True friend

Good friend gives the valuable thing to others
   
Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "true friend", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can find their true friend in their whole life story, if you ask me why many people can't find the true friend because they just demand other people to treat themselves better rather than they demand themselves to build good characteristic for true friend's hope, people who don't build good habit for fulfilling other people's hope, they will be assembled by Almighty God with the fake/toxic friend's characteristic, here is my recommendation; before we want to get something we deserve, we must give what makes other people deserve at first, that's natural law, remember; good habit is not designed to satisfy ourselves, but good habit is designed to fulfill other people's hope, the reason why many people are trapped in bad social circle because they just build habit for fulfilling themselves, here is the bad news; if people are busy to fulfill their own satisfaction, if their sense of satisfaction's period is gone, after that, their sense of fearfulness is growing up rapidly, at this moment I would like to share some strategies how to be found by a true friend, here is the first strategy you must do if you want your existence will be found by a true friend; don't be busy to satisfy yourself, the reason why you aren't recommended to be busy to satisfy yourself because it is not good habit, instead this kind of habit will kill your future, remember this; satisfy yourself with what you want is like you consume large scale of antidepressant to your body just for reducing your depression state, this behavior will lead yourself to stay in permanently desperate, here is the special note; there is nobody will get fortune if we just hope from other people's mercy, fortune will come by itself when our habit deserves it.

Worrying will not solve anything

  True friend doesn't appear to your daily routine activity if you are busy to pursue your passion or dream, true friend will offer the support if you really need any assistance, sometimes true friend is like a dream, he will not give trouble to you, remember; good dream is not designed to follow your passion, but good dream is designed to fulfill many people's future hope, the more you focus about yourself, the more you worry about yourself, whereas, the less you focus about yourself, the less you worry about yourself, here is the second strategy you must do if you want your existence will be found by a true friend; you nurture a skill where you don't need it, but you invest your skill to solve other people's problem as if you haven't cared about your own problem, this kind of habit is difficult to apply because it needs strong intention, noble mission, empathy and repetition of good act, here is special note; finding true friend is like finding a way to success, there is no single person knows about type of person he can associate with until he builds a habit where it is congruent with true friend's hope, starting from now, we must know the basic purpose why we are destined to be born on earth if we want our lives get appreciated highly, in order to build a good habit, we must research about other people's pain, so we can propose solution to relieve their pain, fate is like meeting with true friend, we don't need to think "how to find true friend", it would better we should think "how our masterpiece will be detected by true friend's pain", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Persistent depressive disorder

Symptom of dysthymia

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth, and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "persistent depressive disorder", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people pretend to be happy, but their behavior tends to manifest the sign of persistent depressive disorder, if you ask me why people get persistent depressive disorder because they just spend their major time to run activity which offers low energy, e.g. watching too much TV, overexcited about extravagant lifestyle, buying something for self-indulgence treatment, drinking alcohol, hang out with toxic friends, doing something fun with social media application without having certain purpose, now I just want to remind you; if people live a life with overjoyed activity without wanting something to learn, their life journey would be more difficult because they just tend to focus how to pursue enjoyment and not to balance their daily routine activity with something painful, such as learning how to adapt with problem, here is the bad news; if people's habit dissociates with life rule, as impact, whatever people feel can cause them to not to have interest about normal life, that is dangerous behavior, life will take place into peace if people don't side to happiness only, here is the special note; life system has two sides; happiness and pain, we mustn't live by neglecting one among them, happiness and pain is inseparable, don't ever think to live a life with sense of happiness only, sometimes you need to feel pain, e.g. discipline, if someone lacks of discipline for long period of time, his habit will form into persistent depressive disorderif there is no disciplined action, human will lack of enthusiasm which causes a lot of problem, such as low self-esteem, hopelessness, poor concentration, low appetite, less time to sleep, here is my recommendation; don't feed your mind with activity which offers overexciting behavior because it will invite the pain of addictionpeople who suffer persistent depressive disorder, they tend to feed their mind and habit with activity which offers low energy, only activity's low energy which causes people to taste addicted until they don't know how to stop addiction, remember; the activity which offers high energy doesn't make people addicted because it is very difficult to pass, instead, activity which offers low energy will influence people not to pursue their interest. 


Persistent depressive disorder

  I just want to remind you that every human's desire demands human's physical pain and mental acumen to work in real life, so people who suffer dysthymia can be healed by giving them a critical question therapy continuously, maybe you can ask them "what do you want in life" and "what kind of accomplishment you want to achieve" "what kind of problem do you want to solve?" "where do you want to go in 5 years later?", remember; people who lack of interest to pursue the goal, they will immobilize their potential by doing something uninspiring, if people feel has no potential, they don't optimize their focus to prepare plan to manifest the goal into reality, if people lack of using their potential for better purpose, as impact their potential tends to decrease human's a sense of enthusiasm, if human have low enthusiasm, they will start complaining when they meet with new problem, finally they suffer persistent depressive disorder or dysthymiathe best medicine for helping people who suffer persistent depressive disorder; you can ask them to detect "where does your sense of enthusiasm usually go?", if people start to imagine about their enthusiasm's location, they tend to crave their vivid imagination with something excited, such as the favorite place or the special gift, if they succeed to imagine about something exciting, they tend to practice their physical body to do something sweaty, if they can concentrate about something sweaty to arrive there in the defined time, here is best part; if people who suffer dysthymia can set their interest with deadline, they can heal their mental illness by their own version, remember; human's potential will work at maximum level if people lure their potential with interesting goal, potential comes from enthusiasm, if people follow their enthusiasm, finally people can revive their low energy to be converted into high energy, here are activities which offers high energy; reading book, meditation, learn from successful people, run the business, get sport, make financial planning, going on picnic, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you a new insight how to improve your life, good luck.

Mental capacity

Exchanging information for duplicating mental capacity

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "mental capacity", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are ready to welcome life's suffering, if you ask me why everybody needs to know about their mental capacity because life offers different level of suffering in every single day, if we don't have enough mental strength, we will feel distressed every time we want to take another journey, I want to give you real example; now imagine you go to the gym, you will see the barbell's weight 1 kg, 5 kg, 10 kg, 20 kg, 30 kg, 40 kg, 50 kg around you, the barbell's weight represents life's suffering, if you want to shape good muscles, you must train your physical muscle by lifting the barbell, it is same thing if you want to shape your mental capacity, the problem you see in your life represents the barbell's weight you can lift, if your mental capacity is around 10 kg, God allows you to solve a small problem, remember; God will not put your life to the higher rank if you aren't willing to increase your mental capacity, here is the definition of being happy person; someone who is ready to endure high responsibility because his mental strength is heavier than life's suffering, whereas, the definition of being desperate person; someone who isn't ready to endure high responsibility because his mental strength is lighter than the life's suffering, now my question to you "how much problem you can solve with your mental capacity?", if you can solve 50 kg of problem, it means, your mental capacity is around 50 kg, here is the key how to measure your mental capacity; the problem's weight you solve is representing your mental capacity


Mental capacity

  Instant pleasure is the big enemy for mental capacity, do you know why I say such thing because instant pleasure influences people's mindset not to take high responsibility in life, if people only want to take small responsibility in life, their life career will not develop as they hope because they don't want to increase their mental capacity by providing solution to solve the problem's weight in human's life, here is the bad news; if people's mental capacity is not strong enough to endure high responsibility, they will never find a good career in their lives, instead, they only get a career where it can disappoint them, here is my recommendation; don't try to avoid problem when God gives you opportunity solve problem, if God sends His package for you, it indicates your mental capacity is ready to solve problem, you must be pleased if you receive problem because that's only way how to improve your career, if you don't upgrade your mental capacity, your career will make you bored, finally the marketplace isn't interested with your service, starting from now; you can analyze whether your service can offer solution to the marketplace's demand or not, if your service can offer solution to the marketplace's demand, it indicates you have opportunity to develop your mental capacity by fulfilling the market's demand, the more you can fulfill the market's demand, the more you get the power to increase your mental capacity, here is the formula how to increase your career, human's psychology 80%, the marketplace's demand 10% and exit strategy 10%, please contemplate it now, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you new insight how to improve your life, good luck. 

Smart goal

Smart goal gives you perseverance to make progress

  Hi, good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "smart goal", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are aware about the goal setting's influence, some people just set the goal they desire without knowing about strong reason behind it, as impact, they will feel difficult during process because their goal can't inspire what they do, in order to create smart goal, people must have deadline to monitor the goal, do you know why people need to set the deadline for their goal? Because creating the deadline can prevent a sense of procrastination to grow, as we know having a sense of procrastination can become big obstacle to increase our competent skill, here is the first characteristic of smart goal; smart goal can help us to prevent a sense of procrastination to grow, this strategy really works when we will feel enthusiasm to enjoy the process, if we can't enjoy the learning process, it indicates that we set the wrong goal, if we really want to create smart goal, we have to analyze whether the goal doesn't make us fear or not, if we don't fear accepting new mistake or failure after we make attempt to reach the deadline target, that's smart goal, if the goal setting can make us fear or it doesn't give us peace, it indicates that we want to destroy our confidence, it is not good idea, here is the second characteristic of smart goal; smart goal can help us to unlock our awareness and improve our potential relentlessness, here is the good news; if we can combine between our awareness, potential and other people's problem, three of them can become a new currency for our worthiness.  

Awareness level

  Now, I have question for you; before you want to pursue what you accomplish, you must measure your mental acumen by asking the critical question "Am I ready to receive nothing from what I struggle?", if you aren't ready to accept something which is opposite with your expectation, your conscious mind indirectly destroys your plan because you are too fearful to see about the result, if you have smart goal, it doesn't give you fear, worry or regret although you have failed at many times, here is the third characteristic of smart goal; smart goal doesn't last on short term period, it means, smart goal will run lifelong after that smart goal evokes your potential to create more different result, here is the good news; smart goal doesn't need motivation from other people's influence because smart goal teaches us how to become independent person who possess unique ability to help people's problem, here is the fourth characteristic of smart goal; smart goal will turn into inner peace when you finish something progressively, it means, smart goal will keep you communicating with God once you finish something, if your smart goal can help you to improve the connection between you and Almighty God, so whatever you do right now, you will get blessed by God, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you new insight how to improve your life, good luck.



Presentation skills

Lack of Presentation skill

  Hi good reader, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "presentation skills", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people have problem during they are performing presentation in front of the audience, if you ask me why many people can't improve their presentation skills because they can't understand the audience's power, no wonder many audiences feel asleep when they hear the topic from the presenter because the audience can't get the critical point from the presenter's speaking way, the problem doesn't come from the audience, it comes from the presenter's speaking class skill which can't fulfill what the audience wants to hear, what the presenter often thinks is how to communicate what he wants to say without mastering the emotional needs where it came from the audience's hope, at this moment, I would share about some strategies how to improve presentation skills, hopefully it can improve the way you perform during presentation at the company you are working, here is the first strategy how to improve presentation skills; you must provide the detail point from your presentation material where it can attract the audience's curiosity, this strategy will keep your audience focusing on your presentation material and this strategy will help you how to remove ambiguous towards the audience's assumption, if you don't master the detail area from your presentation material, please don't show it up during the presentation's performance because it can give you a panic attack.


the naive of presentation skill

  Here is the second strategy how to improve presentation skills; don't let your presentation material will push the audience to ask the question where it doesn't exist within your presentation material, you have to ensure every presentation material point use the simple word where it can block the ambiguous from the audience, sometimes you need to remove the point where it can raise the audience's assumption, the point from what I am saying is you must ensure the presentation material will not let the audience asking the question where it doesn't hit to your data record, Here is the third strategy how to improve presentation skills; you have to know about the audience's power at first before the presentation performance is begun, the reason why you need to know about the audience's power because it can help you to measure your capability and also to ensure your data can fit the audience's satisfaction, if you don't understand about the audience's power, you will get the panic attack when the audience tests your knowledge, Here is the fourth strategy how to improve presentation skills; don't create the informal atmosphere when you perform the presentation, it means, you have to ensure your physical body is supporting your good mood during presentation, don't let your mood feels unsteady when you perform the presentation, don't let your body indicates that you tremble with the situation or your body produces sweat a lot during presentation, you have to ensure you consume enough drink before you start your presentation, the unfit body will immobilize your concentration, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Problem solving & decision making

The decision Maker

   Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, howdy? hopefully you always have the abundance of wealth, health and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "Problem solving & decision making", the main reason why I choose that topic because many schools don't teach students how to have problem solving & decision making, what students get is how to remember the history, how to calculate the numbers and how to copy what teachers saying, that's common misleading tradition where most teacher don't realize it, nowadays many schools still believe the memorizing method during learning can become the trademark for the next generation, here is my research; the education system in the school is designed to create the fixed mindset and to recruit the employee, I don't blame if people want to be employee or the labor at the company, if this tradition is being repeated again and again, eventually, people will never be able to possess problem solving & decision making skill because the tradition blocks human's potential to explore something people don't know, remember; every tradition is not designed to develop human's potential, instead, every tradition is designed to protect what human need to believe, it is very difficult to against the tradition where it had been built long time ago, the best attitude we can perform if the tradition blocks our potential is we need to challenge ourselves how to be new student every day where there is nobody will restrict our movement and our curiosity.



Most important thing is problem solving skill

  Starting from now, we must recognize what holds us back to become unique person, as long as we can't develop our strength to recognize our ingenuity skill, as impact, we always be a slave, remember; only knowledge and creativity can free us from being a slave, at this moment I would like to share how to build problem solving skill / decision making skill, hopefully these strategies can give you a new insight how to improve your life, here is the first thing how to build problem solving skill / decision making skill; don't behave like what the majority of people do in their leisure time, this is first requirement how to build problem solving skill, if we see reality, the majority of people only spend their leisure time to indulge me-time as if tomorrow will never existed, that's wrong behavior, if you think tomorrow is more important than what you do today, you must prepare your skill in order to welcome the unexpected moment or new problem, if you have soldier mentality, you will not spend your time to take rest and sleep all day long, instead, you keep digging your potential by delegating your curiosity in order to solve other people's problem, if you do something where most people won't, tomorrow you can master where most people can'there is the second thing how to build problem solving skill / decision making skill; don't let your last achievement stops you to move forward, it means, you keep searching your potential in order to leave new achievement again for the future, remember this advice; although you are financially free today, it doesn't mean tomorrow you will be free again, do you know why? because there is nobody will guarantee your future, that's soldier mentality, here is the third thing how to build problem solving skill / decision making skill; stop asking "why", rather you are asking "how", it means, it means, you don't fear when problem comes to you, if you practice your mind to ask "how", your mind will be led to the problem, then you will be taught by problem how to excel your mindset class and finally you will be taught how to solve the next problem, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Avoidant personality disorder

Avoidant personality disorder symptom

  Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "avoidant personality disorder", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get this kind of personality disorder, if you ask me why many people get avoidant personality disorder because they are surrounded by poor mindset and wrong social circle where it has many toxic mindset within social circle, the root of cause why people must have avoidant personality disorder because their habit is handed down by poor upbringing quality where it came from either family or working environmental, or they have built poor philosophy where it teaches them to behave like undeserved person, in order to remove avoidant personality disorder, people mustn't go into social circle where it doesn't have capability to give a good influence, this is first step how to make new transformation journey, as we know together that our habit is accumulated by social circle's habit, if we want to improve our career or good habit, we must encircle ourselves with group of people who can increase our confidence level, maybe we can socialize with new people and go to the favorite place where successful people hang in there, or we can read from the successful biography's book consistently, or we learn from what successful people do for their habit, feeling of inadequacy is very common mistake where it influences people's habit not to get out of the comfort zone, in order to remove feeling of inadequacy; someone's mindset must be trained to make a new mistake as much as he canthis strategy also can be applied when people feel anxiety due to fear of rejection, if people feel anxiety, what they need to do is collecting a new rejection every time they attempted selling something and they recorded their progressive action in the journal. 
The signs of Avoidant personality disorder

  Here is the first strategy how to help people who get avoidant personality disorder; don't mock about their problem, instead help them to recognize their own problem, the personality disorder can be healed as long as we say something good to people who get avoidant personality disorder, here is the second strategy how to help people who get avoidant personality disorder; try to leave a new memory with positive perception when you talk to them, it means, you don't remind them about their past problem, instead, you make a storytelling canvas where it can give people a new mind pattern or enlightenment, remember this advice; positive perception can't occupy together with negative perception in one place, if you can give positive perception to people who get avoidant personality disorder, so you must find a way how to boost their confidence, maybe you can ask them to join a leadership training program, personal development program, etc. here is the third strategy how to help people who get avoidant personality disorder; don't be stiffly when you talk to them, it means, you must adapt with the simple language they understand, if you just explain something where they don't understand about your mean, they will avoid you and they will push you away from their reach, sometimes we need to be rational person when there seems irrational situation, everybody has reason to be good man and everybody has reason to be irrational person, all we need to do if we meet with people who get avoidant personality disorder is we show our personality like a clean mirror for them, so they can look at themselves better than before, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this information can give you a new idea how to improve your life, good luck.

What is social thinker

Social people's activity

  Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "What is social thinker", the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is willing to be social thinker, some people prefer to live in the remote area, some people prefer to live in group, etc, basically social thinker is type of person who is busy to find the strategy how to make particular people get what they are looking for, if social thinker has something benefit, he tends to promote his perspective idea to the particular people, he will not stop doing something until the particular people get what they target, if you ask me "is it very difficult to become social thinker?", No it is not difficult, all you need to do if you want to be social thinker is empathy, patience and capacity to serve what other people need. you may need several months or years to manifest what you aim to be put into other people's lives, maybe you need to sacrifice your private life at the first period trial because you will sacrifice your time, energy, focus to give your service, in order to serve the particular people for long time period, you need to dig up your potential, curiosity and also upgrade your personal branding in order to inspire other people with your service, people who succeed to become social thinker, they usually find and gather the negative feedback from the particular people, after that, the negative feedback will be turned into the benefit feedback.

Social thinker is pursuing the same goal

    If you don't have empathy, patience and capacity to endure problem, you will never possess the power from social thinker, that's basic requirement, you will never know what you will get from the future until you have given what you love most to other people, this strategy can be applied into business scope, whatever you sell, other people don't care about it, what other people care is how is your product or service can match with what people need as emotionally, social thinker usually collect other people's feedback and it will be created as the leverage to gain new knowledge and new experience, sometimes the best way to find solution in this life is looking for the negative feedback, not the positive feedback, if you just get the positive feedback from other people, your capacity will not grow as you expect because your mentality is tied by satisfaction feeling, but if you get the negative feedback from other people, you will get self promotion and your mental acumen will get a new strength to absorb pain from the negative feedback, starting from now; we must train our mentality to accept the negative feedback, that's way of thinking from social thinker, here is another benefit we can learn from social thinker's habit, he will not get attracted with the reward easily because what he focuses is how to create good impact into other people's lives, it is not easy to become social thinker because most people just look for the reward and most people do not fear about the consequence of taking reward, hopefully this information can give you a good idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Mental health

Mental health

  Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of heath, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about mental health, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone realizes how to maintain mental health, if we look at modern age, many people get mental illness because they don't care how to maintain mental health, if you want to know about the main cause of mental illness, you must observe about two things to understand it; the need and the want, people who can't fulfill what they need, they usually get mental illness because of what they want isn't manifested into reality, do you know why it must happen? because people's behavior is not congruent with the life's demand, based on my research; people who get mental illness, they usually spend their major time to prioritize the activity where it offers less risky, less difficulty, and less urgency, people who don't know about what they prepare for their career, they will never know how to maintain their mental health, in order to measure our mental health; we must know about our deadline target, we must know about our capacity to endure problem, and we can tolerate with work pressurepeople who work without setting the target, they tend to work based on what they like without considering consequence, price and the time value of their existence, remember this note; people who prioritize what they want rather than prioritize what they need, their emotion will be tied with uncontrolled desire, people who prioritize uncontrolled desire, they tend to do something heavier than their capacity to endure, it is dangerous habit, people who endure more problem without considering their mental health, they will get emotional disorder or mental illness.

The sign of mental illness

   at this moment, I would like to share about how to maintain mental health, here is the first thing you must do how to maintain the mental health; don't buy what you want if you don't have enough budget to satisfy, people who just buy what they want without considering their budget, they will harm their habit and also harm their mental health, for example; people who want to buy a new car without having enough budget, this is dangerous habit if they continue it because people don't consider about mental acumen to endure pressure, people who push their limitation in order to satisfy their uncontrolled desire, they will get mental illness easily, remember this advice, people who can't buy something in twice installment, they don't deserve to afford something, this wisdom can help you to avoid huge loss in the future, if we look at reality, there are many people are trapped in satanic circle by buying a new car without cash payment, here is my recommendation; please don't harm your mental health, once it is broken, you will be sent into asylum, if you really want to buy a  new car, you must eliminate your ego first and do the financial budget planningbefore you buy something, you must consider with its value, as long as the value doesn't decrease after you buy it, you can buy it because it can become an asset, if I were at your position, I would better buy second hand car because I consider about the decreased value of the car and I don't get big pressure during buying it as emotionally, here is the second thing you must do how to maintain the mental health; train your mind to consume the positive information, e.g. good knowledge, wisdom and don't try to consume the negative information because it can attract negative vibration, the reason why we need to apply this strategy because it can help us to feel optimistic once we get difficult situation, here is the third thing you must do how to maintain the mental health; you get enough sleep, if you get enough sleep, your mental health will rest when it is trying to attract problem into your brain memory, hopefully this information can give you a new idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Fixed mindset

Fixed mindset person does nothing

    Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about topic "fixed mindset", the main reason why I choose that topic because almost everyone in the world has ever tasted fixed mindset, as we know that fixed mindset is totally different with growth mindset, people who have fixed mindset, they have several features; they tend to ignore new perceptive idea from other people, they tend to reject a new change from the market demand, they tend to stop learning because they are satisfied easily with the last achievement, they tend to get angry when there is an extreme change, they aren't enthusiast to do something new, they hate with failure, rejection, adversity, uncertainty, etc. Now my question to you is "are you having those features of fixed mindset?" , in order to change people whose fixed mindset, we must give them the endurance test or new challenge which can force people's habit to do something different, maybe you give people with punishment and reward strategy, for example; you have child, you tell to him "son, if your exam test has achieved average score around 70 in every compulsory subject, I will give you a ticket to go abroad for picnic, but if you fail to get average score around 70 or you get below 70 average score, you must commit to clean the house including your room every day until one month", maybe some people think that strategy is very cruel, it is not true, this strategy will help that child to dig his potential to learn something good in order to avoid the punishment, at the same situation, child's enthusiasm starts increasing because he wants to achieve the target and also get the reward as well.

Fixed mindset person doesn't recognize his blind spot

   Remember; we will never get new enlightenment in every situation if we don't face with the punishment's test and reward's test at the same time, if we too focus in reality, we will overlook reality and we behave complacency, as we know a sense of complacency will educate us to stay the same again and again with the same standard of behavior, the same standard of thinking and the same standard of goal, "only pain can dig human's potential", if there is no pain, there is no gain, that's natural system, if we don't take risk by doing something crazier, life will put us in the same situation again and again until we get the pain of disappointment and regret, the real problem in life comes from fixed mindset, not economy crisis or natural disaster, human's potential will not increase if human's brain capacity isn't growing, starting from now, we must select type of person who will offer us a fixed mindset paradigm or growth mindset paradigm, if there is person just gives you a sensational news, you would better to let go from him because the information he gives it to you has no high value, here is the special note; your social circle can determine how is your future looks like, your friends fate will be the same as yours if you hang out with them, you can't change your mindset until you open your heart to learn a new principle from people you don't know before, if your habit directs you to taste the pain of discipline and leave the unproductive habit, it can be assured you have a growth mindset, i think my explanation is done, hopefully this information can give you a new idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Happy job

Happy job makes you curious to do something unusual

  Hi good reader, welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of health, wealth and happiness, today I would like to share about the topic "happy job", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can't differentiate between happy job and satisfied job, if we use different perception; "satisfied job equals with secure job", do you know why I say such thing because secure job usually offers something important to human's satisfaction, but it can't offer bigger opportunity to evolve, basically secure job is unable to offer peace or happiness to human's mental acumen because secure job only demand people to follow the rule by restricting human's time, human's habit and human's potential, whereas, happy job offers new knowledge, new enthusiasm, new problem, new adversity, new opportunity to learn, new curiosity, new experience of failure and new pain / suffering without feeling dramatic effect,  you will not know whether what you think can make you happy or not unless you know what you feel, if you feel good / happy, you are thinking about something bigger than your knowledge, if you want to get happy job, please don't let what you can't do will interfere what you want to accomplish, if what you focus can grow your curiosity, it means, your capacity can do something crazier for you rather than most people who do something for you.

Happy problem can increase your career

  Remember: you will not get happy job if other people can dictate in every detail of what you do, you will not get happy job if your time is limited by other people's plan, please beware of what you do because not everything you do can give you a new risk, all new risk will come from what you attempt regularly, if what you can do can't increase your curiosity towards problem you want to solve, it means your job now will not promote your skill, if your job can't promote your skill, it can be assured that you will not get happy, some people who have narrow minded, they will think money will give them opportunity or fortune, it is not quite true, only growth mindset will give opportunity how to live happily, life is very short,life will not give what we want, instead, life only gives what we work for fulfilling other people's need as emotionally, people will buy their own emotion if they think there is something rational which can open up their logic or can answer people's emotional need, hopefully this information can give you a new idea how to improve your life, good luck.

Really mad

Angry person just expresses his arrogance
 

 Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “really mad”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people feel disappointed after they try to force their strong ideology into reality, from this case, the problem doesn't come from what makes people to get angry, but why people are really mad after they can't fit their strong ideology into reality, if we use different perception about this case, the real problem what makes people to be mad comes from people's wrong ideology, if they have good ideology, it is impossible for people to be mad for something they understand, if people are really mad at something important, it means, they don't really know about what they do in reality and they are not ready to face their own fearfulness, in order to solve this issue, people must not follow what they fear, instead people focus to find new information to answer what people fear, having a growth mindset is very important to us because it can give an alternative idea to determine the answer for every probleminner capacity will determine how someone interprets something he wants to understand, if we re busy to argue our weaknesses, we will not be able to live happily and we will get mad again, remember this note; we will never obtain something important in this life if we don’t demand ourselves to detect the problem with our brain's capacity, our duty as human is not finding what makes us satisfied, but how to know what stops us to learn more and what stops us to give more legacy to other people's problem, the main purpose of having large capacity is detecting problem as much as we can and we can be a savior towards other people's problem.

Love yourself to prevent your anger is bigger

 Starting from now, please don’t try to change what already happens now, it is useless, all we can do is accept reality and learn something from it, if you want to change reality, love yourself by investing good habit to yourself, such as, reading book, doing some exercises, meditation, sharing good experience to other people, solve people's problem, etc. If we don't invest good habit repeatedly, we indirectly build bad habit which can harm us, here is my recommendation; before you feel mad about the circumstance around you, doing what can increase your high esteem and stop trying think what you aren't entitled to think and don't fear to make new mistake if it is good for you to build your credibility and skill, remember this advice; reality is the slowest moment on earth, don’t believe in what you see with your eyes before you believe in what you are going to do for your futureyou must beware if you too focus to reality because it is the most commonly traveled road to be mediocre person, you must believe your intuition where it tells you how to develop your personal character and personal skills, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

Wound care center

Look after your environment can give you self-healing
 

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Wound care center”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people expect to get wound care every time they get the pain or suffering from their environment's treatment, if you ask me the root of problem why people get wound easily because they aren't willing to increase their brain's capacity to learn and also they lack of endurance skill to face problem, from this case we can conclude that every emotional pain comes from people's fixed mindset and behavior which can't interpret the existing problem or they can't understand what other people talk, remember; every information from other people's talk is neutral, there is nothing can force us to get emotional wound, unless we allow something to touch our feeling, the first strategy how to get wound care is we must train ourselves to change our perception to understand the articulate words from other people's talk, self-growth only comes to painif we insist against other people's negative talk, we will get emotional wound, if we let it passes through us, we will not get emotional wound, instead we will get peace because we consider it as unimportant words, your mental factory can be determined by your decision, your mental acumen can determine which words will come to your subconscious mind or which words will pass through your subconscious mind, remember this advice; emotional wound can't be manipulated because it is part of natural selection, we should be praising to God if we can get the emotional wound because it helps us to strengthen our mentality acumen, emotional wound will not come to us if we upgrade our capacity to accept the emotional wound as much as we can, sometimes enjoying the emotional wound is better than accepting the comforting lies, "please don't hate something you aren't entitled to hate because it is part of God's plan and allow yourself to accept the unpleasant experience as much as you can in order to against the illusion which is trying to give us a comforting lies" 

Move on is the logical way how to forget the pain
        
 There is no single person can manipulate your minds with negative words if you train yourself to accept the emotional wound as God's gift, starting from now; once you get a negative words from other people, you can say something to yourself "God knows I will accept this negative words from others, if God allows it happens to me, this is part of God's best gift for me because God is omniscient than me, so I will accept it sincerely even though I hate it so much", that's wound care center strategy you need to apply to your mindset, if you feel offended from other people's negative talk, the person you should blame is your perception, not others's negative talk because your mentality is not ready to accept the disaster, remember this advice; “we will never get enlightenment if we always avoid negative talks”,  please train yourself to be the hardest person in the world and treat other people well if you don't want to get emotional wounds, here is the last note; "there is nothing negative words or positive words can exist in the world unless we interpret it based on what we usually hear repeatedly until we agree to consider it as our belief system", I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Burnout syndrome

Burnout syndrome

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Burnout syndrome”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people get burnout syndrome when they overwork at their work place, if we observe from the psychological research "burnout syndrome only happens when people push their fear to do something they shouldn't do and they are too obsessed to do something bigger", if people are making habit such thing, I believe people will not get what they want after they get pension because they trained their habit every day to push their limit again and again, the problem in human’s life is not coming from target, but it comes from people’s fixed mindset and capacity where it can't adapt well with the existing problem in life, if you ask me “How to relieve burnout syndrome? realign your limitation to serve your higher purpose and refocus how to upgrade your brain's capacity to learn what makes you interested”, remember: if you are willing to spend your habit, time, knowledge, energy into glorious purpose, your limitation will be upgraded by itself and you will not get burnout syndrome because you enjoy the learning process,  if you always do what people do for instant pleasure, you will get burnout syndrome, the reason why many people get burnout syndrome at work place because their brain's capacity is unable to serve their creativity and their goal is uninspiring

Burn out syndrome
      

 Now what do you intend to do if your work place puts you into burnout syndrome? If you just work like other people around you, you will never get peace in what you do and you will never be able to detect opportunity which can give you a raise / promotion, here is the first duty you need to do if you want to avoid burnout syndrome is you must rewrite your dream and you must find a problem where it is really exciting to solve, if you don't know which area you need to improve, you will never be able to accomplish the big target, here is the second duty you need to do if you want to avoid burnout syndrome is you mustn't let other people control your habit and your time, the reason why you need to control your own time and your habit because you will know how to measure between your capacity and work pressure, if you rely other people to control your habit, you always get burnout syndrome wherever you go, here is the philosophy you need to ponder "you will not get burnout syndrome if you are responsible 100% about what you choose and what you endure", the happiest person in the world is he is able to rule his own life with their own standard and he can solve a problem with his own standard, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

First progress

Sadness is caused by stopping to progress
 
    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “first progress”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us are too afraid to create first progress, the root of problem why many people are suffering in short period of time because they are unwilling to create first progress in their career, what they do is repeating what other people do, here is my opinion; "if we think there is nobody can predict about the future, why would we bother to believe what other people say?, here what I review about life, "when we don't increase in our mental acumen, there is unknown energy is trying to suppress us from everywhere"in order to minimize life's pressure which is trying to suppress us, we must live side by side with the activity which offers us the enlightenment or progressive ideathe first duty we need to do if we want to make first progress is help other people by sharing your own experience and stop focusing about the past moment, the reason why you need to forget the past moment even though it is very impressive to remember because the past moment will never live side by side with the future, if we commit to live together with the future, we must create a new progress (doing something we never know or we never try before), life doesn’t charge us with the sin if we keep looking the answer for kindness purposeit doesn’t matter how much money we can earn, if we can't make a progress to what we do daily, money will decrease our potential, we will feel paralysis because we invest our major time to pursue money's habit.

Depression is sign of lack of progressing
     

  Remember this wisdom; “in every human's imperfection lies the relentless progress", it means, there is nobody will know when they can be perfect to what he has done, the greatest source from human’s wealth is caused from what he progresses in his imperfection”, if you think what you have done is perfect, your life will never change at all because life will never offer perfection to human’s lifeif life system is full of perfection, life should had died by itself long time ago because there was no growth, remember this advice; life is like plasticity, whatever you can do now, there is always something you never realize about what you haven’t tried, if life stops growing, life is dead, here is my recommendation; please don’t stop growing your capacity as long as what you do can give you a happiness emotional fulfillmentif you stop growing your capacity, as impact, you will be pursued by a sense of depressionhere is the permanent solution if you want to avoid a sense of depression; “you have to do something which it is never be perfect even though you have done it in million timesif what you do now can be improved, refined or upgraded continuously until time can't stop your enthusiasm, you will never get a sense of depression forever”, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Personality disorder types

Personality disorder types

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Personality disorder types”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people in the world are trapped with tradition where it can make people to behave something strangely, if we observe deeply about it, “personality disorder is not part of genetic problem, but it is caused by ritual or tradition which to make sure people aren't allowed to think or argue about the ritual or tradition which had exited long time ago”, the key to solve this problem; someone should have a extreme curiosity, so that he learns to dissect about the information which is concerning with ritual or tradition where most people believe it is true, in this section we must beware towards what we believe because not all traditions or rituals can offer the enlightenment or peace, if there is tradition or ritual doesn't allow us to think deeply or contemplate about it, it can be assured that tradition or ritual can mislead people to the wrong directionif what we do now can't increase our awareness level or extreme curiosity, we must leave that activity soon because it can become a serious problem and also it can guide us to have personality disorder, here is my recommendation; if what you believe can't adapt with the future's demand, you stop to believe it and don't let other people prohibit you to think more or contemplate about something crucial you want to know, you must have a strong reason or strong evidence before you do something for many years ahead", Habit is the result of what makes you feeling of good or bad today, remember this; life is full of uncertainty and full of risk, if we don't beware about what we are responsible for, we will be forced to do something where we aren't meant to do.

The signs of Personality disorders

 Here is the question “what makes you to be different person among people around you? if you can't answer it, you may possess personality disorder, if you look at the picture above, it explains about personality disorder types, if you don't want to engage with those personality disorder types, you must invest a good habit or good tradition where it can enhance your potential growth and grow your mindset, here is my recommendation "don't believe with good or perfect because that compliment will stop you to dig your potential, sometimes you must find a negative feedback from other people's point of view, so that you can accept new experience to do more than anyone else, if you have new experience, you will have a good opportunity to explore your skill set, finally your habit will help you to increase your productivity rateif you want to make big difference in your career, business or whatever you do now, you have to try something where most people in the world hate to do it, the more people hate to do what you do now, the more opportunity lies ahead for you, you can’t create opportunity if you avoid risk or difficult, remember this advice; if we always do like other people do, as impact, we always become a mediocre person, eventually we will feel disappointed when we see the result, here is important note you need to ponder "habit is the adaptive machine where it can build your life or it can destroy your life", the root of problem why many people have personality disorder because they prohibit their mind to know more about something miraculously, miracles will not happen to humans who believe more in what is seen by the naked eye than believe in what is not seen, we must be careful to have something we already have even though it is not visible because something invisible will affect what is seen, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Belief in yourself

Believe to the enlightenment

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “belief in yourself”,  the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us don't set strong belief in something we haven't seen it yet, some people prefer to believe what they think rather than believe in what they can't see through eyes, that's common mistake where it lies into animistic believer, I don't object about what people think about life, but I just want to remind you about the side effect of belief; "belief is like putting something liquid into tea pot, we will receive from what we shape and we can't escape from it, the root of problem why people get bleak outlook on life because they can't differentiate between the past's moment and the future's moment and they tend to live in the past rather than future, the first thing we can do if we want to remove bleak outlook on life; we must find the strong evidence where it can improve our false opinion and it can convince us that we face something true, for example: a sense of depression, even though we consider having depression is not good, but instead, a sense of depression can strengthen human's mental acumen and it will give another perception how to give solution to us, our biochemistry of behavior will change from depression into enthusiasm when we develop our focus to do something where it is important for others's emotional fulfillment even though it not important for us, here is my recommendation; please don't believe with something easy to do because it can't leave a good legacy to us, if we pick up easy thing to do, we will not have strong mentality to have a tolerance to painall what we believe is coming from what we repeatedly do, what we repeatedly hear, what we repeatedly say and what we repeatedly see, if we cut a belief into tiny layers; belief comes from the accumulated habit, curiosity, agreement and emotional fulfillment (fear or reward).

Believe to your unique ability, not to focus with others
     

 Starting from now, before you believe to a new information, you must check whether what you believe can be tested or not with the darkness, if what you believe can give you space time to accept a sense of deepest fear until you don't brave enough to neglect that, it is something true, as long as you don't give negative energy into what you believe, you will not get a side effect from what you fear, here is my point of view about life; "life doesn't give what human want, but life gives what human commit", if we commit to do something important, it indicates that we appreciate about the process, energy and time, people who don't appreciate about what they commit, they tend to believe what other people say rather than what they say to themselves, there is only one way how to remove bleak outlook on life is staying curious about something you don't know and stop giving negative energy to something unpleasant, people who have strong determination, they need something unpleasant to unplug the life suffering where they have tasted beforehand, here is the special note; the darkness will not change into neutral if we always show our hatred to everything we feel, all we can do if we feel hatred is we are moving our belief from hatred state into happiness state by looking the goodness as much as we can, the light represents the passion of learning, whereas, ignorance represents bleak outlook on life, please don't be lazy to learn something you like as long as it can give you a strong emotional fulfillment because life will never stop giving us a lesson, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    

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