Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Anger in children? Because children’s fearfulness is greater than their curiosity”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many children lose their potential when their parents can’t provide what children need, most parents just give their children what parents want without knowing what children need, for this case, children don’t really want to keep in touch with the toys which can offer satisfaction only, e.g. gadget, cellphone, what children need within their mind is asking attention from adult, playtime with someone whom children trust, the medium of instruction which can connect between children’s curiosity and children’s response, and the toys which offers educational, if you see children who get angry easily because their parents just offer them a self-indulgence lifestyle and offer what children don’t need, I don’t recommend every parent to buy the toys which can’t offer education to children, such as gadget or cellphone, if you want to buy a gadget or cellphone to your children, you have to ensure your children’s age is more than 13 years old, if your children’s age is below 13 years old, you just need to give them something which can offer knowledge to your children, such as Lego puzzle games, painting games, playing ball, a heroic story from historical book, those games are good for children’s mental development because they can increase the children's natural instinct to survive.
The main reason why gadget or cellphone is very dangerous for children’s mental development because gadget or cellphone just offers instant gratification only and reduce children's natural instinct development, besides that, gadget or cellphone can decrease children’s curiosity level which can educate children to survive, remember; if children consume instant gratification more often than consume educational needs, as impact, children’s fearfulness will be greater than their curiosity, if children's fearfulness is greater than their curiosity, they don't have any willingness to pursue their potential, starting from now, don’t provide what children want before you fulfill what children need, if you just give what children want without fulfilling what children need, your children will lose their passion of learning, here is the first strategy you need to fulfill your children need; invest at least 6 hours to create the quality time with your children every day, the reason why you need to do this because the quality time will create a warm relationship between parent and children, here is the second strategy you need to fulfill your children need; provide a schedule how to discipline children’s habit and monitor what their good at and what not their good at, the reason why you need to monitor children’s habit development because every habit will determine what they will become in the future, here is the third strategy you need to fulfill your children need; don’t punish when children make new mistake, the reason why you aren't allowed to punish your children when they make a new mistake because every new mistake will unlock new potential and increase a sense of creativity to children, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.