• Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

  • Psychology

    Welcome to Alfiandi's Website, in these articles you will learn about what is the purpose of life, you will learn more about yourself, besides that, you will learn how to maintain a mental health, pain tolerance, willpower, subconscious mind, self-esteem, etc.

4 things that prevent people from happiness

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “4 things that prevent people from happiness”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can't differentiate between short gratification and happiness, if people just do something for their career without having specific purpose and deadline schedule, whatever they do can make themselves staying away from happiness, at this moment, I would share there are several tips that prevent people from happiness, here is the first thing that prevents people from happiness; living in the past, it means, these people are typically working towards the past oriented plan because they don't brave to adapt with new circumstance in the future, these kind of people usually feel satisfied about what they accomplished in the past rather than feel enthusiastic to try something they have never done, the reason why people prefer to be living in the past because their feeling has been afflicted by many sufferings in the past, such as the pain of adversity, the pain of rejection, the pain of disappointment, so they don't dare to face the future, remember this advice; happiness comes from continuously learning progress, if there is no progress in learning, people tend to let the pain of ignorance dominates to what they think and it can make them suffering in regretunfortunately many people don’t understand about what kind of demands that happiness wants, so people just focus doing what they like without knowing the consequence.

 

  Here is the second thing that prevents people from happinessworry about future, it is part of bad habit because worry can affect to the human’s mental health, people who worry about future, they are feeling unease because they don't have enough a mental preparation, only ungrateful people who don’t feel grateful about what they receive and their behavior tends to underestimate any form of blessing from God, here is the third thing that prevents people from happiness; people don’t count their blessings and they don’t maximize what they can collect from the blessing, it means, people don’t recognize about what God grants for their best self, the reason why people can’t recognize their blessings because they just pursue something where it doesn’t relate to what they can control, such as daily habit, perception, decision, I have shared in the article; the more we pursue something we can’t control, the more we get depressed, the more we pursue something we can control, the more we get  the abundance of joy, health, prosperity and kindness”, we must understand that not all blessings are related to what we can always see, such as money and possessions, every day we receive the blessings from Almighty God, such as health, reputation, knowledge, integrity, patience, enthusiasm, love, peace, luck, here is the fourth thing that prevents people from happiness; comparing what they don’t have with what others have,  it means, people forget about self-control because they just see other people are more superior than themselves, we must understand that every human has different purpose, the more we see many variant of purpose, the more we see a different result, so every human has life mission, don’t let our eyes can see something where we can’t hear about other people's struggling story, sometimes what we see can’t represent what other people feel, we must appreciate what God grants something to us even though it seems unjust for us, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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The 7 reasons why people fail to achieve goal

  

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the 7 reasons why people fail to achieve goal”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people have a clear goal, at this moment I would share about seven reasons why people fail to achieve goal, here is the first reason why people fail to achieve goal; lack of persistence, do you know why we need to keep persistence because it will unleash the power within our potential, if we don’t stay persistent, we will give up easily once we meet with problem, in order to keep us doing persistently, we need to set a daily goal in order to measure how strong we can undergo the life’s challenge, in order to get the power of persistence, we must get up again and again after we fall down at many timeshere is the second reason why people fail to achieve goal; lack of conviction, it means, people haven't had enough a mental development to convince themselves to change their own perception, in order to activate the power of conviction, they must get inspired to what they do and they must know the limitation between what they repeat in the ritual and what they visualize in their imagination every day, that's self-image, if we lack of conviction, we will work with a meaningless purpose and our body will lose its defensiveness, to add the power of conviction, we must brave to fail and evaluate it, here is the third reason why people fail to achieve goal; fatalistic attitude, it means, they believe everything around them is inevitable or predetermined by God, if they keep behaving such thing, they will lose the power of determination to change and they will lose their potential growth because they give up their circumstance to the reality rather than fighting for what they intend, remember; everybody has own potential, if people don't train their undeveloped potential, as impact, whatever they do something, the result is always the same and not make a change.

 

  Here is the fourth reason why people fail to achieve goal; procrastination, it means, people are too complacent about what they have got, if they just repeat the bad habit without improving, it is called frustration because they don't want to change their habit for better purpose, here is the fifth reason why people fail to achieve goal; lack of discipline, we all know that discipline is the bridge which connect between goal and action, discipline is part of the universe's habit, if people don’t want to apply discipline, they deliberately plan to fail because they don’t build something valuable for the future, here what I believe; discipline is the key how to change everything, there is no gloomy day if there is discipline, apply discipline can help human to remove all frustration, desperation and other mental illnesshere is the sixth reason why people fail to achieve goal; low self-esteem, it means, people will not go directly to the direction they desire because of having a low self-esteem, only people who have a low self-esteem that don’t have competence skill, if there is no competence at any field, as impact, there is no progressing, if there is no progressing, there is permanent failurehere is the seventh reason why people fail to achieve goal; unproductive habit, it means, people don’t take serious action to unleash their potential, if potential isn't used to work, human will lose their high performance skill, if it would happen, they will get a low price, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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How to feel the positive thinking process?

 


     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to feel the positive thinking process?” The reason why I choose that topic because the positive energy has a big major role to influence what human think about the thing precisely, at this moment I would share several tips how to feel the positive thinking process once you are caught in difficult situation, hopefully these tips can help you to find solution over many problems, here is the first tip how to feel the positive thinking process once you are caught in difficult situation; stop focusing on the impossibilities, it means, you are not allowed to imagine about the impossibilities as long as you can put your major attention to the possible way to do, don't let the difficult situation finds your weakness because it can leash your potential, if you focus on the possible thing to do, your positive energy will help you to remove what makes you think impossiblehere is the second tip how to feel the positive thinking process once you are caught in difficult situation; stay away from the expert’s perfect advice, it means, you need to believe about the learning process rather than believe with the experts perfect advice because the learning process represents your reality, whereas, the expert’s perfect advice can make your worries resolved but it doesn’t reveal what you need most.

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  Here is the third tip how to feel the positive thinking once you are caught in difficult situation; look for possibilities in every situation, it means, you must keep looking for another reference because there are many unexpected situation are waiting your curiosity and your biggest enthusiasm to try, sometimes negative thinking can offer a good solution when most people are just expecting good without preparing the negative anticipation, remember this; life is full of uncertainty, we will never know what happens tomorrow, don't just expect good, but also prepare for the negative anticipation by preparing what most people avoid, "make a plan A is good, but you must have plan B to support what makes your plan A is failing", all we can do once we are trapped in difficult situation is prepare for the worst and do what we think possible to do, remember; positive thinking process can't be applied into reality if we receive the formal education where it doesn't tell something about what life demands, the positive thinking can happen to the reality when we challenge ourselves to find the reason why we stay in difficult situation, here is the fourth tip how to feel the positive thinking once you are caught in difficult situation; find an inspiration from great achievers, it means, you must keep sticking with people who can share their inspiration, this habit must be applied because it can help you to avoid the negative influence, if you can absorb the inspiration from the great achievers, the impossible thing within your mind is almost nothing because you are incredibly driven by great achiever's storyI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Why you should become a possibility thinker?

   


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “why you should become a possibility thinker”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people tend to become a negative thinker rather than become a possibility thinker, the root of problem why they feel reluctant to become a possibility thinker because their characteristic is not congruent with the universe's characteristic, we all know that life is mystery, unpredictable, and private, if we always find something easier in our life journey, our potential is worthless because it lacks of usingour main job as human being is not discovering what life wants, but how to develop our hidden potential for self-nurturing, self-learning, self-adapting, self-rehearsing and self-thinking, at this moment, let me share something how to be a possibility thinker, hopefully it can help you to create a better life and better career, at this moment, I would share about 4 several reasons why you should become a possibility thinker; here is the first reason; possibility thinking increases your possibilities, it means, possibility thinking can help you to promote your expertise to the new journey, your expertise will work for you to pass the life exam when you commit to stay persistent until you finish something, remember this note; you can't make a wise decision when you can't reward yourself, when you believe you can solve something difficult, then you succeed, as result, many doors of opportunity will open to you, here is the second reason; possibility thinking draws people’s attention and attracts people’s emotional need, it means, people will find you when you can provide what people need, don’t let anyone else can’t find you, be someone who is being waited by other people’s lives.

 

  Here is the third reason; possibility thinking increase other people’s possibility, it means, if you use your possibility thinking to increase your potential continuously, other people will find your potential and learn from you because your potential can improve their lives, if you can make people achieving their goal, your life will get better as well because you have invested the value to other people’s lives, it’s contagious act, here is fourth reason; possibility thinking allows you to catch a big dream, it means, if you can develop your possibility thinking, your capacity will get bigger and stronger, if you increase your capacity over and over again, you can dream and live into your dream, it is not difficult to catch a big dream as long as you keep staying in your progress steadily, remember this; your dream will not give up to welcome you if you will not give up building the foundation of dream, here is fifth reason; possibility thinking gives you energy, it means, possibility thinking can offer energy once you increase your power of faith by focusing on something you want to complete, if your faith grows, everything you see around you is possible to do even though it seems difficult to finish, remember; your faith will not give you what you believe if you don’t grow your faith by self-demanding to action, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Strategic thinking is like showering the plant with water

  


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “strategic thinking is like showering the plant with water”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can maximize their strategic thinking before they find solution, most people start thinking when they succeed to collect some evidences, find a good reference, find a problem history, analyze the suspect and follow the fact, unfortunately not many people maximize their thinking ability by repeating the learning process until they get a momentum, that's important clue, remember this; a man who just thinks about the thing without attaching momentum, he is not maximizing his strategic thinking, instead, he is just daydreaming about the thing, in my opinion; strategic thinking will increase its power when someone repeats the learning process like showering the plant with some water, in addition, strategic thinking will not show its strength when there is no dedication and enthusiasm, remember this; our learning ability will not grow when we don’t repeat the rituals, the problem is appearing in our lives not because we lack of idea, but problem is happening because is caused by lacking of learning habit and lack of adaptation, if we want to develop our strategic thinking, we should give a new task / new plan / new critical question to our brain every day, besides that, strategic thinking needs mission to expand its strength, the purpose of strategic thinking is not making people perplexed, but help people to develop their learning ability and step out from the comfort zone.

 

  If you have problem, either financially, emotionally, spiritually, relationship, or healthy, don’t focus on the problem, but focus how you extend your potential through improving your service and treat yourself better than before, no matter how hard you try to solve the problem which may interrupt your peace, the problem will resolve by itself when you treat yourself better, such as enrich your knowledge by reading book, practice your craft, reevaluate about your achievement progress, share the kindness to others, forgive yourself once you made a mistake in the past, do the meditation in every morning, having breakfast with the nutritious food, drink the mineral water, do physical exercise, those are rituals where it can build a strategic thinking, remember this; nobody will care about your future, even though your boss, or best comrade, you are the future plan executor, you can’t finish something better when you don’t increase your potential within yourself, every problem will move away when you have succeeded to serve your biggest masterpiece / contribution to mankind through your strategic thinking, here is the special note; “the will to win is worthless if you don’t have the will to prepare”, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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7 practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset

  


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “7 practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people are easily distracted by the source of negativity, the root of problem why most people feel difficult to absorb positive energy because they don't know how to access positive energy, as impact, they encircled themselves with bad influence maker, such as, the community which has no clear purpose and just offers a negative sensation, at this moment I would share several tips how to achieve a positive mindset, hopefully it can guide you how to harmonize between your mindset and peace, here is the first practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset; start the day with a positive affirmation words, it means, you have to empty your mind from negative source and you give yourself with a positive affirmation words, such as “I am successful, powerful, handsome, happy”, the result may not appear as your wishes instantly, but your positive affirmation words in the morning is enough to attract a positive thing around you, here is the second practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset; focus on the good thing even though it is smaller than you think, it means, you have to keep grateful about what you receive because there is no wrong addressee when God sets something up for you, here is the third practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset; find enlightenment in every bad situation, it means, you have to challenge yourself by putting yourself in bad situation, maybe you can learn something from the bad situation which impact to other people's experience, if you can find enlightenment in every bad situation, your spiritual intelligence grows and you will get more a positive energy to feed your mindset, here is the additional note; you can't enlighten your light in the bright room, your light will be useful when you enlighten it in the dark room, likewise, your positive mindset will not be useful when you put yourself in the positive community, your positive mindset will be useful for you when you challenge yourself to take a lesson from bad situation, such as, failure, adversity and rejection.

 

    Here is the note; there is nothing bad moment in this life, unless we put something  we understand to define it, there is nothing can destroy our future, only wrong mindset can kill what we develop and obstruct what our potential does, here is the fourth practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset; turn every failure as the stepping stone, it means, you have to set goal if you want to know whether your positive mindset will work for your career or not, remember; a positive thinking can't work properly when we just do what we love and avoid what we hate, even though we hate something to do, it doesn't mean we will not get something useful from it, sometimes the biggest reward comes from having the freedom to fail, there is no meaningful success if there is no magnificent failure story, let's enjoy the failure as if it would be last lesson for us, here is the fifth practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset; do hypnopedia, it means, you start to visualize about good thing that you want to embrace it now, it may take a several days to practice, but if you can access it, your subconscious mind will help you to neutralize a negative influence and your positive vibes will increase, hypnopedia is kind of practice for your mind frequency development, let's do it before negative influence evokes, here is the sixth practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset; focus on the present before the next 24 hours begins, it means, you have to put your biggest attention to something you can control, such as a daily goal, don't use any distraction to distract yourself from the source of distraction, you just need to follow what your potential does, what your instinct does, what your intuition does and maximize your freedom to share the kindness, here is the seventh practical tips how to achieve a positive mindset; find a good community which it can teach you how to accelerate your progress, if you surround yourself with good community which offers same vision, your probability of getting success is high, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Why you should release the power of strategic thinking?

  


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “why you should release the power of strategic thinking” the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can release the power of strategic thinking, the root of problem why they can’t release the power of strategic thinking because they lack of will, lack of decisiveness and they don’t have specific long term goal, at this moment let me share something some reasons why you should release the power of strategic thinking, hopefully it can help you to remove self-doubt and fear of the unknown, here is the first tip why you should release the power of strategic thinking; it can simplify the difficult problem, it means, if you practice your learning ability continuously, the problem you meet will not make you suffered because every difficult problem you meet can be turned into simpler problem, here is the second tip why you should release the power of strategic thinking; it prompts you to ask the right question, it means, if you commit to fix your learning ability, you will improve the way you ask the right question to monitor your learning progress, if you can create better question, you will get a better answer.

 

    Here is the third tip why you should release the power of strategic thinking; it can help you to prepare yourself for facing an uncertain thing tomorrow, we all know tomorrow is always mystery and private, there is no single person can know whether they are ready or not to face the uncertainty, if they can treat themselves better by preparing their craft continuously, they always get ahead than the size of problem they are facing, the key how to visualize the future is prepare our skill and have faith to what our potential doeshere is the fourth tip why you should release the power of strategic thinking; it can reduce the margin of error, it means, we can reduce the same error once we develop the power of strategic thinking into target we have set, it doesn’t matter if we create a mistake because we are limited by knowledge, time, space, resource and many other things, making mistake represents our dedication to create a better decision and better attempt, here is the fifth tip why you should release the power of strategic thinking; it can give you the power of influence, it means, if we keep developing in our potential pursuing some achievement, our mind will produce strategic thinking and it can give us the power of influence to others, in addition, the power of influence also can attract other people who have same idea, vision or purpose with us, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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How to recognize the importance of realistic thinking?

  

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to recognize the importance of realistic thinking?” the main reason why I choose that topic because many people underestimate about the power of realistic thinking, the root of problem why they behave such thing because what they pursue is unrealistic target and they override how they can realize their target in details before it will turn into reality, we call it as "inflexible planning", unfortunately not everyone realizes that realistic thinking can become a best friend when they are facing the problem alone, the function of realistic thinking is helping everyone to execute between unrealistic plan and realized target in reality, at this moment, let me share something to you how to recognize the importance of realistic thinking, hopefully these several tips can improve your learning ability and help you how to adapt with uncertainty of life, here is the first tip how to recognize the importance of realistic thinking; develop an appreciation of truth, it means, everyone must prepare what they can do before they will receive something from the truth, sometimes their mental strength isn't ready once they stumble over the truth, as human being who know nothing, we must appreciate what we receive from truth by progressing our craft continuously until we are ready to face the terrible thing in reality, if we want to get something magnificent, we must develop what the truth gives us, such as we welcome problem with wholeheartedly and we solve it with our crafts, we increase self-awareness by learning from other people’s experience, sometimes we feel living like in the hell once we start something, that’s truth, if we don't challenge us to do something what we can, life will will challenge us to do what injures uswe can't build the future with comfortable feeling and inflexible mind because the future has inflexible system, we must adapt ourselves with what future demands without neglecting what we can do in our craft.

 

    Here is the second tip how to recognize the importance of realistic thinking; do your homework with your capacity, it means, you must do something as if your service would be used by most people in the future, unfortunately most people don’t want to do their future's homework because they think every day there is no different than the past most days, here is a good news; if we challenge ourselves to do homework even though there is no demand from others, our realistic thinking will grow rapidly and it can help us to solve problem even though we are not ready to solve it, remember this advice; there is no single person can predict when they are ready to face challenge, adversity, affliction, or death until we get through it, what we can do as human is prepare our legacy as if it would be our final job on earth, here is the third tip how to recognize the importance of realistic thinking; picture the worst case scenario, it means, we need to prepare our mentally while we face the worst case scenario, that's suffering test, the essence of suffering test is helping us to discover the realistic thinking, examine what went wrong about our past and be ready to welcome new problem, there is no single person can avoid the worst case scenario until they are willing to adapt with it, so we shouldn’t hate about the worst case scenario because it is requirement how to get good scenario from the futureif we train our mind to be realistic person all the time, there is no fear or worry can stay inside our mind because we have adapted with suffering test, here is additional note; there is no real obstacle in life until we put it there, only realistic thinking can overcome that obstacle, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking?

  


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking”, the reason why I choose that topic because realistic thinking can help us to avoid the pain of unrealistic expectation and also realistic thinking can help us to get rid of bad habit where it can prevent us to do something great, at this moment I would share several tips why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking, hopefully it can help you to improve your career and increase your learning ability, here is the first tip why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking; because realistic thinking can minimize downside risk, we all know that every action has the consequence, if we just do something without considering the realistic thinking, our action will not gain the significant progress, instead we will add downside risk in what we do in our progress in career, unfortunately most people are too focused on benefit, they don’t realize what will happen if they just focus on the target, they will underestimate what the reality shows to them, if they are making habit of it, they just get what their life counts and they will not get more than they deserve, do you know why? Because life can't be bought with the price or benefit, life can be exchanged with the kindness, remember this note; when we face about reality, sometimes we don’t realize that reality measures what we are developing for the future, if we will never recognize the importance of realistic thinking, our work will not manifest what we want in reality.

 

  If reality shows us something, it means, we must continue to work on our craft, reevaluate to what we have done and we need to put our invaluable assets in there, such as patience, enthusiasm, happiness, love, decisiveness, honesty and sincerity, those are invaluable asset can help us to minimize downside risk in our life career. Here is the second tip why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking; because realistic thinking gives you a target and game plan, it means, realistic thinking is part of the greatest asset where it can help us to locate where our joy lies ahead and also can help us how to manifest our dream into reality, if we want our lives gets new inspiration every day, we must set target and make our own game plan, after that, we have to ensure our action can serve something to the future, here is the third tip why you should recognize the importance of realistic thinking; because realistic thinking is catalyst for your life changes, it means, realistic thinking can help you to dispel wrong attitude which can obstruct your intention to do something great in your career, remember this note; as long as you have something you intend to do it, you have to keep persistent to do although it doesn’t give you what you expect, sometimes in life, the best investment in human's life is giving something where it doesn’t relate with human's expectation, here what we need to realize in our thought; we may underestimate our best investment, such as learning knowledge, giving kindness, solving problem, etc, The best investment in human's lifework can run properly if human don't stop its process because there is God's work in there, please don’t hate what you do even though you will not get what you expect because God’s plan is better than what you plan so far, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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Why you should discover the joy of creative thinking?

  


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “why you should discover the joy of creative thinking?” the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can find their joy’s location, besides that, some people can’t differentiate between gratification and joy because their mind have been fueled with unrealistic plan, that’s problem, based on Vince Lombardi’s wisdom, he said clearly “the joy is in creating, not maintaining”, it means, if someone wants to get happy, he must create something where he never makes it through his own potential, feeling of joy is personal responsibility, we can’t make it happening by waiting other people’s happiness, remember; there is no way around how to create a joy unless human keep improving their creativity and capacity continuously, the basic principle of creativity is express oneself by releasing the feeling of joy through sharing the kindness to others or solve other people's problem, at this moment, I would share about five specific reason why you must discover the joy of creative thinking, hopefully these reasons can help you to maintain your biggest enthusiasm and enhance your creative thinking, here is the first specific reason why you must discover the joy of creative thinking; it can add value to everything you reach, it means, whatever you want to develop in your career, the joy of creative thinking can add value to what you have done if you practice your craft and also you turn on your passion, nothing can happen in your creative thinking if you use your fixed mindset or lack of discipline.


   Here is the second specific reason why you must discover the joy of creative thinking; it can draw people to you and nurture your idea, it means, if you develop your creative thinking by practicing your positive  thought, pursue your potential, as result, other people will find you wherever you are or whatever your circumstance might will be, everything comes to you is the result of what you shape in your creative thinking, you are the best investment by far, don’t let anyone else can define your limit, you must feel joy of the way your condition or situation, here is the third specific reason why you must discover the joy of creative thinking; it can help you to learn more, it means, your creative thinking is going to be unstoppable because you work with it repeatedly, if you feel hungry to learn more and more, I will say to you “congratulation”, because you have found your biggest joy in your life and you have stepped ahead than other people who just enjoy what they earned and they do nothing for self-improvement, being creative means having ability to stop your attention to something turned your creativity off and able to visualize the big picture of the future through self-potential, here is the fourth specific reason why you must discover the joy of creative thinking; it can challenge the status quo and change your life entirely, it means, whatever your circumstance might be, your creative thinking can drive you to reach the right destination and also it can help you to change your perspective, "if you change your perspective, you change your reality, if you change your reality, your joy level will be different than most people have", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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The characteristic of creative thinkers

 


       Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “the characteristic of creative thinkers”, the reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes how to turn from a limited thinking into creative thinking, being creative person is not enough to rely on what he thinks in his imagination, being creative person must know how to finish something by correcting something which it is unconnected from what he is thinking, at this moment, I would share about several characteristic of creative thinkers, hopefully these characteristic can help you to improve what you analyze or what you visualize, here is the first characteristic of creative thinkers; they value ideas, it means, they aren’t satisfied with the past achievement because the creative thinkers consider there is always something new behind the meaning of ideas, the creative thinkers depends on discipline because it is powerful habit which can offer more chance for the creative thinkers, here what I believe; idea will not work successfully to human’s life when there is no evaluating process from someone who applies the idea, idea will not work if there is no disciplined action, if there is someone who can’t value idea, he will never do something for his new achievement later, here is the second characteristic of creative thinkers; they explore the options, it means, the creative thinkers use some strategies where they have learned from other people's ideas, the creative thinkers use those strategies to empower their power of imagination, unfortunately very few people can maximize their power of imagination because they spend their habit not to seek the inspiration, what they seek is just entertainment.

 

   Here is the third characteristic of creative thinkers; they connect the unconnected, it means, the creative thinkers use their freedom to find new information which may help them to remake their mission and they also collect the past evidence as reference to correct the past idea which may didn’t work in the past, it seems complicated, but if the creative thinkers develop momentum by resurrecting their peaceful mind, they will get the strong connection from the past evidence and their collection of experience, here is the fourth characteristic of creative thinkers; they don’t fear failure, do you know why the creative thinkers don’t fear failure because it is part of daily food for thoughts, there is no such creative person if they never fail at some trials, it is not kind of embarrassment, but it is kind of adaptation process with more difficult journey, if you want to get the characteristic of creative thinkers, you must allow yourself to get failure experience again and again until you understand what is going through in your life, here is the fifth characteristic of creative thinkers; they are big believer, it means, they work based on the future oriented result, the creative thinkers believe in the process and they don’t doubt about what they do because they see themselves bigger than the size of problem they faced, that’s important attitude where it must be applied in reality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

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8 activities to boost your confidence

  


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic8 activities to boost your confidence”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone has leisure to do it, most people don't have time to boost their confidence because they just do something what they like to do and underestimate how to do something more important than what they always do, in my point of view, self-confidence can represent someone’s area of competence, we must realize that there is no meaningful competence if there is no confident improvement from us, at this moment I would share about 8 activities to boost your confidence, here is the first activity for boosting your confidence level; read a book, this is part of common good habit, but it is not easy to do because we need to crush our ego and increase our curiosity level towards knowledge, wisdom and truth, the more we read a book, the more we increase our perspective idea and it will boost to our confidence, here is the second activity for boosting your confidence level; take a walk in the park, this is good activity because it can change a bad mood to become a good mood, it is very effective rather than watch TV more than one hour, the more we can fix our mood by taking a walk, the more we can increase our confidence, the third activity for boosting your confidence level; try a midday nap, this activity can help you to accelerate your inner peace and also help you to increase your learning ability, if you are making habit of midday nap, your blood circulation will improve and your confidence level will be renewed because you renew your energy by taking a midday nap, here is the fourth activity for boosting your confidence level; volunteer for a cause you love, this activity can boost your confidence because you will think that you can give more than you can imagine, the more you volunteer something valuable to others, the more your action can boost your confidence level.

 

  Here is the fifth activity for boosting your confidence level; start to make a journal, this activity can boost your confidence because you will know what is your daily progress or daily achievement, if you can make a journal about something you have done, you will get more than you deserve and your confidence will tell you that you are qualified to do something different than what others always do, here is the sixth activity for boosting your confidence level; start gardening, this activity can boost your confidence because you surround yourself with the nature, here is the important thing; "the nature is the biggest mirror where it can reflect itself to human, if human do something for the nature, the nature will do more than what human can do", if you have leisure, you can start gardening, here is the seventh activity for boosting your confidence level; declutter your home, this activity can help you to crush your ego because decluttering activity can create more room in your heart, when you declutter your home frequently, your heart will feel harmony because the unused stuff can’t attract your biggest attention, the reason why most people can’t feel harmony because they keep the stuff but they fear to need it once they are in urgent case, in fact, there is no stuff can guarantee human’s inner peace, here is the additional note; clean your home as if you were expecting a guest, clean your confidence as if you were welcoming a new problem, if you feel harmony every time you are in the different situation, your confidence level will increase automatically, here is the eighth activity for boosting your confidence level; create a vision board, this activity can help you to increase your confidence because you will be remembered by a vision board to see your target, dream or whatever you call it, a vision board can make you focus about what you can finish something in the future, the more you focus on your vision, the more you prepare something important for the future, here is the conclusion "your confidence lies in your preparation", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

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Why do we need to give up everything for one purpose?

  


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “why do we need to give up everything for one purpose” the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can master their focus, the root of problem why not everyone can get something they deserve they are too busy to hang around with other people’s opinion where it doesn’t give a benefit to what they develop within themselves, at this moment, I would share several reason why we need to give up on everything, hopefully you can get something enlightened from what I share to you, here is the first reason why do we need to give up everything for one purpose? We are limited by human’s resource, it means, we can’t master everything in this life because we are limited by time, space, capacity, infinite energy, so there is no single person can master in many fields, the more we want to master many fields, the more we lose their focus to control what we are capable to do, it would better to pick up one thing and then master it thoroughly rather than picking two or three things where it can't develop what we want to do in the future, here is the second reason why do we need to give up everything for one purpose? We can’t finish everything, it means, every human has own capacity, we can’t finish everything we start, sometimes we need to cooperate with others, so we can get a feedback from others, remember this; if we can give up everything we want to God, the more we get the clearest need in life because only God knows what is the best gift to be given to human.

 

   Here is the third reason why do we need to give up everything for one purpose? We can’t go everywhere, it means, we can’t go as we wished as long as we haven't worked on something we deserve, remember; not all places in the world can offer something we need to build our bright future, so we need to give up our attention to many areas and we start to focus for what our competence needs, remember this; "the more we can do something for one purpose, the more we can grow our happiness and we get what we deserve", I know it is not easy to detect what our attention wants toward the unclear want, it takes time to let go off the unclear want from our attention, to remove unwanted distraction, we stay away from the source of unwanted distraction and we need to work based on what we dream and let the universe works beyond what we struggle, here is the fourth reason why do we need to give up everything for one purpose? We aren’t always be well-rounded, it means, we need to master one skill and we can let other people do what they can, everyone is unique, we must let go off what our ego wants and start to work based on what we aim on the clearest target, the more often we accomplish every day's target, the more we get pursued by luck, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

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6 questions how to find out what you want in life?

 


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “6 questions how to find out what you want in life” the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone knows about what they want in life, most people prefer to do what they love and avoid what they hate without knowing the consequence, that’s part of self-delusion, if people repeat what they always do in daily activity, they will never more than they are nowin order to locate what we want in life, we must prepare what life requires from us first, if we don't prepare what we learn, our life journey tends to get stuck between dilemma and fantasy, that's terrible, remember; a better life will happen when there is a better question, do you know what is the reason? A better question can lead people to improve new lens of understanding and they can gain the process of growing and learning, if people keep asking with a lousy question, they definitely get a lousy answer, besides that, better question can help people to change their perspective, if their perspective changes, their lives will improve, at this moment, let me share something about strategy how to find out what you want in life through the critical of seven questions, here is the first question how to find out what you want in life; what would I wish if there is no single person supports me?, this question can lead you to be creative person, your action will lead to be mature person because you do not fear of making a new mistake and you are willing to take own responsibility, it is okay there is no single person support you as long as you don’t doubt about what you do and you keep improving what you can do in your daily activity, that’s more than enough, a better life will happen when you make an initiative action and take personal risk, here is the second question how to find out what you want in life; what would I do with my life if money wasn’t an issue?, this question can lead you how to make a good service in order to adapt with uncertainty of life, remember this; money is just an effect to be given to right person's action, if you can do what money can't solve, your service will get paid well and you will be pursued by money, that’s part of a big investmentmoney is just part of the smallest investment in the world, make sure you focus how to upgrade your skill until it can become your biggest magnet where it is used to attract more money.

 

     here is the third question how to find out what you want in life; what things would I like to experience if I had no fear?, this question can lead you to gain a new skill, new knowledge and new wisdom, I understand that everybody has own fear, but we shouldn’t let a sense of fearfulness can block new opportunity where it can happen to our lives frequently, we will never know what would happen to our experience in the future, our main job as human being is prepare a new skill, share the goodness and offer a good service to others, here is the fourth question how to find out what you want in life; what kind of accomplishment I want to complete? This question can lead you how to prepare new skill and set a long term target as life mission, if you apply this question to test your life, your curiosity level will grow and it can lead your life to be worthwhile for you as well as others because you study a lot and offer your potential to the future, here is the fifth question how to find out what you want in life; what kind of contribution can represent me for the next 100 years later? This question is very powerful among another question because this critical question can keep you pondering about your limited time, if you can contribute something valuable when you aren’t always around with it, as result, your contribution will be remembered by others who use it forever, here is the sixth question how to find out what you want in life; what kind of problem that I need if I want to get luck from this world? This question will let you entering into a new life transition, it is like a butterfly is born from cocoon, the more problem you need as the reference to be learned, the more you get a luck in the process of understanding, this question is very phenomenal because it can break your old mindset as well as it can change your life rapidly, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

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6 causes of procrastination

  

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “6 causes of procrastination”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t grow their career or business because they haven’t succeeded to conquer the procrastination in their psychological, at this moment I am going to share about 6 causes of procrastination, hopefully this strategy can help you to detect the sign of procrastination where it can prevent you to do something great in your life career, here is the first cause of procrastination; perfectionism, the main reason why people get perfectionism’s habit because they lack of consistent learning, they are too complacent about what they have done, “the more often people lack of learning something new, the more often they grow their ego, perfectionism and ignorance within themselves”, remember this advice; perfectionism isn’t genetic, it is part of accumulated bad habit, here is the second cause of procrastination; the fear of unknown, the fear of unknown, it is not caused by lacking self-motivation, but it is caused by lack of mental growth and lack of gratitude, having a clear fearfulness can become self-motivation if it is used to measure our seriousness during achieving the targetthe more we fear of unknown, the more often we dig up the regretful zone, we must remember that life is full of mystery, "we shouldn’t fear to try something, but we should fear of not trying", fear is reflection of self-image in fantasy, not in reality, if we build the lack of trying habit, as result, we make our lives pattern isn’t worthwhile because we get rid of golden opportunity.

 

  Here is the third cause of procrastination; underestimate about the future, it means, someone commits to become the past believer, not part of the future believer, this is bad habit because someone is too confident about what he perceives, if he is making habit of it, he becomes arrogant / ignorant, we must remember that future is part of self-reflection about what we have done something, if we underestimate about what future shows something to us, as result, we are forced to enjoy the regretful experience over  and over again, here is the fourth cause of procrastination; lack of artificial urgency, it means, someone prefers to stay casual rather than attempting something urgently, we must remember that our time is limited, we can’t demand time how to become us as successful person, but we can demand ourselves to invest something valuable in restricted time until we become successful, remember this; the more we urge ourselves to know something valuable, the more we get feedback from reality, the more we procrastinate to know something valuable, the more we get a life suffering, hopefully it wouldn’t happen to us, here is the fifth cause of procrastination; the unclear target, this is part of common mistake, in order to avoid the unclear target, we must remove our attention from any distraction, then we set clear goal, (date, month, year) in our journal, here is the sixth cause of procrastination; get distracted easily with short term gratification, it means, someone hasn’t had enough reason to do something seriously in their future, "man who has no plan, he plans to fail", only man who has a strong will for living can overcome any distractions, starting from now, please don't let short term gratification gets dangled freely in your mind, such as holding the weekly party with friends, watching TV too much, smoking the cigarette, play gambling in the casino, "do something as if your service were no longer used by God", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

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How can you stay focused?

 

    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how can you stay focused?” the main reason why I choose that topic because the power of focus can help human to achieve great thing in the human’s life story, besides that, the power of focus can help human to avoid the negative feeling which is caused by the fear of unknown, at this moment let me share some strategies how you stay focused on what you want though there are many distractions which it tries to interrupt your inner peace, here is the first strategy how you can stay focused on what you want; remove distractions, it means, you need to stay away from the source of distractions, maybe you can turn off your cellphone, turn off TV, block the social media’s notification, remember; your focus needs a strong will and your clarity of vision, for the preventive action, you must remove your willingness for moment and start to focus about what your life needs to keep sustainable, before your attention gets caught with any distraction, you can say to yourself; "not all what I notice can become my daily necessity and not all distractions around me can feed my life", you can repeat this instruction, here is the second strategy how you can stay focused on what you want; make time for focused thinking, it means, you need a strategic plan before you put your focus into something you don't really need, don't let your focus gets dangled freely with the object you don't really need, you need to practice your focused thinking by visualizing the clearest object you want, do the repetition at least 30 second and ask yourself "What the future needs from me?" or "what kind of service the future demands me to provide it?"

  

     Here is the third strategy how you can stay focused on what you want; keep item of focus before you lose your concentration, before you lose your concentration, you need to collect some items which can make your focus grows periodically, such as book, podcast, PDF file, motivational video, a vision board, it is easy to lose our concentration while we want to do something better in our career, but if we let our focus loses its power again and again, we will lose the momentum of how to be focused thinker, here is the fourth strategy how you can stay focused on what you want; set goals, it means, you need to arrange your major focus to the clearest goals, maybe short term goal, midterm goal and long term goal, remember; your biggest attention will determine what you prioritize in the future, if you put your biggest attention to any distractions, as result, you will get what you don't want, but if you put your biggest attention to one goal that you need to develop it, as result, you will become what you deserve, here is the fifth strategy how you can stay focused on what you want; question your progress, it means, you mustn’t overlook reality even though you commit to be productive person, reality is part of your goal manifestation, if you question your progress, you will not do the same thing as yesterday's result and you will not get satisfied easily with yesterday's accomplishment, if your satisfaction is bigger than your biggest curiosity, your sense of creativity will die, if your biggest curiosity leads you to keep learning and enliven your enthusiasm, your creativity will kill your satisfaction, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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Where should you focus your thoughts?



   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “where should you focus your thoughts?” the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can master their power of focus, some people lose their focus because they haven't determined what they will become in the future, if people realize about the power of focus, there is nobody can live poor because their focus will help people how to find what is the most useful thing for their future, at this moment let me share something to you about some strategies how to use your focus properly and how to delegate your focus to fix your life journey, please don't overlook your power of focus because it is very powerful to work better than what you do in daily activity, here is the first strategy where you focus your thoughts in order to fix your life; identify your priority, it means, you must know what is your biggest target as priority, if you can’t identify your priority, your focus can’t help you to change your habit, work ethic, and behavior, there are many ways how to identify your priority if you really curious about it, here is the important note; you must have long term target if you want to know where your focus should goif you can delegate your focus on the right thing, your focus can help you to get rid of what useless thing in your life and your focus can help you to change your priority, that’s requirement, here is the second strategy where you focus your thoughts in order to fix your life; discover your gift, it means, you must practice one skill that you want to develop in the future, at the first time you will feel discomfort because you haven't adapted yet, but if you are making habit of it at least 3 years, your gift will show by itself to you and your gift will work consistently, you don’t need to know when you can discover your gift, your main job is pick up 2,3,4 skills, then you try it one by one until your focus can show you something significant about your gift, here is the note; your focus will not be useful if there isn't used to pursue to the clearest target.

 

  The reason why you must pick up more than 2 skills because it can help you to observe which skill that can help you to discover your gift, not all skills can work on your gift, the criteria how to make your gift works successfully, you must enjoy the learning process, then the universe will discover your gift, remember this advice; you will not be able to discover your gift until you love to embrace the failure without losing your enthusiasm, here is the third strategy where you focus on your thoughts in order to fix your life; develop your dream, it means, you must have a plan where it can help you to develop your dream, a good dream will help you to see opportunity in any difficult thing, whereas, a lousy dream will make you see difficulty in any opportunity, if your focus can make your thought is not going anywhere except focus on one thing, then you must develop your learning progress every day until you can manifest your dream into reality, here is the fourth strategy where you focus your thoughts in order to fix your life; identity your target deadline, in the real world, there are many obstacles which may prevent you to make a target, if you want your power of focus works at maximum level, you must complete your target deadline before the next 24 hours begins, "if there is no pressure from within, you can't get your biggest change in the outside of your life", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

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