Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you
always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I
would like to share about the topic “I am sad or did I make my life being humiliated by what I have done?”, the main reason why I choose that topic
because not all people can accept their own reality, they consider every reality of
life comes from God, but in the fact, “every
reality is created by what people consume about information they have chosen”, there is no big reason to blame life because
every human is granted with the power to choose whatever they become, we will never know what we become in the
future, but our decision truly determines what we are going to be, either being happy
person or sad person, remember; every
word has the power to influence the quality of what we think, if we used to
talk with inspirational words, we will receive the power from what we usually
talk, but if we used to talk with the uninspiring words, our reality
of life will feel humiliated, we get dilemma in our reality not because of the outer world, but it is caused by the power of uninspiring words, at this moment, I am going to explain about several factors which
influences our reality of life, hopefully these strategies can
help you to improve your inner world, here is the first factor which influences our reality of life; the
quality of information we consume from the social circle, it means, we
must know the capability of social circle whether it can inspire us or not, as
long as our social circle can’t serve what our emotional needs, we must leave
that social circle peacefully.
Here
is the second factor which influences our reality of life; the family tradition, at this
phase we must observe carefully about what the family tradition teaches us
because not all family traditions can teach us how to be someone we mean to be, it
means, the family tradition sometimes tries to protect our future through following the daily
ritual, please beware about it, I don’t
mean to insult when the family tradition teaches us about the religion
teachings or moral philosophy, the problem I mean is "the family tradition pushes us to be loyal and extremely conservative with the tradition's rule where it prohibits us not to do something bigger than what family
tradition usually does in life", if we take a look a bit about the family's lifestyle, sometimes the family tradition tries to
prohibit our habit and it teaches us to be follower, not leader, do you know
why the family tradition often rejects new influence from other people’s belief
in life? because they are too complacent about the ancestor’s teachings and
they are afraid a new belief can destroy the family tradition, here is the third factor which influences our
reality of life; personal philosophy,
remember that every human has personal philosophy, whether they want to be
happy, sad, rich, poor, wise, all circumstances they have created so far from personal
philosophy, if we are feeling sad or
disappoint about our reality, it means, we are too loyal about personal
philosophy where it blocks our mind, heart, soul to learn something from this
life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you
an idea how to improve your life, good luck.
