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Depression and love


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “depression and love”, the main reason why I choose that topic because there are many people feel depressed every time they can’t meet with something they love or they can't target what they want, if we use different perception, "what makes people depressed is not the result, but the rate of self fulfilling demand that they can't bear", basically life is neutral, "life doesn't burden people with responsibility that they can't endure, all problems come from unprepared to be nature", some people prefer to be pretentious rather than to be unique, that's root of common problem that people have in modern world, depression comes when people consider what they love is good and what they hate is bad, we can't leave all we hate and we can't embrace all we love, sometimes we must create the balance between what we don't know and what we need to know, that's key how to understand life, the major problem that we can't detect lies is ourselves, life is a test which ensures we will embrace the lesson from depression and love, we can’t take new journey without having new lesson from what we love and what we hate to do, sometimes what we hate is better than what we love because there is bigger challenge awaits us if we are willing to do that, if we try to do something we hate to do, such as self-discipline, consistency and commitment, there are more lessons will be needed by our soul, here is the bad news; if we just focus on what we love, we will create the cage of comfort zone within our mind, now imagine if all we love will be proceeded in reality, I am sure we will create more pain rather than we get benefits from what we love, do you know why? Because life is mystery, God knows what is good to us and what is bad to us.

  We shouldn’t hate when life is trying to show us something about what we hate because life just wants us to do better than we behave ordinarily and repeatedly, besides that, life doesn’t want us to feel bored and life doesn’t want us to feel panic every time we face with new problem is life, so everybody is prepared to achieve something big that God planned, we need to thank between depression and love that God gives us because we can interact with something bigger than our imagination, if we use different perception now, "life is like creating a zoo in a jungle", it means, we will get comfort and safety zone at the same time, if we just stay in the comfort zone, we will choose to live together with what we love and we will reject to accept new change, if we are making habit of it, as impact, we will be fed with information where we will get more fearing rather than we will get the lesson how to live in a jungle, here is the good news; if we challenge ourselves to live in a jungle, we will get more pain, adversity, and pitfall, once we are stepping out of comfort zone with fully commitment, our mental health will take risk to adapt with new level of maturity, we will get stronger every time we get new challenge from life, if we just embrace all we love, we will stay in the zoo and we will get depressed easily every time we get life pressure, remember; the stars can’t shine without darkness, it means, we need to embrace something challenging if we want to shine our future, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 

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