• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

How to stop listening to the negative voice in our head

 


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to stop listening to the negative voice in our head” the main reason why I choose that topic because many people feel frustrated when they can’t stop listening to the negative voice in their head, besides that, they don’t know how to recognize which voice should be trustworthy, at this moment I would like to share something to you about several strategies how to stop listening to the negative voice in your head, here is the first strategy you must do if you want to stop listening the negative voice; developing a sense of self-love, the main reason why I recommend such thing because self-love is the way how to appreciate God’s gift, there is nothing more than happiness if we develop a sense of love, remember this advice; the more you give energy to develop self-love, the more you attract something good, you have the power to choose about what you focus on, if you don’t love yourself, who is the person can love you more than yourself, it is nothing, right? the more you treat yourself better by listening the source of good information every day, the more people will find you and give the energy to you, please don’t treat yourself like a garbage can, but treat yourself like the museum where it always appreciates the old precious stuff and it always cares about cleanliness.

 

  Here is the second strategy you must do if you want to stop listening the negative voice; pursue your potential no matter what it takes, the reason why I recommend such thing because pursue potential can elevate your standard of thinking, I just want to remind you that the standard of thinking dictates the response you create, if you stop pursuing your potential, the negativity will grow within your soul, don’t let your soul is empty from potential, you need to practice what makes you better every single day, remember this; self-awareness comes from practice, dedication, consistently, and determination, if you are aware about your deepest potential, you let your source of potential kicking your negativity out from your head, here is the third strategy you must do if you want to stop listening the negative voice; don’t fear with failure, be fearful when you haven’t failed enough and be fearful when you lack of tryingthe main reason why I say such thing because most people consider failure as the negative result, when failure is considered as negative, the voice of negativity will empower misjudging and it will bring bad impact to human's perception, if people are making habit of it, as result, people will stop trying because they consider failure as the end of their world, in fact, failure is just part of invalid excuse where it rejects God’s plan, as human being, we aren’t granted by God with supreme knowledge, so we will never know about the future, our duty as human being is not judging something bad to the failure, but how to make our lives worthwhile by investing more failure than being self-righteous man,  that strategy is part of personal development, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Why self-awareness is important?

  



    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “why self-awareness is important?”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone considers self-awareness is the most important thing they have possessed, they consider money is more important than anything, in fact, the income zone lies in the comfort zone, as long as we insist to live in the comfort zone, we will never get what we want, instead, we will get what we aren't supposed to getas human who don't know anything about future, we shouldn't rely on the comfort zone because it doesn't offer longevity happiness, instead, the comfort zone offers the painful regret in the end of the world, remember this; the more we push our limit to work hard in the comfort zone, the more we depressed about the outcome, most people think working hard is the best solution to attract bigger income, unfortunately, they don’t see the comfort zone as problem, instead, they see the comfort zone as opportunity to avoid bigger risk and avoid bigger problem, that's misleading concept, in order to attract more abundance in life, such money, reputation, authorization, fame, good relationship, credibility, etc. So we need to explore about the problem that we need to solve with the power of self-awareness, here is philosophy you need to contemplate; "the more you solve new problem in human's life, the more you crush your mental block, the more you increase your awareness through learning, the more you see something where most people can’t see it", basically, there is none other power can replace the power of self-awareness because it has the strongest potential to widen our perception when we want to see what's the outer world looks like, self-awareness also can help us to measure our biggest potential where it can grow our life career at any time.



  We need to set the right direction in order to increase self-awareness, at this moment let me share something to you how to increase self-awareness, here is the first quality you need to do if you want to increase self-awareness; ask yourself with better question, such as “what would I have to do if there is nobody is no longer support me today?”, “is there anything else I can learn in order to raise my standard of thinking?”, the more you ask better question, the more you get new learning process, the second quality you need to do if you want to increase self-awareness; track your good mood, it means, you can control what your good mood does something to you, if your good mood is gone, you need to revive it by asking yourself, “If my life's work can attract happiness, why would I procrastinate to do?”, this question can help you to increase self-awareness, unfortunately not many people care about it, most of them use their mood to enjoy what they do and not to use their mood to adapt with new situation where it can increase self-awareness, the third quality you need to do if you want to increase self-awareness; always raise your standard by collecting precious information and solve a burning problem, the reason why you need to do that because there is none other method can do that, that strategy is so powerful, if you are making habit of it, there is no single person can interrupt your life plan, here is the benefit if we increase the power of self-awareness constantly; we can prevent bad influence where it forces to stay inside in our lives, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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Hatred is taught, but kindness is natural



         Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “hatred is taught, but kindness is natural”,  the main reason why I choose that topic because many young generation have been taught to do something unnaturally, the root of problem why they keep doing unnaturally because their mindset has been poisoned by irresponsible technology makers, such as the prank show at TV channel, the killing series action at cinema, dishonest playing role at series drama, the pornography advertisement, etc. irresponsible technology makers have great potential to teach any person to follow what they publish without considering about the consequence in the future, no wonder many people don’t know how to do good deeds in daily activity because they have no clue how to find a good role model in their lives, in order to create kindness, we can’t just do something easier, convenient and instant, kindness is very difficult to do because it is against the human’s ego, "the more we do good deeds, the more we feel uncomfortable to do", that's natural way, unfortunately many parents don't teach their children how to use potential in order to release a sense of kindness every day, most parents in the world educate their children to lead a life of indulgence during upbringing process, such as they let their children using gadget, cellphone, online games, remember this; every 5 year period, a children's supernatural brain function has been developed, if children have not been taught how to recognize the darkness's characteristic within themselves, children will not do something better every day because their parents just do something they love and avoid to do something risky and difficult.

  

   The reason why we need to learn how to do good deeds every day because it determines what we will become in the future, if we see the nature, it has own way to show the strong evidence to human how to do good deeds, such as water, wind, earth, fire, electric, every creature in this life has own responsibility, different function, different purpose and uniqueness, if you look at water's character, it always gives something more to human without asking for return, only kindness can improve what went wrong to human's daily life, sometimes we need to learn about the nature’s characteristic because every human’s character has unique like the nature, that's basic necessity how to be human, if every human can share kindness like what the nature does something to human, the human's future is always attracting abundance of joy, health, prosperity basically every human has ability to share their kindness as long as they are willing to fight their ego, if people don’t want practicing their mind to share their kindness to others consistently, their major characters will be taught by their ego to absorb the power of darkness from this life, such as feeling of hatred, indifferent, ignorance, unjust, dishonest, remember; there is always dark in limited thinking and there is light in kindness, if we want to free our lives from the darkness of life, we must enlighten our life path by sharing the kindness as much as possible, if we don’t do that, our life path will absorb negativity automatically, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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5 daily self-love tips

  


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “5 daily self-love tips”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can love about what they have, either physically or mentally, the root of problem why they can’t love what they have because they used to train their mind to own something with an instant process, not in long term struggle, we must beware about what we want instantly because not all instant process can lead us to own something valuable, "the more we want something instantly, the more we shape a bigger ego, the more we pursue something with patience, the more we get something valuable"to build self-love access, we need to do something progressively and consistently, it is good for our mental health because it will help us to gain the understanding process within us, we aren't allowed to push our limitation to do something big because it can make our subconscious mind stressful, if this condition becomes habit, human will never find their potential, before they want to own something big in their career, they must involve the universe’s law and the universe’s characteristic to help human manifesting what they imagine into reality, the criteria how to own something is we must build self-love first, then the universe will lend its strength to send something we deserve to get, at this moment, let me share something to you about 5 daily self-love tips, hopefully it can help you to find your inner peace and your greatest potential, here is the first thing of self-love tip; seek the assistance from someone who can guide you to get something you deserve or seek something which can increase your mental growth every day, the reason why you must do it because it can help you to crush your mental block and also it can increase your development of skill, “the more you do something for your development of skill, the more you love yourself more than anyone else does”.

 

   Here is the second thing of daily self-love tip; encircle yourself with the positive incantation and convince yourself that you can do something more than other people can do for you, the main reason why you need to encircle yourself with the positive incantation because it can help you to affirm your subconscious mind that you deserve to live better than you expect it, for example; "I love me more than anyone else", "I feel grateful for something I receive than what I get from my instant gratification", here is the third thing of daily self-love tip; have alone time to feel grateful and be compassionate to others, remember; "there is nothing can increase self-awareness rather than we put our sense of compassionate to others", if we feel grateful about what we receive from God, it means, we love about what God sends to us, this attitude can help us to fix our limited thinking, it is easy to do, but it is easy not to do because not everyone feel grateful about what they receive, the reason why they don't feel grateful because they always compare about what other people get with something they don’t get, here is the note; if people don’t feel grateful about what they receive, they will never get self-love access, instead, they are pitying about what they haven’t succeeded, here is the fourth thing of daily self-love tip; be vulnerable with the nature, it means, people must submit to the nature’s characteristic if they want to get self-love, the reason why people must be vulnerable with the nature because the nature can help human to love with God, if nature’s character has united with human’s character, as result, people will always find a way how to be happy even though they have own problem, here is the fifth thing of daily self-love tip; let go something out of control, the reason why we need to let go something out of control because it can separate between ego and sincerity, if we always want to control what we can't, we automatically magnify our ego, if we are making habit of it, we will own greed’s character, if we own greed's character, we always build a sense of fearfulness and reject to learn from reality, it is very bad, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

 

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Don’t wait to do something until tomorrow if you can do today



    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t wait to do something until tomorrow if you can do today”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people prefer to wait good opportunity rather than take an initiative action to make a lifework, the root of problem why most people keep behaving such thing because they can't see the time value within their potential, besides that, they consider leisure time is always be there and boundless, in fact, every human can't control the time although every human has the same time, 24 hours per day, time is like a machine where it can offer 2 things to human; the pain of discipline or the pain of regret, we should focus how to invest our potential within 24 hours, that's more than enoughwe can't change the past and we can't change the future, we are entitled to control what we can do within all day long activity, remember this; our significant value is determined by the amount of time we invest into it, not the amount of time we waste for self-satisfaction, if we just spend our time to make a joke, dawdle in the shopping center, make a chit chat with friend, our time will offers us the pain of regret, unfortunately many people don't realize about the power of time, if they knew earlier, they wouldn't waste their major time for doing nothing, if we compare with successful people's habit, they consider their time is limited, because of that reason, they work harder than other people.

  

    Time has unlimited potential if it is used to increase human's potential, but time will not work at maximum level if it is used for fulfilling the human's sense of satisfaction because human's satisfaction characteristic is boundless and unpredictable, time can accelerate the human's potential until one thousand times if they practice their skills constantly because time has the power to create momentum to everything human have, no wonder successful people don't fear to face every adversity because they consider every adversity can create momentum in every single day and time can turn every adversity into human's potential booster, remember this advice; a man who can appreciate about his time being by doing something he never tried before, his time will appreciate what he is working forthe root of problem why so many people never satisfied to develop their career because they just look for guarantee and short term gratification, for successful people's perception, they don’t look for guarantee while they do something for their career, they just don't want to miss new lesson in every single day because they believe act of procrastination can create doom, regret and act of procrastination can decrease human's potential strength, starting from now, we shouldn't behave as if we were controlling time, "the more often we try to control our time, the more we feel distress about what we do", remember; time doesn't want itself can be exchanged with the human's time, but time just wants to see human can do something what people can't always do, but time can do all time for fulfilling what human needAs human being, we don’t need to argue what is going on about time, time is having two side like the coin, one side of coin is showing that time can make people regret about what they do, one side of coin is showing that time can become a leverage for human’s need, here is the last note; time is unlike human, but time can do what human can't, time would give a thank you's note to human if time is used to do good deeds every day and glorify Almighty GodI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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We all have 2 choices in life

 


     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “we all have 2 choices in life”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone doesn't know about what they want in life, even though they have been offered with many opportunities, they still can't choose because they got afraid with consequence, the root of problem why they got feared because their mindset has been fueled with great satisfaction, convenience, instant process, guarantee and short term goal, their mind has been trained during upbringing, the reason why most people keep struggling to get attention from other people by talking about what they have and talking about why they must have something because they just look for something to be proud of , it is totally opposing with what life demands of us, the key to make a better life is not to look for the world’s content, such as money, compliment, possessions, authority, reputation, fame, business and partnership, those are the end result, not kind of the procedure how to fulfill what life demands of us, if we want to make a better life is having courage to do something we fear most, such as pursuing the potential, staying committed to design good personality, chasing the dream, helping people to solve problem, at this moment, let me share about 2 choices we need to choose in this life, the first choice we can make is to be less than what we have in the unlimited potential access, the meaning of that statement is we don't have long term purpose to be pursued because we prefer to have less important target because it is convenience and less risk.

  

      Remember this; if we haven’t set long term purpose, we have no motivation to do something great, having intention is the most important thing, we can’t train our mental capacity by giving the entertainment because it can decrease our potential strength, the reason why we can’t give our mental capacity with many entertainments because it against the nature’s characteristic, here are the nature's characteristic; discipline, commitment, consistency, resilient, dedication, progressively more difficultas we know that the nature’s characteristic is way different than people’s characteristicif we just do something easier and have short term goal, our lives will not get better because it is easy to do, sometimes we need to taste failure more often than we usually get, that's strategy if we want to know about what the life demand of us, The second choice we can make is to be able to do more than what we have in the unlimited potential access, the meaning of that statement is we are curious about our true potential, so we need to challenge ourselves by doing more than what we always do in daily activity, we need to set a long term goal in order to get unlimited potential access, remember; we will never get true potential if we have set short term goal (less than 1 year), we must brave enough to challenge our mental strength by doing something extraordinary which can impact many people’s lives in the future, we aren’t allowed to stay casual anymore if we want to pursue the unlimited potential because it will affect to our emotional strength, before we are unable to attract the unlimited potential, we need to train hard until the game of life is finished, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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7 wealthy mentalities of successful people

  



   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “7 wealthy mentalities of successful people”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people aren't ready to have wealth mentality, the root of problem why they can't accept every obstacle as a mentor because they consider every obstacle can prevent themselves to do something they love, remember this; obstacle is designed not to prevent what people want to accomplish something in the future, but obstacle is designed to prevent people to do something dangerous which can harm their mental health or physical health, besides that, obstacle wants to test the human’s endurance level whether human’s capacity is strong enough or not to receive more problem, at this moment let me share something to you about 7 wealthy mentalities of successful people, hopefully this strategy can help you to achieve your target in life; here is the first wealthy mentality of successful people; they always have a tight schedule to let them easier to pursue their potential, the reason why successful people have a tight schedule because it will increase their power of focus, besides that, pursue their potential can make them powerful to complete daily goal, monthly goal, and yearly goal, here is the second wealthy mentality of successful people; they invest their effort and time to work hard for the future, they work based on the future-oriented result because they consider a big result lies in the future, not in the present, that strategy can help successful people to eliminate an unnecessary pain where they endure every day.



   Here is the third wealthy mentality of successful people; they consider every failure isn’t end of story, but it is stepping stone, the reason why successful people think like that because they know life is full of surprise, successful people consider every failure is the price to be paid in the future, there is nobody knows about the value of failure in the future, unless they must be willing to take every failure as the lesson, here is the fourth wealthy mentality of successful people; they are the opportunity hunter because they consider every single day is offering an opportunity to evolve, the reason why successful people hunt opportunity because not everybody is willing to take opportunity, every day successful people see opportunity lies in every adversity they have faced, whereas, mediocre people consider every adversity as self-punishment, successful people prefer to pursue their own potential rather than they wait something uncertainty, here is the fifth wealthy mentality of successful people; they do something at their own risk, the reason why successful people love to learn from the risk because they want to know how to measure their mental capacity and how to increase their endurance level, remember this; only weak mentality fears with the risk and avoid the risk, here is the sixth wealthy mentality of successful people; they do something consistently, the reason why successful people always do something consistently because consistency is the best way how to know the fallible they have done and how to overcome intangible obstacles, here is the seventh wealthy mentality of successful people; successful people reject to be perfectionist, the reason why they behave such thing because they consider every day is offering a new lesson and new enlightenment, they don't want to miss every day's lesson which it is goneI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Change yourself before the circumstance changes you completely

 


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “change yourself before the circumstance changes you completely”, the main reason why I choose that topic because there are several circumstances which try to change people's lives and people's habit, such as tragedy, crisis, rumor, technology, disease, accident, those things try to change people completely, unfortunately most people don't realize about it, what most people think is how to earn money as much as they can and how to enjoy the life with their idealism in short period of time, like receiving monthly paycheck, annual allowance, in my opinion; we shouldn't focus on enjoyment of the game we created in our daily activity because it is opposing with what life really wants, the reason why this life doesn’t offer satisfaction to human because life considers much pleasure can give a bad influence to human if every pleasure is embedded into human’s habit, furthermore, remember; we must beware about great pleasure because every great pleasure is designed to make people forget about their life journey and make people lose something significant in life, such as dedication, commitment, dream, faith and creativity, now if we see something about the world’s problem, such as economic crisis, contagious disease, crime, hoax, the money game, these problems change people’s habit, do you know what makes people are willing to change their habits? because they already hit the problem, but unfortunately, they can't escape from that because they too underestimate about what they can improve in their lives, the root of problem why most people can’t see something enlightened within themselves because most people think every life’s moment should be offering a great pleasure to them, in fact, life doesn't offer such thing, the main cause why problem keeps coming again and again to human's lives because most people lack of commitment, lack of resourcefulness, lack of determination, lack of discipline, lack of skill, lack of creativity, lack of faith and lack of purpose.

 

  The first thing we must do if we want to change our future is improve our perception by changing our philosophy / belief system, this is crucial, the reason why we must do that because every habit that we created long time ago was produced in our subconscious mind, we can change our data memory by giving new information as the main command to our brain system, such as “if other people can do better, I can do better”, "if God really loves me, I am stronger than my problem", remember his note; don’t consider risk and failure like the end of your world, risk and failure only comes where people convince themselves that risk and failure is real, for the optimistic people, they consider risk and failure is illusion, please don't let any circumstance changes you, if it is happening to you, as result, your opportunity to get the golden ticket is gone, there is nobody can obstacle your dream except yourself, basically there are three main cause why people aren’t willing to change their life journey; self-ignorance, the past memory and ego, in order to diminish three big enemies where it lies in human’s mind, you must challenge yourself by targeting something you never tried before and don't get satisfied easily with your accomplishment because tomorrow is always be mysterious, here is philosophy you need to learn, “don’t trust your memory and be a good student”, it means, you must be willing to be new student every day, you can learn from other people’s experience, book, online course, failure, risk, adversity, those are strategies can help you how to change yourself and prevent the circumstance to change you completely, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Discipline is remembering what you want in the future

 



    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “discipline is remembering what you want in the future” the main reason why I choose that topic because applying discipline is the basic component how to build the bright future and how to build good personality, if we don’t apply discipline in our daily activity, we will face the pain of regret, discipline is the best way how to appreciate about time, if we appreciate about time, we feel grateful about what we do every daydiscipline is the bridge where it connects between what we prepare and what we dream, we can't build a good life by not applying discipline, we need strategy (knowledge and skill), blueprint (planning) and deadline (discipline)we can’t make a better life in every single day if we miss few days not to plan something, some people who don’t tolerate with discipline, their lives will make them poor, people who reject discipline, they will never get what they really want in life, then their life journey will be directed to the wrong destination where it offers great pleasure and painful regret, we shouldn’t deny discipline in our life journey because every disciplined action can overcome problem where it tries to crush our assets in life, such as  remember; if we don’t force ourselves to apply discipline in our daily life, the future’s design will never be shaped, if the future’s design isn’t completed by our disciplined action, we will never go into the destination where we should belong there.

  

    If we don’t stay in the right destination where we should be there, we will never get happiness from what we do, so happiness is the product of discipline, if we never get a true happiness in entire of our lives, as result, we will never meet with our potential, remember this; before our wants will demand us to do something where we don't really understand about it, we must demand ourselves to do what most people avoid to do and to do something inconvenience, the potential will grow faster when we apply discipline and dedication, if we never apply discipline within our career or business, our potential will not grow as fast as we expect, besides that, discipline can help us to overcome ego and diminish self-ignorance, it seems easy to do, but it is easy not to do because we must fight with ego and self-ignorance every day, starting from nowwe shouldn’t avoid applying discipline in any field because everything great can’t be built without discipline, here is good news; if we succeed to adapt with discipline for long period of time, as result, we will get pursued by the infinite resource, such as intuition, faith, prosperity, idea, good mental health, physical strength, self-awareness, wisdom, enthusiasm of learning, those are priceless resources that we can utilize it to manifest what we want in the future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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Stars can’t shine without darkness

 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “starts can’t shine without darkness”, the meaning of that topic is we will never know the meaning of goodness until life will give us many rejections or failures where it forces us to learn something new and we feel uncomfortable about it, the darkness of life is representing mystery, intangible, uncertainty, uncontrollable and unpredictable, as human being, we can’t reject the darkness where it lies within ourselves, we must accept the darkness in order to get us out from the comfort zone, the darkness tells us not to stay casual for too long because there is something bigger where it can make us feared, the darkness is not enemy, it is part of nature's energy where it is designed to absorb everything valuable from this life, if we are unwilling to learn, our darkness will remove everything valuable within us, such as knowledge, skill, faith and wisdom, if we let our enthusiasm of learning is gone, ego will born and it will prevent us to do something good, we must beware with ego because it is part of self-ignorance's product, ego lies between self-defence and our expectation, in order to diminish ego, we need to achieve something new every day until we know something worthy from this life, maybe you ask me “why we need to fight our ego if it is irresistible?” fighting with ego is the lifetime’s job, if we don’t do that, we will enter into the darkness of life and we will get bruised because we just walk into it without preparation, remember this; “this life is pure of darkness and it is completely surprising”, we will never know about what life offers us, all we need to do is prepare our best self every day, before we enter into the dark place where it offers uncertainty, we need to lighten our life path with the light (knowledge, enthusiasm, wisdom, kindness, faith and humility).

   

  There are two benefits about the darkness, here is the first benefit from the darkness; the darkness can multiply our focus to the specified area where we want to accomplish something, I believe one particle of light is more powerful than a million particles of darkness, so the power of darkness can support to what we focus on something as long as we keep progressing on what we learn, if we focus on the darkness area (a source of problem), our enthusiasm of learning will be crushed by our ignorance and ego, then, we will get fear from the shadow of problem and eventually we give up, if we focus on the pursuit of our potential, our life path will be enlightened and we will get motivated by our sense of fearlessness to keep continuing what we targeted until it is done, remember this philosophy; if we want a millions particle of the darkness can multiply our power of focus, we shouldn't stop pursuing our potential and we don't stop to share the kindness to others, here is the second benefit from the darkness; the darkness offers contemplative and a sense of urgency, that means, the darkness will help us to review what went wrong about our life journey, if there is something wrong with our life journey, the darkness will lock us our focus to the specified area, so we can't escape from it before we can overcome what went wrong in our lives, remember this note; fear is not coming to us suddenly, but it is attracted by our unpreparedness, fear will be coming to us when we lack of knowledge, lack of practice, lack of consistency, lack of being service to potential, the light will be meaningless without darkness, if we want the light is keep shining, we must increase the exponential growth of potential and solve the problem as much as possible, here is the special note for you; happiness is like the light, if you want to get happiness, don't hold sharing the kindness to others because every kindness is like the brightest star in the nightI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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The key to success is preparation

 


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the key to success is preparation”, the main reason why I choose that topic most people don't plan for long period of time, they just plan for enjoying their satisfaction where it happens less than 1 month, as we know that life is full of mystery, if we realize life is full of mystery and unpredictable, we shouldn't stay casual for longer time because we have been granted by God to use 24 hour only, even though we have 24 hours, it will prophesy what we will become in the future, this world is like the dark room, it is very frightening if we don't lighten our light (self-awareness) and life will be enlightening us when we keep shining our lives with preparation, the reason why we need to make preparation because the universe will work after we made preparation in the past, if we don't make preparation for the future, how we can expect from it? nothing, so we need to create something where it will increase our awareness is the basic necessity how to make preparation, we can't increase our awareness without learning, self-awareness is the light is used to shine the dark room (the world)the root of problem why most people can’t get success although they have earned a lot of money because most people consider money can make them rich, in fact, money has 1% of a little chance to make people getting their success,  if people misinterpret about the purpose of success, what they do in their daily activity can prophesy their future as a poor man’s living, in my opinion; don’t ever try to get success from the business where it offers profit but it doesn’t offer the kindness for changing other people’s lives.

 

    Remember this; business which offers the benefits only, the end result will be full of disappointment, the main reason why I say such thing because success can’t be exchanged by benefit but it can be exchanged by the kindness, the purpose of success is not giving us a lot of money or possessions, but  it is demanding us to share the kindness every day until our behavior is congruent with God's vibration, if our vibration's level has touched with God's vibration, our success will be unlimited, In order to share the kindness, we need a lot of preparation to welcome what success wants, such as increase self-knowledge, leave a bad habit, commit to fulfill with long term goal, learn how to adapt with adversity, being ready to face the unexpected problem, not being scared to do something risky, help other people’s problem, collect a new experience from other people’s lives, not to behave like extravagant people’s habit, glorify the parents with our dedication, love and good manner, we do something useful consistently, etc. Now here is question that you need to answer if you want to be pursued by success; “what I am going to prepare to be pursued success?” and "what do I learn from this life"?, if you can answer it less than 30 second, that’s mean, you are ready to welcome the success’s requirement and your preparation is chosen by Almighty God to hold big responsibility, remember this note; we can’t get success without making other people’s success, so success is about the habit of giving, not the habit of taking, so being a student every day is a good preparation where it can guide us how to welcome the bright future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Committing to the wrong thing is better than standing still


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “committing to the wrong thing is better than standing still”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people give up on getting what they really want when their action should be close with their goal, the root of problem why most people don’t get a new lesson every day because they don’t brave to commit on something, they prefer to wait for receiving a good treatment from other people rather than preparing their ability to encounter the unexpected problem, remember this advice; when people don’t have much time to commit on something they want in life, this life is going to prepare a new situation where people can’t commit anymore, if people can’t commit anymore, they will never get something valuable in life, instead, they will get painful experience in life, I don’t recommend people to lack of clarity about what they build in the future’s life because having the lack of clarity about future is going to multiply the feeling of worry or anxiety, if we are making habit by having feeling of worry or anxiety, our behavior will be fueled by doom and gloom, Many people forget that “every pleasure offers many suffering rather than offering many solution”, do you know why I say such thing because pleasure just gives a short term reward and it doesn't offer any solution how to make a better life for long period of time, the more we learn, the less we fear, the more we get entertained by pleasure, the more we increase size of our ego.

 

   solution will appear into our lives when we commit to study and we share the kindness, we need to be proactive to learn if we want to destroy a mental block within our mind because the less we learn something, the bigger ego will be shaped, ego will create a mental block and a mental block will create regret, if people commit to get pleasure more often than commit to learn something meaningful, as result, their ego will deceive themselves and their lives will not attract more positive energy, we can’t consider this life will be perfect and not to receive more problem, it’s totally wrong, even though we finished 100 kind of problems right now, within 100 years later, the size of problem could be worse than 100 years ago, if we still don’t know how to commit on something in the future, how we can expect something better in the future’s life?, do you really know what’s biggest problem in life? The problem happens when we are unwilling to adapt with adversity and we spend major time to commit with convenience and pleasure, before we lose our hope, we should prepare our skills before the unexpected problem will happen, starting from now, we shouldn’t fear to commit even though we don't know about the risk because knowing the risk matures us, the most detrimental thing in life is when we stop committing to embrace pain or adversity then we prefer to do nothing, maybe we think adversity is not good for us because it is very frightening and painful, before we judge something where we don’t understand it, we can learn from this wise word, “just because something not good for us, doesn’t mean it will harm for our lives”, adversity is designed to eliminate ego and free ourselves from self-ignorance because self-ignorance is the biggest problem where it can destroy the human's future life an instant, remember; the future’s life doesn’t offer the easiest way, instead, the future offers us with discipline or regret, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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5 strategies to unlock employee’s potential in your business

 


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “5 strategies to unlock employee’s potential in your business”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all bosses in business can apply this strategy, most bosses only control the employee’s movement until every employee doesn’t know how to share what they have in mind to their bosses, at this moment let me share something to you about 5 strategies to unlock employee’s potential in your business, hopefully it can give you enlightenment and every employee gets benefit from your business's idealism, here is the first strategy to unlock employee’s potential in your business; do the human resource audit, the main purpose why we need to apply this strategy because it can monitor every employee’s working performance at their job, boss needs to create KPI (key Performance Indicator) to every employee, so they have a big opportunity to upgrade their skills by receiving a new lesson from the business owner, here is the second strategy to unlock employee’s potential in your business; give a reward and punishment, means, the reason why we need to apply this strategy because giving a reward and punishment can understand every employee's strong and weaknesses, besides that, boss will know who is capable to work and who is unable to work, if employees know about the importance of reward and punishment from their bosses, every employee will fully commit to support what their boss target in business without complaint or excuses.


                                                    

   Here is the third strategy to unlock employee’s potential in your business; find what their passion after work’s activity, the reason why boss needs to know employee's passion because fulfilling the passion will help employee to de-stress, if boss knows about employee's passion and facilitate  what employee wants in their passion, employee will thank to their boss and employee will share their idea, perhaps employee's passion experience can help boss knows how to increase a business acumen and solve problem in businesshere is the fourth strategy to unlock employee’s potential in your business; motivate your employee when they make mistake at their work, the reason why we need to apply this strategy because there is no single employee can work perfectly, sometimes having the same mistake will increase employee's distress, if boss knows how to motivate their employees, so every employee will not feel distress about their work, besides that, sharing motivation can treat employee’s mental health to stay in good mood, if this condition becomes habit, every employee will not feel stress about their work even though there is a lot work pressure within it, here is the fifth strategy to unlock employee’s potential in your business; discover what they need to support their daily work, the reason why boss must discover what employees need because it can help employee to show their work ethic at maximum level, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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4 keys to unlock the power of your mind

  


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “4 keys to unlock the power of your mind”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people lose their potential since they were young, the root of problem why people lose their biggest potential because they spend their time to get a short term pleasure and they aren't willing to adapt with adversity, if we measure the capacity of pleasure in long period of time, there is no benefit at all because every pleasure doesn't lead human to success, at this moment let me share something to you about 4 keys to unlock the power of your mind, here is the first strategy to unlock the power of your mind; renew your belief every day with the right knowledge, the meaning of that statement is we can't get the right knowledge without possessing the power of belief because it has a major role to grow the human’s potential, “greatness comes from within, not in external cause”, our belief will grow after we can crush ego through learning from tough experience, here is the second strategy to unlock the power of your mind; collect the knowledge from other people’s experience, either, failure or success story, so collecting new experience is not hard to do as long as we are having a strong will, it is important because it can enrich our life experience, having knowledge can help us to disconnect from the comfort zone, diminish the pain of ignorance and maximize new opportunity.

  

   Here is the third strategy to unlock the power of your mind; having a great passionate of learning, I believe every successful people are really passionate of learning, there are many benefits if we are passionate of learning, if we are making habit of study, our mindset can solve problem where most people can’t and can minimize a mental disorder, remember this; "there is no growth in the comfort zone, there is no convenience in the learning zone", here is why? Because the brain system produces neuron where it can strengthen our emotional intelligence and increase our intellectual intelligence, here is the note; there is no strength when we lack of using the potential, that’s law, our potential will decrease by itself when there is no constantly changing and no constantly improving from our habit, it may takes several years to understand what happens in our lives, that's requirement, we don’t need to argue what the life shows something because our reality is shaped by what we develop in habit, all we need to do as human is just learn from experience, either mistake or adversity, here is the fourth strategy to unlock the power of your mind; discipline yourself through a life’s work, this last strategy is very crucial among all strategies that I reviewed by now, if there is no discipline, there is only regret, that’s consequence, in order to apply discipline in our habit, we must have a life’s work in long period of time, when we discipline to what we do in our life’s work, our potential grows faster than what we imagine, if our potential grows, our financial budget grows as well, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Failure is a friend dressed up like an enemy

 



     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “failure is a friend dressed up like an enemy”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone wants to accept failure as their life history, the root of problem why not everyone is willing to accept failure because their mental capacity isn’t improving and weak, now imagine if there is no failure in this life, there is no improvement, there is no progress, there is no innovation, there is no feedback, there is no risk tolerance and there is no anticipation, so basically every failure doesn’t harm us, instead failure can prevent us to do something dangerous and it can increase self-awareness, so we can create the negative preparation, if you look at the manufacturing machine in the company, every machine has the emergency stop button, it is designed to reject overload and it can secure the main sensor system where it has been set in the machine's input in order to maximize the machine’s long term usageit is the same thing with reality, if there is no failure, there is no long term usage within human's potential, if we reject every failure, it is like we accept something dangerous where we don’t know it approaches.

   

    I believe the school system often rejects about God’s wisdom and the school system doesn’t teach student how to live naturally like a crawling baby who keeps trying to stand up after falling down until hundred times, the common education system teaches every student like a robotic machine’s working principle where it is designed to avoid failure and embrace perfection, in fact, there is no perfection, there is only learning and adaptation, whereas, the common education system teaches student how to get good grade and wait for short term compliment, it is about anti-education because every student is not equipped with mental pressure preparation where it can be upgraded to face mistake and uncertainty in the future's life, here what will happen if every human is guaranteed to get success at the first time, tomorrow there is no more human is alive because human’s capacity has reached at top limit, in my opinion; only desperate people consider failure is like an enemy because desperate people always think every failure is always bringing cruel, doom and unpleasant, in fact, failure is one step closer to success, starting from today, we must train our mind not to hate with failure because every failure is designed by God to overcome human's weaknesses, ignorance and ego, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Listen what intuition wants to do with you



   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “listen what intuition wants to do with you”, the main reason why I choose that topic because most people aren't willing to listen what intuition tells to them, the root of problem why most people aren't willing to listen what intuition tells to them because they surround themselves with the environment where it offers great pleasure, comfort zone and convenience, maybe you have question like this, "why should I do if I want to get intuition?" the answer; prepare your skill to face the worst condition although you don't get it, intuition is like the strong signal where it is sent by God to appreciate what we struggle for facing the uncertainty, remember; intuition will not work progressively when we stop practicing our major skills, here what I concern most; if people don’t use their time to practice what they want to complete in the future, as result, they will never find their biggest potential because they are just looking for something where it doesn’t support what their intuition wants to do with them, the power of intuition is very crucial, we shouldn’t underestimate it because intuition will do what human can’t do, we may not trust our intuition, but we can’t live without it, intuition will grow when it is cultivated every day with knowledge, courage, dedication, consistency, faith and a clear goal, do you know why we need to do that because intuition will help us to promote our position in good career and intuition also can prevent us to do something dangerous, here is the note; we can’t demand intuition to do what we love or avoid to do what we dislike, all we need to do as human is doing something where it can force us to get out from the comfort zone.

   

    Intuition will work at maximum level when we reject dilemma and we focus on the thing that it can dispel our insecure, worry, fear, ignorance, indecision and self-righteous, at this moment, let me share something to you about several signs that we need to do if we want intuition works with us, here is the first sign that we need to do if we want intuition works with us; we shouldn’t fear of trying and we shouldn’t fear about a new risk or mistake because our lives will be worthwhile if we create that we never make it, the reason why we need to do this strategy because intuition has no direction, we need to lead our intuition to the journey where we can practice our skill and show our life design to the intuition, after that we can let intuition to guide us something within our habit, "when we commit to form intuition within our life journey, intuition will shape our habit", that's it, intuition will not show something magnificent to us when we love to procrastinate what we are going to do in the future, remember; intuition is like a blind man, but he can forecast what we will become in the future, as human, we don’t need to ask the intuition’s credibility whether we need to believe it or not with its strength, but what we need to do as human is doing what most people don’t do and do what makes you inconvenience, here is the second sign that we need to do if we want intuition works with us; do what you think is difficult for other people to do but it is not difficult for you, if we succeed to utilize the power of intuition within us, there is nothing impossible to do, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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Discovery comes with dedication

 



   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “discovery comes with dedication”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willing to pay the future with their dedication, the main cause why not many people can change their lives to be better because they don’t find what they find and they don’t know why they must discover something for their lives, the problem is not what happens to their lives, but the problem comes when they aren’t curious about what their destiny looks like, remember this; destiny will not be discovered when we don't give our life's work to the future, life is full of surprise, we should not let a chance flew away, every chance can’t be grasped as long as we are not willing to discover in this life, in order to get chance, we need to ask ourselves with critical question, such as “How I become a different person every day without losing my enthusiasm of learning?” if we start to ask with such question every day, our path will be directed by this universe to find a golden ticket (hidden potential) where we can use it to engage opportunity and solve problem in this life, unfortunately, many of us prefer to find an instant pleasure rather than discover the greatness within us, so we will get nothing from this life, "the more we often approach an instant pleasure, the more we fear something what we left".

 

   If we knew the purpose of instant pleasure earlier, we must not have a painful regret by now, unfortunately, many people didn’t realize about the pain of instant pleasure, instead, we use our focus to find pleasure and ignore what we can give to the future, remember; we will never discover the most important thing in life by looking for instant pleasure, only pain and suffering can lead us to discover what the most important thing in life because pain and suffering are created to test our mental capacity, there are two things that we need to discover in this world, the first thing we need to discover; the creator for the human being, plants, sea, mountain, animal, space, time, life, death, and all universes within, the second thing we need to discover; a hidden potential, that’s our lifetime job, if we just spend our major time to look for pleasure and ignore our potential, we will live with painful regret in the future where we can’t return to the past time to fix it, it is easy to regret something, but wouldn't it be smarter if we are willing to do something for saving our future?, no matter how much pain we feel now, our greatest pain is utilized to save our future, one day our future will thank for everything we made in the past, remember; the future is end result, but present is the place where dedication is needed urgently, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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A calling comes when we embrace the pain and not to avoid it

  


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “a calling comes when we embrace the pain and not to avoid it”, the meaning of the word “a calling” is God’s guidance, the reason why I choose that topic because most people in the world tend to avoid the pain and embrace the pleasure, they want to ensure their behavior is congruent with great pleasure, they don't realize that the purpose of living is not getting pleasure, but how to promote the kindness and prevent the evil, God mentioned clearly in the Qur'an Surah Al Imran (3) verse 104 "let there be among you a people who call to virtue, command the good and prevent the evil, they are the lucky ones", the root of the problem why most people avoid the pain because they think this life should be offering a perfect place to stay, remember this; this world doesn’t offer pleasure, but it offers unpleasant and suffering, such as disaster, crisis, disease, poor, hunger, thirsty, ignorance, timid, worry and uncertainty, those are part of the unrelenting pain in life, we will never find our calling unless we keep digging our potential, we use it to do something good and not to do something evil, that’s the important, starting from now, we must not treat our inner world with the great pleasure because it can’t make our lives better and can't get peace, the reason why we must not treat our inner world like the great pleasure because we live side by side with the pain and the biggest pain comes when we let self-ignorance and ego grows together, we shouldn’t hate with pain because pain can make us strong and the pain is indicator that we have a priceless lesson to learn, the pain has two types; discipline and regret.

   

    If we don’t apply discipline, our ego and ignorance will grow faster than what we imagine, both are ready to fight us at any time, ego and ignorance has become the biggest enemy since we were born on earth at the first time, we shouldn’t let the pain losing its growth, if we don't maximize the power of pain, it will make us regret, our job  as human is how to overcome ego and ignorance, it is lifetime’s job, we shouldn’t ignore ego and ignorance where it lies inside our soul, if we ignore it, we will be the victim by the painour job in this world is not seeking happiness, but how our behavior can invite happiness to approach us, at the first strategy, we must use the pain and suffering to find a gift (potential) that God had prepared it long time ago, we will never find our potential by avoiding pain and approaching pleasure, at the second strategy; do something consistently, if we are not making happened it, our ego and ignorance will grow faster, remember this note; we will lose the potential once we lack of using itwe will never know our potential until we learn from the mistake or we do something uncomfortable, that’s only way how to overcome self-ignorance and ego, here is the note; pursuing God's calling is more important than pursuing what ego tells us about enjoying a great pleasure because ego often leads us to the painful regret, whereas, God's calling leads us to everlasting happiness, we shouldn’t let the power of pain is gone, that's one way how to use our potential at maximum level, the more we get the pain, the stronger we will be, the more we get pleasure from this world, the more we get deceived, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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