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How to get rid of anger in a child

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to get rid of anger in a child”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many parents only give their kids with instant pleasure without giving them a chance how to reanimate their passion of learning and how to prepare their capacity during adapting with difficult situation, the root of problem why kids are angry easily because they can’t survive with uncertainty and they lack of survival skill, in order to calm anger in kids, parents must provide what kids need, not what kids want, during learning process, kids must be taught by parents how to take responsible for what kids did in the past and not to punish for what kids don't understand, remember this; if kids only receive an instant pleasure from parent’s treatment, they will lose their ability to survive in any environment, if kids lose their survival skills, their mental age will not grow, if kid’s mental age decrease its strength, kids will always get angry every time they will receive a unpleasant thing from life’s pressure, the first duty for parents is they must teach kid how to deal with life pressure and teach kids how to create self-healing after they are getting life pressure, for example; kids will receive a daily reward from parents when they have finished their learning section, please don’t let kids having a free time to play in all day long because it will decrease kid's mental growth, parents have to teach kids how to appreciate their time, how to set goal and how to grow their natural instinct, in this section, parents must stay calm during seeing kid's adapting process because not all kids can adapt well instantly when they accept the command from their parents.


 Sometimes kids must know about the value of mistake and the value behind risk and consequence, If parents don’t recognize the value of risk and consequence to kids, their sense of fearfulness will grow faster than their ability, as parents, we must provide what kids need to prepare before we let kids exploring something by their own way, we have to ensure their mental fitness grows well since they are still childhood, mental fitness only grows when they will meet with difficult thing, as parents, we must monitor what kids do in their daily activity by giving them a daily challenge, the reason why we need to give kids with daily challenge because our kids must know the first step how to strengthen their endurance during facing adversity, if kids are trained to endure adversity earlier, they will never fear about the pain of regret when they start to be adult person, remember this; the pain of regret will happen when human don't want to hold responsibility from what they have done, as parents, we must train our kids like what athlete trains, as we know every athlete practices for growing their mental fitness, if we apply it for our kids's mental fitness, they will find something greater within themselves and they will explore what's possible for them to do, please don't give the punishment for what kids don't know, as parents, we should use their biggest curiosity to explore their hidden potential, here is my recommendation; please teach kids how to intensify their endurance by doing what they are interested until they understand their own limits, if kids know how to measure their own limit, they will find their success by their own way without hurting their physical ability, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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