5 tips to stay calm when something unexpected happens


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “5 tips to stay calm when something unexpected happens”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can stay calm when there is something unexpected happens, most people really hate about an unexpected moment because it can interrupt what they do in the comfort zone, the reason why they hate to accept unexpected thing because they think an unexpected moment can destroy what satisfies themselves, here is the truth; satisfaction is part of the escape plan to work better than what human like to do, we shouldn't get shocked when there is something unexpected happens because every unexpected thing is God's blessing, God starts to work based on what we respond to Him, if we welcome every unexpected moment with happiness, our life journey would be meaningful, more significant and attractive because we just consider God's plan is better than what we plan, every expected moment from God is the best signal where we get opportunity to learn something from His favor, if we hate about what God plans to us, as result, we would never be happy, remember this advice; “uncomfortable feeling is learning zone, there is no comfortable in learning zone, there is no learning zone at comfort zone”, human and nature are made to be having no different, if we try to separate ourselves from the nature’s characteristic, what we do can destroy everything we have, such as mental wellness, love, happiness, productivity, knowledge, enthusiasm, at this moment, I would share 5 tips to stay calm, hopefully these strategy can help you to restrain your emotion.


  Here is the first tip to stay calm when something unexpected happens; everything happens for a reason, means, whatever God does something to this life, there must be strong reasoning behind it, perhaps that reason can lead human's behavior to the proper destination, God does not do something harmful to every human, only human's evil intention can harm themselveswe should accept what God grants us even though we don’t like to own it because God’s plan is always better than what we plan, if we are grateful about what God grants us, God would be putting the same feeling as we did, here is the second tip to stay calm when something unexpected happens; learn how to adapt in the winter, it means, we should adapt with difficult thing every day, the reason why we need to adapt with difficult thing because life’s challenge will never be easy, if we are unhappy with something unexpected happens, it means, our mental health is in trouble, it is caused by lack of dedication and lack of determination, here is the third tip to stay calm when something unexpected happens; retreat into nature, it means, we must not use our ego and our sense of pride to welcome unexpected moment, we must let go what we can’t control and we let our characteristic is associating with the nature’s law, such as, we use the law of attraction to focus on solution and not to focus on the circumstance we get into it, here is the fourth tip to stay calm when something unexpected happens; give ourselves some time before we activate different perspectives, it means, we shouldn’t jump into fast judgment when we are not sure about the root of cause, we need to calm our emotion and we shouldn't let it goes with the circumstance's flow because it may lead us to more illogical and improper decisions, here is the fifth tip to stay calm when something unexpected happens; create a contingency plan, the reason why we must do that because not what we want is not always congruent with what God wants, I think creating a contingency plan is proper decision because it can help us to avoid doing something unnecessary or harmful to our futureI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.