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Depression and marriage


 Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Depression and marriage”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people can find their own mistakes after they are defending their marriage status for longer period of time, most people think marriage is solution for reducing depression, in fact, marriage is the part of another level of self-reflection to the new situation they are getting at together, the root of problem why people can't reduce their depression although they already married because they just expect their spouse's power can heal emotional issue, in fact, marriage is kind of mirror, the more you point at something you know, the more you don't know about yourself, the less you know about yourself, the more you learn something different about you, remember; marriage is the part of personality's mirror, it means, if person A finds the conformity with person B, we can conclude that person A has seen his own personality into the person B's personality, so depression is not part of condition where it is happening accidentally, it is created by human’s inability to control their high expectation degree, I just want to remind you that if you pursue something you can't control, the more you get blindness from what you do in daily basis, in order to create harmony in marriage, you must be ready to love your spouse's weaknesses before you accept the whole personality from your spouse, the purpose of marriage is train our faith to God for the direction He gives to someone who will live with us and train our mind to glorify God's destiny.

 Before someone decides to marry someone he loves so much, he must be ready with the consequence where he will be responsible for what he choosessomeone must know his own personality before his spouse will enter it, if we look at reality, many people don't recognize their personality because they just focus on what they see outside, not what they perceive about their personality, don't ever consider peace lies into the marriage status, if you can't create peace before you get married, your spouse will not create peace for you in marriage, as long as someone can't renew his visualization for new acceptance of his spouse's imperfection, he will get nothing from his marriageif you think the marriage should offer happiness, you should invest yourself as much as you can with the new version of your vision before you can make your spouse is happier, remember; life and marriage is neutral, both can’t give you what makes you happy and both can't give you with what makes you depressed, both only offers you the new journey where you will live together with your own life, if you consider marriage will give you happiness, you must be ready to accept unexpected moment which may disappoint you later, if you feel depressed because of marriage, it is not caused by the spouse’s weakness, but you bring your past story with bad perception to the marriage I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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