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Empathic listening


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Empathic listening”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people really want to hear what other people need, the root of problem why they behave such thing because they set their mindset to shut off any information which isn't congruent with their belief system, most people are just willing to listen something the information which is in line with their belief system's frequency, in my opinion; if people act as if they knew it all about themselves, they actually don't know how to understand other people's pain, if people don't know about other people's pain, they usually add new pain to other people without realizing about its consequence, as long as people use their ego as the friend's chat, as result, they will never be ready to listen other people's pain, remember this; if we don't know how to listen other people's pain, we will never realize about our pain, self-ignorance is congruent with stupidityif there is someone isn't willing to listen as empathic listener, as result, he will never found what his heart tells to himthere is only one thing we can do if we want to be empathic listener is we don't concern about ourselves and we invest our time to listen other people's future hope and other people's pain.


  Basically, being good listener is not easy to do because we must get out from the social circle which always encircle ourselves with their communication level, if we want to be good listener, we must increase our mental capacity first by doing something in the long haul until we understand about other people's problem, we never get problem without listening other people's pain, if we just do something easier like most people do within their leisure time, we will never listen what our heart saying, if we don’t fulfill what our heart demands, as result, we will never love what we do and we will feel inadequate, here is the first criteria we can do if we want to be good listener; understand this wisdom “don’t judge the book by its cover and don’t cover the book by judging”, it means, we must check what other people say to us even though we aren't interested with it, at least we can show our respect to others, sometimes the enlightenment will come to us suddenly after we can comprehend what we hear from other people's saying, we indeed need more time to comprehend new information before we take that information as new vocabulary for our memory, we don't need to get panic once we don't understand what others say something to us, we can let time grows our intelligence after we have accepted that information, sometimes not all human need enlightenment as their core belieftake a case about woman, now imagine there is woman around us and she tells us that her problem is arising, do you know what she needs from us? she needs our ears to listen what she can't understand about her own personal problem, she thinks finding a good listener is part of showing empathy, in my opinion; "woman thinks empathy is everything rather than receiving a good solution", here is the second criteria we can do if we want to be good listener; be open-minded person, it means, we must empty our glass and start to fill the glass with new information we never get from our life history, the reason why we must use this strategy because it can help us to enrich our knowledge and also it helps us to crush our ignorance, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.    


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