Increase happiness

Happy person focuses on his privilege

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Increase happiness”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can't differentiate between instant gratification and happiness, the root of problem why people can't differentiate between both because their habitual pattern is motivated by ego and arrogance, people who do something for happiness, they will not worry when they get failure or mistake, instead, every mistake they get can offer peace and enlightenment, whereas, people who do something for instant pleasure, they will get pressure when what they feel is gone, if people just do something for their career without considering whether it can offer happiness or not, they will not get what they deserve, instead, they will attract negative emotion, at this moment, I would share there are several tips that prevent people from happiness, here is the first thing that prevents people from happiness; living in the past, it means, these people are typically working towards the past oriented plan because they don't brave to adapt with new circumstance in the future, these kind of people usually feel satisfied about what they accomplished in the past rather than feel enthusiastic to try something they have never done, the reason why people prefer to be living in the past because their feeling has been afflicted by many sufferings in the past, such as the pain of adversity, the pain of rejection, the pain of disappointment, so they don't dare to face the future, remember this advice; happiness comes from continuously learning progress, if there is no progress in learning, people tend to let the pain of ignorance dominates to what they think and it can make them suffering in regretunfortunately many people don’t understand about what kind of demands that happiness wants, so people just focus doing what they like without knowing the consequence.

Happy People share about the inspirational story

  Here is the second thing that prevents people from happinessworry about future, it is part of bad habit because worry can affect to the human’s mental health, people who worry about future, they are feeling unease because they don't have enough a mental preparation, only ungrateful people who don’t feel grateful about what they receive and their behavior tends to underestimate any form of blessing from God, here is the third thing that prevents people from happiness; people don’t count their blessings and they don’t maximize what they can collect from the blessing, it means, people don’t recognize about what God grants for their best self, the reason why people can’t recognize their blessings because they just pursue something where it doesn’t relate to what they can control, such as daily habit, perception, decision, I have shared in the article; the more we pursue something we can’t control, the more we get depressed, the more we pursue something we can control, the more we get  the abundance of joy, health, prosperity and kindness”, we must understand that not all blessings are related to what we can always see, such as money and possessions, every day we receive the blessings from Almighty God, such as health, reputation, knowledge, integrity, patience, enthusiasm, love, peace, luck, here is the fourth thing that prevents people from happiness; comparing what they don’t have with what others have,  it means, people forget about self-control because they just see other people are more superior than themselves, we must understand that every human has different purpose, the more we see many variant of purpose, the more we see a different result, so every human has life mission, don’t let our eyes can see something where we can’t hear about other people's struggling story, sometimes what we see can’t represent what other people feel, we must appreciate what God grants something to us even though it seems unjust for us, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Achieve goal

Achieve a clear goal

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “achieve goal”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people have the clarity of thought when they want to achieve goal, some people just have many goals until they don't have much time to execute their goals, at this moment I would share about seven reasons why people fail to achieve goal, here is the first reason why people fail to achieve goal; lack of persistence, do you know why we need to keep persistence because it will unleash the power within our potential, if we don’t stay persistent, we will give up easily once we meet with problem, in order to keep us doing persistently, we need to set a daily goal in order to measure how strong we can undergo the life’s challenge, in order to get the power of persistence, we must get up again and again after we fall down at many timeshere is the second reason why people fail to achieve goal; lack of conviction, it means, people haven't had enough a mental development to convince themselves to change their own perception, in order to activate the power of conviction, they must get inspired to what they do and they must know the limitation between what they repeat in the ritual and what they visualize in their imagination every day, that's self-image, if we lack of conviction, we will work with a meaningless purpose and our body will lose its defensiveness, to add the power of conviction, we must brave to fail and evaluate it, here is the third reason why people fail to achieve goal; fatalistic attitude, it means, they believe everything around them is inevitable or predetermined by God, if they keep behaving such thing, they will lose the power of determination to change and they will lose their potential growth because they give up their circumstance to the reality rather than fighting for what they intend, remember; everybody has own potential, if people don't train their undeveloped potential, as impact, whatever they do something, the result is always the same and not make a change.


Focus on the goal

  Here is the fourth reason why people fail to achieve goal; procrastination, it means, people are too complacent about what they have got, if they just repeat the bad habit without improving, it is called frustration because they don't want to change their habit for better purpose, here is the fifth reason why people fail to achieve goal; lack of discipline, we all know that discipline is the bridge which connect between goal and action, discipline is part of the universe's habit, if people don’t want to apply discipline, they deliberately plan to fail because they don’t build something valuable for the future, here what I believe; discipline is the key how to change everything, there is no gloomy day if there is discipline, apply discipline can help human to remove all frustration, desperation and other mental illnesshere is the sixth reason why people fail to achieve goal; low self-esteem, it means, people will not go directly to the direction they desire because of having a low self-esteem, only people who have a low self-esteem that don’t have competence skill, if there is no competence at any field, as impact, there is no progressing, if there is no progressing, there is permanent failurehere is the seventh reason why people fail to achieve goal; unproductive habit, it means, people don’t take serious action to unleash their potential, if potential isn't used to work, human will lose their high performance skill, if it would happen, they will get a low price, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Positive thinking

Positive thinking

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “positive thinking" the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can't optimize the positive energy when they deal with difficult situation, some people just do something they like without considering about bad consequence, here is the note; "positive thinking will born in reality when you transfer your positive energy from the information you consume every day", it also applies to negative thinking, "negative thinking will born in reality when you transfer your negative energy from the information you consume every day", everything has happened to you is caused by your mindset, at this moment I would share several tips how to create positive thinking even though you are in the middle of difficult situation, hopefully these tips can help you to improve your life path, here is the first tip how to create the positive thinking even though you are in the middle of difficult situation; stop focusing on the possibility of failure, it means, you must allow yourself to imagine about the probability of exit strategy, you just need to face reality and focus on what you dedicate, don't let the difficult situation finds your weakness, if you focus on the possible thing to do, your positive energy will help you to remove what makes you think is impossiblehere is the second tip how to create positive thinking even though you are in the middle of difficult situation; you must avoid the popular thinking, it means, you need to observe about the type of information whether it belongs to critical thinking or popular thinking, here is my research; popular thinking doesn't give you energy how to excel your creativity and capacity, whereas, critical thinking can give you some times to ponder about it, if you want to create positive thinking, you must love critical thinking.

Positive thinking circle

  Here is the third tip how to create positive thinking even though you are in the middle of difficult situation; you must consider reality as the stepping stone towards what you're dreaming, it means, you must keep looking for another reference which may help you to trace your problem,  remember this; not all problems can become negative feedback as long as you know about the root of causing it, your negative thinking will benefit you if you use to prepare unexpected accidentall we can do once we are trapped in difficult situation is prepare for the worst thing but we are not allowed to overlook about it, remember; positive thinking can't benefit you if you use it to stay silent when you face problem which may destroy your reputation and your credibility, sometimes we need to make a balance between positive thinking usage and negative thinking usage, here is the fourth tip how to create positive thinking even though you are in the middle of difficult situation; learn from people's history, it means, you must keep enriching your knowledge by learning from other people who had experienced in difficult situation, if you can absorb the inspiration from the great achievers, the impossible thing within your mind will perish because you are incredibly driven by great achiever's storyI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Design thinker

Design thinkers always try something unusual
   
   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “design thinker”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people tend to become a negative thinker easily rather than train themselves to become a design thinker, the root of problem why people get negative thinking easily because they train their habit to see something with negative energy, as we know to become design thinker, we can't rely our intellectual intelligence only, but we must widen brain capacity to learn more negative feedback, wipe out our ego and forget about the past achievement, we can't become design thinker if we surround our thinking method with instant process, we must accept the unpleasant experience in the pleasant situation, at this moment, let me share about strategy how to be design thinker, hopefully it can help you to create a better life and better career, here is the first strategy how to become design thinker; you must not hate with unpleasant experience, it means, you will accept the unpleasant experience until you are tough enough to take the next challenge, if you hate the unpleasant experience, your mindset will attract negative energy to destroy what you start, that's challenge if you want to become design thinker, here is the second strategy how to become design thinker; you must not use your assumption when you haven't got the clue to dissect the detail point, it means, you must set aside your assumption if you haven't collected the clue how to design something detail, all you need to think during designing is how to give durable goods design to the customer, how to ensure the customer get their standard, and how to reduce the risk potential from what you create. 

Design thinker is having focused thinking

  Here is the third strategy how to become design thinker; you must set deadline goal every time you have something to pursue, it means, you really appreciate about your time, stamina, focus, and limitation, if you can't measure about what you start, you will never finish what you accomplish, here is fourth strategy how to become design thinker; you must think like anti-mainstream believer, it means, you commit to train your brain capacity to be 1% among 99% people's way of thinking, you must write down what you visualize into paper and you create as much possibility as you can, you don't need to worry if there is nobody can understand you, sometimes being design thinker is like philosopher, here is fifth strategy how to become design thinker; you must endure with rejection and mistake, you will not learn anything from what you design if you don't embrace new mistake, from my research; design thinkers usually prioritize what they think is wrong at the first trial and they use wrong design to be renovated it again until it can be viewed as something elegant, starting from now, you must not fear about what other people say, if you want to become design thinker, you must use all possibilities you get until you will take one option which can hit your own standard, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Strategic thinking

Strategic thinker always nurtures his habit like watering the seed

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “strategic thinking”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can maximize their strategic thinking, if you ask me why not everyone can maximize their strategic thinking because they can't stand against the pressure and unpleasant process, in order to deal with this issue, we must pick up a new lesson from other people who ever failed in many times until they can get up, remember this; strategic thinking will not born within our way of thinking if we prefer to show our perfectionism rather than show our humility to unlearn from wrong assumption and wrong attitude, in my opinion; strategic thinking will increase its power when someone repeats the learning process like showering the plant with some water, in addition, strategic thinking will not show its strength when there is no dedication and enthusiasm from us, remember this; our learning ability will not grow as we expected when we don’t repeat our extreme curiosity towards problem which happens in human's lives, the problem is appearing in our lives not because we lack of idea, but problem is happening because is caused by lacking of awareness towards the root of cause, the problem will not become problem if you aren't one of the major cause, if we want to develop our strategic thinking, we should give a our brain capacity with critical problem every day until we live harmony with problem, besides that, strategic thinking needs new mission to expand its strength, the purpose of strategic thinking is not making people impressed, but help people to understand more about themselves, we will never understand other people's need if we don't understand our need first.

Strategic thinker uses his habit to nourish others lives like water

  If you have problem, either financially, emotionally, spiritually, relationship, or healthy, please don’t consider it as the problem, but you use it as a golden opportunity to regain the lesson what you left in the past, no matter how hard the problem which may interrupt your peace, the problem will resolve by itself when you give yourself with higher capacity, such as  you learn new language, you learn how to increase your communication skill, you solve other people's problem with your skill, your strategic thinking will be active when you put yourself into significant life by assuming every problem you meet like the ubiquitous water, here is the special note; the more you love with problem, the more you live significantly, finally you will not feel disturbed by any kind of problem because you know that you are not the main cause of problem, remember this; nobody will care about your strategic thinking, people will care about you if you promote your strategic thinking to solve other people's pain which may disturb them for many years, if you think strategic thinking is important, you must welcome the negative feedback from other people and offer new perceptive idea how to get out from the wrong ritual, the hater will not become your hater if you don't mess up your life with what haters say, strategic thinking is like the live fish which doesn't swim following the river current, here is the special note; “the will to win is worthless if you don’t have the will to prepare”, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

How to maintain a positive mindset

Positive thinker is always curious about new challenge
  
   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to maintain a positive mindset”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people are easily distracted by the source of information where it doesn't offer exit strategy, the root of problem why most people feel difficult to absorb positive energy because they train their habit to access negative energy, as impact, they encircled themselves with bad influence maker, at this moment I would share several tips how to maintain a positive mindset, hopefully it can guide you how to improve your qualification, here is the first practical tip how to maintain a positive mindset; start the day with a positive affirmation words, it means, you have to empty your mind from negative feedback which may come from the outsider's voice where it tries to creep your subconscious mind, you can start by saying something you want to hear "thank God, I am alive, I am happy, I am blessed and I feel good", here is the second practical tip how to maintain a positive mindset; focus on the good thing even though it is smaller than you think, it means, you have to keep grateful about what you receive because there is no wrong addressee when God sends his package for you, here is the third practical tip how to maintain a positive mindset; stop saying anything when you face something terrible, it means, you have to widen your horizon by dissecting God's message behind the terrible moment, maybe you can observe from other people's tough experience, if you can find enlightenment in every bad situation, your spiritual intelligence grows and you will get more a positive energy, here is the additional note; you can't enlighten your light in the bright room, your light will be useful when you enlighten it in the dark room, likewise, your positive mindset will not be useful when you put yourself in the positive community, your positive mindset will be useful for you when you challenge yourself to take a lesson from bad situation, such as, failure, adversity and rejection.

Curious person questions his expertise every day

    Here is the note; there is nothing bad moment in this life, only our perception can make something worst, there is nothing can destroy our future, only wrong mindset can kill what we develop, here is the fourth practical tip how to maintain a positive mindset; turn every failure as the stepping stone, it means, you have to set goal if you want to know whether your positive mindset will work for your career or not, remember; a positive thinking can't work properly when we just do what we love and avoid what we hate, even though we hate something to do, it doesn't mean we will not get something useful from it, sometimes the biggest reward comes from having the freedom to fail, there is no meaningful success if there is no magnificent failure story, let's enjoy the failure as if it would be last lesson for us, here is the fifth practical tip how to maintain a positive mindset; do hypnopedia, it means, you start to visualize about good thing when you are in relax mode, it may take a several days to practice, but if you can access it, your subconscious mind will help you to neutralize a negative influence and your positive vibes will increase, hypnopedia is kind of practice to accelerate your mind frequency, here is the sixth practical tip how to maintain a positive mindset; focus on the present before the next 24 hours begins, it means, you have to put your biggest attention to something you can control, such as a daily goal, don't use any distraction to distract yourself from the source of distraction, you just need to follow what your potential does, what your instinct does, what your intuition does and maximize your freedom to share the kindness, here is the seventh practical tip how to maintain a positive mindset; find a good community which it can teach you how to accelerate your progress, if you surround yourself with good community which offers same vision, your probability of getting success is high, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Patience is a virtue

Creative thinker is always patient to grow his skill

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “patience is a virtue” the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us can't optimize the power of patience, if you ask me why many people can't optimize the power of patience because they can't see a virtue behind the problem they have faced, instead, they are too busy to find other people's mistake to blame, here is my research; we will never know about our patience until we discover our patience limit within what we do something progressively, our patience can be prolonged when we see patience as a virtue, as long as we can't see patience as virtue, we get nothing beneficial because we underestimate the power of patience, at this moment let me share something some reasons why you should optimize the power of patience, hopefully it can help you to remove your doubt, here is the first tip how to optimize the power of patience; you must set a clear goal, if you don't have a clear goal, you will not get the learning process during pursuing your clear goal, only impatient person will not take the learning process during pursuing their goal, here is the second tip how to optimize the power of patience; you welcome a critic from other people with wholeheartedly, it means, you don't consider a critic as menace, if you don't fear about critic, you will innovate what you promote, here is the good news; if you are open minded to get critic, your power of patience starts to strengthen your stamina to receive more critic and you are still happy to welcome it, if we see in reality, many people get stressed when they get critic because they think critic shouldn't be given to them.


Creative thinker needs patience to change his mindset

    Here is the third tip how to optimize the power of patience; you do not fear to get wrong when you try something, as we know there many people are not ready to try something because they visualize their fear earlier before they try something, if you keep trying even though you fail, it indicates that you optimize your power of patience to see a virtue behind the unpleasant situation, here is the fourth tip how to optimize the power of patience; you prioritize your time to help other people even though you need a help, if you can apply this strategy, you will meet the miracle every day because what you give to others will invite miraculously act from God, if you are making habit of it, you will never feel alone because whatever you do gets blessing and your problem will be resolved by God because you emphasize your help to solve other people's problem, here is the fifth tip how to optimize the power of patience;  you challenge yourself to take a new responsibility where it is usually be avoided by majority of peopleif you apply this strategy, you will get more power and more authority in the marketplace because you can handle problem where most people tend to avoid it, you should be happy when you face problem where most people don't want to finish it because it indicates you are trusted by God to do something where most people can't, if your mentality is strong, it indicates your patience is strong as well, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Thinking in psychology

Thinking skill needs a problem

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Thinking in psychology” the main reason why I choose that topic because many people underestimate about the power of thinking when they face the crisis, some people tend to execute their bad emotion when they face the difficult thing rather than calm their bad emotion, thinking is not simple as we imagine because we need the data record, experience, and contemplation, thinking is like carving the stone with the knife, it is hurt at the first trial, but after we take some times to discover what we are seeking, we indirectly shape a mental picture, after that we use a mental picture to shape interpretation and it will be manifested into our way of speaking, that's thinking in psychology, the root of problem why many of us can't optimize our way of thinking because we often express our hatred to problem rather than welcome problem with open-minded, the function of thinking is helping people how to differentiate between an illusion and a mental picturepeople who use an illusion, they tend to ignore the significant detail of point in the problem, instead they like to believe something unrealistic or unnatural, whereas, people who use a mental picture, they try to visualize about the possibility and try to execute it into paper for verification, here is the first tip how to optimize our way of thinking; we find the alternative idea which has been recorded before, if we are used to collect alternative ideas, those can enrich the vocabulary of our brain memory.

Creative thinker needs vivid imagination to solve

   Here is the second tip how to optimize our way of thinking; we consider every problem as leisure job, it means, we don't object with many problems because we can adapt well with them, if we hate with problem, our potential will decrease its power, remember this advice; we will never be able to increase our potential if we don't have problem as the fuel, here is the third tip how to optimize our way of thinking; we receive rejection as the preview of God's best plan for us, it means, we don't object when we get rejection, it simply directs our blind spot into enlightenment, starting from now, we must train ourselves to accept rejection, if there is no rejection, it means we have no qualified ability to be tested, sometimes we need suffering in order to know our endurance, if we don't have enough endurance, we are unable to accept big responsibility from God, the essence of suffering test is helping us to discover our blind spot, there is no single person can avoid the worst case scenario in this life until they decide to receive pain of adaption, so we shouldn’t show our hatred about the worst case scenario because it is requirement how to get a good scenario from God, here is additional note; there is no real obstacle in life until we put our perception in there, only critical thinker can pass through that obstacle, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Realistic art

Realistic person questions life every day
  
    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Realistic art”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people can't optimize their realistic art, if you ask me why many people can't optimize their realistic art because they prefer to live in the past mindset rather than to welcome what life does something for us, in order to optimize our realistic art, we must develop our realistic thinking first, if we hate about reality right now, it indicates that we still optimize our past mindset rather than applying growth mindset, I just want to remind you that there is nothing we can do if reality is opposite with what we do now, all we need to do is continue our best plan until our realistic thinking will notify us to prepare the worst preparation, "realistic thinking will not work if we use our idealism to execute our plan and realistic thinking will be very efficient if it is used to monitor our progressive action and to observe small opportunity which pass through us"at this moment I would share several tips why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking, hopefully it can help you to improve your career and increase your learning ability, here is the first tip why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking; because realistic thinking will notify you the way to manage risk or consequence, we all know that every action has the consequence, if we just do something without considering the realistic thinking, our action will not gain the significant progress, instead we will add new risk in what we do, remember this note; reality will support what we work if our idealism is not against it, if we don't optimize our progressive action, our realistic thinking will not support what we do.

Realistic person needs self time to grow

  If reality shows us something miraculously, it means, we must continue to work on our craft and we reevaluate to what we have done, here is the second tip why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking; because realistic thinking gives you a deadline target in your real time, it means, we can't behave such irresponsible person, we must sacrifice our major time to do whatever it takes in order to manifest our strategic plan into real action, here is the third tip why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking; because realistic thinking is catalyst for your next life path, it means, you always have opportunity when you continue your plan, if you fail to plan, you plan to get failure, reality is catalyst, if you underestimate it, you can't pass through the next life challenge, remember this note; as long as you have something you intend to do it, you have to keep persistent to do although it doesn’t give you what you expect, sometimes in life, the best investment in human's life is giving something where it doesn’t relate with expectation, here is what we need to realize in our thought; we shouldn't deny our best investment, such as learning knowledge, giving kindness, solving problem, etc, The best investment in our lifework can run properly if we don't stop its process, if our plan is failed because our plan is more worse than God's plan, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Innovative thinker

The advantage of Innovative thinker

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Innovative thinker” the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is willingly to be innovative thinker, if you ask me why so many people aren't willing to be innovative thinker because they consider every innovation takes a lot of time and take a new risk, based on Vince Lombardi’s wisdom, he said clearly “the joy lies is in creating something really new, not maintaining something in the past”, it means, if someone wants to be happy, he must challenge himself to be innovative thinker and use his extreme curiosity to collect ideas where the majority of people don't think of it, someone who just waits other people's opinion, he will never become innovative thinker, remember this advice; there is no way around how to create an innovative idea unless we don't stop to satisfy about our extreme curiosity towards solution which may impact to other people's problemsthe basic principle of being innovative thinker is we bravely express our focus and we create something new without considering whether what we create is good or bad, at this moment, I would share about five reasons why you must discover the habit of innovative thinker, hopefully these reasons can help you to maintain your enthusiasm to enhance your innovative thinking, here is the first reason why we must discover the habit of innovative thinker; in order to let us know about our limitation and our strength, it means, if we can recognize our limitation and strength, we will get enlightenment how to optimize our strength and how to improve our old thinking habit progressively.


Innovative thinker doesn't stop questioning his life

   Here is the second reason why we must discover the habit of innovative thinker; in order to link what we want and what other people's hope, this strategy is very powerful because you will get what you want and you will get the information how to solve other people's hope, you may take several years to create the habit of innovative thinker if you want try it now, here is the third reason why you must discover the habit of innovative thinker; in order to evolve your potential and to improve your learning ability, this strategy will guide you how to unlearn the bad behavior and your bad attitude, you will never know what your capability until you give something you love most to other people's problem, here is the fourth  reason why you must discover the habit of innovative thinker; in order to improve the environment area which may disadvantage to your life and other people's lives, this strategy is very powerful because you will know about your pain and other people's pain, this strategy will take couple of years because your commitment towards this strategy must be tested with surprising moment in reality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Divergent thinker

Divergent thinker is unique thinker

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Divergent thinker”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes how to turn from a limited thinking into divergent thinking, if you ask me why very few people being divergent thinker because what they focus is not how to turn the strange idea into something useful, instead, people focus how to turn the popular thinking into easy thing to use, in order to become divergent thinker, we must reveal what other people never imagine about something and we make other people realize about what we promote, at this moment, I would share about several characteristic of divergent thinkers, hopefully these characteristic can help you to improve your life path, here is the first characteristic of divergent thinkers; they select every idea from other people's perspective idea, it means, they don't believe easily about what they think until they get the main point from the collection of ideas where it came from other people's wisdom, here what I believe; idea will not work successfully to human’s life until we commit to dissect the new wisdom from what we observe thoroughly, here is my research; people who just value their own ideas, they tend to promote their ego and arrogance rather than the existence of the value of ideas itself, here is the second characteristic of divergent thinkers; they explore the object they observe until they can find something impressive from it, it means, the divergent thinkers don't use the power of imagination to execute idea, but the divergent thinkers use what they observe as the alternative of raw idea to find the impressive thing from the object.


Divergent thinker is always needing self thinking time

   Here is the third characteristic of divergent thinkers; they like to rectify the misconception idea and not to blame where the misconception comes from, it means, the divergent thinkers use their calmness to accept the misconception ideas and they will turn it into something where it can be understood by other people, here is the fourth characteristic of divergent thinkers; they don’t fear failure, do you know why the divergent thinkers don’t fear about failure because they consider every failure as the nutrition of thoughts, sometimes divergent thinkers feel embarrassed at the first time, but it is kind of adaptation process for them before they are ready to welcome new challenge, here is the fifth characteristic of divergent thinkers; they are visionaries, it means, they work based on the progression oriented result, they don't want to work based on what they love to do, the divergent thinkers believe about the process and they don’t doubt about what they do because they see their vision as the fuel to create more alternative ideas and more wisdom, if you really want to improve your life path, don't use your own ideas to execute it, but use what you observe as different path to collect more ideas, this strategy will help you to find benefit and how to minimize about the risk, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

How to boost your confidence

Read the book to boost your confidence
 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topicHow to boost your confidence”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people want to invest their leisure to boost their confidence, if you ask me why most people don't have time to boost their confidence because they just do something what they like to do and not to try something exceeding than what they haven't tried to do, here is my point of view, self-confidence can represent someone’s area of competence, we must realize that there is no meaningful competence if there is no challenge to finish, at this moment I would share about 8 activities how to boost your confidence, here is the first activity how to boost your confidence level; reading the book, this is part of common good habit, but it is not easy to do because we need to crush our ego and increase our curiosity level towards knowledge, wisdom and truth, the more we read the book, the more we increase our perspective idea which it is used to see problem with different perception, here is the second activity how to boost your confidence level; solve other people's problem, this is good activity because it can give you the acceleration for your potential development, the more you can fix other people's problem, the more you increase your confidence, here is the third activity how to boost your confidence level; contribute something you love, this activity can help you to accelerate your confidence level because act of contribution requires sincerity and pain, if you are making habit of it, you will get more than you deserve because you dedicate your life as lender, not borrower, here is the fourth activity how to boost your confidence level; you don't do like what the majority of people do in their leisure time.

Use your mental strength to train your physical strength
 

  Here is the fifth activity how to boost your confidence level; start to make a journal every time you make a progress, this activity can boost your confidence because you control about your daily progress or daily achievement, if you can make a journal about something you have done, you will get more than you deserve and your confidence level will tell you that you are qualified to do something different than what others always can't, here is the sixth activity how to boost your confidence level; start gardening, this activity can boost your confidence because you surround yourself with the nature's characteristic, the more you recognize the nature, the more you recognize your natural instinct, if you have leisure, you can start gardening the fruit or the vegetables, here is the seventh activity how to boost your confidence level; declutter your furniture at home, this activity can help you to increase your confidence because decluttering activity can give you the feeling of peace, when you declutter your home frequently, your heart will feel harmony because the unused stuff can’t attract your biggest attention, the reason why most people can’t feel harmony because they keep the stuff in the room where they are afraid to lose it, here is the additional note; clean your home as if you were expecting a guest, clean your confidence as if you were welcoming a new problem, if you feel harmony every time you are in the clean room, your confidence level will increase automatically, here is the eighth activity for boosting your confidence level; create a vision board, this activity can help you to increase your confidence because you will be remembered by a vision board to see your target, dream or whatever you call it, a vision board can make you focus about what you can finish something in the future, the more you focus on your vision board, the more you need to prepare your skill to do something important for the future, here is the conclusion "your confidence lies in your preparation, you will never be ready to do something until you challenge yourself to do something you never try consistently", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

What is the purpose of life

Use the paper to manifest your purpose

      Hi, good readers, welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “What is the purpose of life” the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can detect their purpose of life, if you ask me why so many people can't detect their purpose of life because they just promote what they desire and what they hope, that mindset will kill you if you insist to behave such thing, life doesn't work like you want, life is about one big family who stays in the same planet, life is about caring, life is about nurturing the goodness, life is about serving what human need, life is about the collaboration between solution and problem, life doesn't ask everyone to struggle in order to get what they want, we will never be happy if we don't care when we see other people are hungry every day, if we feel egoistic, we never reach the purpose of life, here is the first strategy how to know about what's the purpose of life? We must know about the time of value of our existence, it means, we don't spend our major time to do something we love, if we just focus about what we want, we will never know about our time value of our existence within this lifehere is the second strategy how to know about what's the purpose of life? we must observe about what reality wants, it means, we don't follow our ego and we keep searching about what reality wants through improving our perception towards reality, as we know together only God can change reality, God knows about what's valuable and what's not valuable for human's life, if God insists us to do something valuable in reality, He will put something into our creativity, so we can explore what reality wants through using our creativity, remember this note; creativity is about building something it never existed before, not destroying something it already existed.


Use your curiosity to find your clear purpose

   Here is the third strategy how to know about what's the purpose of life? We explore about what other people fear, it means, we don't just follow up our problem and we keep silent towards problem, life will never change if we don't heal the pain's existence, as we know together everybody has different pain and everybody has different fear, if we don't explore about what other people fear, we will never reach the purpose of life, remember this; if we let the fear grows in every single day, we indirectly build the chaos and disaster within human's life, starting from now, we shouldn't keep silent when the pain comes to us, what we need to do is bring something to heal the pain, that's it, the more we bring what the pain needs, the more we get the power to fulfill the mankind's pain, that's noble purpose, Here is the fourth strategy how to know about what's the purpose of life? we don't work for getting luck, but we work for manifesting what God wants, it means, we don't spend our time to fulfill what we want, but we try to do something bigger than our expectation, in order to manifest what God wants; we mustn't prioritize our wants, instead, we prioritize our time to provide solution to suffice about what human's pain hopes and and what human's fear wants, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

I want to know what love is

Love always nurtures good habit
 
    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of wealth, health and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic “I want to know what love is”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone knows about what love is, most people prefer to prioritize about what they want rather than to prioritize about what other people hope, if people prioritize about what they want only, they will never feel satisfied about what they have done, in order to reveal about what love is, we must know about what other people want in their daily discussion, as long as we can't recognize about what other people want in their daily discussion, we can't promote our love in reality, love is about nurturing something existed, not taking benefit from something existedremember; a better curiosity will lead us to unlock the locked potential which can be used to optimize the power of love within us, to reveal the power of love in reality is very simple; don't use your ego when your ego doesn't satisfy other people's hope, at this moment, let me share something about strategy how to find out what love wants, here is the first strategy how to find out what love wants; don't promote your ego when other people don't need it, this question can lead you to be creative person, as we know that everyone has different pain, if we just promote our ego, we will never know about what love is, here is the second strategy how to find out what love wants; don't indulge your instant pleasure if you can maximize your love to dig your potential, it means, your love can't support you if you just indulge your instant pleasure, instead, love will support your creativity if it is used to fulfill what other people hope, remember this; money is not the same thing with love, if you love money only, money doesn't love you back, instead, money will put your habit like slave's life, money is attracted to you when you seduce your potential to solve other people's problem, you can't get potential if you don't love about the learning process which may take several years.

Love doesn't need requirement to give

     Here is the third strategy how to find out what love wants; don't force the market's demand to receive your own wants, this kind of question is recommended to answer problem if you work like businessman or entrepreneur, if you just promote what you hope, the market doesn't give you what you deserve, the market will give its loyalty if your product or service can fulfill what the market is telling you about what it wants, here is the fourth strategy how to find out what love wants; you don't spend your major time to do something valueless, This question can lead you how to prepare your expertise to face reality, if you just spend your time to do what you love, you will get instant pleasure and you will lose your confidence, here is the fifth strategy how to find out what love wants; you don't do something for getting luck, this question really hurts everybody because the majority of people just do what the do for getting luck, remember; the power of love doesn't work if we just use our ego as outlet for getting luck, every luck happens when we promote our action to find a way of solution, not to find an excusehere is the sixth strategy how to find out what love wants; you don't stop learning even though you reach your goal, this question leads you to behave humility, only humble person is willing to learn something even though he / she already realized, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

Causes of procrastination

Disciplined person doesn't procrastinate
 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “causes of procrastination”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t grow their career or business because they haven’t succeeded to conquer a sense of procrastination in their psychological, at this moment I am going to share about 6 causes of procrastination, hopefully this strategy can help you to detect the sign of procrastination where it can prevent you to do something great in your life career, here is the first cause of procrastination; perfectionism, the reason why people get perfectionism’s habit because they lack of will to know more about life's uncertainty, they are too complacent about what they have done in the past, here is the special note; “the more often people lack of learning to reveal something new, the more often they grow their ego, perfectionism and ignorance within themselves”, remember this advice; perfectionism isn’t genetic, it is part of accumulated bad habit, here is the second cause of procrastination; the fear of unknown, the fear of unknown, it is not caused by lacking self-motivation, but it is caused by lack of mental growth and lack of gratitude, having a clear fearfulness can become self-motivation if it is used to measure our seriousness during achieving the targetthe more we fear of unknown, the more often we dig up the regretful zone, we must remember that life is full of mystery, "we shouldn’t fear to try something, but we should fear of not trying", fear is reflection of self-image in fantasy, not in reality, if we build the lack of trying habit, as result, we make our lives pattern isn’t worthwhile because we get rid of golden opportunity.


The procrastination cycle

  Here is the third cause of procrastination; underestimate about the future, it means, someone commits to become the past believer, not part of the future believer, this is bad habit because someone is too confident about what he perceives, if he is making habit of it, he becomes arrogant / ignorant, we must remember that future is part of self-reflection about what we have done something, if we underestimate about what future shows something to us, as result, we are forced to enjoy the regretful experience over  and over again, here is the fourth cause of procrastination; lack of artificial urgency, it means, someone prefers to stay casual rather than attempting something urgently, we must remember that our time is limited, we can’t demand time how to become us as successful person, but we can demand ourselves to invest something valuable in restricted time until we become successful, remember this; the more we urge ourselves to know something valuable, the more we get feedback from reality, the more we procrastinate to know something valuable, the more we get a life suffering, hopefully it wouldn’t happen to us, here is the fifth cause of procrastination; the unclear target, this is part of common mistake, in order to avoid the unclear target, we must remove our attention from any distraction, then we set clear goal, (date, month, year) in our journal, here is the sixth cause of procrastination; get distracted easily with short term gratification, it means, someone hasn’t had enough reason to do something seriously in their future, "man who has no plan, he plans to fail", only man who has a strong will for living can overcome any distractions, starting from now, please don't let short term gratification gets dangled freely in your mind, such as holding the weekly party with friends, watching TV too much, smoking the cigarette, play gambling in the casino, "do something as if your service were no longer used by God", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Focus on the family

Give your attention to your family
 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Focus on the family”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people lose their family relationship, if you ask me why many people lose their family relationship because many of them just pursue their ego and they prioritize their need by indulging their individual pleasure rather than focus on the family relationship, that's poor habit, remember this advice; we will never get something great if we do something for ego, in spite of how great somebody to do something, if he doesn't care about his family relationship, they will feel alone wherever he goes, here is the first strategy how to you improve your family relationship; invite your family member to hold the feast once in every 3 months, it means, you allocate your money and leisure time by holding the feast in order to keep communication with family member, if there is no communication within the family member, it indicates there is no caring each other, that's dangerous ritual,  here is the second strategy how to you improve your family relationship; spend your time to make the quality time, it means, you need to allocate your valuable time to build the social bond in family, even though you are busy to work, don't let your ego holds you back from making the quality time with your family, remember; you will never born on earth if there is no family around you, even though you have the family issue, you must appreciate where you come from and also you must appreciate someone in your family who is taking care when you are sick. 

  

Care your family as you care to yourself

   Here is the third strategy how to you improve your family relationship; offering a help to your parents by accompanying them to check in with the doctor if your parents are sick, that's good recommendation, you will never know how long your parents can endure pain if you don't offer a help to your parents, sometimes parents keep silent to endure pain for long time because they don't want you to keep thinking about them, here is the fourth strategy how to you improve your family relationship; you buy something where it is really needed by your parents as emotionally, it means, you understand what your parents want and you understand what your parents don't want, if you buy something where it is needed by your parents, at least, you can relieve their burden by buying something where it is needed by your parents, here is the fifth strategy here is the fourth strategy how to you improve your family relationship; you don't add new pain to your parents feeling even though your parents can't understand your pain, this strategy is difficult to apply because not all children can relief what parents feel about their pain, sometimes parents's behavior is like child who prioritize their ego and they behave as if what they say is always right, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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