Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Feeling really down? You must find something that increases your esteem”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many people lose their esteem, the main reason why many people lose their high esteem because they just sell their long term dream in order to chase an instant gratification, e.g. surfing social media for fun, watching TV hourly, playing the online games/PlayStation, drinking alcohol, smoking cigarette, consuming illegal drugs, gambling, etc. The root of problem why people feel down easily even though they get what they want because what they pursue is giving a pleasure, not enlightenment, if you want to feel positive every time you go somewhere, you must set higher goal than your current expectation level because having higher goal is the guarantee how to eliminate impatient feeling, "feeling really down is caused by impatient feeling towards the progress", the key to release high esteem is stop expecting what you desire in short term and start appreciating what you can receive in long term, remember; as human being, we aren’t entitled to create final outcome/result, but what we can do is make several unsuccessful attempt until the progress hits the outcome by itself, that’s life system we need to understand, if there is someone feels down because he pursues something where it doesn’t give him energy to enrich his qualification, starting from now, don't pursue something where it can lower your enthusiasm to learn or lower your biggest curiosity about your own potential.
If we see why the number of poor people increases year by year because they prefer to buy more pleasure rather than sell their potential, that's what I notice after doing some research about human's habit, remember this wisdom; "the more you pursue a pleasure, the less you get potential in what you do, the less you pursue a pleasure, the more you get potential in what you do", self-confidence is not determined by how much money people can earn, but how much problem they can solve in daily activity, if people consider money will create self-confidence, their confidence level will never be independent because money will never create independent way for people’s career, but if people consider self-discipline can create self-confidence, their earning ability will increase, here is the bad news for people who works for getting more money and pleasure only; if money goes inflation, people will lose their earning ability because money decrease its value, so it will impact to people's confidence, if people pursue their potential / dream, their earning ability will increase, eventually it will increase to people's esteem, remember this advice; money is just tool for facilitating what people build, whereas, real problem comes from what people ignore to do or what people can’t do for themselves, if someone around you is feeling down, all you can do is giving him/her about your spiritual enlightenment,e.g. how you handle stress, how you handle a setback, how to stay calm under pressure, how to get an idea and make it works, etc. "In order to increase your high esteem, you must decrease consuming your instant pleasure and you aren't allowed to follow the money's habit because it will crush your potential”, starting from now, don’t ever think money can increase your confidence because the amount of money you receive depends on how much high performance you create for the marketplace, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.