Don’t live with regret


    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “don’t live with regret”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people live with regret and they still don’t know why their lives are getting stuck between dilemma and expectation, the root of problem why people easily regret because they underestimate what they can do within 1 year and they overestimate what they can’t do within 10 years, it means, people tend to enjoy what they want now rather than enjoy what they want most in the future, they don't have growth mindset, they prefer to have  a victim entitlement mentality than commit to long journey, basically there is no person really ready to reach what they can achieve within 5 years because long journey can't be represented by taking overnight preparation, it is not congruentin order to make different life, we must take full responsibility about what we can possess and also we hold responsible about what we develop over period of time, either habit or mindset, if we are enthusiast to learn something not because we want to keep a lot of possessions, we will not get the painful regret, do you know why? Because our heart is not being enslaved by a lot of possessions, remember this advice; as long as we insist to work for getting a lot of possessions, we create more room to regret, that’s biggest factor which can make our lives is snared of resentfulness with our own lives, I know it is not easy to deal with regret because the pain of regret can’t be cured with everything we have in this world, what we can do is not how to avoid regret, but how to adapt with regret.

 

  Please remember this wisdom; the painful regret offers permanent pain, whereas, suffering offers temporary pain, it means, before we get something we never change, we must know what we are seeking in this life and we must take full responsibility about what we can choose, even though we will get suffering from rejection or adversity, it doesn’t means we can't do anything good, what matter most is how we end suffering promoting what we can do to other people until we can stay away from our comfort zone, if we take learning deeply, the purpose of entering comfort zone is regret, if you are curious why people keep struggling to improve what they learn over and over again because they are motivated by their biggest fear and they are driven by their painful story where it had been occurred in the past, maybe you will ask me “where’s the biggest fear coming from?” it is coming from the running out of youth time, starting from now, please make your own story by doing what you incredible driven wants and let the universe picks something best from you, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.