Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Types of anger? Self-discipline and self-pity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t differentiate between self-discipline and self-pity, both are types of anger, one side is positive and other side is negative, what people see about a sense of anger is feeling bad or unfair advantage, but if we see in reality, there are two types of anger; self-discipline and self-pity, we all know that self-discipline is the kind of productive habit which ensures one can adapt oneself with the strict rule and how to stress one’s limitation in order to maximize one's potential into reality, whereas, self-pity is the kind of unproductive habit which ensures oneself not to do something bigger than their own limitation, one considers every limitation that one has is being set by the life’s rule and one feels being treated like undeserved person, basically not all anger is dangerous and also not too bad, it depends on situation, for example; if someone is not willing to work hard even though he has the family to be fed, whether he likes it or not with situation, he must apply self-discipline to push his potential to work better, if he doesn’t apply self-discipline, he will be pushed by his limitation to feel self-pity about his family.
Remember; wherever we go, there is always something unpleasant which is trying to test our patience, don’t ever try to expect good thing if we never practice how to live unfortunate, here is the best lesson that most people don’t understand; sometimes we need to practice by living unfortunate in order to strengthen our mental age, if we are used to live elegant, luxurious and extravagant, we will never know how to taste unfortunate people's lives, finally we will become arrogant and our personality as not good as it should be, everyone has potential to let their anger appears in reality, our anger will kill us if we just do something we want and not to know how to plug away the root of anger, the only way how to withdraw the power of anger is practice how to live like unfortunate people, do you know why? If we practice how to live unfortunate, our mental age will grow and it can strive to adapt with more difficult situation and we will understand how to use the power of anger for positive side, like self-discipline, if we practice how to live unfortunate, we will learn how to appreciate unfortunate people's lives, if we can show our empathy to other people's unfortunate, the negative side of anger will not appear to us because we can deal with suffering, if our mental is suffering, we will raise our standard to be higher level and we can raise self-awareness to do something better, here is the good news; not all suffering is bad, we will never be able to finish new problem without having on sufferance to learn, am I right? if our mental age is used to feel suffering, our mental is ready to meet with something unpleasant, finally we won’t get shocked and we are not easily get angry because we have experienced with painful experience, we will not get such experience if we are used to live elegant or luxurious, please imagine if our mental is not tested by adversity or unfortunate living, we will behave self-pity every time we get new problem, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.