Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “silence is a way to build strength”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can adapt to stay silence and many people feel hurt when they stay silence, whereas, silence is the beginning ritual how to practice what we can control and what not to control, the more we stay silence, the more we can hear our conscience which it whispers how to know what our purpose in this life, most people who crowd their mind with comfortable thought, the subconscious mind will distract people to find with pleasure, remember this advice; the comfortable thought always looks for guarantee in any life aspect, whereas, uncomfortable thought always looks for strength, people who have no time to crowd their mind with uncomfortable thought, they will do something easier without considering about the unknown consequence, people who can’t adapt with thinking time in silence, they always look for guarantee and instant strategy, if we look at reality, every great thing comes from the hardest thing, we can refer to the one of the universe’s law, the cause and effect’s law which it is mentioned in holy Qur'an Surah Ash Sharh (94) verse 5-6, it says “verily, after the hardest thing comes, there is easiness”, that verse means, if someone starts something easier at their career, he will be forced by life to do something hard in his whole life”, so all we can do as human being is make a progress and adapt with reality, there is no other better way to do than that.
Do you still remember about the Pareto’s principle? It says “the effect of 80% is caused by the cause of 20%”, from that principle we can conclude; if we start adapting with the hardest thing 20% in progress, we will get the easiest impact 80% in result, it sounds easy to do, but it is easy not to do because not everyone is willing to deal with unpleasant experience, remember; we can’t find our purpose in life by putting ourselves into crowded people or crowded situation, Do you know what the purpose of making silence is? It makes easier for us to build self-esteem and self-confidence in long term preparation before we face insurmountable problem, we will never find any greatness in what we do if we limit our belief to find something bigger than ourselves, being silent person is difficult to do because we need to control all information which may get into our heads and we need to commit how to accomplish something where most people avoid to do, life will become dangerous when we avoid to study and spend our major time to find the pleasure only, it is merely in the Holy Qur'an Surah Al Hadid verse 54 "the pleasure of the world is nothing but deception", that verse means, we can't get our essence of living by looking for pleasure, before we let ourselves being killed at unknown circumstance, we need to find the reason why we must live and what to make us stronger than the problem, I think my explanation is enough hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.