence and also it can decrease your anger's energy, once again I told you, everything great needs energy and focus, if you want to stop your anger, please don't focus on it and distract your energy to do something else, please don’t make habit of it when you feel your sense of anger is getting bigger, before you get angry, stay away from the source of pollutant, it will help you to break a chain of evil's desire, don’t ever try to feel motivated by doing something harmful because it will not bring more helpful in your situation, remember; anger is like raging fire, if you fuel it with your habit, you can’t stop it and you will be treated as hungry person because it will demand more hatred, if you want to stop your anger, don't hate what you do, let it go by breathing deeply, exhale it, before anger will starve your logic, you have to starve your anger by feeding your logic with knowledge, here is the third step how to starve your anger; you go on a fast, in the Muslim’s ritual, go on a fast is good choice because it can invite an everlasting health, if you make habit of it, your emotion will be directed to find personal fulfillment, your health nutrition will be protected and your anger will be controlled, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Don’t wait until tomorrow


        Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t wait until tomorrow”, the main reason why I choose this topic because wait something is not wise choice, if we keep waiting something uncertain, we always be less important person, because wait something is like we plan to fail and we deliberately sell our future for meaningless purpose, furthermore, we never get our time to return, in this point, we must know differentiate between patience and waiting? If we behave patience, we commit to grow our potential and we don’t have any time to wait for somebody else’s help because we believe can produce some improvements for better future, whereas, waiting is like we are unable to see any worthiness and we deliberately sell our freedom to others, that's nightmare, remember this note; everybody races with their own time freedom, if we can't optimize our time freedom to make a choice, we will become a hot-headed personremember this note; true wealth is lies within the freedom of action and time, if you can’t use your time to do something valuable in every day, you sell your future to someone who doesn’t know your potential, it’s very risk because you will not get opportunity to see worthiness about you, now you can guess what people plan if they don't recognize your own potential? they will give you small job and unimportant task, the main reason why you shouldn’t wait something until tomorrow because there is miracle is going last within 24 hours of the activity you’re doing.



     Now I give you question, what are you going to do if your true wealth can appear every 24 hour? Would you sell your opportunity to others or you will do something to stick with your potential? Remember; There is nobody can take place your potential because every human being is unique and has different capacity, only you can make choice for your destiny, you are self-fulfilling prophecy, if you are serious to do something for your potential, your potential will not leave you because your personality attracts the miracle and your potential can become a magnet of fortune, I am sure you don’t want to lose your rare opportunity because you believe that you are being prepared by the universe to meet with big problem to be solved by you, you are the potential controller, if your potential can’t serve something for you, your life will be bored and your mind will be fueled to embrace the negativity, it’s big challenge, you have to do something before your potential will be perished by the time, you have to become a hero where only you can save your future, if you can do something for your future, your influence will give impact to others and your name will be worth remembering, here is the additional note; the miracle can’t be found at anywhere place, but it will come when you keep watering your seeds in the garden (means, you practice your own potential), I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Where do these negative beliefs and doubts come from?

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “where do these negative beliefs and doubts come from?”, this topic is very interesting because I am sure every human being has ever felt such thing, the reason why negative beliefs can come to human because human’s behavior can attract too much untrustworthy information or fake information and it can interrupt to the human’s logical thinking process, remember; the brain is like the garden, like the proverb says “we shall reap what we sow”, means, whatever we do something right now, later we will get what we receive, if we get something bad right now because we already planted the wrong seeds in the past, there is no excuse for us to blame the circumstance because we already triggered the war within ourselves before we start the real war with the evil, if someone feels doubt and negative belief because he lacks of positive energy and he absorbs too much negative energy, it may come from social media, television program, fake friend / toxic social circle, alcohol intake, unhealthy food, bad influencer, magazine, the uneducated website, from these things, we should identify which source of information can give us a negative beliefs, after that, we shouldn't make a habit of it and we unplug ourselves from it with force, here is the first step how to recognize negative beliefs and doubts: you must identify your 24 hours of habit and identify the information you have consumed every day, if you can’t share something valuable to others within 24 hours, means, your mind has absorbed too much negative energy unknowingly within 24 hours.


     I wouldn’t say we can escape from negative energy, there is nobody can go away from it, all we need to do is learn something from negative energy and accept it as the countermeasure lesson, although negative energy often makes human feeling overwhelming anxiety, I don’t say all negative energy is useless, if you can learn from it, you will not get affected with negativity easily although you don't have any intention to fight it, negative energy will not dominate your feeling if you don't get too excited if you receive reward or you don't feel too sad if you receive misfortune, I give you an example about the negative energy; negative energy can form almost everything in aspect of life, such as problem, swindle, rejection, failure, setback, betrayal, humiliation, error and risk, for average person, I am sure they get angry if they get involved with it, here is the bad news; if negative thing in this life isn't being learnt by human, human can't optimize their power of emotional intelligence for making good notion and eventually they will become the devils's follower, besides that, you can’t get wisdom, justice, temperance and courage within your personality if you just use positive thinking to go through in this life, please don't believe too much with positive thinking because positive energy can hold you back from making new progress, furthermore your positive thinking will influence you to feel secure until you can't find your true potential, remember this ; if you feel comfortable for too long, you will not think hard and your life story just gets the pain of everlasting regret because your life principle can't guide you to embrace the unlimited belief, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Count your blessings


       Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “count your blessings”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can count their blessings and not everyone feels grateful about the blessings they can receive, the main cause why they can’t do it because they just concern about the worldly stuff, besides that, they just believe what they have had so far came from their hard work, perseverance and partnership, remember this note; hard work, perseverance and partnership is just the small piece of 0,00001 blessing, if people just count every blessing they have, i am not sure they can do that, the first thing you must do if you want to know about your blessing is watch yourself in the mirror, if you still look at yourself standing firmly in the mirror, you have blessing, if you are healthy right now, you have another one, if you are smart enough to solve problem, you have another one, if you can breathe the fresh air, you have another one, if you are physically disabled but you can do like normally people do, you have another one, remember this note; blessing is not like what you love or what you dislike it, but blessing is the reason why you are still needed by this life to do something useful, if you just put your happiness to something what you can’t control, you will lose your blessings.


     Do you know why most people are not happy although they are rich, because they will never count their blessings and they are trained by parents, teachers, culture, religious person and tribe to believe something already existed in the past and they are trained not to believing something miraculously, in the daily life, we can't pull the blessings if we will never learn how to count all blessings we receive, here is the first thing you must do if you want to count your blessing; you can reflect to what making you still lived although you face many difficult thing in this lifeif you can pass the life test, you got your blessing, if you feel something wrong, don’t connect between the blessing you receive with something you hated because not all you hated is unable to make your life better, the main reason why we hate to count all blessing because we think it is difficult to do and we are trained to learn something easier and instantly to go through this lifehere is the second thing you must do if you want to count your blessing; observe about the unpleasant thing in this life such as every accident, every disappointment, every hunger, every rejection, every adversity, every setback, etc. All are priceless lessons where it can guide you to create your blessings, besides that those lessons can help you how to stay humble and become wise person, if you can’t learn something for your understanding, you will be pursued by the darkness in life or you will feed your mind with the evil’s desire, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Our well-being is lies within our control

 

       Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “our well-being is lies within our control”, the main reason why I choose that topic because this life always offers us with many good chance for self-improvement, when we do something which can attract well-being, then we can share what we have to others, I am optimistic everybody wants to get well-being, but the main problem why most people can’t get it because they always consider it is impossible to do, if we always believe what we do possible to happen, we will never get a chance to touch the impossible thing, that's big challenge to fix our faith, if we want to change, we must dare to dream about something impossible to do in the future, that’s criteria how to create well-being, in order to live in the impossible path, we must feed our mind with knowledge every day and we do something we never did before, the best plan to create well-being is you need to embrace the impossible to do in the future and you plan something to go forward it, furthermore, you choose about one or two skills you most concern with and you make a habit of it, remember this note; our well-being must be able to give affection to others, don’t let other people will feel something bad about what we do to them, our well-being doesn’t need to be controlled by us, but it needs to be fed by our potential, the more we control our potential and make it grows, the more often we get new chance to dig more well-being from unexpected ways.


       Here is the bad news if we can’t control what we can control; we let our desire will be controlled by the darkness and our life path will be blinded by our fearfulness, we must realize that there is no shortcut method how to create well-being because life is like the race, if we don’t race with our own ego, we can’t defeat the enemy in outer world,  remember this; ego, fear and ignorance are basically controlled by our inability to see any worthiness within us, if we don’t do something different from time to time, we will get stuck between dilemma, anger and guilt, here is the key how to change our mindset; we must change what we love towards what we should leave it behind and we learn to love what we think is difficult to do and it can attract goodness if we keep doing it, here is the additional note; well-being is not determined by our desire, it is determined by our uninterrupted action and also determined by our sustainable improvement, if you succeed to do something difficult, please don’t think about “how long it takes time for embodying the impossible thing into reality?”, but you must think “how can I bear into that responsibility?”, here is additional note; well-being needs sincere, good intention, hard work and perseverance, if we can’t fulfill it, we will be pursued by sense of lacking and sense of fearfulness, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Kindness is always the right response


     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “kindness is always the right response”, the main reason why I choose that topic because kindness represents the ultimate power in this life where it always can create good impact to others, we can’t release the kindness within our deepest soul if we can’t dominate our deepest feeling by letting go of what we love for others, remember this note; kindness is not fake or hypocrite, kindness is showing the genuine of human’s character, showing the concern to others and kindness will never ask other people to return something what it already been given, if you want to possess a big influence, integrity, prosperity, famous, abundance of health and many other things, you have to stop pursuing what you can't control and you start pursuing what your biggest concern about your potential, means, you keep developing your own happiness by choosing one or two skills you attract with and you spend your major time to keep doing it although there is nobody gives you a compliment or reward, if you just focus how to improve your personality, your deepest soul will give you an idea or intuition how to share your kindness.


       Now, I have question for you, what will you do if you don’t have enough the power to show your kindness?, you have to starve your ego by rejecting your temporary comfort and staying curious about your potential, if you can't recognize your potential, you can't find your true happiness, remember this note; true potential can’t be found, only your struggles can handle with it, don’t ever hope something easiness will come to you where you don’t have enough self-control to handle it, because the power of kindness is invincible, now my question to you is “how you get self-control?”, the answer; if you don't enjoy your last achievement and you keep growing your potential as if you weren't winning, as impact, you will have the power of self-control, if you stop doing kindness, you will lose self-controlif you don't grow your seed, the weed grows and  it will destroy what you sow, that’s law of reciprocityhere is the bad news if you don’t grow your seed; you will never have your dream, instead, you will be forced by outer circumstance to keep working towards something you don’t desire it and you keep pursuing something your potential isn’t supposed to do, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Guilt is worse than living in jail

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “guilt is worse than living in jail”, the main reason why I choose that topic because there are many people are easily to feel guilty when they do something wrong, the problem is not caused by lack of focus or lack of vitality, but someone behaves self-righteous and he prophesies himself to be perfectionist, so, we shouldn't behave such thing because nobody is perfect, making mistake is not part of stupidity, but it is part of adaptation process and self developing process from the natural law, we will be perished if we don't learn how to adapt with the universe, we can’t judge something bad if we don't know what went wrong with circumstance, remember this; doing something wrong doesn’t mean someone commits to do the crime, so in this phase, we must know how to differentiate between doing something wrong and doing the crime, basically doing something incorrect is not caused by criminal's intention, but it is caused by someone who is losing his vision of bright hope, whereas doing the crime is caused by lack of life lesson, as impact, someone's heart is blinded and be dominated by his own darkness, in my insight; we must learn how to adapt with unpleasant circumstance, if we always do something in the same level what we can, we will feel guilty when we get many rejections or unsuccessful way, here is philosophy you need to learn; God doesn’t want you to be perfect and doesn't want to look at you in the same level from day by day, but what God wants is you see your gesture of submission to Him constantly like the universe's law.


      You can't be free from sense of guilty if you keep thinking about what others think about you, you must upgrade your mind filter, so you can differentiate between advice, mock or slanderhere is the bad news If you allow yourself to feel guilty; you allow the darkness will do whatever it does to you and your life path will not be enlightened by hope because you haven't lighted your own path with something you haven't done yet, you must make your past really hate you if you want to be loved with your future, in my insight; you have to practice your habit to work harder than what you can earn from it, that's strategy how to be person whom being hated by the past, if you put your mind to take place of your past, you will never become a better person and you will not get opportunity because your vision has been blinded by your sense of guilty, now all decisions are up to you, if you feel guilty after you do something wrong, you have two options; you let yourself beaten up by reality and you let others people underestimate about your own failure or you accept reality by shallow heart and you start to improve what you can improve about your ignorance, remember this note; we live on earth not to be perfect, but we live for getting lesson and being wrong all the time because it’s criteria if we want to be renewed by the universe law, besides that, if we avoid new mistake, we will being approached by falseness, and also we will be pursued by sense of guilty, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Don’t be inspired, be inspirational

Inspiration is always bringing enlightenment


    Hi good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t be inspired, be inspirational, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone wants to be inspirational person, the main problem why people don't want to become such thing because they are too busy with something they have done daily, besides that, they aren't curious how to find a mission in this life, if we look at based on past history, there were many successful people struggled a lot in order to change their own life journey through leaving a legacy to the next generation, if we are born in the next generation, we shouldn't be inspired by them and just became the ancestor's follower but we must become a new creator of hope, as the next generation who live today, we shouldn’t rely on the ancestor because they were passed away, there are still many untold mission we can do as the next generation, here is the first thing you can do if you want to be inspirational person; fix your internal problem, means, you do something where only you can do it by yourself such as work on your personality, fix your philosophy, practice your expertise, improve an ego, fix a false ritual, fix internal communication between your soul and subconscious mind, fix your idealism.


      Here is the good news; if you can handle your internal problem, it has the same value like you can change other people’s lives, it may take few years before you realize that you can fix your internal problem, that's training, don’t ever think this ritual is going to take few years only, it’s totally wrong, in order to release your inspirational story, you have to consider it as the life time's job, the reason why you need to hold this responsibility because not everyone can endure this responsibility, you have to challenge yourself and dig your soul as if you were talking with the source of creator, Almighty God, remember this; if you can fix your internal problem, the outer world will not affect to your inner circumstance because you train yourself to bring an inspirational mission, here is the second thing you can do if you want to be inspirational person; stop cursing what you can't do and underestimate whatever you do to make your potential is growing, the reason why you need to concern about it because it will affect your conscience, faith, future, behavior and fortuneif you use 1 minute to complain about what you can’t do, you will waste 1 minute of your opportunity to change your future, it’s not easy to appreciate what we lose, if there is always an excuse, our life journey will not make an exponential result, God gives us limitation in order to give us strength and focus about what we can do, if we can’t use our limitation to make change, we will never feel enough to use the unlimited resource to make change, here is philosophy you need to learn; if there is no knowledge, there is no thinking process, if there is no thinking process, there is no adaptation process, if there is no adaptation process, there is no enthusiasm to do, if there is no enthusiasm to do, there is no progress, if there is no progress, the future will no change at allall your fortunes came from your belief, ritual, daily practice and your reason, if you can’t have enough reason to change your life story, you can't exert yourself to bring more source of inspiration, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Carpe diem


 

    Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “carpe diem”, the main reason why I choose that topic because it’s kind of reminder for us how to seize opportunity as soon as possible rather than keep waiting of someone else’s help, as we all know everyone has different purpose and different mission, we can’t demand other people to make opportunity for us if we ourselves are not ready to face with our internal problem, that’s the key how to know more about our identity, every single person has own responsibility to take control their own fate, if we can’t fix our internal problem, such as internal communication, internal peace or internal false belief, other people can’t fix it, only we ourselves can fix it internal, it takes several years before we will get the exponential result, now I have question to you, what would you mind if your good opportunity has not appeared yet?, there are two options to answer it; you block your focus to pursue your own gratification or you focus how to find your true potential, remember this note; finding true potential is like finding the grace of God, it takes a lifetime of experience, if you focus on how to find your own potential, you will meet with new mistake over and over again until you don’t deserve to get the same level of the failure, remember this advice; every problem you meet doesn’t require to have it repaired, problem is designed to fix your own mindset and increase your mental strength, that’s purpose of carpe diem.


   If you can’t stand to find new knowledge in your most day, you will be forced to accept regret and ignorance, if we can’t live peacefully with our inner circumstance, we will never get chance to affect outer circumstance, don’t hope too much to other people’s help because everybody is busy with their own activity, time is like the capital, if you just use your life to get entertained from the social media or the news or television, your future will entertain you with irrelevant matters, such as you will lose your major things in life, such as you lose your self-confidence, you aren't enthusiast about your time freedom, you are desperate easily, you are angry easilyremember this; building carpe diem is like building relationship with bank, if you want to get big opportunity, you have to save your money into deposit account and you keep adding your money into your deposit account until the bank tells you that you can withdraw your money, in the real life, it's same thing, you can’t ask opportunity to provide what you want before you invest your efforts to work with your intuition, talent, expertise and faith, life only provides something you need, not something you want, in order to make good relation between you and your future, you have to have faith first and do something as if you had received something you deserve it, if you really want to possess good opportunity in life, you have to ask yourself “how much responsibility I can bear if I have to live longer on earth?”, you need to care of what people concern about daily problem and help them as best as you can, that’s strategy how to know whether your life is really valuable or not, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Whether there is Good or evil? Look at your choices

 

     Hi smart people, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “whether there is good or evil? Look at your choice”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone succeeds how to recognize whether what they do is good or evil, besides that, many people get frustrated when they know what they do is not working, when they start to blame everything they can, the evil's desire will come to reality, at this moment let me clarify about your biggest misconception to interpret about good or evil, the first thing you should do if you want to know whether you are doing good or evil; if what you do can bring more peace and prosperity through your creativity, means, you are doing good, but if what you do can leave any damage or destruction on earth, such as killing people, raping people, robbery, swindle, means, you do the evil deedremember; love doesn’t start a war, evil doesn’t start a peace, if you can’t differentiate between love and peace, there is always a war before the real war is begun, if you believe something before you verify it, you will become the follower of other people and you will enter into the jail of people’s mindit is not easy to make good choice when you are faced in difficult situation because you need to fight against your evil desire and you start to dig up your mistake until your personality can offer good choice to you. 


     Good choice or evil choice is determined by your vibration energy, if you feel positive about yourself, you will not make rush choice, instead you will feel harmony first in your heart before you make own decision, you can't determine which choice should you have until your struggles will be directed to the dead end option, if you can't find new direction, means, you will do something wrong or evil, you must stop it, if you find something wrong, please don’t be afraid if you feel stuck with it because it is part of adaptation process before you will find right direction, all you need to do every day is revive your soul-searching towards your own positive vibration, and then you will be directed to the unprecedented opportunity because your positive vibration has attracted something bigger than yourselfnow here is the first sign you will get if you want to know whether your choice is good or evil; if what you do can bring you a lot of disappointment, means you put your belief into evil's desire, but if you put your belief into hope, you will keep doing although you do not have new chance to get new luck, that's good choice, remember this note; every new phase of your life is begun from your participation and your biggest contribution, if you train your mind to dig up your potential, you will attract positive vibration and your potential will erase your ignorance and make you feel harmony in whatever you make choice, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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