Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Anger treatment? Empty your mind like water”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us lose self-control every time we are faced with something terrified, e.g. new crisis, huge setback, sometimes we aren't ready to face something we don't really like, the reason why we aren't ready to face reality because we are busy to let outer circumstance controls us, if we allow outer circumstance controls our life, as impact, every move of our life journey will be led by our fear, starting from now, don’t consider unexpected situation as real enemy, but consider unexpected situation as gift to welcome your growth, what you need to do during facing unexpected situation is salvage some precious thing you have, e.g. daily plan, enthusiasm, passion of learning, commitment, work ethic,etc. Remember; if we always consider unexpected situation as real enemy, we will grow our fear, anxiety and anger constantly, it is not good for our mental health if we let our anger grows, sometimes we assume life is trying to fight our limitation and impel us to go in the dangerous situation, in fact, life is trying to show what we deserve it, at this point we must beware about what we notice because every information around us will try to enter into our subconscious mind, before information enters into our mind, we must protect our living provision, e.g. mental health, physical health, vision, strength of good character and mission, in the middle of career journey, sometimes we only focus on goal without noticing what makes us disappoint and angry.
Here is my advice; please don’t take success as goal because life is fully uncertainty, if you consider success as your goal, your life journey will get stuck in the middle of opportunity because you are too satisfied with your goal and your creativity will be shut down by life's uncertainty, if you consider success as your life journey in progress, you will have a multiple opportunities to succeed everything you pass, the key to success is not lies what you have now, but how you accomplish in every progress you create, if you take new responsibility to endure more adversity than what you can do in daily basis, success will follow you because your capacity is expanding”, whether you like it or not, life will strengthen your condition, you must develop your mental intelligence by taking new challenge in life, e.g. you share what you know to others, you care more adversity than what you can solve, you give more than you receive, you practice more than you usually learn, those activities can help you to conquer your sense of anger, I ever said, "if you want to deal with anger, empty your mind like water", it means, you need to crush your ego until it becomes to be shapeless, if you see about deep water now, please try to throw away the stone into water surface, water will not reject the stone, instead, water will endure stone and keep it into underwater, here is the lesson we can learn from water and stone; it doesn't matter how many problems you receive in life, those problems are not designed to make you angry, instead problems will elevate your life experience, after that you will be able to endure more problem in the future, if your mental intelligence is strength enough to endure more problem, your wealthy will increase its size, number and space, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.