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Anger problem

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “anger problem", the main reason why I choose that topic because many people are trapped in anger situation where they build by themselves, some of them prefer to blame situation rather than do contemplation, we can conclude not many people are ready to accept reality, the root of problem why people aren't ready to accept reality because they spend their major time to do minor purpose and they build unproductive habit, e.g. playing online game, watching TV, gambling, idling around with friends, if person is making habit such thing, his mind will consider every day is always be the same as yesterday, if people consider there is no big difference between tomorrow, today and yesterday from what they have done, finally there is no bright future for themselves, from this case, we can conclude the main cause why people don't care about their future because their satisfaction's size is bigger than their self-worth and their unproductive habit will attract their power of anger to create small problem where they should not exist, remember this advice; anger equals with fearfulness, if anger has been fed with unproductive habit, human’s satisfaction level grows faster, if self-satisfaction dominates productive habit, human will lose self-worth and their sense of anger will attract small problem around them, now the question “what will happen if your anger grows faster?”, your mind will be fulled with perplexity and it drives you to be angry easily once you can’t find the answer from your problem, if we look deeper about this case, (why is angry driving problem? because angry influences people's mind to reject new perception and angry will influence people's mind to stop evolving human's potential), it means, fixed mindset person has his higher anger level than his rational mind, whereas, future oriented mind of person will not focus on what makes him angry, but focus how to pass the life's test, if you are angry because of small salary you receive from your work, it is not caused by the working place, but it is caused by lack of will to do more than you usually do for yourself. 

 Now my question is “where is your biggest attention when your conscious mind will be directed to see between your fear and your enthusiasm?”, if your enthusiasm is bigger than your fear, your anger will not destroy your inner peace, but if your fear is bigger than your enthusiasm, your fear will manipulate your mind every time you are angry of something, I don’t blame you if you fear of something, but before you put your attention to fear, you must ask yourself until when I let my fear is growing every day?”, so that is basic question how to know your dept of fear, if you can’t control your fear, you can’t control your anger, if you let your fear is growing and dangling to your mind every day, as impact, you always be angry every time you meet with unexpected issue, starting from now, you must know where you direct your attention is going and you must set the direction first before you direct your mind to work for you, the reason why you must set the direction first because you will meet with the unexpected thing which can disrupt your focus, vision and enthusiasm, in addition, there are so much distractions which can stop your intention if you don't set your direction first, before you set the direction in the future, you must prepare your reserve for good information, manage your priority and develop your personality, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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