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Belief in yourself

  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “belief in yourself”,  the main reason why I choose that topic because many of us don't set strong belief in something we haven't seen it yet, some people prefer to believe what they think rather than believe in what they can't see through eyes, that's common mistake where it lies into animistic believer, I don't object about what people think about life, but I just want to remind you about the side effect of belief; "belief is like putting something liquid into tea pot, we will receive from what we shape and we can't escape from it, the root of problem why people get bleak outlook on life because they can't differentiate between the past's moment and the future's moment and they tend to live in the past rather than future, the first thing we can do if we want to remove bleak outlook on life; we must find the strong evidence where it can improve our false opinion and it can convince us that we face something true, for example: a sense of depression, even though we consider having depression is not good, but instead, a sense of depression can strengthen human's mental acumen and it will give another perception how to give solution to us, our biochemistry of behavior will change from depression into enthusiasm when we develop our focus to do something where it is important for others's emotional fulfillment even though it not important for us, here is my recommendation; please don't believe with something easy to do because it can't leave a good legacy to us, if we pick up easy thing to do, we will not have strong mentality to have a tolerance to painall what we believe is coming from what we repeatedly do, what we repeatedly hear, what we repeatedly say and what we repeatedly see, if we cut a belief into tiny layers; belief comes from the accumulated habit, curiosity, agreement and emotional fulfillment (fear or reward).


 Starting from now, before you believe to a new information, you must check whether what you believe can be tested or not with the darkness, if what you believe can give you space time to accept a sense of deepest fear until you don't brave enough to neglect that, it is something true, as long as you don't give negative energy into what you believe, you will not get a side effect from what you fear, here is my point of view about life; "life doesn't give what human want, but life gives what human commit", if we commit to do something important, it indicates that we appreciate about the process, energy and time, people who don't appreciate about what they commit, they tend to believe what other people say rather than what they say to themselves, there is only one way how to remove bleak outlook on life is staying curious about something you don't know and stop giving negative energy to something unpleasant, people who have strong determination, they need something unpleasant to unplug the life suffering where they have tasted beforehand, here is the special note; the darkness will not change into neutral if we always show our hatred to everything we feel, all we can do if we feel hatred is we are moving our belief from hatred state into happiness state by looking the goodness as much as we can, the light represents the passion of learning, whereas, ignorance represents bleak outlook on life, please don't be lazy to learn something you like as long as it can give you a strong emotional fulfillment because life will never stop giving us a lesson, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.