Teenage anger issues symptoms

Angry kid expression

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Teenage anger issues symptoms”, the main reason why I choose this topic because many teenagers are having anger issue symptoms when they faced something they don’t expect in reality, as mentally, they aren’t ready to see reality, the root of problem why most teenagers aren’t ready to face reality because their habits are trained by their environment with narrow-minded attitude and they haven't been taught by their parents how to pursue a dream or design life, if every parent lets their teenager to behave self-indulgence, as impact, teenager’s habit tends to avoid a life lesson, if every teenager can't adapt well with life's pressure, and eventually they will kill their future by pursuing pleasure, starting from now, our attitude must become a good role model for teenager's mental development, as we know that sense of anger is always monitor us wherever we go, teenager and adult almost can’t escape from anger because human's emotional behavior has potential to invite positive energy and negative energy, our duty as human is not eliminating negative energy, but how we treat negative energy as ally, if we can consider negative energy as ally, negative energy will manipulate its own source and finally negative energy can help us to reduce anger, the only thing we can do how to neutralize anger is stop feeding our mind with negative self-talk and we can change it with positive self-talk, do you know what will happen if we feed our mind with poor language while we are angry? our negative words will produce negative power and it will affect to anger, after that anger will blow up and our habit will absorb it, eventually our anger brings worse condition to our mental health. 

Playing game in many hours can increase kid's bad emotion

  If you see teenager around you while he is angry, you can ask to teenager “what kind of dream do you want to pursue? if teenager has dream, you can guide him step by step how to manifest dream into reality, maybe you can say to teenager "if you want your dream comes into reality, don't let it awaits you for longer time, dream wants you to work on your personality, skill and vision", the main reason why teenager needs to pursue his dream because good dream will elevate people's enthusiasm to work based on value, competency, and reputation, here is what I know about the power of dream, every good dream can reduce bad influence and dream can drive mental power to someone who commits to work on dream, here is the good news; the sooner teenager starts to work on his dream, the sooner he receives what he attempts, if you see people around you who can’t survive during facing big issue, it is not caused by big issue, but it is caused by lack of commitment to pursue dream, so don't ever underestimate the power of dream because it can change people's faith and reality, if there is someone who rejects to pursue their future's dream, as impact he prefers to live in the past moment than present moment, that's bad idea, if teenager's anxiety is greater than confidence, that’s means, he lacks getting influenced by his dream, what teenagers needs is having a good role model who can teach how to possess a future oriented mindset, not pleasure oriented mindset, remember this note; people who always see tomorrow as second chance, so they tend not to waste their time by doing nothing today because they realize today is the first chance and second chance can’t be taken when they don’t optimize their first chance, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Joy in the workplace

Working at workplace
 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “joy in the workplace”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are joy in the workplace, when people start working in multitasking, they don't realize that multitasking habit can invite bad temper because multitasking's habit tends to break people's focus into several places and multitasking's habit tends to enfeeble people's stamina, based on that explanation, multitasking's habit has potential to increase human's quick temper, if we see based on statistic data, around 85% employee in the world must be obligated to work in multitasking when they start to work at company, even though people are paid based on working hours they invest, but in actual condition, they are unhappy because they work for fighting their human’s nature, do you know what I am talking about the human’s nature? It is talking about human’s vision, human’s strength of character, human’s capacity and human’s adaptation about their limitation, now my question is “have you ever wondered why most people are feeling disappointed even though they are paid based on the working hours they invest at company?” here is the answer; “a sense of disappointment comes from the lack of a strong will to give more value than their capacity to receive, when people's capacity of receiving is lack, they tend to demand more to others rather than they demand to themselves to do more”, I don’t wonder why people don't fear about regret even though they work at company because people’s habit has been trained by company to pursue the rule where it offers more pleasure and less suffering, remember; the company's policy doesn't ever teach employee how to explore reality, it tends to teach people how to feel safe and take less risk.

Set your priority can give you feeling of joy

 In order to explore reality, every human must unmask their potential, take more risk and responsibility to every opportunity they can take, if you want to get joy in the workplace, you must have work ethic by finishing single tasking job, even though your boss is made at you, you must do single tasking job, if you don't do that, you will get work pressure more than you assume, the root of problem why people are angry quickly when they are faced with difficult situation because their daily habit has been trapped by the company's rule where it teaches people how to work under pressure in multitasking way, that kind of dogma where it will never let people to find the moment of happiness because they are pushed to work based on what they don’t plan for their future, remember this advice; the moment of happiness will never be shaped into reality when people don’t plan something for their future with their own freedom of choice, freedom of expression, and freedom of thought, from the conclusion above, money will not be able to increase human’s potential, money is designed to measure human's capability, test self-satisfaction and increase the lifestyle zone, if someone wants to increase his prosperity, he must increase his reserve of potential and break his limiting belief by giving more than they are receiving, here is the special note; the more someone is willing to break his limiting belief by learning more, the more door of faith will guide him to receive more information than what he deserves, the more someone knows about his strength of character, the more he closes with his God’s wealth, the less someone knows about his strength of character, the more he closes with something terrible, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Life happy

Your life will be happy if you can detect problem

     Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Life happy”, the reason why I choose that topic because many people aren't satisfied with their life story, they consider their life story is like nightmare where there is no inspiring story or a happy ending, if we use different perception, "the reason why people can't be happy for their own problem because they are too focus about what they want rather than focus how to correct their own opinion regarding about their own life", remember this note; in order to have a life happy, we must know about the series problem where we can solve it by using our skill set, the more we solve problem, the more we get life happy, if we observe carefully, life gives us problem because God considers we are ready to get promotion, the main reason why most people's lives can't be happy as they wish because they tend to avoid problem and embrace more pleasure, here is the first principle you need to embrace if you want to have a life happy; don't consider problem as problem, but consider problem as the enlightenment you receive directly from God, the reason why you need to apply this strategy to your mindset because not all problems are bad for you, some problems can fix your limiting belief and fix your mindset, please be grateful when you have problem because you have big opportunity lies in problem.

Your life will be happy if you detect AHA moment

     Here is the second principle you need to embrace if you want to have a life happydon't do easy thing, but do the right thing, it means, you must explore your target, explore your potential and explore the type of problem you want to solve, if you just stop learning after you get small piece of solution, your happiness will get stuck, the main reason why you need to do the right thing because you will be guided by God to know something bigger than what you usually know, if you pursue easy thing, your potential will lose its power because you lack of using it, if you do the right thing, you will learn more mistake, either from your mistake or other people's, the more you learn from mistake, the more you will master to solve the similar mistake, in order to become rich person, you don’t need instant result, solution or right colleague, all you need is gathering all problems from other people'x experience, you can analyze the market demand's urgency, provide what the market really wants, after you collect all issues around you, solution will come to you unexpectedly, remember this; we can’t minimize the amount of mistake in our lives because there is always more mistakes than problem in this world, that's reason why life must be made, the reason why we need to make mistake because every mistake is the door how to open the abundance of life, if we avoid to make mistake, we will never know how to find solution, if we don't find solution before real problem comes into reality, our inner peace will be crushed by problem unexpectedly, here is the last note; the more we learn from mistake, the more we will get self-awareness, if we increase power of awareness from the mistake we create, our life will be surrounded by opportunity to evolve our capacity, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Activities for anger management

Angry expression

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “activities for anger management”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people don’t find a way how to do de-stressing with their version, instead most people spend more time to find pleasure until they don't know how much time they spend time for pleasure, if they keep behaving such thing, their mind will be fueled with anger every time they will meet with the same problem, I don't recommend people to find pleasure while they are angry, what I recommend to them is doing something which can make them think hard, the reason why I say such thing because bad temper can't conquer logical thinking, if you can think hard every time you are angry, you indirectly produce the power of logical thinkingif you find a problem where it can make you angry, please don't push yourself to do when you are not capable to do, all you need to do is step back for temporary, you can do de-stressing and focus on the abundant thing, remember; anger is not the primary problem for everyone, but the primary problem is bad influence and limiting belief, the anger's degree can represent people's endurance level, if people are angry easily because they lack of endurance power and they prefer to work based on profit-oriented, not value-oriented, now I have question for you; do you think anger can’t be substituted with positive behavior? It is possible to do as long as people don’t put their major attention to the lack or scarcity, if people focus on the abundance, they will forget how to be angry because only fearful people create a limiting belief to project their fearfulness into anger.


Angry expression

  In order to create anger management, we need to accomplish something we never create, the main purpose why we need to accomplish something we never create because it can be used to improve our personal strength and increase our self-esteem, remember; good personality is not produced by limiting belief, but it is produced by personal's progressive belief and insatiable curiosity to learn more, weak people only focus on the bad feeling, whereas, strong people only focus on what they can do after they got setback or adversity, remember; a sense of anger will resolve by itself if we don’t give it energy with our conscious decision, what we can do when we are angry is breaking our limiting belief by evolving our vision and mission to do more, not to accept more, if we feel not good because we are so loyal with bad influence or old tradition where it teaches people how to show anger, here is the last note; good version of our personality can be viewed when we commit to increase our capacity of giving, either giving good value to ourselves or serving other people with solution, good personality can be prolonged for everlasting when we expand our limiting belief by digging good information where we have never been taught at school, the biggest enemy is not circumstance but our ignorance, please beware about it, self-ignorance is the tool where it can attract negativity in life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Anxiety rage

Anxiety rage

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Anxiety rage”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can protect their enthusiasm when they can’t find solution, most of them sell their enthusiasm and they prioritize to find as much as pleasure they get, that's problem which causes anxiety rage, if we use different perception; pleasure will not offer any solution at all when people live in crisis, enthusiasm is the key how to remove negative emotion which is trying to break human’s focus, if people do something without enthusiasm, their power of focus, vision and creativity will not find solution, a sense of anxiety and rage will grow rapidly when people lose their enthusiasm, if you want to let your enthusiasm is alive, you must create specific goal where it needs your passion, focus, stamina and enthusiasm, if you just do something for reward, you will be demanded by reward to pursue it until you don’t have freedom of choice, freedom of thought, freedom of time and freedom of expression, if you aren’t surrounded by freedom, your action will be surrounded by a sense of anxiety and rage once you realize that you have done something wrong.

Anxiety expression

  In my opinion; if you can’t manage your focus, it means, you diversify your focus into several places, it is not good option, the power of focus will not work for what you do when your soul doesn’t live harmony with the law of nature, e.g. love and respect, remember; your action, your behavior and your creative thinking will work for your future when you use enthusiasm to develop what you are good at, that means, you must know the certain area where it needs your assistance and your focus, if you just work for money alone, you will not get something inspired because money is just tool how to measure your capacity of learning, "your comfort zone lies in your income zone and your capacity lies in your art of creation", if you put enthusiasm to work on your capacity, you will create progressive result, remember; don't expect money will solve your problem, if you consider money will solve your problem, you actually don't have real problem, instead you have self-esteem's problem, money as the reflection of your faith and your capacity to receive something from life, money will not help you to find enthusiasm, instead money will make you anxiety when you can’t find a way how to get more money, if you ask me about the root of problem why people get rage or anxiety, my answer is they lack of enthusiasm to do more than they receive from life, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Anger in men

Angry person

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Anger in men”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many men don’t realize that their multitasking job will produce fear, increase adrenaline and create unfocused goal, remember; multitasking job shouldn't be applied when someone wants to finish the job because multitasking will create unclear desire, if we take look from different perception, “men aren’t supposed to do multitasking because their focus has been divided into several places, men are unlike women who can divide their focus into several places”, men have not supernatural brain function like women, when men are demanded to put their focus into several places, they tend to ignore what's unimportant and they tend to finish what's important, men and women have different characteristic in focus usage, if you find men in anger, it is because they are surrounded by multitasking job, men can do several jobs when they are being asked to create priority, do you know why I say such thing because men prefer to finish the job with result oriented, not process oriented.

Stress can induce anger

 At this moment I would like several strategies, hopefully it can give you some enlightenment, here is the first thing men must do if they want to handle their job without expressing anger; men must recognize their weaknesses point and they must stop when their uncomfortable limit zone has reached their fearing point, it means, men must stop what they are doing when their patience ran out its energy, men must learn how to rest well and not to push their limitation to overwork, it is very important to be realized by men earlier if they want to handle their job punctually, if men push their limitation to overwork, men’s focus will turn into anger because men’s patience level has touched their fearing point, here is the second thing men must do if they want to handle their job without expressing anger; men mustn’t behave like ambitious person who wants to finish several job in one time, the main reason why people mustn’t finish several job in one time because men can't maximize their potential to finish the job, several jobs will not be finished by men in effective way because several jobs can divide men's major focus into minor focus, if people keep doing their work with minor focus, they will create disastrous result in their work, remember; using minor focus to finish the job has potential to open opportunity for anger, if men want to finish the job, they must use major focus, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Anger in therapy

Angry expression

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “anger in therapy”, the main reason why I choose that topic because very few people can delegate their anger to do something valuable, if we see in human's psychology, anger often manipulates people’s mind until they can't feel guilty about what they did in the past, the root of problem why anger manipulates people's mind easily because people stop growing their goodness, instead growing their self-satisfactionif people will not increase the essential of goodness within human's nature, anger will grow rapidly, that's key, at this moment let me share to you how to work with anger until you will not get affected by your anger, here is the first thing you can do if you want to work with anger; don't let your anger touches your weakness area, it means, you have to ensure your anger must be kept away from your weakness area, if your feel your patience is on the limit, that's means you are directed by your anger to stop what you are doing for temporary, if you let your anger touches your weakness area, as impact, your anger will destroy your inner peace, sometimes your anger comes suddenly because you have reached your weaknesses area, please don't get mad when your anger appears, that's means you have been informed by your anger that you aren't ready to associate with the situation where you aren't used to adapt with it, if your anger appears when you do something, that's means you are surrounded by your uncomfortable limit zone, remember this advice; "your uncomfortable limit zone is part of your weaknesses area", if you want to master your weaknesses area, you have to adapt with the uncomfortable circumstance by working on it for longer period of time, remember this; whatever the situation comes into your life, don’t try to fight your anger because anger has no bad purpose for you, your anger doesn’t need to be fought, it needs to be understood by you wisdom, if you recognize the character of anger, you will receive the benefit from the anger’s hidden message and your anger will not destroy your peace.

Angry expression

  Here is the second thing you can do if you want to work with anger; don't show your anger when you are in the difficult situation, it means, you must find a way how to create new circumstance with your version, if you can create new circumstance with your version, you can change your bad mood into good mood when you are surrounded by difficult situation, if you are staying in the difficult situation without focusing on what you want to do, your anger will destroy your power of focushere is the third thing you can do if you want to work with anger; don't hate reality when reality puts you to situation where you can't change it, but use reality to receive something big from God, the reason why you mustn't hate with reality because you have no capacity to change reality, in order to change your future, you must use reality to continue your preparation and develop your enthusiasm to work on your goal, your future lies into your determination, integrity, stamina and focus, if you keep focusing on what you do for long period of time, your anger will turn into new stamina, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

My anger is out of control

Angry expression

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “My anger is out of control”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people accept reality, besides that, people think sense of anger can’t be avoid easily, if we use different perception; there is no anger will grow by itself without someone is giving it energy such as his attention, so attention is part of energy, our duty is not making our attention goes into any random place, if we just let our attention comes into random place, as impact, we will never get peace, attention is part of the ultimate resource which is very powerful because it can create concentration energy, remember; anger is designed by God not to make people waste their energy for doing any destruction or self-harm, but anger is designed to give people a punishment to themselves when they already get out from peace’s path or they break the law of universe, if you ask me “what can I do when my anger is out of control?”, My answer; you should distract your focus to do some activities which they can pull your logical thinking, e.g. you can read some books, you play a puzzle, you do physical exercise, you listen motivational audio / cassette, remember; your anger is showing that your fearing level is bigger than your peaceful heart, in order to stop your fear’s growth, you need to develop self-worth by inputting some valuable information into your brain memory and you must have insatiable curious to find the root of problem what makes you fearful, remember; your anger will lose its power automatically if you start doing what makes you thinking hard.

Angry expression

  Remember; the more you increase self-worth, the more you increase self-awareness, the more you increase self-awareness, the problem will approach you and you will become problem solving maker, all greatness comes from your personality, so your personality is the basic requirement to activate greatness within you, there is nothing greatness comes outside of you, if you ask me how to control your anger, you must increase self-worth, if you don't want your life is ending up like most people, you have to ensure self-satisfaction is smaller than self-esteem, the more you increase self-satisfaction, the more you increase your fearfulness, if you want to break that the chain of fear, you must find the opposite way, such as “you surround your lifestyle with less pleasure” it means, you don’t behave like ambitious person who is always pursuing a temporary comfort and instant result, the reason why you must stay away from temporary comfort and instant result because it will magnify your anger's size, maybe you often hear "easy comes, easy goes", it means; if you find something easy to get, it is easy for you to lose it, if you dedicate to work which it seems difficult, it is good for you because the difficult thing will help you to remove frustration as well as it can increase your mental intelligence, once your mental intelligence is increasing, you will be able to control your anger easily, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Stress anger

Stressed expression
 

      Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “stress anger”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can control their anger when they have met with surprising issue, the root of problem why many people aren't ready to face surprising issue because they don't prepare their mentality to endure more responsibility by doing more than what they receive, besides that, many people assume there is no much difference between tomorrow, present and yesterdaythat's poor philosophy, now I understand why many people get stress easily when they get surprising issue because their poor philosophy give a bad influence to their mindset, if we use different perception, "tomorrow is always new page, today is today and tomorrow is always different and new"if we consider tomorrow has no difference with today, it means, we reject to change and we prefer to live in the past rather than to live in the futureif we prefer to live in the past, we violate the law of universe, finally we will invite negativity to stay inside our soul, now the question, how much time do human need to invest their legacy for the future? not much, maybe less than 50%, the reason why people don’t maximize their legacy to do something in better way because they let their ego to dominate their habit, besides that, people get affected easily by outer circumstance, that’s complexity of human’s problem, remember; desire without expectation, there is no clear direction to go, expectation is a powerful attractive force, expectation can be formed into two things, the first thing is positive expectation, the second thing is negative expectation.


Angry expression

    Positive expectation could be used to serve high energy behavior, e.g. enthusiasm, discipline, care, love, loyal, dedication, patience, consistency, commitmenthonesty, justice, and other positive behavior. whereas, negative expectation could be used to serve; angry, regret, jealous, slander, anxiety, laziness, pessimistic, doubt, suspicious, lie, unjust, and other negative behavior. starting from nowwe must know where our spirit is goingour spirit will fail our effort if we let the outer circumstance defines what we doif we let outer circumstance changes our plan, we will get angry automatically, from this step, before we move forward to bring great impact to the future, we must know where we are going for the next 5 years, that's the right direction, if we are not serious to take a part in our future journey, outer circumstance will break our focus, finally our life journey will be fueled with disappointment, from this phase, our reputation will be at stake because other people will wait our failure story when we can't prove our future's hope in reality, here is the last note; in order to live harmony with the future, we must surround our soul with positive expectation and also we must prepare for facing negative expectation because there is nobody can guarantee our future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Anger problem

Angry expression

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “anger problem", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped in anger situation where they build by themselves, some of them prefer to blame situation rather than do contemplation, we can conclude not many people are ready to accept reality, the root of problem why people aren't ready to accept reality because they spend their major time to do minor purpose and they build unproductive habit, e.g. playing online game, watching TV, gambling, idling around with friends, if person is making habit such thing, his mind will consider every day is always be the same as yesterday, if people consider there is no big difference between tomorrow, today and yesterday from what they have done, finally there is no bright future for themselves, from this case, we can conclude the main cause why people don't care about their future because their satisfaction's size is bigger than their self-worth and their unproductive habit will attract their power of anger to create small problem where they should not exist, remember this advice; anger equals with fearfulness, if anger has been fed with unproductive habit, human’s satisfaction level grows faster, if self-satisfaction dominates productive habit, human will lose self-worth and their sense of anger will attract small problem around them, now the question “what will happen if your anger grows faster?”, your mind will be fulled with perplexity and it drives you to be angry easily once you can’t find the answer from your problem, if we look deeper about this case, (why is angry driving problem? because angry influences people's mind to reject new perception and angry will influence people's mind to stop evolving human's potential), it means, fixed mindset person has his higher anger level than his rational mind, whereas, future oriented mind of person will not focus on what makes him angry, but focus how to pass the life's test, if you are angry because of small salary you receive from your work, it is not caused by the working place, but it is caused by lack of will to do more than you usually do for yourself. 


Angry expression

 Now my question is “where is your biggest attention when your conscious mind will be directed to see between your fear and your enthusiasm?”, if your enthusiasm is bigger than your fear, your anger will not destroy your inner peace, but if your fear is bigger than your enthusiasm, your fear will manipulate your mind every time you are angry of something, I don’t blame you if you fear of something, but before you put your attention to fear, you must ask yourself until when I let my fear is growing every day?”, so that is basic question how to know your dept of fear, if you can’t control your fear, you can’t control your anger, if you let your fear is growing and dangling to your mind every day, as impact, you always be angry every time you meet with unexpected issue, starting from now, you must know where you direct your attention is going and you must set the direction first before you direct your mind to work for you, the reason why you must set the direction first because you will meet with the unexpected thing which can disrupt your focus, vision and enthusiasm, in addition, there are so much distractions which can stop your intention if you don't set your direction first, before you set the direction in the future, you must prepare your reserve for good information, manage your priority and develop your personality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  

Handling anger

Angry effect because of incapability or regret
 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Handling anger”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people know how to handle anger in a godly way, the root of problem why people can’t handle their anger because they train their negative thinking to see something big in the future, and they consider mistake and failure is their enemy, if we observe thoroughly about what causes people angry, the major cause is always putting their major focus to make their life is insignificant, e.g. watching TV more than one hour, gambling, drinking, from that case, we must beware to use our attention because what we focus is going to attract something we don’t really know from future, before we attract of something beautiful into our thought, we must know our capacity and what to do about our capacity, if we always live in other people's plan, our anger energy will grow and we will behave sensitively in any aspect, such as speaking, watching and communication, in order to handle anger in a god way, we must wash our face with the fresh water once we get angry, the reason why we need to wash our face with the water because anger is having fire element, so we need to extinguish it with water element, that's method how to handle anger in a godly way.

Angry effect because of incapability

  Here is my recommendation if you feel angry, don’t try to misjudge new information before you really understand the behind of purpose, you can keep silent or you take a note to express your feeling into paper, as human being, we shouldn’t hate about what we receive from life because we don't have any capacity to hate or reject something from the consequence, once we violate the law of God, we are forced to absorb the power of negativity or the dark side of life, if we absorb too much about the dark side of life, our eyes will be blinded to see the abundance of life, e.g. wealth, health, prosperity, finally we will live and behave such a poor person’s habit, at this moment I would like to share several strategies how to handle anger in godly way, hopefully it will help you to improve your life journey, here is the first thing you must do if you want to handle anger in a godly way; read your favorite book, the reason why you must read the book because your brain memory will be renewed with new information, once you stop reading, you start killing your potential + your positive expectation + your intuition and your enthusiasm, don't let your mind losing new information because it can enrich your vocabulary of mind, that's practice how to handle anger, here is the second thing you must do if you want to handle anger in a godly way; move your body or hands to do some exercises, the reason why you must do some exercises because it can increase good mood and increase your mental strength, when your mental is strong enough, you will be forgotten by your sense of anger, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Depression and anger issues

Angry expression

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Depression and anger issues”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people accept reality, the root of problem why people get depressed or angry is not caused by the circumstance, but it caused by people’s unwillingness to appreciate their limitation and they lack of using their unlimited potential, remember this; if we lack of practicing to optimize our potential, our feeling will find scarcity and lack in this life, so before life will take something valuable from us, we must add something valuable from life, e.g. purpose, commitment, dedication, enthusiasm, faith, whatever the situation which makes you involved with it, don’t give it with negative energy first, but use your perception to think differently, life doesn’t give pressure to you when your mental age is not ready to endure it, life will give you pressure when you misuse your mental to attract negativitythe only thing you can do before you get depressed or angry is increase your good supply of information into your mind, the more you increase good supply of information in your mind, the more you attract the abundance of life. e.g. intuition, creative thinking, peace, prosperity, health, etc.  

Depressed expression

  Remember; bad habit doesn’t come to our life instantly, it was built by our conscious decision long time ago before we realized the side effect of our decision, if we want to change our bad behavior, we must change the way we feel and we increase what we offer to life, at this moment I would like to share several strategies how to change our bad behavior, here is the first thing we must do if we want to change our bad behavior is applying the power of gratitude, so whatever we receive something from life, either it is gives us pleasure or pain, we must express our deepest gratitude at the first time, if we appreciate what we receive from life, we create a positive attitude automatically, remember; positive and negative can't reside in the same placehere is the second thing we must do if we want to change our bad behavior is don’t look back your past with anger, forgive the past and start something positive today, the reason why we mustn’t look back our past with anger because the past is permanent condition, so there is no way for us to turn it into something new, the more we accept our past with gratitude, the more we draw the abundance of living, the more we were angry with our past, the more we feel depressed, starting from now, we mustn’t judge our past wrong because what we built in the past came from our capacity of learning, what we feel today is part of progress from what we built something in the past, here is the third thing we must do if we want to change our bad behavior is we build reserve for collecting a good information in order to be put into our mind, it means, we keep collecting good information before our conscious mind will materialize what we visualize into reality, good information will give us how to understand life, if we realize how beautiful life is, we will appreciate reality and eventually there is no way for us to feel depressed or angry, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Depression and rage

Depressed expression

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Depression and rage", the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are ready to face reality and they still don't know how to manage their emotional when sudden issue comes into their real time, according to human philosophy, “a man behind his rage represents his growing fear, not bravery", the root of problem why people fear because they lack to manage his gratitude, if we use different perception, gratitude is the requirement how to receive more abundance in life”, as long as people activate their gratitude every single day, they will not find a way how to find imbalance in life and they can't find their sense of lacking to themselves, remember this; the nature always shows its gratitude because it knows there is always unexpected moment every day, the nature keeps growing, evolving and empowering other creature's daily need, it means, nature knows its responsibility and nature isn't satisfied about result, if we compare between nature's life and human's life, people tend to think about what they have, they don't really care about other people's need and they only consider a pleasure is more important than creating a good serviceI don’t recommend you to pursue more pleasure than its usual because your pleasure will decrease your power of gratitude, remember; lack of gratitude will cause depression and rage.

Low energy expression

 If you work together with the law of universe, there is nothing in this world is lacking because you see everything is abundant, God creates the compensation's law in order to test what you serve in this world, if you see other people who get stuck into a rut, and then they start being angry, it is caused by people’s low interest to serve their potential to give more than what people receive, if people are working with the law, the nature will show how to unlock people's potential and nature will tell what people deserve, e.g. peace, enthusiasm, idea, creativity, intuition, those are ultimate resources where it can help human how to express gratitude to God and how to know more about human's unlimited potential, I think there is no room for us to show our depression or rage if we always appreciate whatever we receive and we maximize our potential usage for human's life, remember this note; "appreciation of giving to others can lower ungrateful behavior and increase more wealth and peace", the more we give something we loved, the more we create a constructive mind and the more often nature will seek something for what we deserve, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Angry thoughts

Angry expression

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “angry thoughts”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us can’t accept reality even though we are given by God with the power of freewill, the root of problem why people are angry easily because their mentality is not ready to face reality where it doesn't match with people's expectation, so when expectation is not commensurate with people's willingness to take risk, their expectation will end up into disappointment, please beware about your expectation, if we use different perception; reality has no ability to destroy human’s life, reality is just part of effort's evidence which is shown by God to people who are ready to see themselves in real life, people who aren't ready to face reality, they are forced to look back in the past with regret, so if we realize that reality is reflection for what we did in the past, we should do something earlier before reality has counted our habit, our attitude and our ignorance, remember; life is not kind of the children room where it offers instant and comfortable service, life is like a barren landscape where it needs cultivation and care from human’s creativity, vision and responsibility, our duty as human is breaking our ignorance to change from a barren landscape to wonderful landscape which can attract the market place and can bring new resource to anyone else, if we don’t care about our landscape, who else will promote us to do more?, that’s basic question how to question what we do in daily basis.

Angry can induce reckless behavior

  Showing anger to reality is not good idea because we indirectly oppose the law of universe, that's why we need to appreciate our time wisely before life will turn down our future's hope, the more we violate the law of universe, the more we get frustrated, the more we work with the law of universe, the more we get peace and enlightenment, that’s fact, now you may ask me “what we can do if reality doesn’t support me?” my answer is “you keep investing good resource to your time, e.g. knowledge, other people's failure experience, adversity, rejection, faith, discipline, determination, etc. Remember; the law of universe will never change, if you realize your life is valuable, you should care it by bringing something where your soul really needs, e.g. apply the law of universe into your life, our duty as human is do what’s useful, discard what’s unused and add our creation to life, that's simple, am I right? before you want to receive huge benefit from life, you need to widen your reserve first, life only gives what you deserve, if you really deserve something big, you must have big reserve, so you can receive more than you expect it, here is the last note; if your preparation takes long time period, that's means, you are ready to accept something you can't imagine, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Extreme anger issues

Angry expression

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Extreme anger issues”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t accept reality even though they are granted by God with the power of freewill, if we review about what most people do in the weekend; they gain more pleasure and avoid to do something better for their future's hope, if this pleasure habit's pattern has been developed for longer time, the chance of making people angry is very high because their mental age hasn't been developed with hard mental training until people feel confident about their own ability and character, "the function of taking hard mental training is making people's mental age is ready to meet difficult thing, ready to accept the condition where people can behave in disappointing or confusing way, ready to accept what life does something for us, etc". If we review about about the anger issue, the problem is not caused by consuming a lot of suffering, but consuming more pleasure, the reason why I say such thing because basically suffering is designed by God to unlock human's potential and also increase the human’s endurance level, whereas, pleasure is designed to lower the human’s endurance level, so we must beware when we want to consume pleasure because not all pleasures in this world can guarantee everlasting happiness, remember; self-confidence will increase rapidly when we find a way how to simplify the problem and we succeed to change complex problem into resources, so other people can access our resource at any timemaybe you have question like this, “what we can do if extreme anger issue approaches us?” Don't let your shadow leaves you in the darkness. it means, you keep your enthusiasm is alive and you stay away from the negative source which can connect between you and your bad memory.

Low energy expression

  The reason why extreme anger issue often comes to human being because they lack of confidence level, whether we like it or not, we need to increase our confidence level every day by investing more legacies, investing more knowledge, and investing new experience, maybe you ask me "why we need to prepare our legacy for long period of time ? Because tomorrow is always mystery, we will not know what happens to us in the next journey, either we get disaster or fortune, if we have a preparatory mental, there is nothing to worry about future because our mental is strong enough to defend against unpredictable issue, that's key how to counter extreme anger issues, remember; a man who has never prepared something worst for his entire life, his mental is getting shocked when he will meet with big pressing problem, only weak person's mentality will receive extreme anger issue, whereas strong person's mentality will not receive extreme anger issue, remember; life’s pressure is certainty and it is unavoidable, before we will receive a big pressure from life test, at least we dedicate to do one project where it can develop our mental age progressively before life’s tough challenge comes down in our real time, starting from now; don't believe with instant result or quick solution because it can trigger extreme anger issue once instant result is no longer available, if you always receive instant result, one day in the unknown day, you will never live into your dream, instead, you will live into other people's dream, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Personality disorder

Personality disorder
 

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “personality disorder”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people can’t accept reality which causes them to have personality disorder, life is designed by God to shape good personality, not other way around, if we use different perception; the problem is not coming from reality, but the problem comes from lacking of focus about what people do in daily basis and also they lack of commitment when they have to deal with difficult situation, if we realize life is full of uncertainty, at least we don’t find a way how to get more pleasure in this life because pleasure doesn't salvage our future, if we see in reality, “anger issue is not caused by the crisis or the life’s pressure, but anger is caused by our comfort zone”, as long as we delegate our focus to do something important like what the universe does something for us, we don't have much time to get angry, the root of problem why people can’t see their reality as a lesson because they feed their mind with more pleasure and less suffering, what most people put into their mind is not educational information as dominant position, instead of giving their mind with entertainment value information, no wonder people get angry easily because they consider life has similarity with entertainment value.

Negative thinking will induce negative behavior

   At this moment I would like to share several strategies how to reduce anger issue, hopefully these strategies can help you to create peace of mind, here is the first thing we can do if we want to reduce anger impact; we train our mind to find more evidence about life wisdom, the reason why we need to do it because our mind pattern is always looking for pleasure and trying to avoid suffering, if feed our mind with less suffering, our mind will lose its potential to grow, here is special note; if you apply this formula, your conscious mind will forget how to be angry; “surround your lifestyle with suffering 80% and pleasure 20%”here is the second thing we can do if we want to reduce anger impact; don’t force reality to fit into our circumstance, it means, we must live peacefully with reality, if we are willing to work with the law of nature, as impact, we will not get involved with the depression state because we accept reality, there is wise word; ”the cause of anger is not coming from what makes you angry right now, but the cause of anger comes when you are expecting too much to life's uncertainty and you overlook reality”, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.   

Dealing with rage

Rage can induce stress
  
    Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Dealing with rage”, many people get rage when reality has just manifested before people plan of something, if people realize their time is only 24 hours, so they should do what's the most important before time will manifest what people will receive in reality, now if we take look about the issue above, the root of problem doesn’t come from what people do in habit, but the problem comes from lack of priority management, as long as people still don’t know how to manage their list of priority, the rage is always be there for human and it tries to evoke human's disappointment, what we can do now as human being is not forcing the circumstance to fit with our priority plan, but how to fit our priority plan into the circumstance, if we feel stuck between dilemma and reality, it means, we have missed the most important things we should finished on time, at this moment I would share several strategy we need to do if we want to create future before reality begins to exist, here is the first strategy we need to do in order to create better future; make a list about daily goal where it can’t be postponed until tomorrow. 


Angry expression

  The reason why we need to make a list because it will sharp our power of focus and also it helps our mind to stay away from the confusion state, sometimes it is easy when we say to ourselves “oh I am lazy to do something, or maybe tomorrow I will finish it”, remember; our words has power to influenceif we let our powerless words to get into our conscious mind, as impact, our habit will produce the act of procrastination, if we make a list before we do something, our subconscious mind will do whatever we want on time, here is the second thing we need to do in order to create better future; don’t compare between other people’s resource with ours, the reason why we are not allowed to compare between other people’s resource with ours because every human has different priority and different purpose, if we are busy to compare between what we can do and what other people can do, we can’t play with our major role in the game of future, the best plan we can do for future is we demand ourselves to do something to others even though there is nobody will give us a credit, here is the third thing we need to do in order to create better future; focus in one area where it can develop our creativity, the reason why we need to do it because applying focus in one area is the requirement how to create future, besides that, our focus is very limited, so we need to sharpen our focus by putting it into one area we love the most, here is the special note; if there is no great focus to what we do now, our mind will create nasty idea and bring disaster, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

Fear of rejection

Accept rejection can guide to find a new way
 

   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Fear of rejection”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willing to accept rejection, especially sales person, some people want to feel optimistic but they aren't ready to get rejection, it is contradiction of behavior, if we use different perception for this case “rejection is kind of self-preparation for developing mental intelligence”, God creates rejection and failure to ensure human's mental intelligence can adapt with life's pressure, basically "there is no problem in life, there is only enlightenment", if you can convince yourself to say positive word such thing, every rejection becomes stepping stoneif human's mental is not strong enough to endure rejection, someone will not get big opportunity automatically, remember; don’t let rejection will make you depression, you can start changing your perception by saying that every rejection will not adhere with me, unless God wants me to take it as good lesson, “rejection can open the door of opportunities if you allow yourself to welcome rejection with your speciality”, if you are not willing to get any rejection, you will get big pressure where it can crush your mental intelligence in the future, as long as you still have strong enthusiasm to work for your mission, your mental will get support from life pressure until you are ready to face rejection, please don’t focus on rejection when you develop your mission, it would be better if you focus on what you can deliver to life because it will elevate your creativity, if you consider life as your future savings, you must invest something valuable, e.g. masterpiece, troubleshooting skill, service, one day you will get something meaningful from what you invest.


Know your limitation

   Please don't focus on what you hate because your attention will determine your feeling and your healthy mental, if you train yourself to feel good every time you get the unpleasant moment, you will win something worthy, but if you train yourself to feel bad every time you get the unpleasant moment, you will lose something worthy, so all the thing you have now is not determining your future, but it will develop your mental age, here is the first strategy how to overcome the fear of rejection in sales; you need to demand yourself to learn more from what most people hate to do, if you lack of demanding yourself to learn more, you will see around you as hardship, toil, limitation and struggle, that's quite simple, if you believe there is nothing lacking in this world, your conscious mind will focus to what you are good at and you start to serve what the world needs, if you consider the world is lacking resource, you will not get something inspired from the world, instead your conscious mind will absorb the weaknesses and limitation, here is the second strategy how to overcome the fear of rejection in sales; you have to ensure your product or service can increase human's welfare or keep human's safety, if you still have rejection after you succeed to convince yourself that your product or service can increase human's welfare or advantage human's emotional need or keep human's safety, the main problem comes from other people's mistake, not you, remember this special note; don't fear of failure, you should have feared that you haven't failed enough or you haven't failed fast enough, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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