Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back
with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness,
health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the
topic “toxic friends versus real friends”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can
distinguish between toxic friends's characteristic and real friend’s
characteristic, basically in this world there are two type of friends, we will
never find real friend until we do something better in our lives and also we treat others well, that's cause and effect's law, as long as we can't make our lives better, toxic friend will come to us and destroy our future unexpectedly, remember; there are several things we can do how to treat our lives is we encircle ourselves with self-love, self-respect and peace, if we are making habit of it, other people will come and join in
our life journey unexpectedly, the main cause why many people can’t differentiate between
toxic friends and real friends because they are too loyal with tradition or
culture where it can't improve their habit and limited thinking,
besides that, many people just follow the trends in their social circle's habit where
it doesn’t teach how to create a better life, at this moment, let me share with
you about the features between toxic friends and real friends, here is the first feature between toxic
friends and real friends; toxic friends = they talk way more than they listen,
whereas, real friends = they know when to listen and when to contribute, if
you still have toxic friends in your life, don’t spend your time to hang around
with them for longer time because their habits will affect to your daily habit, but if you have
real friends who own characters like above mentioned, you can stick together with them and allow them to approach your
life.
Here
is the second feature between toxic friends and real friends; toxic friends = they try to control you and
change you, whereas, real friends = they accept the way you are, remember; not all changes can bring good impact
to your life, but if your friends control and change you, means, they just expect you to leave your uniqueness and they don't need you anymore when they can't change you, you would better to
stay away from toxic friends because they will change the way of your life and they
don’t appreciate what you have, but if your friends can accept the way you are,
they will complete your weaknesses, besides that, they always appreciate what you
have and what you don’t have, here is
the third feature between toxic friends and real friends; toxic friends = they
only find you when they need your help, whereas, real friends = they call you
simply because they miss you very much, if your friends call you when they need you in urgency, means, they don’t take responsibility for their own lives and they will dump you after they find a better friend, the reason why
they treat you such thing because your friends know that your life is more
significant than their lives, but if you have friends who call you just because they want
to release their yearning without having specific purpose, so you can welcome
them, here is the fourth feature between
toxic friends and real friends; toxic friends = they try to take up a lot of
your time, whereas, they know the importance of alone time, remember; real
friends show empathy to their friends, they don’t interrupt other's quality time too often because they have own responsibility for their own lives,
I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea
how to improve your life, good luck.
