Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back
with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness,
health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how
to deal with the haters”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not
everyone can deal with the haters, some of us will get angry every time there
are the haters who put their sense of insecurities to us, from that
circumstance, don’t let feeling guilty is bigger than our happiness, we have to ignore their sense of insecurity which it is trying to put on our feeling, remember this
advice; the hater is born not to make
us feel guilty, but the hater is born to get us stronger than we were
yesterday, it would better we apologize what haters don’t know about us,
don't let they know more about us rather than we know ourselves, when we feel bad about what the haters talk, they already win because they succeed to attract more negative energy for us, as impact, we will get the pain of regret, sad,
anxiety, unmotivated, and revenge, here is my opinion; if you want to get happy although you are surrounded by many haters, you can
consider them as your competition in the race, if you focus on your strength, you
will master your inner powers and you will master the competitor’s weaknesses,
but if you prefer to focus on your
competitor’s strength rather than focus on your strength, you let your
competitor wins.
We don’t need to waste our time to
care about the hater’s habit, every human has 24 hours, if we use 1 hour to care what
the haters talks about what we don't know, we lost 1 hour of opportunity to care
about our future, remember; if we consider time is the most precious thing in life
rather than other resources on earth, there is always more positive thing we can learn rather than the amount of the negative thing, life is not happening to us unless we allow it to come, basically life is going to happen when it is responding what we react, means, if we respond with negative thinking, everything around us will attract negative energy, if we respond with positive thinking, everything around us will attract positive energy, all good thing are started with silent conversation with ourselves, if we always consider every day we get problem, the problem always comes although there is no the hater's existence, but if we always consider problem is like godsends, the problem will cure by itself, we can't change bad circumstances until we can master our own thinking, our job as human
is not changing the reality, but we are responsible to change situation within our mind, now here is the
question “how can we endure problem if we just wait the
changes in life”, we don’t have much time to wait the miracle, let
ourselves focus on something we can do, not to do something we can't do, the best respond to negative thing is we make it more silent by setting new goal for welcoming the future, I think my explanation is enough hopefully this article can give you
an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
