Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the truly educated aren’t quarrelsome”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people prefer to fight against other people's opinion rather than being a good observer and peacemaker, we must realize everybody is unique, they have different mindset, different story, different expertise, different perspective, different habit and different behavior, if we know we are different, why would not everyone does a peace offering to eliminate argument? remember this; the real education is not like what you learn from the educational background or formal education, the true education is based on how you maximize what you can receive from this life as the last mission on earth, if you behave to what other people think without any argument, you will lose your self-identity because you don't show about your perspective to them, although other people have different ideology with yours, it doesn't mean you need to fight theirs by making an argument, all you need is be listener, be reviewer and make it as additional note, now my question; why there are some people prefer to fight without making any reason? Because they don’t really recognize about their conscience, they lack of love affection and they accustom themselves with self-destruction image, now if you find a person like what I mentioned, would you make a peace offering or you just leave him behind? if I were at your position, I just leave him with a good legacy and let him think.
Remember this; you don’t need to make people to be good for you, all you need to do is finding a good people who can accept you wholeheartedly without any exception, if you always spend your time to make people liking you, you just start a quarrelsome without knowing whether what you are doing is good or not for them, every human has different comfort ego zone, we shouldn’t quarantine our time with people who aren’t interested about our personality, now it's time for you to make self-reflection, if you want to become a better person in every single day, you have to ensure your social circle can manifest what you want to become in the future, if your social circle rejects your ideology, that means, you will become a quarrelsome cause for them, it is not good for your life story if you keep associating with people who can’t accept your ideology, remember this; don’t try to get people schooling when they don’t want to receive it, your duty is just sharing your ideology to them and let them contemplate about it, don't think your school is very important for everyone, as long as they aren’t interested with your offering, they will reject it because they think they don’t deserve to accept your offering, to get true education, you need to learn about reality and become a daily good observer, if you are eager to know who is the best person who can explain about reality, you may refer to the prophet Muhammad (Peace Be Upon Him) and learn his ideology, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.