• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

The obstacle is always around us


     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the obstacle is always around us”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes that the obstacle is really existing and it's been there before we were born, besides that the obstacle often disguises in many different types, here is the first obstacle may come around us is self-ignorance, means, we don't know anything about what went wrong and afraid about something too good to be true, in order to eliminate ignorance, you have to eliminate your pleasure as much as you can, if you don’t brave to do something you never tried, there is bigger obstacle will block your conscious mind as consequence, remember this advice; if there is something difficult you need to do, means, its chance for you to get stronger, here is the second obstacle may come around us is curb from the bad influence, means, you prevent yourself to get caught from bad influence, it's very difficult to do because it needs a lot of courage, affliction and patience, showing your ignorance to bad influence is better than you have to deal with bad influence maker, if you realize there is something can attract bad influence to your brain memory, why don’t you try to ignore it before you are making habit of it? if you can’t ignore bad influence, your subconscious mind will ask you to make habit of it, beware of bad influence, once you’re making habit of it, you will become the next bad influence maker, you need to break the chain of bad influence by distracting your focus into another attractive object.


    Here is the third obstacle may around us; laziness, the reason why people become lazy because they have too much false belief within their mindset and also they lack of information how to design a good future, that’s how the poor mindset works, if people know how to design a good future, they will do something urgently until they manifest what they want into reality, basically there is nobody in this world wants to be lazy person, they just receive a bad influence, there is nothing wrong with mindset, as long as people stay open-minded, they will receive new lesson, please beware about bad influence, you have to protect your mindset’s data because bad influence is the major problem which causes people do something dangerous, if people create dangerous habit for themselves, they tend to kill their future's hope by showing stupidity and their unproductive habit, hopefully you decide to make strong reason first before you choose to become lazy person, here is the fourth obstacle may around us; lack of enthusiasm, means, you aren't interested about your life, it's dangerous behavior, if you don’t feel so good after you run your daily activity, at least you have to know your biggest failure or painful story first and you can make it as mood booster, the main problem why people lack of enthusiasm because they lack of painful story in the past where it should boost people’s mood, remember this; don't wait your feelings to change by itself, you will never change it until you take action, if you lack of enthusiasm, you have to know the reason behind it, if you don't have reason to do something good, you unknowingly enlist yourself to do something evil as bad consequence, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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4 powerful behavior that will change your life

Change your behavior before reality will change your behavior


     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “4 powerful behavior that will change your life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because it is important to strengthen your personal behavior and how to face many problems in your life, at this moment, let me share something to you about 4 powerful behavior that will change your lifehere is the first behavior that will change your life; embrace new challenge to learn, but not to resist what life wants, means, you have to learn new thing again little by little although you have passed the test and you plan not to stop learning for tomorrow's uncertain, this behavior should be maintained because it can help us to face the crisis, this life will never stop giving us problem, that's what life really wants, so don't hope to eliminate problem, but increase your expertisethere are many unknown problems in this world which are waiting our expertise, if we stop learning a new thing, we plan to die for meaningless, remember this advice; don't let life worries you, but let life really cares about your preparation, if you don't worry about tomorrow, means you haven't practiced well today, that's simple ritual you need to contemplate if you want to change your lifeyou should be worrying if you don't practice well today because tomorrow can offer more scarier problem than our imagination, don't let tomorrow's moment can defeat your preparation, your lifetime job is how to maintain your enthusiasm to be strong every single day, to maintain your enthusiasm for long period of time, you have to practice your faith, mindset, habit and skill together as if you were dying today, the wise man says; only good thinker always prepares his natural death by doing something good today and for another days. 


     Your enthusiasm sometimes can reveal what you don't know about your ignorance, if you work without enthusiasm, you can’t save your good behavior for long period of time, you have to ensure your daily activity can increase your worthiness and you ensure every day you are ready to face crisis, here is what you try; you try to dissect small problem until you can solve it completely, then you make it as ritual and you test your expertise again until you can handle next problem, remember this note; not all problem are always representing that you do something wrong, sometimes there is type of problem which it can increase your reputation and also there is type of problem can increase your bad habit, here is the second behavior that will change your life; show your gratitude about what you can develop, don’t devalue yourself by doing something cheap, means, you maximize what you receive from this life, then you practice it until you can make it as your masterpiece, besides that, don’t let your behavior will devalue yourself, such as sharing hoax, harm other people’s reputation, swindle other people’s money, betray people’s trust, if your behavior is not congruent with your future’s hope, you have to eliminate unproductive habit and unlearn poor ritual here is the third behavior that will change your life; do brainstorming when there is problem and retreat if you have failed, means, you have to plan something for negative anticipation because not every problem you can solve and not all your plan can be realized well, if you don’t create brainstorming with people, at least you retreat and maximize what you can develop to save the future, here is the fourth behavior that will change your life; do something that make your faith renewed, means, you don't use your faith to work for money, but also you use your faith to develop intelligence, transparency, and your integrity, although it is difficult for you, that’s life challenge you need to face before the crisis is begun, if you change yourself after the crisis began, you burn your future, don't let it happens, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Get to work until you forget how to make invalid excuses

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “get to work until you forget how to make excuses”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everybody can finish their work on time, what causes people can’t finish their work because their excuse’s size is bigger than their intention, at this moment let me share something related with human’s psychology, one of the major problem causes people get new problem and new complexity; namely, invalid excuse, do you know why invalid excuse can’t help people to create better decision because it can make human stay away from reality and excuse can produce negative emotionbefore we’re making invalid excuse, we must make research whether every problem we have got is caused by self-ignorance, incapacitate or it comes from our wrongdoing, remember this note; “everything in this life is concerned with the law of cause and effect”, if problem comes from self-ignorance, it means, we are granted by Almighty God to take opportunity and we will get guarantee from God to solve that problem after we are studying it thoroughly, but if the problem comes from our wrongdoing or incapacitate, our invalidate excuse will influence our mind to make unproductive habit, if our excuse is always exceeding than our sensible reason, that means, our excuse will reject opportunity, finally we will get at loss, at this phase, we must beware about the type of excuse we will make for our future because it will prophesy our future.


    Remember this; people who hate to welcome opportunity, they tend to ignore about what they do in their daily activity and they prefer to make invalid excuse rather than doing what they can, I review that there are many people don’t realize that their invalid excuse can block their vivid vision to receive new opportunity and reward from this life, vivid vision can help people to solve a problem and invalid excuse can burden people's mind with unknown problem, the reason why I say such thing because invalid reason can treat people live in their past, not in the present, the best attitude when we face problem is not making invalid excuse, but get a help, in my opinion; get to work is a lot more important rather than do something meaningless because get to work can invite God's blessing, the more we focus on what we do into your work, the less anxiety we feel about circumstance, sometimes we need to work not because we want to impress others, but we can introduce our service to others who may need it, that’s key how to forget an invalid excuse, remember this; the marketplace doesn’t care about what we do, what they care is we do something for fulfilling their life’s hope, so before our brain asks us to make invalid excuse, we would better make a research how to increase our intellectual and emotional intelligence’s capacity, here is the last note; the more often we make invalid excuse, the more we dispel our hope, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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No need to be too hard on yourself


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “no need to be too hard on yourself”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people work very hard until they don’t take their day off, I don’t blame them when they love to work, but when they put their mind as workaholic, as impact, their soul will get shrunk and their subconscious mind will lose its strength and their daily habit will make their most fearing cause towards their own lives, to reach the idealism in life, you must know when you start how to prioritize your job and know when how to make your private life is blossomingyou don’t need to show your work hard in many hours, it would better you show yourself how to be resilient person in every difficult situation within one hour, remember this note; your biggest fear is enough to make good reason fro you to work hard, but you don't need to be too hard on yourself, your struggles will lose its efficient value when you just put your struggles in many hours but you forget how you strengthen your ideology within one hourin my opinion; you need to start how to stay working efficiently, not working in time quantity, remember this advice; "the more you can work very efficient, the more you understand something you need to do urgently and you don’t need to push your limit to finish goal too fast, so you can delegate the universe to work for you", I will give you the quote; if you can't do something slowly, you can't finish something quicklyworking hard doesn’t mean you have to sell your whole life time to work for goal until you sacrifice your spiritual experience and your joyI just demand you to delay your pleasure in temporary until your masterpiece can make something profitable for you, 

    To create a different life among the crowd of people's lives, you have to invest your working hard in your leisure time and you work not for money, but for self-development, you don’t need to get freedom if you want to get happiness or prosperity because sometimes freedom can make your mental guard down, don’t focus on your affliction when you work hard, but you just need to focus on your mission, here is my special note; don't bother to look for freedom, if you are willing to be freedom person, you will never know about the essential of your existence in this big universe and you will never be freedom person because life will give you a huge resistance every time you try to get freedom, freedom is just myth, if you are living today, means there is something awaits you, you need to welcome it wholeheartedly and you welcome it by your expertise, every human is unique, make yourself is different and being a person who possesses a profound insight, you don’t need to propose your skillset to everybody, but let your masterpiece will tell other people who appreciate your work, so that they will recognize your service and they will pay what you need, besides that, don't show your complaint to others when you can't do something limited, all you need is give your best effort to your work and let go of your work to the universeyour main job is keep practicing what you want to do as if you were being defeated by today's time and you keep depositing your struggles in your future’s account, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Adversity reveals what we don't know about ourselves

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “adversity reveals what we don't know about ourselves”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don’t realize that a great momentum of this life will happen when adversity reveals about what people should do for their innate ability, unfortunately most people don’t want to pursue it because they need a guarantee before they embrace adversity, in fact, we don’t need to know why adversity comes in to our lives, all we need to do is how to make ourselves prepared and being active to welcome adversity, we don’t need a guarantee how to face adversity because every difficult thing is designed to make us stronger than we were yesterday, we don’t need to avoid every adversity because it’s part of the maturity process in our deepest soul, if we reject adversity, it is like we reject to accept new gift from Almighty God, remember this; every happiness we have is not based how we work in our daily life, but every happiness happens when we already manifest our developed skill set to overcome every adversity, as long as we don’t pass the life challenge, we will never feel the moment of happiness and every gratification we feel can’t represent the true happiness, don’t ever hope true happiness comes from expectation because it is not lies within what we expect, but true happiness lies within our endurance skill that we trained it every day.

     

      Don’t think adversity is like punishment, if we think it is like punishment, we don’t need to do it, adversity just represents the life manifestation and also represents the power of our faith, if we feel everything in this world is offering secure, we don’t need to prepare about tomorrow, am I right? Our opportunity is just lies in today’s moment, not tomorrow or yesterday’s moment, we don’t need to argue why adversity comes to our lives, we just need to contemplate “if adversity is inevitable, means, adversity needs a strong warrior like us to accomplish God’s mission”, remember; not everyone will get the same adversity, every adversity is measured based on how people propose something to Almighty God, if we think big and dream big, our intellectual capacity will be challenged by Almighty God to accept adversity and resistance from within, whether we like it or not about adversity, it tries to reveal about who we are and what causes us to live on earth, let the power of faith answers it, as long as we can give our dedication to serve what God wants us to do, our success will find the greatest potential's path to be implanted to our vivid vision, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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If you want to break old habit, try the opposite



     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “if you want to break old habit, try the opposite”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped in their old habit, besides that, many people prefer to come back to their old habit because they can’t endure with mental suffering and they still don’t know how to escape from that old habit, that’s classic reason why people’s lives can’t grow rapidly, before we identify our daily habit, we must know what the difference between productive habit and unproductive habit, hopefully you have one of these features within your habit, here are the productive habit’s features; your habit is always making you stayed curious about what you design about your future, your habit will motivate you to work with a sense of urgency, your habit will fuel your enthusiasm to do something very hard although you really want to avoid it, your habit feels renewed when you face new problem and your habit can adapt with new situation although you feel burdened about it, remember this; your habit will determine whether you can be happy or not, at this critical point, you must beware when you want to choose new habit because that habit will represent your reputation and self-image, if your habit just offers you with a short term gratification, that means, you have to try the opposite, namely a long term gratification, here is the special note; by having a long term goal will assist you how to delay your short term gratification and shape your productive habit in the future.

      Now let me share something related with the opposite of productive habit, namely unproductive habit, hopefully you will start to redesign something for your habit, here are the unproductive habit’s features; your habit is always influencing you to feel complacent and being self-opinionated person, your habit will not motivate you how to get better person from day after day, your habit will block your vision how you will become in the future, your habit will scare you when you want to try something new, your habit can’t stand longer with new difficult situation, your habit will reject any information which it’s related with knowledge, and your habit will devalue what you do and what you enjoy, from these unproductive habit’s feature, I don’t mean to scare you and make you feel bad about your life, I just tell you about the reality of life, my main reason why I mention those productive and unproductive habit’s feature because I really care about your future as well as the next generation, my life purpose is how to design a habit where it can attract God's blessing and how to multiply the source of happiness, prosperity and health through habit, remember; money is not the asset, but our habit is the ultimate assets, if we don’t care how to design habit, our habit will kill our future’s hope, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

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The truly educated aren’t quarrelsome

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the truly educated aren’t quarrelsome”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people prefer to fight against other people's opinion rather than being a good observer and peacemaker, we must realize everybody is unique, they have different mindset, different story, different expertise, different perspective, different habit and different behavior, if we know we are different, why would not everyone does a peace offering to eliminate argument? remember this; the real education is not like what you learn from the educational background or formal education, the true education is based on how you maximize what you can receive from this life as the last mission on earth, if you behave to what other people think without any argument, you will lose your self-identity because you don't show about your perspective to them, although other people have different ideology with yours, it doesn't mean you need to fight theirs by making an argument, all you need is be listener, be reviewer and make it as additional note, now my question; why there are some people prefer to fight without making any reason? Because they don’t really recognize about their conscience, they lack of love affection and they accustom themselves with self-destruction image, now if you find a person like what I mentioned, would you make a peace offering or you just leave him behind? if I were at your position, I just leave him with a good legacy and let him think. 


    Remember this; you don’t need to make people to be good for you, all you need to do is finding a good people who can accept you wholeheartedly without any exception, if you always spend your time to make people liking you, you just start a quarrelsome without knowing whether what you are doing is good or not for them, every human has different comfort ego zone, we shouldn’t quarantine our time with people who aren’t interested about our personality, now it's time for you to make self-reflection, if you want to become a better person in every single day, you have to ensure your social circle can manifest what you want to become in the future, if your social circle rejects your ideology, that means, you will become a quarrelsome cause for them, it is not good for your life story if you keep associating with people who can’t accept your ideology, remember this; don’t try to get people schooling when they don’t want to receive it, your duty is just sharing your ideology to them and let them contemplate about it, don't think your school is very important for everyone, as long as they aren’t interested with your offering, they will reject it because they think they don’t deserve to accept your offering, to get true education, you need to learn about reality and become a daily good observer, if you are eager to know who is the best person who can explain about reality, you may refer to the prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) and learn his ideology, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   


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The definition of insanity


      Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the definition of insanity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because some people believe insanity is just mental illness, in fact, insanity describes a person who rejects to learn and accept about reality, the root of cause the problem why many people reject reality because they aren’t prepared about their own expertise and they can't control their own gratification, remember this, “the more you pursue your pleasure, the more you will feel loneliness and fear about new change”if we reject the reality, that means, we hate about what we do, if we hate what we do in our daily activity, as impact, we will never find the mean of what we are doing for the future, the late of Albert Einstein ever said “insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different result”, from that’s statement, we can conclude that we can't get something different in this life if we just follow our ego, besides that, we will never get approached by the truth if we feel can’t get wrong, as long as we don't take initiative to learn, we will never know how to handle all problems we receive and problem will make us trapped in the desperate zone, if we just expecting good thing and we are ignoring mistake, we will be living into insanity of life, means, our lives will get distressed without knowing the reason why we deserve to get what we do.

               

     To provide a good thing for our future, we shouldn’t fight against the universe’s law because this action just spends our time for creating meaningless purpose, whether we like or not, we should delegate the universe’s law to proceed our attempt, so that we will reap after the struggling process is completed, remember this; our lives will waste if we just use our time to wait the good thing happens or we will do nothing when the opportunity comes, "the more we waste our time for getting a lot of pleasure, the more we kill our potential", that’s consequence we need to realize it, remember this note; living without dream, faith and enthusiasm is like the insane person who hopes everything is going to be okay without doing something for it, before life will give us a crisis such as economy crisis, health crisis, and confident crisis, we should change habit, core belief and our daily ritual first, that's strategy how to renew our emotional health, here is the key how to make our life journey is valuable; we treat our future like our family, means, we facilitate something when we understand about people’s pain, we are ready to provide for what other people need from us, and we help others to manifest their dream, if this condition we build becomes new habit, this life will provide something more than what we need, there is another advice; if we can’t provide something valuable for others, our lives is like junk food, if our lives is like the junk food, we will have no new future, if we have no future, automatically our lives will treat us like the insane person, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

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Will you be part of the problem or part of the solution?

 

      Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “will you be part of the problem or part of the solution”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people consider their life story is like just doing what they love and ignoring what they hate only, in fact, this life can't be validated with kind of subjective mind because life is not created to make human satisfied, but life is created to give a lesson to every human being, every decision we make is going to prophesy our future, if we train our mind to seek problem, not solution, as impact, our knowledge is bigger, stronger, more creative and more innovative, but unfortunately, some people consider seeking solution is the best option they need to end the mental suffering, if that so, people's mindset can't not adapt and grow with the life purposeGod will not push us if we can't finish the problem, but God will ask us about the solution we receive, if we just receive all solutions without trying to make own fortune through expertise, we will never create a different path of opportunity, but nowadays, many people still expect to get solution instantly, that's problem why they can't make good life, in spirituality, it doesn't teach human how to hate problem or how to love solution, life only gives you an option, if you do this part, you will get this part, if you don't do this part, you will never get this part, if people hate about problem, they will never find the essential of living because they always hate about what life gives to human, if this condition becomes habit, they will get distressed a lot because they aren't ready to meet with problem.


      Remember this; we will never be able to create solution if we aren't interested with problem, life is responding to you not because you need it so much, but life is responding you because it knows what you prepare for your own future, if people don't prepare themselves with solution and anticipation, they will feel a bleak outlook about their own lives as consequence, in my opinion; seeking an instant solution is easier than detecting problem, the reason why I say such thing because an instant solution doesn't teach human how to survive, this kind of subjective mind belongs to narrow minded because it can’t differentiate whether there is true or wrong, good or bad about what people do in daily activityremember this; we don't need how to be rich person on earth, it is not part of life purpose, don't expect to be rich before we know how to seek problem and how to survive, if we can survive, automatically we are getting rich, but if we can't survive, automatically we are getting poor, to survive and being happy person, don't expect to get very few mistake in our lives because some of problems are inevitable trap, problem only gives us an option; become wise or become loser, if we just believe fortune will always accompany us, means, we have to adapt with new demand of tomorrow and not being afraid to change, if we just want solution only or just want to be righteous, it’s not reality because life doesn’t teach human to behave such thing, all we need to do as human is how to make our life journey is inviting more blessing from God, that’s simple, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Take a walk is good medicine for dead creativity

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “take a walk is good medicine for dead creativity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone consider this strategy is working for their problem, there is another reason why common people will not take a walk because they don't think take a walk can help them to find enlightenment, at this moment let me share something about the benefit of take a walk, here is the first benefit when you take a walk; you will release your negative emotion once you move your body and legs, the reason why I say such thing because take a walk can change your mood and your mind will produce endorphin hormone, here is the rule you need to take a note; every motion we take is going to determine which emotion we choose, every motion we make will break old mindset pattern and create new habitbasically all pains will discontinue its movement if we change our focus and change a body movement, now I have question, do you know why people get stressed? Because they stop producing endorphin hormone by making a body movement, besides that, stress will stop producing if we break the stress’s pattern by moving our body and feed our mindset by learning what we are curious the most.


     Here is the second benefit when you take a walk; you will not get trapped with the same situation and you will be met with new opportunity, remember that you will not get opportunity until you get out of comfort zone and your initiative will create a new habit when you reject to stay in the same situation, in my opinion; take a walk can help you to juice up your mind as well as renew your emotion, have you ever noticed to a person who wants to suicide? He tends to stay silent, find a quiet place to execute their wrongdoing act and stop wandering outdoor walks, that's dangerous ritual we need to avoid, although we know nothing about life, at least we must challenge our mind to make a progressive movement, such as take a walk, cycling, swimming, and reading habit, here is the note; the more you are curious of something you insist to know, the more you get something enlightened, the more you do something new, the more you know your weaknesses, the more you know your weaknesses, the less you fear of somethingwhen fear still creeps inside your mind, all you need to do is take a walk, this reason why we need to do this because negative emotion usually loses its power when we do something that it is making us exhausted, when negative emotion grows up, our creativity will grow well, nobody knows how new situation really changes until we really challenge ourselves to try new thing, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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calmness is like an antidote of contagious disease

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “calmness is like an antidote of contagious disease”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone considers calmness is part of supernatural mental power, the root cause of problem why not everyone can put their emotional intelligence into calmness because they don't hinge their faith to Almighty God, as impact, people get too excited about what they enjoy and they are anxiety about something not existedas the limited creature, we shouldn't force our belief to execute something we can't control, we must realize that not all we can do will change everything, the main cause why most people can't calm themselves into their inner circumstance because they hinge their faith into mortal expectation and they don't enjoy about the learning process, remember this advice; “the more we pursue about what we want, the more suffering we wear from it”, in order to create sense of calmness, we don’t need to pursue what we want, but let we prepare something for it and let what we want is going to pursue us, expectation is like the fire, potential is like water, we are unable to conquer our expectation if we don’t awaken our potential first, our potential comes from the daily ritual and good habit where we have built long time ago, if we just keep asking the world to grant what we want, we will be forced to pursue the world until we no longer existed, calm person doesn't demand something to the universe, but he surrenders the result to the universe's law.



    Being calm person doesn’t mean someone does nothing for the world, but he leaves a good legacy for the world, calm person doesn't want to compete with others, but he races with his own time, that's life strategy, here is the additional note; calm person doesn’t demand something out of his limit because he understand his own limitation and calm person doesn’t do something based on his irrational thinking, calm person is always planning something ahead for negative anticipation, now what are you going to do if you commit to become calm person?, here is what you need to do; stop asking "what I can receive", but ask about "what I can be more delivering for this world?", means, you don't demand the world to serve you, but you let yourself to be found by the world, it's fantastic idea, isn't it, we must consider our time is very limited, don't sell our time to repeat what we are capable of, but we should sell our time to work on what we never learn, if we enjoy learning, automatically we practice our mind to calm in every situation, the world is like the shadow, the more we pursue, the less opportunity we can have, the more we take from it, the less we have, the calm person works like a farmer, he sows a talent seed in the soil, he waters it every day with his strong commitment and he reaps when the time shows the outcome, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Stayed focus on the present

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “stayed focus on the present”, the main purpose  why I choose that topic because major people are being hurt by putting in their major focus on something in the past, that’s beginning story why they can’t understand what they do and they can't focus on the present, but now we must admit that we are limited creatures, we can’t create a better decision by messing up our life story with contemplating about what we regret, in order to eliminate depression and maximize focus, we need to reduce our big picture of what we want and we can make everything around us closed up and do selection, by it means, we stop to expect something which it makes us depressed and being new student who always wants to learn about his limitation, if you feel something wrong in your life, please check these steps, the first thing you should realize to make you focused on present is “see what lies in your ahead as opportunity to improve what you can, don’t make your inner circumstance is getting worse ever by correcting the fault of God”remember this; there is no crisis will happen if it doesn’t offer new opportunity as stepping ahead to break a crisis, if you lose your focus now, it is not because your circumstance, but your ignorance about self-image, please beware of this condition, the circumstance may drive you to the desperate zone but your decision will define everything, the second thing you should realize what make you focused on present is “stop comparing what you don’t have with people who have had what you don’t”, if you focus on comparison only, you will not recognize about your talent, expertise and personality.


      Even you have scary moment, you don’t need to share it to others and you don’t need to focus on it, you just need to reduce your scary by visualizing about your last mission and learn how you stay until your masterpiece you created is done, remember this; a sense of gratification and your scary can make your emotion is unstable, if you focus on unstable thing, your focus is moving away, please you don't need to focus on it because it will not increase your skill at all, if you consider your masterpiece is more important than your sense of pleasure, you have to live and die with it, don’t stop to share what you know to others, maybe other people consider it as worthless, but on the other hand, you leave good legacy today for getting tomorrow's luck, remember this advice; if you prefer to die for skill set, you will not regret with it because your skill will serve you well and return what you invest on your time, but if you die for expecting pleasure, you will regret with it and you will get more pressure as consequence, although knowledge costs a lot of money, but it will empower your focus to seek new opportunity and your fortune, please stay focus on the present only because you will find yourself in the cyclic processes of nature where you will get renewed, here is the additional note; you can use your faith to imagine good thing you want to live with something immortal and don’t use your faith to imagine that you want to live with something mortal, that's strategy how to focus on the present, starting today; practice your mind to use your life 80% do positive thing and 20% for negative anticipation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.     


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Make yourself prepared and active, let the fate finds you

 

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “make yourself prepared and active, let the fate finds you”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone are willing to prepare something different from what they have done in their own lives, the root cause of problem why people don't care about their own future because their expectation is bigger than their mental suffering, in the daily life, these people prefer to spend their liability budget and indulge their consumption habit rather than prepare for increasing their own productivity, remember this; people who spend their life journey casually, they will never become the luckiest person in their life story because they underestimate about future, the reason why we need to make ourselves prepared because tomorrow is always offering mysterious thing, such as new disaster, new adversity, new opportunity, and new circumstance, if we aren't preparing everything we have, our time of fortune will perish soon maybe you ever hear about it, “the more you learn something, the less suffer you will become”, means, if you aren’t ready to face life test, you plan to suffer and your enthusiasm will go down, please don’t just rely on luck if you want to meet with your fate because fate is always finding people who value their own time and people who maximize what they can give to this world, here is the note; the fate doesn't teach you how to improve your life, but fate needs you because you deserve to do something bigger, better and stronger than what you imagine.


    If you don’t follow your fate, you will be treated as weak and degenerated in your life story, your life mission is more important than your sense of pleasure, if tomorrow gives you a new problem because you are ready to learn it, please don’t be afraid if your struggles aren’t being appreciated by people because your fate will do something what you do and you will feel amazed with new experience where most people don’t get it, the most important thing to do after you make great endeavor is surrender with your fate, means, let your fate works for you, don’t let yourself unprepared of doing something good because there is nobody will work for your future, here is the purpose of fate; you will live peacefully with godlike personality and you work in this world as the messenger of God, such as "serve others well like God serves you well", God assigns life to you because you are entrusted to do something better in your generation, if you work like the messenger of God, there is nothing impossible for you and you will live happily as if you were not living in your own suffering, if you get problem now, it is not because you are doing something wrong, but life needs you to do something where most people aren't prepared yet, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Offense or defense


     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “offense or defence”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone has strategic plan how to make a better life after they get new problem, most people create expectation when they meet with problem, that's why they can't make new decision, at this time let me divide type of people's lifestyle into two group, the first group that I called offense movement or aggressive mode; the main cause why I call such thing because majority of people will pursue something what they want when they already find the source of pleasure and they will spend their major time to look outward of themselves, not to look inward, meaning, they are too anxious when they can’t do something alone and they will harm themselves when they haven't got what they want, this type of people tend to demand more from other people’s help, do something recklessly and they will do something irrationally when they lack of resourcefulness, such as they use the money for pleasure onlythe main purpose why these people do something aggressively because they are afraid of lacking resource and they depend on the luck,  now I need your opinion, do this type of people act according to what they perceive about the world? Do they think using offense movement can create a better life for human being in long period of time?


     Now I will discuss about the second group that I call defense movement or survival mode; the main cause why I call such thing because these people will prepare something different for the future and they will find something they love to die and live with it, meaning, people will not use their major time to seek for pleasure, but seek something for mental challenge, such as they commit to increase their expertise, they will fix their daily ritual and habit, they will select with the type of social circle before they will associate with them, they will work based on daily plan, means, they will not do like what majority of people do in free time and they commit to increase asset, not to increase liability budget, remember this; you have to commit with strong reason why you want to join the second group because you will feel combat with your natural instinct and race with your own time here is the first benefit if you join the second group; your mentally, spirituality, emotionally, physically, financially drastically increased because you have committed with something you deserve it, although you join the second group’s strategy, you will feel encumbered with new responsibility, here is the second benefit if you join the second group; you can enjoy your life where most people can’t do because you can use your time to rest at any time, whereas, the first group of people will pursue something that make them weaker for long period of time, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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No shame in needing help

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “No shame in needing help”, the meaning of that topic above is there is nobody is born to be perfect, everybody has different experience, different knowledge, different value, different dream, different expertise, different hobby, different mindset, different strength, different weaknesses and different character, from those difference, we start to accept our limitation, the more we think about our limitation, the more we can explore our uniqueness, the reason why we need a help because we are limited creatures, as long as we can do something for others, that means, we invest our future through people’s help, so we shouldn’t be feeling shame when we need help because there is nobody is perfect, in my opinion; the most ridiculous people’s behavior is when they don’t know what to ask for and they feel shame to ask for help, in my opinion; before we know our weaknesses, we would better to offer something what the market hasn't had, the more you are aware about other people's need, the more we can recognize our potential, remember this note; don’t use weaknesses as an excuse not to try something,  the  more you try doing something for the market place although what you are doing imperfect, the market will be no demanding something perfect from your service.


                               


    To get people’s help, don’t pretend you to stop doing something meaningful, you still can contribute something for others although they haven't realized what they need, when they start realizing what they really need from you, they will create opportunity for you, finally you get people's help, when other people know your expertise, people will guide you how to increase your life momentum, remember this note; your life momentum depends on how often you can serve what people need, no matter how smarter you are, you still need other people's help, needing help doesn't describe that you are lazy, but you know there is something bigger than yourselfplease don’t stop contributing something when you know that you can provide something, maybe you are chosen by the Almighty God to do something miraculously where 99% people won’t do it, the universe is sent to you not because you are smarter than anyone else, but the universe needs you because your mission has equaled with what universe needs, although you can’t get what you want from people's help, it doesn’t mean you failed or you are losing something magnificent, sometimes you need to let go something you loved to be matched with what God promises, if you really want to know how to get a trump card, you need to adapt with your long term preparation process, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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The more you take something from this world, the less you have


     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the more you take something from this world, the less you have”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes about one of the universe’s law, namely oneness, by that it means, whatever you take something from somewhere, it will return to the beginning process, what I know about the human's habit, "most people will sell their emotion to buy money and they forget life doesn’t offer money", the universe and life offers something human need, not something human want, as long as people aren't interested to learn from what life provides, they will never get what they want in this life because they spend their entire lives to pursue their own satisfaction until they die, remember this note; your life is like the vehicle, if you can’t use it properly, you can't drive your vehicle to go somewhere that you want to go, so your vehicle needs fuel, such as knowledge, expertise, mindset, good habit, dream and enthusiasmdon’t ever try to be greedy person when your capacity is limited because it’s useless endeavor, all you can do now is do something opposite from what the life provides, such as you show your gratitude about you maximize what you receive from life as well as people's experience, if you focus by giving something you never did to others, the more opportunity for you to have something you have never received unexpectedly, only you can change what you have in life, your life is like the seeds, you need to fertilize it and water it in every single day, so your life momentum depends on what you focus and what you develop, the more you seek pleasure in this life, the more you feel pain of loneliness.   


    In order to make your life is balance, you have to know when you must give and when you can enjoy what you receive, if you don't give something valuable from what you have to others, life will make you regret from what you lost, the more you learn how to take more from this life, you must be ready to lose what you have taken, to keep surviving on earth, you have to keep hunting your potential and give it away to other people who really need itIf you look at the world wide’s people, most of them are unhappy because they lack of awareness and lack of practice, the root cause of the problem why people behave such thing because they just learn how to take money as much as they can take from this world, in my opinion; please don’t even bother to take something from this world if you aren’t ready yet to lose something significant of your life, remember this; your pleasure is like having pain, if you can’t endure pleasure for long period of time, you will get pain for long period of time, here is the key how to endure pain, keep sharing your pain by giving something valuable to others, "if you can’t endure pain, you can’t endure pleasure as well", you have to know your purpose of life if you want to rule the world, if you already decide it, you have to show your best endeavor before you take something profitable from this world, such as pleasure, money, possessions, occupation, here is the note; "if your mentality and personality is suck, you can't hold the weight of pleasure", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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The main secret why wise person has few problem

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the main secret why wise person has few problem”, the reason why I choose that topic there is something I want you to learn about wise person’s character and how to understand about the purpose of problem, as we know together that there is nobody in this world can escape from problem due to every problem is designed by God to test how strong the human's endurance towards the cyclic processes of nature, if people don't want to recognize about problem, the nature of resistance from this life is going to crush the human's mental health, at this moment let me share you something why the wise person has fewer problem rather than other people's problem, here is the first tip why the wise person has fewer problem than actual condition; the wise person can manage his expectations as much as possible, means, he rarely expects what isn’t possible to do at the first place, he always thinks about reality, not wishful thinking, he will use his logical reason to make resilient decision, here is the second tip why the wise person has fewer problem than actual condition; he always considers possible best scenario will be made soon after he prepared a worst case scenario, means, wise person doesn’t just think about what he wishes to happen, but also what very realistically happen if there is something doesn’t work.



     Here is the third tip why the wise person has fewer problem than actual condition; he acts with a reverse trend if there is something goes wrong, means, he is not only considering what might go wrong, but he prepares for that condition to be exactly with what he wants to happen, I think it is an opportunity for excellence and virtue, if we look at reality, many people try to defend their opinion by fighting against reality, whereas reality is just a result from what they did in the past, remember this; if people just want to be right and avoid to be wrong, reality will treat people like living in the hell where people will feel desperate, unloved, fear, regret and disappointment, please don’t ever try to fight against reality because it is part of human's capacity, reality will not betray what you do if you do consistentlyif you think what you do now can bring a good impact for your future, reality will not invite something what you can’t bear, if you follow today, there is nothing surprises you or happens contrary with your expectation, but if you follow your vocation, you just need to continue what you can do and stop visualizing what you can’t do, don’t ask reality to change what you do, but ask yourself “what’s your best preparation to welcome future?” , don't compromise with reality if you can't make deal with yourself, here is the last note; wise person always feel challenging about what he commits, whereas ordinary people always feel unease when there is problem, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Cease to hope is the best recovery for your pain

Stop thinking about people's private matter is like cease to hope at meaningless purpose
 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Cease to hope is the best recovery for your pain”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don't get recovery after they do in daily work, besides that, they hope their recovery lies into money only, now I understand the root cause of problem why most people's pain isn’t recovered yet because most people think money can heal their pain, in fact, pursuing for profit or money can create new pain, as long as people don’t do something valuable for pleasure, they always get new pain because the real pain can’t be healed by the money or some possessions, money is a tool for reviving a new pain, if you haven’t had enough time to find your vocation and keep hoping for getting reward, your pain will never healthe real pain doesn't need to understood, pain can heal by itself if you cease to hope and you utilize your pain by doing something where 99% people can't do something for your future, such as keep a study, work for your vocation and provide a better world to others, please don’t just rely on your ambition if you want to achieve something in your life because the ambition is like this adage "the more you take, the less you have", before your ambition controls your emotion, you have to know what your biggest enthusiasm wants you to do and you must know what your pain wants from you, it may take several years to reveal, but you must start to find out, or you let your pain will bury your significant of life.

Cease to hope can minimize a war

   Remember this; don’t fight against your pain because it is kind of nature where it tries to tell you that you have something important to do, let your pain guides you to what to do and what not to do, if you feel renewed after you do something by alone, means you do something right, but if you are not happy after you do something by alone, means, you do something wrong, here is the note for you to remember; your reputation depends on what you do when there is nobody can see what you do, if you do something for looking a sense of pleasure, your pain gets bigger and you will lose your total concentration, if your pain approaches you, you don’t need to resist what your pain tells you because your pain already entered into the cyclic processes of nature where you will not reanimate what you had lost in the pastall you need to do is doing something that it can revive you again, make sure you don’t do for your passion, but you do because you feel your life is calling you to do something right, to catch up a wake up call from your life, you don’t need to argue about your pain or you complain about your pain, just do what pain tells you, pain is like a signal knows where your fortune lies, let your pain guides you to try one more time after you get many failures, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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