How to deal with loneliness


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “how to deal with loneliness”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get lonely when the pandemic has been spreading over one year, several countries in the world try to blockade several urban areas which can gather the large of group people to hang around in there, let me clarify that pandemic has nothing to do with loneliness, there is no external world can make people getting lonely, loneliness is caused by the chaotic mind where it can’t harmonize between what people perceive and what people believe, there is no human can feel lonely as long as they have goal where it guides them to be valuable person, only lousy goal can create a sense of frustration and loneliness which can impact to human’s deepest soul, at this moment I would share several factors that can make human can’t deal with loneliness, here is the first thing that make people don’t know how to deal with loneliness; they spend too much time to engage with fleeting pleasure, it means, people don’t have long term goal by investing knowledge to themselves, instead, people spend their major time to look for fleeting pleasure, short term goal, entertainment,etc. Here is the truth; most people think that they can ignore the pain, but the pain its self is not going away from the human's mental strength, the purpose of pain which lies in the human’s mind; to unleash the human’s locked potential, not to kill the human’s luck in the future.

  Pain is not the same with loneliness, loneliness is part of mind-sabotage impact which influences people to stay perfection all the time, as long as people fill their mind with good purpose, ambition, as impact, they will not get loneliness, in addition, we must beware about the social circle because not all people from the social circle can influence something good for what we think and what we view about life, what I review from the society's habit, most people try to stay away from loneliness by finding pleasure to hide their loneliness, this strategy will reduce people's loneliness for temporary but not lasting because pleasure can not heal the people's mind sabotage, as long as people don't learn some lessons from this life, their loneliness will not go away, here is the additional note; their loneliness will arise again if people's mind vibration is not congruent with the law of universe, if people want to stay away from loneliness, they must find someone who can teach them how to design a life mission, or people can join with good community where it accommodate good people to share their own life experience, now here is the second thing that make people don’t know how to deal with loneliness; they don’t want to engage the long haul, it means, people tend to avoid the potential of failure and they tend to do simple thing over and over again until they don't realize that they frustrated, remember this note; as long as people just want to do something in the short haul, they tend to sell their future investment and they teach themselves to be more selfish, here is the third thing that make people don’t know how to deal with loneliness; they encircle themselves with crowded-pleaser, the reason why people feel lonely although they are encircled by crowded-pleaser because crowded-pleaser doesn’t offer enlightenment, instead crowded-pleaser just offers fleeting pleasure, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.