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How handle rejection


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How handle rejection”, the main reason why I choose that topic because not many people are ready to handle rejection, most people tend to avoid rejection rather than do something differently to fulfill the demand of rejection, in order to handle rejection, we must adapt with the market demand which often fluctuates, if we just stay in certainty moment, we will crush our life journey because our mental intelligence is not ready to stand against life's uncertainty, e.g. rejection, adversity, issue, setback. Remember; people who reject your preparation, it doesn’t mean you are lacking resource, but those people who reject you because they can’t understand your speciality, your talent and your privilege, so you should be happy if you are rejected because your resource level is very unique than most people, don't try to fit your uniqueness with the majority of people's standard, if you know there is a lot of mysterious thing waits your resources, you should be enthusiastic to dig more information which can shape your self-esteem, if you really want other people accept your resource, don’t expect other people to do more for you, but create the new resource where most people can’t give it to you, that’s key, starting from now, adapt yourself with rejection in order to shape your uniqueness and authenticity, if you accustom yourself with rejection, one day there is nothing can reject your resource because you have something where most people can’t own it.

  Whether you realize or not, every rejection is not making you pessimistic, instead every rejection is increasing your confidence and mental age, remember this; when you are confident, it is not caused you learn a lot from other people's experience, but it caused when you appreciate the learning process from tough experience and self-discipline, if you appreciate your limitation and elevate your resource, life will teach you differently, please don’t hate when life gives you an issue because it is sign that you are promoted to handle where most people hate, you should be worried when there is nothing can reject you, do you know why? "when there is no rejection, there is no innovation, if there is no innovation, there is no speciality", the greatest threat to progress is easiness, once you embrace easiness for your career, your potential would die soon because your potential is no longer used, you must find a problem where it needs your potential, the more you know and realize about problem, the more you expand your capacity, the less you know about problem, the less potential you will get, I would say every difficult thing is a stepping stone, if you collect piece by piece of difficult thing, your potential will not consider difficult thing as obstacle because your capacity of learning is quite high, I think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck. 


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