Accept what happened to your life and be resilient guy


     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “accept what happened to your life and be resilient guy”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is willing to accept what life gives to them, some people reject what life gives to them because it is not congruent what they expect and some people consider this life system is imbalance, I don't think what they feel is right because they just talk in the desperate guy's point of view, besides that, they don't learn about the criteria how to become the resilient guy, here is the first criteria; don’t behave like the past-oriented lifestyle, but learn what matters most, the main reason why I say such thing because the past time always leaves us behind, no matter how hard we struggle, we can't get what we expect from the past, if the past time goes by, we must let it goes in the past, that’s best response how to appreciate our time, we only can learn something from the past but we can’t let the past time stops what we move forward, here is the wise word we need to ponder it; what’s coming us is better than what’s leaving us, means, if we focus on what's coming into our lives, we need to finish it, but if we just focus on what we can’t control, we will never finish what we can control, that’s important note, just because we can accomplish the duty in the past, it doesn’t mean we are able to finish the different duty tomorrow, we must stay humble and be a new student who behaves know nothing and stay curious about what we can develop, don't behave like a person who always feel complacent about the past accomplishment and prepare nothing for tomorrow, if we don't welcome tomorrow's opportunity with our best preparation, tomorrow will swipe our opportunity and leave us behind in desperate living, we should consider every day as study day.


   The more often we study what's coming to our lives, the less we fear with the uncertainty, if we can't finish problem today not because we are not smart, but our mental capacity is not ready to adapt with the uncertainty, our best attitude when we need to face the uncertainty is stay curious about uncertain change and prepare what we need to learn, don’t ever try to prove that we always get better and never wrong, that's kind of mindset will kill our future, the reason why we need to learn something new again until we make it as daily habit because every day is full of uncertainty, we don't know whether we will survive or die, besides that, we will never know how much mistakes we still have, that's reason why we need to learn again, sometimes God demands us to be resilient guy because He wants us know how to endure a lot of problem and suffering, what i review about most people's habit is they don’t fear about the uncertainty, but they are not ready to handle a definitive consequence, that's why most people are living poor, remember this note; if our behavior is not congruent with who we become in the future, the more often we fear about the uncertainty, there are 3 types of people’s attitude when people aren't ready to face a new change in this lifethe first type of human is they can’t change their habit because their life experience isn't adequate, the second type of human is they don’t know how to change their habit because they are trapped too often with the same problem, the third type of human is they don’t want to change their habit because they are too depressing with their own ignorance and their own limitation, now my question is “which one is the real you?”, if you don't want to be 3 type of people like above, don't get bored to learn and be a resilient guy, I think my explanation is enough hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.         


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