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Depressed person


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Depressed person”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not everyone is being able to adapt with circumstance and they don't take full responsibility to what happens on their life, the root of problem why some people feel depressed because they try to push their limitation to control the uncontrolled area in life, such as yesterday’s moment, other people’s habit, other people’s reaction, the natural law, dream and life’s uncertainty, besides that, people who don’t have enthusiasm to do something excited, they can be called as depressed person, starting from now, we must know about the difference between the controlled area and the uncontrolled area if we want to live peacefully, we need to fix our wrong guideline from our philosophy because wrong guideline can mislead us to do something dangerous, such as "money will buy happiness when someone works hard for money", that's wrong guideline because someone tries to control the uncontrolled area, remember this advice if you want to fix your current philosophy; don't focus on what you can't control, focus how to serve something bigger than your desire, focus on what your spirit needs most and how to make your want is wanting youthere is nothing can control us unless we make it happens, there is nobody can make us depressed, unless we make it happens, there is nothing can underestimate us unless we respond with it, there is nobody can bury our dream, unless we don’t commit, from those statements, we can conclude “depressed person is not caused by outer circumstance, but it is caused by person’s inability to control the controlled area within himself, such as habit, mindset, opinion, decision and behavior”.

  Starting from now, don’t just spend your time to expect good thing from out of your controlled area, “the more you expect good thing from the uncontrolled area, the more you are unable to see what you can control in your controlled area”, every human has child’s curiosity, if it is not trained to focus on the controlled area, child's curiosity will let people to find something where they are not supposed to do and they will be misguided by their child’s curiosity to go somewhere they don’t belong to live there, remember this advice; if your soul can’t guide you to find what your spirit needs most, there is something wrong with your philosophy, sometimes you need the hardest lessons in order to test your endurance and your patience, if you can stand with life's tough challenge for longer periods of time, as result, you will become an extraordinary person because your mental grows every time you meet with difficult thing, here is one thing you should understand; beware of having bad influence, sometimes it can pollute your mindset with strategy which it opposes the natural law, if you don’t know whether the person you meet can give you a bad influence or not, you may ask question to him “what are you going to do for becoming the person whom you admire within five years later?”, if he can’t reply within less one minute, he must have a bad influence, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.


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