Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Healing from rejection? Don’t let your mistakes define your limitation”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people fear about rejection before reality begins, when reality proves that people are rejected, they start to disappoint with result, if we use different perception; there is no useless creature in this world, including human being, when we get rejection, it doesn't mean we failed, there is no human have a special right to reject us because rejection is kind of sign where there are two big power where it tries to coincide into one place at the same time, so if you are rejected now, you shouldn't behave pessimistic because you are prepared to serve another big purpose in life, every human on earth has different speciality and different purpose, it is mysterious thing, if we look deeper about this topic; the root of problem why people feel pessimistic after they got rejection because they don't see the lesson behind rejection, that’s the point, remember; there's only one man can reject you is yourself, as soon as you are willing to accept the lesson behind rejection, you will never get rejection, you will get two things after rejection, the first thing you get is revelation, the second thing you get is knowledge, basically the mysterious thing in life will reveal to us automatically when we accept the unpleasant moment, e.g. rejection, adversity, and mistake, starting from now, we need to change our mindset and we can say “there is no rejection in this life, there is only self-awareness, it doesn’t matter whether there is something big pressure or not upon me, I will live harmony with a divine revelation”, if you repeat the incantation such thing to your mind at least 27 days, I am sure you will not fear with rejection because you don't feel rejected, if you are rejected, the only man will feel in loss is not you, but someone who doesn't understand you, you should be happy if you are rejected, "when other people accept you, you only get 50 score, but when other people reject you, you will get 100 score because you are stepping ahead among most people who never get rejection, here is the good news; once you get rejection, you will get new revelation and also a new strength for your mental intelligence".
At this moment, I would like to share how to heal yourself from fear of rejection, here is the first thing you must do if you want to heal yourself from fear of rejection; you must convince yourself that every rejection is godsend where it can help you to reflect whether what you have done is appropriate to the right direction or not, you must accept rejection because God wants you realize something you have missed, here is the good news; the more you accept rejection, the less people will blame your limitation and the more you approach the outcome, do you know why I say such thing? because rejection is the part of the learning process, once you reject the rejection, you indirect reject God’s grace, here is the second thing you must do if you want to heal yourself from fear of rejection; don’t consider rejection as the end of game, but consider rejection can enrich your knowledge, here is the note; even though you are rejected from achieving something, you mustn't stop there because rejection is also considered as your progress, here is the third thing you must do if you want to heal yourself from fear of rejection; don’t compare your rejection result with other people who get less rejection, the reason why you must not allow yourself to compare between your rejection with other people's experience because every human has different time and different story, so we must appreciate our limitation and respect other people's limitation, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.