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Anger issue


  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “anger issue”, the main reason why I choose that topic because many parents don’t realize about the symptoms what causes their kids get anger issue, many parents think the symptoms of what causes kids get anger issue is lack of playing games, it is common mistake, if you want to be good parents for your kids's future, don’t fulfill what kids want in short term period because most kids don't know whether what they want is good or not, as parents, don't teach kids how to play games or gadget, but teach them how to widen their natural instinct through writing something they want to do in order to detect whether kids have emotional problems or emotional needs, this proposal is used to make a deep connection between kid's curiosity and emotional, if kids can explore how they feel through writing something into paper, as impact, kids will not feel lonely or anxiety anymore because they can manifest their deepest desire and their deepest fear into paper, here is the good news; paper is the simple tool that can make a great connection between human's logic, focus and interpretation, piece of paper is very useful because it can help kids how to stimulate their biggest interest and how to release their mental picture into manifestation, if you ask me why many kids get angry easily? Because they don't know how to clarify their true emotional feeling and eventually they feel completely chaos, if kids are making habit through expressing their deepest feeling into paper, they will try to concentrate about what went wrong about the situation they set in.


 Remember; when kids complain easily to their parents, it indicates that kids completely chaos about what they feel and parents don't understand about what kids feel, as parent, please don't offer a gift where it can bring instant gratification to kid because instant gratification can evoke anger issue once kids can't control their sense of pleasure, Starting from now, please don’t spoil your kids with the easy gift, e.g. game console, gadget, play station, or online games, the reason why I prohibit it because those gifts can decrease kid’s survival instinct and also decrease kid's curiosity power, you don’t want your kids will lose their hidden power when they are getting adult, right?, your duty as parents is how to guide your kids to adapt with new environment and how to grow your kid's mental by possessing the passion of learning, that's greatest gift you can give as the reward to your kids, here is the good news; if kid’s mentality is already developed through having the passion of learning, they will not get anxiety or angry every time there is problem comes to them, if you want to reward your kids with gadget or game console or cellphone, you must wait until your kid's age reaches 14 years old because their logic is born at the first time, remember this advice; what kids really need in the real life is having a good influence, not playing the games, if kids are having a good influence from their parents or their environment, they will do something impressively through creativity, habit and curiosity, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.