Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Being sad for no reason? Create one strong reason to what makes you happy”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not all people can avoid being sad, some people feel sad because they feel weaker than reality, so they can't do something better for themselves which they should have done earlier, basically sadness is not happening accidentally, it is caused by unprepared mentality to see something surprising or something great, if you see person who shows her sadness easily because she tends to imagine what she regretted in the past and she wanted to come back in the past in order to fix something she denied, but unfortunately she couldn't fix something in the past because the time lag was already broken, if we use different perception about this case; sad person doesn't get many beautiful moment in her life experience because she tends to refuse any lesson from her own life experience, if someone wants to show sadness, at least she must have one strong reason to feel sad, e.g. she feels lagging to compete with her own life and she loses her enthusiasm to learn more even though she was given by God with new chance to learn, we can conclude that sad person is equally with ungrateful person's attitude because she doesn’t feel any good from what God does something for her, as long as she only sees something without deep affection, she always be sad, “if you want to be happy, don’t set high standard until it can terrify you to achieve”, being happy person is very simple, you just need to practice your mind to appreciate what you receive from God, e.g. skill / expertise, good relationship, breathing, food, water, house, sense of affection, the problem you solve with your version, etc.
People who show their sadness for no reason, it is not caused by amount of problem they have, but they lack of self-respect and they are too feared to change, now there is only one reason why there are some people are too feared to change, namely, comfort zone, this kind of place is very dangerous because it opposes the law of universe and comfort zone can influence human's mind to destroy their own potential, in addition, comfort zone is part of self-excuse to avoid big challenge, remember this; lack of using potential tends to destroy human's inner peace and comfort zone can’t offer something happier, only growth mindset can create inner peace, having growth mindset is very useful because it will influence people to create more, give more, learn more and earn more, if you possess four habit "creating more, giving more, learning more and earning more", sadness will never dominate your good feeling because your habit is congruent with the law of universe, here is the last note; there is nothing can make you sad as long as you accept flaw within you and you optimize your potential to grow every day, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.