Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Teens and depression? Because Kid’s mindset has not been trained like an athlete”, the main reason why I choose that topic many parents don’t train their kids like what an athlete does for his own career, many parents tend to spoil their kids by giving an instant resources, if we use different perception based on psychology, “indulgent parents can't guide teens how to find a purpose because indulgent lifestyle lets teens can't behave discipline easily, besides that, self-indulgence tends to loose self-respect”, if you see why many teenagers lose their sense of enthusiasm to study because they have been trained by parents to listen the voice where it doesn’t belong to teens, if this situation becomes ritual, their depression state about reality will be bigger than their dream, in order to release a new mindset to teens, they must be trained to chase something where it gives a positive vibes and not to chase something where it gives them more pleasure, if teenagers can defeat their urges by chasing their dream, as impact, teenagers will do something where most adult people try to avoid it, all we can do as parents is we give kids with new responsibility how to find their interest, guide kids to practice their curiosity by learning something specifically in order to find a way how to survive in this life with their own version.
Remember; when we form a habit, habit will form us, that means, we can’t avoid the consequence once we form a habit, every consequence will follow the habit we create for us every day, there is no way how to avoid the consequence, remember this note; finding a pleasure is not what kids really want in this life, what kids really want is how to make their deepest interest is growing together with their hidden inborn skill, the reason why I don’t recommend the parents to spoil their kids by giving an instant resource because it will destroy kid’s potential, as we know “No pain, No gain, pleasure can destroy human's enthusiasm because it doesn’t go against the grain of human nature, whereas, making the investment of time and effort for longer time is difficult because it goes against the grain of the human nature, as kid, making the investment of time is very difficult to do because every day teens must fight their comfort zone”, as parents, we should guide kids the information how to find the answer from their curiosity and don't facilitate what kids wants something in short time period, perhaps we should guide kids a question “what kind of dream you will pursue between 3-5 years later? Or what kind of problem do you want to solve in the future?”, here is the last note; when we give kid with the critical thinking, kid's curiosity will open up bigger imagination to form the seed of creativity, whereas selfishness thinking will close the possibility of miracle, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.