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Fear of rejection


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Fear of rejection”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are willing to accept rejection, especially sales person, some people want to feel optimistic but they aren't ready to get rejection, it is contradiction of behavior, if we use different perception for this case “rejection is kind of self-preparation for developing mental intelligence”, God creates rejection and failure to ensure human's mental intelligence can adapt with life's pressure, basically "there is no problem in life, there is only enlightenment", if you can convince yourself to say positive word such thing, every rejection becomes stepping stoneif human's mental is not strong enough to endure rejection, someone will not get big opportunity automatically, remember; don’t let rejection will make you depression, you can start changing your perception by saying that every rejection will not adhere with me, unless God wants me to take it as good lesson, “rejection can open the door of opportunities if you allow yourself to welcome rejection with your speciality”, if you are not willing to get any rejection, you will get big pressure where it can crush your mental intelligence in the future, as long as you still have strong enthusiasm to work for your mission, your mental will get support from life pressure until you are ready to face rejection, please don’t focus on rejection when you develop your mission, it would be better if you focus on what you can deliver to life because it will elevate your creativity, if you consider life as your future savings, you must invest something valuable, e.g. masterpiece, troubleshooting skill, service, one day you will get something meaningful from what you invest.

   Please don't focus on what you hate because your attention will determine your feeling and your healthy mental, if you train yourself to feel good every time you get the unpleasant moment, you will win something worthy, but if you train yourself to feel bad every time you get the unpleasant moment, you will lose something worthy, so all the thing you have now is not determining your future, but it will develop your mental age, here is the first strategy how to overcome the fear of rejection in sales; you need to demand yourself to learn more from what most people hate to do, if you lack of demanding yourself to learn more, you will see around you as hardship, toil, limitation and struggle, that's quite simple, if you believe there is nothing lacking in this world, your conscious mind will focus to what you are good at and you start to serve what the world needs, if you consider the world is lacking resource, you will not get something inspired from the world, instead your conscious mind will absorb the weaknesses and limitation, here is the second strategy how to overcome the fear of rejection in sales; you have to ensure your product or service can increase human's welfare or keep human's safety, if you still have rejection after you succeed to convince yourself that your product or service can increase human's welfare or advantage human's emotional need or keep human's safety, the main problem comes from other people's mistake, not you, remember this special note; don't fear of failure, you should have feared that you haven't failed enough or you haven't failed fast enough, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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