Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “living with someone with depression? Don’t add what she hates, add what she needs to know”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone can live with someone with depression, as we know depressed person can’t live freely because her mind is being led with her fear and anxiety, if we live with someone with depression, we must know what makes she loses her confident, what she fears, what she hopes, those are clues where we can use it to tell her what depressed person needs to knows, such as “behold the sunlight, there is always beautiful day behind a gloomy atmosphere, there is always opportunity which is mixed with difficulty, don’t be afraid with the darkness because not all darkness are fully darker than your visualization, sometimes the darkness is like the best place which offers peace, contemplation and serenity’s atmosphere, please don’t focus on what you fear, practice your focus to what makes you stay in serenity’s atmosphere”, that’s simple advice for depressed person, remember; not all depressed people don't have hope, sometimes depressed person has been misguided by bad influence or bad philosophy, depressed person knows what makes her feel depressed, but she doesn’t know why she can’t leave what causes her feeling depressed, as if her action had been dictated to do something she is not supposed to do.
In order to live side by side with depressed person, we must know the beginning story of what makes her feeling depressed, the main cause why depressed person can't leave something that makes her depressed because she lacks of information how to reawaken her confidence and she can't bear to endure pain of depression, at this moment let me share to you how to heal someone with depression, here is the first strategy how to heal someone with depression; be good listener, it means, we need to impersonate like the psychologist and psychiatrist behavior at temporary and we hear what someone expresses and we give our empathy, if we can’t recover what causes her depressed, at least we don’t add new story which can remind her to her pain in the past, here is the second strategy how to heal someone with depression; help someone to clarify what she dreams or what makes her interest can grow her childhood memories, as we know that there is no children feel depressed because they have no past memory which may depress them, if we know what depressed person's childhood dream, at least we can help her how to create self-image for her as if she had been there with her childhood dream, there are two thing can make adult people feel depressed; 1. Bad influence, 2. Fear of uncertainty, the main reason why the adult people feel depressed although they have possessions because they don’t train their curiosity to learn more about what their spirit needs most and they push their limitation to control the uncontrolled area, such as yesterday's moment, dream, other people's opinion, other people's habit, etc. I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.