No blame, just focus on self-assurance


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “no blame, just focus on self-assurance” the main reason why I choose that topic because I want to remind everyone about one of the biggest enemy which can attack the human’s resource at any time, namely the blaming ego, it is not easy to deal with this kind of ego because we need to stay humble and big-hearted, if person has this kind of blame ego, he tends to criticize other people’s ignorance and he doesn’t take his own responsibility to do what he should finish it, if you meet person whose this bad attitude, you should stay away from him because he can stab you in the back when there is something you don't understand, remember this advice; lame duck’s job always blames other people, lame duck doesn’t care about his own mistake, to heal this kind of blame ego from someone, he needs to get out of his social circle which it can enable his bad attitude to blame something he doesn't know, so he needs to get out from the source of influence maker, in my opinion; only mental suffering can evoke one's awareness and self-image, discipline is the greatest pain we need to build if we want to kick out of the bad habitin order to eliminate bad habit, someone needs to do something painful, from the painful experience, he will create clarity, then clarity invites the power to recharge his life, if our lives has been recharged with clarity, we will find self-assurance.

     It sounds easy to change habit, but it is easy not to do, remember this; change a habit is like changing the religion, it requires huge mental suffering, strong will, curiosity, huge fear and new philosophy, if person doesn’t want to adapt himself with new challenge, he will never find his rebirth, the requirement how to make real change is endure so much pain, when the pain grows, there is new chance to build self-assurance, do you know why most people in the world are afraid to change his behavior or ego? Because they can’t stand to believe something too good to be true, I just want to remind that human’s character is like the adaptation machine which can be adaptable with new situation, the root cause of the problem why people can’t adapt, it is not caused by individual’s intelligence or emotionally, it is caused by lack of curiosity, false philosophy and perfectionism, we need to utilize the universe's law if we want to change our habit, we can utilize the power of resistance to pursue something we never knew before, you maybe ask me about it, “why person’s personality is unable to change if he knows about the truth?”, all great is started from the spiritual growth, “if the spiritual grows, it will evoke human's subconscious mind to do something like the universe's principle”, I think my explanation is enough hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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