Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Stress anger? Don’t let your spirit can be controlled by outer circumstance”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can control their anger when they have met with surprising issue, the root of problem why many people aren't ready to face surprising issue because they don't prepare their mentality to endure more responsibility by doing more than what they receive, besides that, many people assume there is no much difference between tomorrow, present and yesterday, that's poor philosophy, now I understand why many people get stress easily when they get surprising issue because their poor philosophy give a bad influence to their mindset, if we use different perception, "tomorrow is always new page, today is today and tomorrow is always different and new", if we consider tomorrow has no difference with today, it means, we reject to change and we prefer to live in the past rather than to live in the future, if we prefer to live in the past, we violate the law of universe, finally we will invite negativity to stay inside our soul, now the question, how much time do human need to invest their legacy for the future? not much, maybe less than 50%, the reason why people don’t maximize their legacy to do something in better way because they let their ego to dominate their habit, besides that, people get affected easily by outer circumstance, that’s complexity of human’s problem, remember; desire without expectation, there is no clear direction to go, expectation is a powerful attractive force, expectation can be formed into two things, the first thing is positive expectation, the second thing is negative expectation.
Positive expectation could be used to serve; enthusiasm, discipline, care, love, loyal, dedication, patience, consistency, commitment, honesty, justice, and other positive behavior. whereas, negative expectation could be used to serve; angry, regret, jealous, slander, anxiety, laziness, pessimistic, doubt, suspicious, lie, unjust, and other negative behavior. starting from now, we must know where our spirit is going, our spirit will fail our effort if we let the outer circumstance defines what we do, if we let outer circumstance changes our plan, we will get angry automatically, from this step, before we move forward to bring great impact to the future, we must know where we are going for the next 5 years, that's the right direction, if we are not serious to take a part in our future journey, outer circumstance will break our focus, finally our life journey will be fueled with disappointment, from this phase, our reputation will be at stake because other people will wait our failure story when we can't prove our future's hope in reality, here is the last note; in order to live harmony with the future, we must surround our soul with positive expectation and also we must prepare for facing negative expectation because there is nobody can guarantee our future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.