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How to deal with failure


   Hi, good readers, howdy? welcome back with me, Fian, hopefully you always have the abundance of happiness, health and prosperity, today I would like to share about the topic “How to deal with failure” the main reason why I choose that topic because most people tend to avoid failure rather than make a deal with failure, the root of problem why most people can't accept any failure because they feel embarrassed, if we interpret with widen point of view about failure is "there is no real failure in life, there is only opportunity to evolve", sometimes we don't need to waste our time to argue with other people whether there is real failure or not in this life, remember; failure is not kind of mistake that we intend to make, but failure is something we can't prevent is happening because it is part of life evolution, starting from now, we must widen our gaze, do you know why? because not all human are ready to accept failure as their life history, most people feel bad when they hear about failure, if we think failure is bad, there is no such evolution from this life, the purpose of failure is not ending the process, but it is adapting process before accept bigger risk, here is for your note; failure is just the false belief where it is designed to create chaotic into human's mind, at this moment, I would share several strategy how to deal with a failure you couldn’t prevent, hopefully this lesson can harmonize your inner peace, here is the first strategy how to deal with failure you couldn’t prevent; accept what can’t be changed but do what you can even though it doesn't seem progressing at all, it means, you aren’t allowed to protest against the result because you have reached your limit, “the more you reject the result, the more you add some portion to stress”, you must understand that the outcome you have got from what you attempted comes from your past manifestation , all you can do now is do what you possible can and don’t do what you think is out of your capacity, remember; “God will not burden the soul, it is according to its ability”, it is stated clearly in Holy Quran Surah Al Baqarah (2) verse 286.


 Here is the second strategy how to deal with failure you couldn’t prevent; change your strategy, but never change your goal, it means, failure is trying to blockade our progress because there is upcoming dangerous potential which can harm us, we don't need to upset about failure because there is no permanent loss if we don't give up, everything will be fine as long as we don't force ourselves to fight back the failure, all we can do is do whatever we want, evaluate about what we have done and take rest, if our best effort can’t fit with the future, it means, we have become our best version, here is the good news; there is no failure can kill our potential, there is only regret where it offers permanent setback starting from now, please don’t blame reality just because you are in the wrong track, reality is just the bridge where it connects between the unrealistic expectation and realistic assessment, reality is just alarming you that you haven’t fulfilled your achievement / target, here is the third strategy how to deal with failure you couldn’t prevent; everything around you is temporary, it means, there is nothing can live in life forever, if your hope doesn’t reveal in reality, it doesn’t mean there is end of your career, as long as your enthusiasm is strong, you haven't failed yet, there is always another day will embody what you desire in appropriate time and right placeI think my explanation is enough, hopefully this article can give you an idea how to improve your life, good luck.  


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