Feeling so sad


  Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “Feeling so sad”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are struggling for what they deserve, it means, they use their heart to pursue something which can’t empower their inner peace, most people do something because they think like “profit is everything”, let me clarify about this subject, profit is good , but it is not enough to heal your mental fitness, I say such thing doesn't mean to belittle the importance of profit, if we don’t raise our standard of spirituality by giving more than we are paid for it, we will always get sad because our emotional need isn't fulfilled with the kindness, our spirituality can be fueled when we struggle with something we deserve, e.g we work with God-given talent, if you feel peace while you work on something, please keep it up and don't look for big salary only, you must consider your emotional need can be fueled by what you are working on, here is what I recommend; please don’t spend your major time to look for pleasure only if you want to build a good career and also don't work if your emotion gets the pain of anxiety, the reason why I say such thing because there is no meaningful career if what you pursue can’t answer your intuition or passion, here is the philosophy you need to ponder; “the fixed profit is caused by the fixed mindset, the more you do something exceeded than your expectation, the more you deserve something exceeding than what you deserve”, here is the first thing you need to do if you want to avoid feeling sad; you need to enlarge your important role in this life, you must ask yourself "what can I offer to life through my role?" if you don’t see yourself is bigger than your circumstance, you will not get the important duty from this life, in order to know more about your important role in this life, you need to create your own service by finding an extreme problem from this life and fulfill it with your service, if your service can answer other people’s problem and fulfill people's emotional needs, that’s the right destination you need to put everything you own, such as ability, focus, energy, and time. 


  You will never exceed your mindset until you are willing to feel pain of growth, the longer you feel pain, the more you receive the power to change your life's path and the longer you feel comfort and ease, the less power you can get, people who get sad for no reason, it is not caused by lack of having good stuff, but it is caused by lack of clarity to differentiate between what they want and what they need, now let me continue about the next strategy, here is the second thing you need to do if you want to avoid feeling sad; you have to know what is your major strength among many skills you have learned so far, the main reason why you need to know about your major strength because it will increase your new level of capacity, either the troubleshooting skill or the empathy skill, if you just learn many skills without knowing about your speciality, your skills can make you sad or disappointment, don't feel sad when other people reject your service, sometimes people reject you not because your service is worthless, but they can't appreciate your speciality, you have to know that, God gives you a skill because you are being hired by God to do something where most people can't do like you, you don't need a credit from other people to start, you just need to start what you don't know because you are in the middle of miracle right now, here is the last note you need to ponder; don’t pursue something out of your control, make yourself is like a seed where it will be planted by God in the darkness and you will grow something miraculously, your duty is not executing what you don't know, but your duty is making a new room for the universe to fill up the strength you need, remember; you will never find the meaning of broke in your life as long as you serve something bigger than yourself, you will never get a big duty from God until you feel the deepest pain through receiving adversity and uncertainty, your capacity will widen by itself when you let yourself getting the pain of growth, if your capacity is large enough, God will not procrastinate to give you more than physical wealth, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.